Scenario Question: Soldier says he's separating and wants help getting his stuff out before wife comes home from work? Action taken?

In that situation, MSG, I would agree with that assessment. However, the situation is changed: your scenario--"she" is leaving "him" because of a crime "abuse." Each situation is different and can/will be responded to its own merits. As the original question, "he" is leaving "her" and no indication of criminal/abusive activity.

Sir, I do agree that every situation has to be handled based on its own circumstances, however, I do not see that gender plays a role in any way! Regardless of male leaving female or vice versa, it is the situation that warrants thought and actions, not the gender of the people involved.

BLUF: If you were to approach me for support on your recommended COA, I would sign off on it, and possibly assist (mission allowing).

I would agree that gender should not play a part in the decision; I was merely pointing out the two discrepancies between your response and the original question--the gender swap and the abuse caveat. I acknowledge that females can abuse males, but I would also expect that abuse happens more frequently the other way around. Because of the abusive nature of the situation which you provide, I feel the compelling nature to assist the Soldier in any reasonable manner, to include the assistance in moving out. Many hands make light work, provides a lot of witness if something happens, and a lot of peer pressure to keep the "lid on the kettle" if he does show up. Thanks for your response!

Sir, thank you for the input. I think we are all of one mind on this situation and I absolutely agree with your assessment.

base housing or out in town? having police or security present to have non-partial witness available is good in some situations.

and rank does not count in civilian divorce court.