A guide to breaking up with your deployed spouse

No guide was required...

Or as the very wise Paul Simon indicates in 50 ways to leave your lover: "just jump on the bus Gus, make a new plan Stan, don't need to be coy Roy, drop off the key Lee and set yourself free, etc. etc.
Rich

Either male or female spouse, you can wait until they get home. Deployment is not where you want to get the news. Mission first.