Don't you love a lady who teaches you what red flags to look for...she believes in the brother and sister hood...I would marry a girl like this..legit cute down to earth real
I wish I would of known this before my last gf who had 3 dui's hit me in the face with a beer bottle and wine glass cutting me ending up at a va hospital emergency room just to get some plastic stitches above my eye brow...and they called the cops and the cops put an emergency protective order .. and it derailed and now I am ok...
my dad, a Vietnam veteran army infantry, I was just getting to know, as he was not able to raise me due his complications due being in Vietnam 66-68, had just died, and I held onto her helped get her out of jail because I really wanted a partner and I thought she would be mine..but she was not about the partnership..it was about her..and her dui history and reasons it got to that point..that was going to submarine
she did not like my thinning grey hair at 40 years of age..or my spine issue I was doing a lot of rehab for, .but she liked that I was stable in some va housing..and I liked organic foods and was trying to live a stable life like the one I always wanted
I had just battled and waited years to get a va housing apartment so I started to party to young to be that way...
she would do things this girl was talking about on the YouTube. She would try to isolate me. She would pick my health or grey hair balding I share what my diagnosis was and she flipped..but we said we loved each other and I needed that sex that is basically how me met at a crazy Folsom street parade sex festival in sf
she laughed if I cried at this show we watched together she was into...
when the drinks would start a flip would switch
I was used to rough stuff..but not a girl who would do that...
one of my friends an Jamaican guy was angry that I could not protect like I would if a guy did that to me...he said if a girl treats you like a man then you treat her like a man as well
still single still want that lover...
I was engaged in the navy at 19 and lost her be 22 when my Navy Army Transfer we medically disqualified off the ship..yea I was dealign with stuff..and glad she left..as I was actually really tore up...and god had the real answers..that I would find out 20 years later..that the ship was running a below minimum manning situation filling active duty billets with reserve ..