Posted on Aug 22, 2014
CPT Aaron Kletzing
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Recently, I had a long and heated discussion with a fellow veteran about this issue. I don't know for sure whether a branch-specific reg or a DoD-wide reg exists that prohibits/allows personnel on a military installation to display the Confederate flag on their personal vehicle or on their person (e.g. a belt buckle). Maybe this is a base-specific policy and left to the judgment of the installation commander. Display of the Confederate flag is a divisive issue and people often feel really strongly one way or the other. But today, it is still a relevant topic and touches on other military leadership/discipline areas, including the actions of one member deeply offending another member -- regardless of whether said action is legal/authorized. That can create huge problems in a military unit, and this happened in a unit I personally served in. So, below are my questions for the RallyPoint community about this issue.

Please try to keep comments professional (don't attack one another) and explain your thoughts as best you can.

Questions:
(1) How do you feel about the Confederate flag being displayed on the vehicle/person of a service member if he/she is ON post? How does your opinion change if the member is OFF post?
(2) What does the Confederate flag symbolize to you personally? What do you think it can symbolize to other people around you who may perceive it differently?
(3) If you have personally experienced a military-related situation where a symbol/flag caused someone to be offended, what happened and what did you/would you have done as the leader?

I look fwd to everyone's thoughts on this. Personally, I have some strong feelings about this issue, though I don't want to bias people's answers upfront. Please be as honest as possible.

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I used to get upset when I seen that flag displayed. That was because I did not fully understand what it means to some people. Two things changed how I thought of that flag.

The first was when I listened to " The Night They Drove Ole Dixie Down" by The Band. I understood that the flag was representation of a way of life, a certain since of community taken away by a war with fellow country men. Certainly one of the most despicable moments in U.S. history.

The second was when I joined a section as mixed race PFC with a Caucasian female NCO as my first line. She had the flag as rear license plate on her F150 she picked me up in from the 82nd reception. I was terrified that I would not get a fare shake, and she was ignorant. When in fact, she supported me and the other two African-American male Soldiers with unwavering persistence. She was one of the best NCOs I have ever worked with personally.


In my mind, their are two reasons folks would display the confederate flag. The above, and the people that unfortunately believe that one group of people are in fact better than other groups of people because of the shade of their skin, their faith, or what geographic location they are from. To me, if an individual is so intellectually challenged that they believe that, I'm not upset anymore, I fill sorry for them. They miss out on so much because of bias that I get to enjoy by engaging people with my open mind.

If America, my way of life, my since of community, was taken from me in an act of war from opposing idealist, I would fly the stars and strips until the day I died. Don't get offended until you have a reason to be is all I'm saying. If the person flying the confederate flag posses a threat to good order and discipline, address that threat and that individual. Categorizing everybody that displays that flag is no better than than any other simple minded label people have given their life to erase.
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SPC Charles Brown
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I don't see a problem here. After all while I was in the Army on active duty from 79-82 and again from 99-02 I saw flags and stickers from Mexico, Puerto Rico, the Philippine Islands, and several other nations in and on vehicles being driven by service members. The Confederate States of America does NOT exist anymore, the flag as was stated by MAJ Robert (Bob) Petrarca, as "many people north and south of the Mason Dixon line use the flag as a symbol of rebellion not necessarily related to the Civil War." This is another case of Higher authority overstepping their boundaries. As a veteran who is from the south I don't see the "Confederate"/rebel flag as any type or threat to good military order and discipline unless as also stated my Maj. Petrarca it becomes a problem between soldiers living in the barracks. So much for my .02.
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1LT Nick Kidwell
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Then there's this one. I know a lot of people who fly it, but it's developing quite a crowd of detractors:
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CPO Rick Felty
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I have a tatto of it on my Arm, ......(DO MOT TREAD. ON AMERICA !)
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LTJG Jeb Raitt
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Actually, the Navy Jack is a different design, red and white stripes with the snake diagonally across it
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CPO Jon Campbell
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True story: I responded to a fight in progress call while working as a cop in SC several years ago. When I arrived, two guys and a girl in their early 20's were standing around and I asked them what was going on. They said that they had been arguing, but it was all cool now. I asked them what they were arguing about and one babbled about the other guy being from up North, but they had agreed to let bygones be bygones and not argue about what had happened 50 years ago . I asked him what could have happened 50 years ago that got them so upset. He looked at me as if I was an idiot and said, "Duh…the Civil War?" His girlfriend quickly jumped in and corrected him saying that the Civil War didn't happen 50 years ago….it was 75 years ago.
I have found that it is very common to run into people who believe that their grandfather fought in the Civil War, or they remembered an uncle talking about how he fought in the Civil War and they believe it. They proudly display the rebel flag and would fight anyone who wanted them to take it down.
I'm not sure of the correct way to counter long, and deeply held beliefs that are inaccurate, but I do know that trying to put an outright ban on a symbol only makes people more determined to display it and to believe that they are right. One thing that might help is education. The military, unfortunately, has its hands full with their sort of thing.
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CPO Jon Campbell
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This is true. Education should be a presentation of many sides. I often see counter-attack education where someone with an opposing viewpoint is brought in the re-educate and indoctrinate. This approach also doesn't work well and tends to cement the opposing views.
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SPC Matthew Birkinbine
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You're taught either what you want to learn or what the teacher wants you to learn, depending on how much bs you want to believe. I had an instructor who was talking about hydraulics once. He described the operation backward from the way it was supposed to be. I caught it and spoke to him on the side at our next break, and he refused to reteach the subject. I was the only one in class who scored 100% on that test, even though when it came to reviewing, I tried to let my classmates know.
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Wait a sec Chief, this incident happen a couple of years back? the Civil War started 153 years ago.
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OUCH! Talk about a devisive subject!

