Posted on Mar 5, 2016
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I believe the FRG's of Reserve Components are often underfunded or unable to adequately care for or assist families of deployed soldiers. How can we, as leaders, do more to aid the FRG in its mission while we are downrange executing ours? I'm interested in others experiences from fundraising ideas to increasing family engagement. Any and all advice or experience is appreciated.
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COL Jon Thompson
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I think a major issue with FRGs in USAR units is that since the members are not co-located like on a post, there is not the same need of an FRG. With an active duty unit, the chances are pretty high that Soldiers and families are not from around that area so they don't have the same network where they live. Thus, FRGs are more necessary and I think families will be more likely to be involved (although not all will). In RC units, families will usually have better networks, often with extended families. I think a RC FRG finds its most benefit in a deployment so that families can be connected and better informed. So there should be a structure of one. I think one thing a leader needs to do is give more than lip service to an FRG. In my last USAR unit, my then fiancé volunteered and actually went to San Diego for training. However, while the commander said she supported the FRG, that was about it. We were a training unit so the chances of us being deployed were minimal and that did not help. Another thing that does not help is limited training time on BA weekends. As for family involvement, we had decent show during our Christmas party but then again, it was usually the families that lived fairly close. I think if you can overcome some of these things, you can be successful. But it is a lot to overcome.
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Agree, My EN Battalion deployed with families all over Kentucky. The FRG at best was fragments that cam together once when the BN left, once for a telecom and once when the BN came back.
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MAJ (Join to see) - I think they are important for operational units. In 2003, my PSYOP Battalion HQs mobilized and deployed in fragments for OIF. We brought the families together for an event prior to leaving for Fort Bragg. All of my subsequent units were in the institutional side of the USAR and would never deploy as a group. That is where the FRG was more of a block check because it was required. I think what you said is the best case for a RC FRG. Keep them informed before, during, and after a deployment.
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SGM Mikel Dawson
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My wife received 0 support from FRG when I was deployed. Living in Denmark she had no contact with them. Also when I was deployed, I received more and better support from the Danish Military than ours. It cost me overseas postage to send mail home, but was free with the Danish military. I could not call home using the MWR phones, so I sent to the Danish NSE and called home for free. When I could not call home, I had a couple Danish Officers give my wife a call telling her I was doing ok when I had no access to Class A phone line. This happened on all three of my deployments.
Also during my last deployment, the FRG contact/group setup in our unit was taken over by the active duty unit we deployed with, this was bad as the FRG contact with the active duty unit did not know any of the unit family members and was a big minus.
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Another thing is to recruit FRG family members to help besides women. Reach out to some of the men, brothers, dads and uncles.
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Good point, thank you sir.
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MAJ Ken Landgren
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Look at the MWR funds balance. We as AC have done bake sales and car washes that were successful. If you want an easy an lucrative way of raising money message me. I don't want to protect the corporate name.
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