Can a medical discharge be “optional”?

Background (please bear with me, as I am desperate for a solid, knowledge-rooted opinion here): I was in my 3rd week of basic training at Fort Leonard Wood, when I incurred a stress fracture where my ankle and tibia connect (although I wouldn’t know this until weeks later!) My ankle swelled up to the size of a grapefruit, and all my battle buddies were disgusted at its appearance. The CTMC, to my astonishment, turned me away, telling me I must first see the athletic trainer. The athletic trainer initially “misdiagnosed” this injury as a small sprain, and put me on a limited profile, so I was walking on the injured ankle on a daily basis. I asked him about crutches but he told me he only gave them out as a last resort (???). Flash forward a week later at my follow-up appt. with him and my ankle is still enormous. Finally this man realizes this is a serious injury and makes an appointment for me to see a real doctor, I get an x-ray, an MRI, etc, and also get crutches. From that point on I was on full bed rest, until I saw my podiatrist at hospital. I ended up getting a titanium rod implanted, which is basically holding my tibia together. I was sent on convalescent leave for 30 days, and am slated to go back this coming Saturday.

Now, some details about me: I am 33, had amost no physical activity before going to basic, and, honestly, enlisting in the army is never something I really wanted to do. I simply caved to family pressure.

Before I even knew about the surgery, I told my doc I no longer wanted to train. He told me not to say that, but also stated that after surgery, and con leave, that if I wanted med board, we could start that as soon as I am back. I asked him this repeatedly throughout my stay at the hospital. He told me I could return to training after a long time in physical therapy, but if I wanted a medical discharge, that would be my choice. I’m not sure why I’m doubting this, but that seems like such a shaky premise, particulay in the military, like “hey ya can train if ya want, or ya can go home. Your choice”. I mean, it can’t be that simple. Could my commander deny a medical discharge even if my doc recommends?

Now, I am not looking for full military retirement, or anything like that. But, I was hurt during training, on the army’s watch. So what benefits would I likely receive if medically discharged? Also, how long would this process take?

Lastly, if all else fails, would it be difficult to obtain an ELS? I would think with my age, my physical capacity, my injury, and also increasing depression (the thought of going back causes suicidal thoughts and I would imagine those would only get worse if I’m unable to go home.

In closing, I have immense respect for all members of the military, and appreciate any help or guidance anyone can offer here. It is just not for me, and I want to get out and move on with my life.