I'm all about someone having and enjoying freedom of speech. We don't have criminal actions against those who burn the U.S. Flag. What I have a problem with is those that rally behind the Confederate flag as if it stands for something other than what it actually stood for. Politics being the animal it is .... the politicians of the day used all the right buzz words to create the emotional tug that still exists today. And it's all bull$hit...just like any issue that's emotionally charged.

The war between the states was economics. Plain and simple. That war got wrapped up in emotion because someone told someone else they didn't like the way they were doing things. If you take the emotions out of the equation, that's what it boiled down to. In the end, one side won. The winning side got to set the rules of "how things are gonna be done".

Here's my take: there's no honor in trying to honor a state or states that made the ownership of another human being a "good thing". You can play with words all you like - that's my take.

In the end, the politicians did what they always do - they used words to rouse up the populace to do their bidding.

I think it's time to find another way to describe your pride in your state besides trying to stir up a $hitstorm .... cuz in the end ownership of another human being is the only thing anyone with a braincell working properly is gonna see when they see the stars and bars of the confederacy.
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I love that photo. Will use it elsewhere.
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CPT Ahmed Faried
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SSG (Join to see) outstanding.
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PFC Ronald Watkins
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Sadly the only flag in use today that stood over slavery after the war between the states ended is U.S. Flag. The Confederate States freed all the slaves long before the Union.
If you are a true believer in the Constitution you must agree that the first amendment allows open discussion. The problem is that every one seems to be offended and ready to push aside those with whom they disagree. We all need to take a step back and stop the emotional diatribes and try to see the prospective of the other. Sometimes it is imperative that we agree to disagree and continue to be civil towards one another.

The entire premise of this question seems to be to create a heated exchange.
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I personally have no feelings about it either way. I know that the flag represents heritage and other meanings outside of race. All that matters to me is how I'm treated and that I'm returned the same respect that I give when I'm engaged in a conversation with someone who feels they need to display the rebel flag.

This is not an uncommon occurrence because I live in Kentucky and I've talked with all kinds of people on and off base that either wear or display their heritage. From these conversations I've learned that the flag holds different meanings for different people.

I know I may get some backlash from those that are focused on the past, but nothing can change what has already happened. All we can do as citizens is focus on the future and respect one another.
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Good comment. Would vote up twice if I could.

To add on to it, I notice that all other sorts of signs of heritage are allowed for all other groups. This is our heritage - a symbol of a region that was devastated by the effects of a brutal war and the subsequent reconstruction policies. It is a situation both ubiquitous within, and unique to the south. The century of effects have forged a common identity within the region. We point to one specific emblem - Mr. Lee's standard, to honor not the nation that seceded (otherwise we would fly the Bonnie Blue or the Stars and Bars), but to the men who fought for home.

That's something that, as troops, we should all understand. Support the troops, even if you can't support the cause.
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I think we are too easily offended. I see flags of various places where human rights are trampled upon (i.e. Haiti , Africa) and no one bats an eye! The Confederate Flag IS a part of American History, those who display it are not necessarily paying homage to slavery, but to their Southern roots. Is everyone who buys white sheets a part of the Klan? Will the. PX stop selling white sheets because they offend someone?
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What I think the problem is is that people are way too sensitive these days and let too many things that they really don't understand bother them. Also the majority of people are extremely uneducated on ALL of the issues that caused the Civil War, slavery was but one. How many times are we told to be tolerant of things just to have intolerance of our own opinions thrown in our faces because it might offend someone?

