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American Legion and VFW posts are losing members and not getting new ones. I had this discussion with several leaders in both organizations. Older members are dying and new members are not joiners. The older members are often not welcoming either. I think making them family oriented and getting more involved in their community events might cause them to gain more relevance and awareness. This change should increase and gain more members. Thoughts?
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Veterans of Foreign Wars (VFW)
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"...The older members are often not welcoming either...." DING! DING! DING!! We have a winner!!!
When you are repeatedly told, "You aren't a REAL veteran because you weren't in the 'Nam" it kinda sours your desire to join. I finally joined the local VFW post (via National membership) but rarely go there as I'm shunned, ignored, and often looked at with open hostility by the older members.
When you are repeatedly told, "You aren't a REAL veteran because you weren't in the 'Nam" it kinda sours your desire to join. I finally joined the local VFW post (via National membership) but rarely go there as I'm shunned, ignored, and often looked at with open hostility by the older members.
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SGT Lorenzo Nieto
Col Jeffrey Swegel - I get what you’re saying but most Vietnam veterans feel that they are taking a back seat to post 9/11 veterans se the bottom line is they served with honor as well thanks for the opportunity to respond god bless and keep up the good work.
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Col Jeffrey Swegel
SCPO Bill Bowen well, there’s ignorance everywhere. As veterans, we get in and change things
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Col Jeffrey Swegel
SGT Lorenzo Nieto well My members don’t feel that way, in fact, they’d welcome “new blood” with open arms
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PO1 William Van Syckle
I have to say. That the Vietnam veterans had the same problems when they first tried to join the VFW. The WWII and Korean War vets would not except them. And, boots on the ground Vietnam vets do not to this day except Era vets. If you check, you will find that there are two different classes of Vietnam vets where there is only one class in each of the other wars. Is it wrong? Yes. Will it ever stop? No. We have this separation in the Vietnam Veterans of America (VVA) and it will not stop. There are pigheaded individuals in every organization no matter where you go. Even have them in the American Legion. No organization is immune. Don’t let a few screw it up for everybody. All organizations need fresh blood and the only way it’s going to change is if you join and take an active roll in making the changes. Think about it, it’s on you…..
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When I got out the 1st time (1991), I went to the VFW that my grandfather had been a member of years ago. I was told that I had to be in a combat area. I told them I was a Desert Storm vet. I was promptly told that Desert Storm wasn't a real war.
I said "fuck em" and forgot about it.
A couple months later, I happen to be at an event that the local American Legion was sponsoring.
I got to talking to one of the members there, and before I knew it I was a member.
I've been a legion member now for 28 years.
The difference between the two is night and day.
The post I belong to understands that we need to appeal to families and less to veterans only.
We're a family oriented post now, and it's way better than it was before we had the "come to Jesus" discussion and went to family format.
We actively recruit female veterans, and welcome them to our post.
We give a voice to the wives and other family members as to the direction we want to go.
If someone has an idea, we listen. We don't just blow them off.
Our post is an open book and people like that. Having secrets is no way to operate.
The American Legion as a national organization is really promoting this format as well.
A lot of posts are coming around, some better than others.
I've been to VFW Posts for programs, I'm glad I was turned away. I find them to be codger hangouts. Places where old guys drink beer and bitch about things.
If that's your thing, go for it.
The VFW I 1st went to, has sold their building, members have mostly died off and is dying on the vine.
Yet, the American Legion just a few miles down the road will hit record numbers for membership, prospers and is super active within the community.
It all about attitude and the way you treat your members.
*** Shameless Plug Alert***
If you live in the Cincinnati area, and you're a veteran, come visit us at Williamsburg Oh American Legion.
I said "fuck em" and forgot about it.
A couple months later, I happen to be at an event that the local American Legion was sponsoring.
I got to talking to one of the members there, and before I knew it I was a member.
I've been a legion member now for 28 years.
The difference between the two is night and day.
The post I belong to understands that we need to appeal to families and less to veterans only.
We're a family oriented post now, and it's way better than it was before we had the "come to Jesus" discussion and went to family format.
We actively recruit female veterans, and welcome them to our post.
We give a voice to the wives and other family members as to the direction we want to go.
If someone has an idea, we listen. We don't just blow them off.
Our post is an open book and people like that. Having secrets is no way to operate.
The American Legion as a national organization is really promoting this format as well.
A lot of posts are coming around, some better than others.
I've been to VFW Posts for programs, I'm glad I was turned away. I find them to be codger hangouts. Places where old guys drink beer and bitch about things.
If that's your thing, go for it.
The VFW I 1st went to, has sold their building, members have mostly died off and is dying on the vine.
Yet, the American Legion just a few miles down the road will hit record numbers for membership, prospers and is super active within the community.
It all about attitude and the way you treat your members.
*** Shameless Plug Alert***
If you live in the Cincinnati area, and you're a veteran, come visit us at Williamsburg Oh American Legion.
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PO3 David Blank
Sounds like my old post- I was Honor Guard and often treated like a child there which pissed me off The old codgers always treated my like a child at the post despite me having Desert Storm/Shield deployments while none of the 'codgers' ever served in a wartime zone.
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SPC Ken Cain
SGT Chris Padgett this Thursday I'll be at the VA hospital getting a camera shoved down my throat. But I'll swing by the Thursday after this one. Happy Halloween
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I had the same problem at the VFW post, I was told several times you didn't fight in a real war, The way we did in Vietnam. I'm sorry I was not old enough to serve in Vietnam, I served in Iraq and I'm an American Solider and proud that I served. We should respect each other and treat each other with Respect.
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SP5 Carl Hollander
SP5 Rick LaJiness - Thanks for your remarks Brother I have gotten over it a long time ago ,I never forgot it.
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SGT Lorenzo Nieto
You should be glad you didn’t serve in Vietnam you would have been turned away by the VA,you would have been turned down by your country, you would have been spit on called a murder, the list is long I’ll leave it at that,in that being said thanks for your service to this great nation.
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