Posted on Jun 5, 2016
Did you go back home after serving? Was it the same?
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http://townhall.com/columnists/humbertofontova/2016/06/04/baltimore-mayor-stephanie-rawlingsblake-visits-cuba-for-advice-on-economic-development-n2173126?utm_content=buffer136be&utm_medium=social&utm_source=facebook.com&utm_campaign=buffer
Home wasn't really there any more when I returned from Vietnam. It was gone. A lost memory. Today, it seems even more distant, forgotten.
The Baltimore I left was a bedroom community tucked between the major metropolises of the East Coast. I well-remember the vendors with their pony carts wandering cobblestone streets hawking their wares. Gas street lamps and the lamplighter coming back each morning with his ladder to turn off the lights and clean those that needed it. I remember climbing from boat to boat as Eastern Shore fisherman sold produce from the Eastern Shore during months when crabbing an oystering were prohibited. I remember stores closing no later than 9 each night and closed all day on Sundays. I remember black and white communities coexisting peacefully (I envied the solidarity of their families inasmuch as mine was dysfunctional). I remember the Bay - That's the Chesapeake Bay, Land of Pleasant Living according to a local brewery advertisements, a protein factory according to H.L. Mencken, a world-famous journalist who made his home in my city.
It was all gone when I came home. Storefronts were shuttered and barred. The riots accompanying the Civil Rights movement had come and went. The black families were fractured by government meddling, welfare making dad's irrelevant and mom's encouraged with payments for children born without fathers. White families had fled.
I didn't hang around...
Home wasn't really there any more when I returned from Vietnam. It was gone. A lost memory. Today, it seems even more distant, forgotten.
The Baltimore I left was a bedroom community tucked between the major metropolises of the East Coast. I well-remember the vendors with their pony carts wandering cobblestone streets hawking their wares. Gas street lamps and the lamplighter coming back each morning with his ladder to turn off the lights and clean those that needed it. I remember climbing from boat to boat as Eastern Shore fisherman sold produce from the Eastern Shore during months when crabbing an oystering were prohibited. I remember stores closing no later than 9 each night and closed all day on Sundays. I remember black and white communities coexisting peacefully (I envied the solidarity of their families inasmuch as mine was dysfunctional). I remember the Bay - That's the Chesapeake Bay, Land of Pleasant Living according to a local brewery advertisements, a protein factory according to H.L. Mencken, a world-famous journalist who made his home in my city.
It was all gone when I came home. Storefronts were shuttered and barred. The riots accompanying the Civil Rights movement had come and went. The black families were fractured by government meddling, welfare making dad's irrelevant and mom's encouraged with payments for children born without fathers. White families had fled.
I didn't hang around...
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Yes! I went back home! It was the same! But I wasn't the same! Serving in the Military allowed me to grow! I had a different outlook on life! I wanted so much! But the City of Newark, NJ didn't meet my aspirations! Many of the residents haven't been outside of the city! They haven't experienced any other culture or traveled to any other Demographic! I'm not sure if home is really the same for any serviceman or woman who served for a length of time or especially on a deployment!
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PO1 (Join to see)
I asked my mom about it "has the town changed? It doesn't seem the same." My mom looked at me and said "It's because you grew up; you changed."
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I went back home, but nothing is the same because you see it differently. My morals and values were greatly changed during my time in the Marine Corps and working in the private industry was even more challenging.
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SGT Scott Lowry
Dealing with a very similar situation. Vo worker sleeps on the jobs and has joked with others that he likes to scare me because I have PTSD. Nothing has been done about the guy. It's taking all I can muster to not punch the guy when he jacks with me.
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Cpl Jason Causby
SGT Scott Lowry - If they only knew some of the things we had to do or stuff we have seen they wouldn't have the balls to do that kind of crap.
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SGT Scott Lowry
Cpl Jason Causby - That's what blows me away with the guy. Others are constantly telling him it is not good to do and he just laughs it off.
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Back home? Where is that? I lived in PA for 17 years. As of now I have lived in 14 states plus Japan. My wife and I have been married 41+years and are in out 23rd address.
Where is this home you speak of?
Where is this home you speak of?
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Maj John Bell
Capt (Join to see) - My adopted home town is so small the BP (2nd Best Restaurant in town) is considered an ethnic restaurant because it sells frozen burritos. The HS graduating class is 43 kids.
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Maj John Bell - Okay. Our school buses kids from up to 20 miles away to achieve it high numbers.
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Maj John Bell
Capt (Join to see) - You got us beat. Nobody rides the bus probably more than 10 miles. But you have to check with your parents before you date to figure out if the object of your desire is a relative.
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