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Posted on Oct 26, 2015
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Initiation, being eager to understand and learn more, and being able to find reputable resources have always helped me gain respect, accomplish the mission, and provide the best for subordinates, peers, and seniors.
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10.25 Regard your soldiers as your children, and they will follow you into the deepest valleys; look upon them as your own beloved sons, and they will stand by you even unto death.
10.26 Regard your soldiers as your children, and they will follow you into the deepest valleys; look upon them as your own beloved sons, and they will stand by you even unto death.
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SFC Dr. Joseph Finck, BS, MA, DSS
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COL (Join to see) Sir, since retirement I am blessed to work for the USG as a civilian outside of DoD. Honestly, you never know how good you have it, until you don't have it anymore. Obviously, not every leader is good or even great, but the military, regardless of branch, typically produces much better leaders than other organizations. One of the leadership tenants which was shared with me by one of the many great leaders I encountered was "never go to your leader with a problem, instead always go with a solution." I adapted that and always brought three solutions to provide that leader with options I thought were the best. If nothing else this opens dialogue to discuss the issue.

My leader at my current job (I cringed when I typed that) will not make a decision, prefers decision by committee, and is a micromanager the likes of which I have never encountered. Further he bloviates as a way to "encourage his subordinates." An example of this is, he says "hey, that was great work, as he rejects your work submission." Not only is this a mixed message, but also illuminates the fact his statements are meaningless.

We all have good and bad, our job (as I knew it as a Senior NCO) was to train everyone from junior enlisted to General Officers. Respect always, professionalism is still my watch word, and always be proactive in utilizing loyal dissension. That is all I have for now sir. Great topic and thank you for the honor of posting on it.
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SSG Gene Carroll SR.
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That's good thought for food to our thinking.
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The best tool any leader has is creativity. Listening to every conversation, not thinking while another is speaking, leads to some very inspirational concepts. One has to pick and choose the direction to move based on experience, intelligence and above all that "gut" feeling which has kept most of us alive in situations. Once I was told life is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration. Very true, but that "pig headed determination" we have grown into can make things happen. The Seabee motto is "Can Do" . Most know that one but the other is "The difficult we can do right away, the impossible takes a bit longer". I have seen the "impossible" done with effort, thought and time.
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