Posted on Oct 30, 2016
SSG Eric Burleson
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SSG Eric Burleson
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I had to get used to work not being the priority over my relationship. The military always has first priority over your time, and it becomes easy to let work function the same way after you separate. The fact is that my family should come first unless there are exceptional circumstances. Anybody else? What other challenges have you had?
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CPT Aaron Kletzing
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I've had that same challenge myself.
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Based on professional and friendship, you kinda stray away from everyone. Since you're so far away from your duty station, you just lose touch with people. I don' know exactly how to explain it; I guess it something that you have to experience. There's just this void between you and your friends and no matter what you do, you can remove the void.
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Capt Tom Brown
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People on the outside have no idea or comprehension of what you have been through and can't begin to relate. You may seem like a total stranger to them.
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When you're gone for so long, you have relied on yourself to get things done; laundry, cleaning, food, shopping, etc. When you get home, you still have that mindset; you are still in your "zone".
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MSG Mechanic 2nd
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and when your in the zone you forget you are no longer there and your loved ones have been there too, taking care of the home , bills, and what ever while you are gone, now it becomes who is in charge, just something to think about, its easy when your single but married with children whole different world
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