Posted on Dec 27, 2013
Sexual Harassment/ Assault Response and Prevention
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</font><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Calibri"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am a Unit Victim Advocate within my
battalion in which I strongly support the SHARP program. It’s being pushed
throughout the military that we must treat the victim and the perpetrator
equally and not play the judge or jury if they are both among our ranks. Honestly,
what would be your view toward them both if they were to remain working within
your ranks?<o:p></o:p></font></font></font></i></p><font color="#000000" face="Times New Roman" size="3">
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</font><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><font size="3"><font color="#000000"><font face="Calibri"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am a Unit Victim Advocate within my
battalion in which I strongly support the SHARP program. It’s being pushed
throughout the military that we must treat the victim and the perpetrator
equally and not play the judge or jury if they are both among our ranks. Honestly,
what would be your view toward them both if they were to remain working within
your ranks?<o:p></o:p></font></font></font></i></p><font color="#000000" face="Times New Roman" size="3">
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Posted 11 y ago
Responses: 13
<p>SFC Butler:</p><p><br></p><p><span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1024" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1024')">Respectfully,</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1025" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1025')">you</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1026" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1026')">are</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1027" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1027')">held</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1028" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1028')">at</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1029" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1029')">a</span> <span class="blackClass" id="ws1030" jquery [login to see] 74="437" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1030')">higher</span> <span class="context_menu blackClass" id="ws1031" style="margin: 0px;" on_contextmenu="wsPhraseRClicked('ws1031')" prev="" originalword="standard" next="ws1051"><span class="phrase_anchor">standard,</span></span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1032" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1032')">and</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1033" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1033')">it</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1034" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1034')">is</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1035" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1035')">imperative</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1036" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1036')">to</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1037" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1037')">be</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1038" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1038')">neutral</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1039" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1039')">and</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1040" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1040')">objective.</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1041" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1041')">I</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1042" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1042')">am</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1043" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1043')">a</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1044" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1044')">Chaplain</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1045" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1045')">and</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1046" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1046')">I</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1047" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1047')">came</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1048" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1048')">in</span> <span class="blackClass" id="ws1049" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1049')">as</span> <span class="blackClass" id="ws1050" jquery [login to see] 74="478" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1050')">an</span>
<span class="context_menu blackClass" id="ws1051" style="margin: 0px;" on_contextmenu="wsPhraseRClicked('ws1051')" prev="" originalword="E-1" next="ws1087"><span class="phrase_anchor">E-1,</span></span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1052" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1052')">and</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1053" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1053')">I</span> <span class="blackClass" id="ws1054" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1054')">will</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1055" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1055')">share</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1056" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1056')">with</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1057" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1057')">you</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1058" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1058')">that</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1059" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1059')">the</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1060" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1060')">truth</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1061" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1061')">does</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1062" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1062')">not</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1063" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1063')">always</span> <span class="blackClass" id="ws1064" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1064')">immediately</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1065" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1065')">reveal</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1066" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1066')">itself.</span> <br cr="rn"><br cr="rn"><span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1067" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1067')">I</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1068" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1068')">have</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1069" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1069')">personally</span> <span class="blackClass" id="ws1070" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1070')">witnessed</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1071" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1071')">those</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1072" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1072')">that</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1073" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1073')">we</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1074" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1074')">thought</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1075" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1075')">were</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1076" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1076')">innocent</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1077" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1077')">were</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1078" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1078')">not.</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1079" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1079')">When</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1080" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1080')">we</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1081" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1081')">do</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1082" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1082')">not</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1083" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1083')">have</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1084" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1084')">a</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1085" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1085')">relationship</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1086" jquery [login to see] 74="551" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1086')">with</span>
