Whatever happened to that post 9/11 USA?

We all remember that short-lived period of high patriotism and pride across the country folling September 11, 2001. Who can forget the massive prayer meetings and flags and supporters everywhere? The prayer meetings for our nation were amazing as people of all backgrounds came together . But shortly thereafter, even as we entered Afghanistan and then Iraq, the crowds began to dwindle and the flags began to fade and disappear. The resolve of those who went to war remained. But now , after well over a decade of war, the nation as a whole hasn't been this jaded since the 60's-70's. Why aren't people gathering for large prayer meetings for our nation anymore? Where are all the flags? Why have we let those who desecrate the flag and disrespect the military dominate the news? And why is it dangerous within our own borders to be seen off-post in uniform? Why does it seem wrong to demonstrate pride in our country these days? And why does it seem less than 'politically correct' to publicly support the USA? Quite frankly, I am disgusted at the Anti-American sentiment that seems to be growing in our nation. Many youth that were babies during 9/11 stomp on our flag and demonstrate all sorts of disrespect towards uniformed public servants. I blame the parents for failing to teach them.