Have other female service members changed how they act, talk, or wear the uniform so as to not draw attention to themselves?

It is a way of looking at things. To me I am a setvice member who happens to be female NOT a female service member. The same goes for my civilian job which is mostly men. I am an engineer that happens to be female not a female engineer. I don’t let the fact that I am female be the dominating force of my identity. I am female. I have always been female. My husband knows that I am not a typical girly girl. My kids know it too. Don’t let one part of you define the whole of you you are as a person! Most men I’ve worked with have been great. Occasionally someone will get a bit over the line and I tend to deal with it then and there. I think we are more governed by our temperament/ personality types than our gender. My uniform is more towards the baggy side of things. When I am at drill or activated I do my job and work to be the best inspector possible. When supervising young airmen I treat them all the same. I value competence above any perceived “group identity”.

Both sad and wise advise depending on the behavior. Any Soldier acting respectfully, within regulation, and UCMJ parameters should be free from any and all hostile work environments.
how you act and talk can certainly be changed to best suit your environment, but I cannot see how you "wear the uniform so as to not draw attention to yourself." The uniform is what the uniform is per AR 670-1, if you are getting harassed because of wearing your uniform this needs to be reported to either the chain of command or to the IG if your chain is part of the issue. No Soldier should ever feel threatened because of adhering to AR 670-1. If you care to expound a bit likely you'll get some more helpful responses, especially as all of us know that there are terrible units out there and some very despicable predators within and outside our ranks.
Wish you the best.

I was raised by four brothers and basically single dad - I've always been a tomboy and more comfortable around guys. But when I first came in, I did try to be like "one of the guys" to avoid harassment or any of that. Now I wish I hadn't. No one should have to do that to get respect. I still got sexually harassed and one time a so called friend sexually assaulted me (not rape).

Now I honestly don't care. If someone is going to just look at me differently because I have a vagina that's their problem. Not mine.