Posted on Aug 1, 2018

'Bachelorette' contestant Colton Underwood talks about 'insecurities' after virgin-shaming

SFC Kelly Fuerhoff

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I don't watch any of these Bachelor shows - it was on MSN. But - why do people feel the need to mock someone for being a virgin? So what if he's 26 and hasn't had sex? I didn't until I was 20.

If people want to be virgins, good for them. If someone has sex with multiple people, as long as they are safe and selective about who they have sex with who cares? Why do we worry so much about other people's sex lives or lack of them?

'Bachelorette' contestant Colton Underwood talks about 'insecurities' after virgin-shaming

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Lt Col Scott Shuttleworth

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Kelly...I agree with you on this. I myself took a lot of ridicule when I was in high school for it. I am not saying I was a saint but it was tough. I admire those that stay that way if that is their choice. It certainly isn't anyone elses business whether I knock boots at 16 or at 30 or 40...That is an intimate choice between two people and for others to mock it is just not right...IMHO.

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LTC David Brown

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I guess it is Ok to be born a man, identify as a lesbian, or be born a white women who identifies as a black person etc etc etc. Pro choice is some ones “ right? But his choice to be a Virgin is to be mocked? It is his life and his choice and I admire him for not following the crowd.

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SFC Kelly Fuerhoff

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Let's all admit that most guys mock another guy if they find out he's a virgin even in high school. I grew up the only girl out of five kids. Most of my friends are guys - and I've heard them all make jokes if some other guy is a virgin. There's an entire movie that mocks it - 40 Year Old Virgin. This isn't something new. I just don't get why people care so much.

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