Posted on Dec 24, 2014
The Benefits of Keeping an “I Love Me” Book
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We’ve all been told by a supervisor at one point in our career to “write down everything you do”. Early on in my career I’ll admit that I rarely listened to this advice, as I knew I would remember and thought no one actually cared. I was just doing my job, what I thought was expected of me. However, over the years I’ve learned the value of this simple request: it meant less time in the office with the boss agonizing over what I did for the last year.
Having recently retired and transitioned into the civilian world, I’m learning the value of these letters of appreciation, certificates of recognition, and achievement awards. All of these seemingly useless papers that have PCS’d with me over the years collecting dust, compiled with my official annual reviews, have become an invaluable marketing tool.
I recently contacted a consultant to look over my resume and help me “tweak” what I have been using to market myself. I attended TAPS, read books, and researched how to write an award-winning resume. What I came up with wasn’t a bad product by any means as it landed me a great contracting position earning a respectable salary. Yet, I was definitely missing the boat in a few areas. I referenced very few of my individual accomplishments from my “I Love Me Book”. My current resume is based on stats like projects completed, man hours saved, number of troops, and job descriptions.
Employers want to know that you, as a prospective employee, have a history of sustained productivity and excellence, that you are involved in your community and are always looking for ways to improve yourself through education or training. By now, most employers understand the general qualities that military veterans bring to the workforce; they want to understand what YOU bring to their organization - why are you different? The letters of appreciation highlighting your volunteer efforts or the knowledge that you completed upgrade training with a 95% or better differentiate you as a prospect. These are the characteristics that set you apart from the masses.
So don’t ignore that supervisor when he/she suggests that you keep a journal or book all about YOU. I agree that all of those things didn’t seem like they were “above & beyond”. I was truly just doing my job and what I thought I was supposed to do, but surprisingly these qualities are not normal. These are the things that make you different from the rest of the applicants. Because that book of random entries along with letters of appreciation, certificates of recognition, and achievement awards will one day make your resume awesome! How do you keep track of your personal successes?
Having recently retired and transitioned into the civilian world, I’m learning the value of these letters of appreciation, certificates of recognition, and achievement awards. All of these seemingly useless papers that have PCS’d with me over the years collecting dust, compiled with my official annual reviews, have become an invaluable marketing tool.
I recently contacted a consultant to look over my resume and help me “tweak” what I have been using to market myself. I attended TAPS, read books, and researched how to write an award-winning resume. What I came up with wasn’t a bad product by any means as it landed me a great contracting position earning a respectable salary. Yet, I was definitely missing the boat in a few areas. I referenced very few of my individual accomplishments from my “I Love Me Book”. My current resume is based on stats like projects completed, man hours saved, number of troops, and job descriptions.
Employers want to know that you, as a prospective employee, have a history of sustained productivity and excellence, that you are involved in your community and are always looking for ways to improve yourself through education or training. By now, most employers understand the general qualities that military veterans bring to the workforce; they want to understand what YOU bring to their organization - why are you different? The letters of appreciation highlighting your volunteer efforts or the knowledge that you completed upgrade training with a 95% or better differentiate you as a prospect. These are the characteristics that set you apart from the masses.
So don’t ignore that supervisor when he/she suggests that you keep a journal or book all about YOU. I agree that all of those things didn’t seem like they were “above & beyond”. I was truly just doing my job and what I thought I was supposed to do, but surprisingly these qualities are not normal. These are the things that make you different from the rest of the applicants. Because that book of random entries along with letters of appreciation, certificates of recognition, and achievement awards will one day make your resume awesome! How do you keep track of your personal successes?
Posted 10 y ago
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Posted 10 y ago
Maj Stephen Parsons, PhD - I never had a supervisor tell me this but I wish I had. This is a great idea and I strongly encourage young troops and veterans to do this. This tool will be the number best thing when it comes to writing a resume.
I have heard and seen way too many "I love me walls". Then again I must admit if I had a PhD like you I would be shoving that around all the time. But at least I admit I would be doing that. Oh yes I would be a jerk about insisting everyone call me Dr. Wagner... I think anyone with a PhD has worked hard enough and deserves it.
I have heard and seen way too many "I love me walls". Then again I must admit if I had a PhD like you I would be shoving that around all the time. But at least I admit I would be doing that. Oh yes I would be a jerk about insisting everyone call me Dr. Wagner... I think anyone with a PhD has worked hard enough and deserves it.
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CMSgt James Nolan
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Had a Corporal I worked for in '85 tell me to do it. I have had to buy bigger binders, but I have each and every certificate from '85 forward. I reference them, although in scanned form, fairly regularly for different things.
