Posted on Oct 25, 2016
Retired Army General Says, ‘It’s A Sign Of Strength, Not Weakness, To Get Help’
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This general officer speaks from personal experience about suicide. He and his wife are unwavering proponents about the mental health and the need for military members to seek help without fear of retribution.
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I've had too many friends commit suicide MAJ Rene De La Rosa. None of them had any signs of thinking about suicide. They just did it. It's a horrible thing losing a family member and great friends of mine. I cannot condemn them, for I have tried myself, twice.
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For a military person, admitting you can't carry the load alone anymore is an act if tremendous courage.
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It is Wayne, and it didn't hurt a bit. In fact, I dumped about 40 years of grief when I finally got some help. Thanks for your comment buddy.
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Having assisted some folks in the last few years who had signs of problems and them NOT being offended, scared or blowing them off once coming to me with a problem is huge. Just think about those phone calls or text that are OUT of the ordinary. Taking time to talk to folks who seek your help goes miles and miles in helping them in assurance. Calls for help are often subtle and sometimes unrecognizable. In the cases I state, it was strength and the military does still have a problem with it being "open source" no matter what folks say. I sleep well at night knowing we were able to help a few folks out and have not attended any funerals. The thing is it often takes a senior officer to get an issue credibility. Wish it was easier. Good read.
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Thank you for all you do for our troops CW5 Sam R. Baker. It's officers like yourself who keep the troops at the top of your responsibilities as an officer.
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