Posted on Jan 21, 2019
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Never rob time from your family to pay the Army. There will always be work left undone, learn to deal with it by becoming more efficient, not by staying late and working weekends. That's what I always tell my new Career Counselors.
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SFC (Join to see) So I originally made this post for general tips and discussion for the "community", but I actually I appreciate how succinctly you put it. As a reservist, I balanced company command and a high-stakes/high tempo civilian job, but sometimes I thought about how I am missing my daughter's bedtime routine to be on a conference call. Nevertheless, I think if we continued to keep in mind that at the end of the day (when we leave the service or retire from a civilian job), who will be there? Your family and those you love. The Army will keep on being the Army with or without us -- its just a fact of life.

Also, thanks for the emphasis on working smarter and more efficient rather than extending your workdays. I think a lot of younger folks are not quite sure how to balance that aspect of their lives yet.

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CPT (Join to see) that was exactly point. When I first became a career counselor I was overwhelmed by the workload. I worked past 6 most days and came in on the weekends. Sometimes I even worked instead of doing PT. I realized I wasn't forcing myself to adapt and get better, I was just stealing time from myself for the Army. Then my other career counselor buddy told me that he never stays late and never misses dinner with his family because the Army won't be there when he retires. I realized how smart that was
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I up-voted this, then un up-voted it just so I could up-vote it again.
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Something I’ve noticed:

When told to go home... we hang around like kids trying to figure how adults have fun once we go to bed.

There’s nothing to see- leave! Read a book, fish, play PS4, sleep, go to the movies, hang out with friends, family, by yourself, sleep... just get away from the command post once you are cut loose. The rest will figure itself out.
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When at home, focus on the family.
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