Aside from the professional reasons for having them, my purely personal one is that my daughter can at some point possibly say "hmm, perhaps dad was not a complete idiot"
Aside from the professional reasons for having them, my purely personal one is that my daughter can at some point possibly say "hmm, perhaps dad was not a complete idiot"
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Maj Stephen Parsons, PhD
10 y
James,
That's funny, I'm sure she won't think that, but I completely understand. I have three kids myself and it will be good to have around for when I forget all those things! Thanks for the post!
Steve
That's funny, I'm sure she won't think that, but I completely understand. I have three kids myself and it will be good to have around for when I forget all those things! Thanks for the post!
Steve
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SPC(P) Jay Heenan
10 y
It is also a great source of examples when you need to write an award, NCOER, etc.
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Posted 10 y ago
I've been retired since 1996 and my book (3 ring-binder) has it's place on by book shelf and had collected years of dust as I hadn't opened, moved (or dusted) it in a very long time. I was recently contacted by a former E4 from our unit at Fort Bragg, where I had been her first sergeant.
She is now a Captain (Company Cdr) during our chat she happened to ask if I knew where she could get a copy of our Battalion orders for a Presidential Unit Citation we had been awarded during Desert Storm. I told her to hold on and give me about 5 minutes. I dug out "the book" which contained Letters of Appreciation; Certificates of Achievement; Promotion Orders; EERs-NCOERs; AAMs, ARCOMS, MSS, Good Conduct awards, etc.
After leafing thru it and near the back of the book, there it was. I had a copy of the orders she needed. So I immediately scanned it into my computer and sent it to her on FB where we had been talking. She was floored as she had been trying to find a copy for quite some time and said, "I knew if anyone had it, you would!"
You never know, when it may be needed, if not for yourself as a reference for resume preparation or for one of your former troops. I was glad to be able to help her out, not for me, but for her.
If you haven't started yet, do! Everything is maintained on file in computers, thumbdrives, and/or servers in the sky these days and an old fashioned hard copy (paper) may be to old fashioned for you. Whichever way works best for you....do it. Do not depend on a centralized DA system to do it for you; It could be hacked, destroyed, who knows! Make your own copy!
It won't hurt, but it may come in handy one day!
She is now a Captain (Company Cdr) during our chat she happened to ask if I knew where she could get a copy of our Battalion orders for a Presidential Unit Citation we had been awarded during Desert Storm. I told her to hold on and give me about 5 minutes. I dug out "the book" which contained Letters of Appreciation; Certificates of Achievement; Promotion Orders; EERs-NCOERs; AAMs, ARCOMS, MSS, Good Conduct awards, etc.
After leafing thru it and near the back of the book, there it was. I had a copy of the orders she needed. So I immediately scanned it into my computer and sent it to her on FB where we had been talking. She was floored as she had been trying to find a copy for quite some time and said, "I knew if anyone had it, you would!"
You never know, when it may be needed, if not for yourself as a reference for resume preparation or for one of your former troops. I was glad to be able to help her out, not for me, but for her.
If you haven't started yet, do! Everything is maintained on file in computers, thumbdrives, and/or servers in the sky these days and an old fashioned hard copy (paper) may be to old fashioned for you. Whichever way works best for you....do it. Do not depend on a centralized DA system to do it for you; It could be hacked, destroyed, who knows! Make your own copy!
It won't hurt, but it may come in handy one day!
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1SG (Join to see)
10 y
PV2 (Join to see) I have one at work that has all the Civilain evals, SF50s, awards as well. Then there is one that has all Certified Emergency Manager training, course(s) certificates etc. I guess I could say my life is a book (3 of them)!
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CPT Craig Church, ASLA, LEED GA
10 y
Cool, I got one of those books. It's in my attic. It also has every single order I ever received. It's a thick 6 in binder collecting dust.
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Posted 10 y ago
I require my Soldiers to keep one...S1 shops notroiously will lose your stuff or iPERMS won't have your stuff uploaded. I am missing two awards because of it. Soon as I get a new Soldier, I start his 'I love me book', so all he/she has to do is keep it updated.
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SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL
10 y
The Benefits of keeping one will out weigh the awards and worth it in the long run. Its called I LOVE ME BOOK for a reason, I have two of them. It comes in handy for promotions, ERB updates and most of all UPDATING YOUR DD214 when your time comes for discharge out the Armed Service. If you think about it, no matter what profession you are in, its nice to have one even in the Civilian World.
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