Can you use a DD368 Conditional Release for Active Duty to National Guard or Reserves?

Hello All, I recently submitted a DD368 to be released from Active duty to National Guard. I submitted this due to my spouse threatening me with divorce and keeping my child from me. It was been a huge burden on me financially and mentally. For months I have been taken advantage of and my son has been used as a pawn to collect money from me. Does anyone know of this is something that can actually be processed? Both battalion and brigade retention NCOs have advised me that it’s not a real thing and that if I want to get out to “fail my APFT”. I was a bit surprised to hear that from a E7. I showed him the DOD instruction showing that this form can be used to transfer between components. For the hell of it I asked if I could switch branches that would allow me to be closer to my son and he said it won’t happen. I do not want to get out because I legitimately enjoy the ARMY. Who would have to approve this? If anyone has any information for DD368 I would appreciate it. Thank you.