<span class="context_menu blackClass" id="ws1087" style="margin: 0px;" on_contextmenu="wsPhraseRClicked('ws1087')" prev="" originalword="others" next=""><span class="phrase_anchor">others,</span></span> <span class="blackClass" id="ws1088" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1088')">we</span> <span class="blackClass" id="ws1089" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1089')">often</span> <span class="blackClass" id="ws1090" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1090')">label</span> <span class="blackClass" id="ws1091" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1091')">them.</span> That is why it is imperative that we create an environment of professionalism and to bring in resources like the Chaplain.</p><p><br></p><p>This provides a safe place to reflect and vent for those that are impacted in the work place.</p>
<span class="context_menu blackClass" id="ws1051" style="margin: 0px;" on_contextmenu="wsPhraseRClicked('ws1051')" prev="" originalword="E-1" next="ws1087"><span class="phrase_anchor">E-1,</span></span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1052" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1052')">and</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1053" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1053')">I</span> <span class="blackClass" id="ws1054" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1054')">will</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1055" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1055')">share</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1056" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1056')">with</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1057" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1057')">you</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1058" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1058')">that</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1059" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1059')">the</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1060" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1060')">truth</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1061" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1061')">does</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1062" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1062')">not</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1063" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1063')">always</span> <span class="blackClass" id="ws1064" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1064')">immediately</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1065" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1065')">reveal</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1066" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1066')">itself.</span> <br cr="rn"><br cr="rn"><span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1067" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1067')">I</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1068" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1068')">have</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1069" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1069')">personally</span> <span class="blackClass" id="ws1070" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1070')">witnessed</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1071" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1071')">those</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1072" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1072')">that</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1073" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1073')">we</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1074" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1074')">thought</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1075" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1075')">were</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1076" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1076')">innocent</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1077" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1077')">were</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1078" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1078')">not.</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1079" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1079')">When</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1080" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1080')">we</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1081" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1081')">do</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1082" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1082')">not</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1083" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1083')">have</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1084" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1084')">a</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1085" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1085')">relationship</span> <span class="blackClass context_menu" id="ws1086" jquery [login to see] 74="551" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1086')">with</span>
<span class="context_menu blackClass" id="ws1087" style="margin: 0px;" on_contextmenu="wsPhraseRClicked('ws1087')" prev="" originalword="others" next=""><span class="phrase_anchor">others,</span></span> <span class="blackClass" id="ws1088" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1088')">we</span> <span class="blackClass" id="ws1089" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1089')">often</span> <span class="blackClass" id="ws1090" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1090')">label</span> <span class="blackClass" id="ws1091" on_contextmenu="wsPlainRClicked('ws1091')">them.</span> That is why it is imperative that we create an environment of professionalism and to bring in resources like the Chaplain.</p><p><br></p><p>This provides a safe place to reflect and vent for those that are impacted in the work place.</p>
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<p>SFC Butler,</p><p>I am also a UVA and a senior paralegal NCO who has worked both prosecution and defense. While I understand the points of view expressed here, I have to agree that you cannot rush to judgment. An allegation is an allegation until its proven in a court. Regardless of what you know or how you feel towards the alleged offender - its gotta stay inside. I have had several cases that I worked that - because the unit failed to squash inappropriate treatment of the accused (ie: Peyote Platoon) - the Soldier ended up with a substantial amount of time credit towards his sentence. Even moving an accused Soldier to a different can have unpleasant repercussions with the pending case. </p>
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CH (CPT) Heather Davis
<p>SFC Crum:</p><p><br></p><p>Respectfully, you bring up an interesting view the truth is never that transparent. The layers of a toxic environment hide many layers of psychological trauma.</p>
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I see many great points on this thread. What I haven't observed is the balance in the system. I have observed, First Hand, a Soldier that made an accusation in order to take advantage of the SHARP Expedited Transfer Policy. CID talks about escalating behavior for criminals and perpetrators. The Soldier that made the accusation had 3 unfounded reports before escalating her complaint against a senior leader. That leader fully supports the SHARP program, was suspended from their position during the investigation, and, 6 months later, is still under investigation. The accuser wanted to change her next duty station and build a case for herself for PTSD as a victim. She received her expedited transfer and continues to abuse the system. 1SG Rink nailed it when he said there isn't always a textbook answer. All leaders can do is enforce standards, trust in the system, and lead by example, especially during this time of transitioning the combat arms MOSs to a modernized, cohesive, integrated fighting force! See you on the high ground!
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