For instance, if people would actually educate themselves a little bit on the Civil War they, including those idiots in the KKK, would know that the battle flag was never an official flag of te CSA. It was only used in battle to differentiate forces because the First National Flag of the Confederacy, or the Stars and Bars, looked too much like the U.S. flag. Also the Second and Third National Flags of the Confederacy were mostly white and looked too much like a flag of surrender, even after a red bar was added to the end of the Third flag. So, battle commanders took the image in the upper left corner of the Second and Third flags and made a battle flag out of them. There are also other flags from the confederacy which don't invoke anger from the PC group which throws out the whole, "that flag represents slavery argument". If that were the case then why don't people get mad when they see a Hardee flag or a Bonnie Blue Flag? Because for the most part they are uneducated on the Civil War and too sensitive.

But, that is just my $0.02 worth though.
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COL Charles Williams
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LCDR (Join to see) - Thanks for your comments. I appreciate them. I know this flag means different things to different people. I don't think it belongs on state or public buildings, but I also don't believe the federal government has any business regulate this (nor many other things). I believe the states need to decide what makes sense for their state.
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COL Charles Williams - That's a very federalist way of looking at things - which is the way it's supposed to be.

Here in the south, we're just making our way the only way we know how. That's just a little bit more than the yankee-centric, northern-privileged, dixiphobic dominant culture will allow. (hey, if I have to listen to the Social Justice Warriors prattle on, at least I can have some fun with it... or is that cultural appropriation?)
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COL Charles Williams
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LCDR (Join to see) - Hooah. I know, if nothing else, we all see these issues different, and that is largely based on where we hail from. I also know we have all earned the right to our own opinion.
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SFC Wesley Arnold, Jr
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Some Say ... History is Written by the Victors

Why is this an issue it is all history, part of our darker times but our history non than less.
Everyone wants to scream for equality but don't see sometimes it's not possible, there will always be those with riches and those with none ... and those with less than none.   We (try to) say that the Nation is making great strides but it seems more like we are taking two steps backward, even if we don't step forward at all.  

The scream of slavery and against those responsible ... what I fail to understand is that all parties "truly" involved in the atrocities are all dead.  What one second before allowing your hatred to boil ... Does that mean we forget about it?  No it just means we stop blaming each other for something we neither had control of or participating.  I will concur Slavery is a the worst thing one Human can do to another, besides death itself, and it wasn't isolated to the USA or the Southern States  of the US.  There is no group of social people that did not have slaves, again, no this doesn't make it right either.  My point is a historical flag is not going to be the cause of the re-establishment of hatred or slavery; only our own personal believes can continue to fuel the fire.  There is no other nation on this world has a greater dispute between the indigenous people and the descents of slaves, as the USA, why? 
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To preface this I would like to state that I was a History major for a period of time, and that I have read my fair share of history books. I disagree whole heartedly with the flying of the CSA flag on US military instillations, whether the instillation is in the North or the South. To me you are asking to fly the banner of those people who instead of striving to work out their differences with their countrymen through the mechanisms of the Republic, decided instead to take up arms. At every opportunity after the end of the War great mercy was shown to men that were not prisoners of war, but men who had committed treason. Jefferson Davis the President of the CSA spent 2 years in prison; while the leader of the Union was assassinated in the Ford Theater. The Union sent troops, and resources to the south to secure the peace, and quickly reintegrated them into the American fold, and what do they wish to do? They wish to fly the banner under which they fired into the lines of men who were Soldiers, Sailors, and Marines of the United States Military, an organization they wish to belong to. We as a nation should forgive the transgressions of both sides, but do not say it Unites us to fly the flag under which they tried to divide us. My $0.02
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1SG Steven Stankovich
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Well CPT Aaron Kletzing, since you tagged me, I feel obligated to chime in. To be quite honest, I have never had any issue with the confederate flag. It really does not symbolize anything specific to me; other than the Dukes of Hazard. There are those out there who are very opinionated about the confederate flag and I really am not one of them. I do believe that if you display something, regardless of what it is, for the sole purpose of offending someone else, then you are wrong.
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Displaying the flag in or out of uniform, on or off post is a persons personal preference. I personally wouldn't be offended by it, it is their right as an American citizen to fly the flag.

The Confederate flag means a nation of traitors to me. As a kid I never knew what the Rebel flag meant other than it was a cool flag on the side of the General Lee on Dukes of Hazard. After joining the Army I took a Civil War class and found out exactly what the flag meant. After learning I saw the Rebel flag as a traitor flag, they rebelled against the United States and lost the war. Ask yourself this question, had they won would we be able to fly the Stars and Bars?

Most say it's part of their heritage, when they say that I ask what part of the heritage? Is it the right to fight for what they believe is right against the Federal government? If that's not their answer than I can only assume that their heritage is king cotton, slavery and Jim Crow and that I do not respect. Some just don't understand the pain caused by the sight of the flag being displayed. I'm only 43 years old and I've had relatives lynched, beaten and tied to train tracks. If that is the proud heritage they speak of then you should be ashamed of yourself.
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