Christmas Homily: Ways to Keep Calm & Carry On After a Life-Altering Blow

Dear Friends,

As we gather here today amidst the twinkling lights and the warmth of our Christmas celebration, we acknowledge that for many, this season might not be filled with the joy and peace we often associate with it. Life can sometimes deliver blows that leave us reeling, searching for a way to stand again, to find our footing in a world that seems suddenly foreign. Yet, it is in these moments of profound challenge that the message of Christmas can shine most brightly, offering us not just hope but practical ways to navigate through our trials.

1. Embrace the Light in the Darkness:
The birth of Jesus, our guiding light in the darkest of nights, reminds us that even in our most challenging times, there is a light that pierces through the darkness. This light symbolizes hope, renewal, and the promise of better days. When you feel overwhelmed, seek out this light. It might be through prayer, community support, or simply sitting in silence, allowing the peace of the season to envelop you.

2. Remember the Shepherds:
The shepherds, ordinary people in the Christmas story, were the first to hear the good news. They were not leaders or scholars but simple folk who received a message of joy. This teaches us that wisdom and comfort can come from unexpected places. After a life-altering event, look for wisdom from those around you, from everyday moments, and from the simplicity of life. Sometimes, the small, quiet voice of a friend or a stranger can guide us back to calm.

3. Practice the Art of Letting Go:
Mary, in her profound faith, accepted her role despite the uncertainties it brought. She teaches us the power of surrender - not as defeat, but as an acceptance of what we cannot change, allowing us to focus on what we can. When life knocks us down, we must learn to let go of the anger, the 'what ifs', and the 'if onlys'. Holding onto these only weighs us down. Instead, embrace what is, and find peace in the present moment.

4. Connect with Community:
The journey of Mary and Joseph to Bethlehem was not solitary; they were part of a community, even if just by the presence of each other. In our times of trial, do not isolate yourself. Reach out, even if it's just to share a quiet moment. Community, whether through family, friends, or church, provides strength, perspective, and sometimes, just the right amount of distraction from our troubles.

5. Cultivate Patience and Time:
Just as the star guided the Wise Men to Jesus over time, healing and peace often come not in a rush but through patience. Give yourself time. Life-altering blows might not heal overnight, but with time, resilience grows. Be patient with yourself as you navigate through new realities.

6. Find Joy in Giving:
The essence of Christmas is giving, and in giving, we often find our own solace. When you're struggling, try to help someone else. This act of giving back can shift your focus from your own pain to the needs of others, fostering a sense of purpose and connection.

7. Keep Faith in Renewal:
Finally, remember the promise of Christmas - that of new beginnings. Just as the world was changed by the birth of Christ, your life too can find new paths after upheaval. Keep faith that with each new day, there's an opportunity for renewal, for learning, for loving, and for living differently.

As we move through this Christmas season, let us hold these lessons close. Let us carry on, not just with resilience but with a calm heart, knowing that even after the hardest blows, there is a way to rise, to shine, and to find joy anew. May the peace of Christ, who came to bring light into our world, be with you always.

Merry Christmas, and may you find the strength to keep calm and carry on.