PV2 Private RallyPoint Member 5299831 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I&#39;m trying to get a family wavier approved. My recruiter asked me to have my wife write a statement saying blah, blag, blah. One of the blah&#39;s, was that she understands that joint domicile is not guaranteed. I&#39;m the only one joining the military. I understand that if we were both in the military how it would work but I don&#39;t know why she has to say it now. Can anyone break this down for me please?? 2019-12-02T21:02:56-05:00 PV2 Private RallyPoint Member 5299831

<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I&#39;m trying to get a family wavier approved. My recruiter asked me to have my wife write a statement saying blah, blag, blah. One of the blah&#39;s, was that she understands that joint domicile is not guaranteed. I&#39;m the only one joining the military. I understand that if we were both in the military how it would work but I don&#39;t know why she has to say it now. Can anyone break this down for me please??

2019-12-02T21:02:56-05:00 2019-12-02T21:02:56-05:00 SGM Bill Frazer 5299892

<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Don&#39;t understand, if it is an un-accompanied tour somewhere, then of course she can&#39;t go, but stationed CONUS you should be ok, might not be available base housing.

2019-12-02T21:21:21-05:00 2019-12-02T21:21:21-05:00 MSG Private RallyPoint Member 5299954

<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Family waiver? Joint domicile not guaranteed? WTF? If you are stationed CONUS, and you have all your paperwork (marriage cert, etc.) filed and your wife is in DEERS and has an ID card, then when you get to your duty assignment, you apply for on post housing. If no on post housing is available, then you will get a Statement of Non-Availability from housing and can then get housing off post. If you are going OCONUS, then it depends on where you go as some OCONUS assignments (like South Korea) are hardship tours and must request approval for your wife to accompany you. Then there are some OCONUS tours (like Honduras) where family is not permitted.

2019-12-02T21:43:47-05:00 2019-12-02T21:43:47-05:00 PV2 Private RallyPoint Member 5300001

<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Everyone I talk to about this does not understand why my recruiter is asking for this. I&#39;m just going to talk to him in the morning and figure out why this statement is needed from her even though she is not in the military.

2019-12-02T21:58:25-05:00 2019-12-02T21:58:25-05:00 SFC Private RallyPoint Member 5300028

<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>He&#39;s probably just new. A lot of times when recruiters say something off the wall it&#39;s because it&#39;s a new guy and they don&#39;t understand what they&#39;re reading.

2019-12-02T22:16:20-05:00 2019-12-02T22:16:20-05:00 SFC Michael Hasbun 5301530

<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Jokes on you! You both ship to Fort LenonardWood in February ;o)

2019-12-03T09:52:38-05:00 2019-12-03T09:52:38-05:00 PV2 Private RallyPoint Member 5307675

<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>So, my recruiter made a mistake. After talking to other recruiters in the office, we figured out that he miss read the memo that was given to him. My wife and I had to sign a paper that said how many dependents we have and that none of them had any disabilities. So, we are good to go. Thanks for all the feedback.

2019-12-04T19:30:18-05:00 2019-12-04T19:30:18-05:00 SPC Devin Young 5307902

<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>He was just trying to Jodi you..: don’t fall for bro!!! Lol

2019-12-04T20:34:11-05:00 2019-12-04T20:34:11-05:00 SSG Dale London 5308387

<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Why do you need a family waiver?

2019-12-04T23:10:13-05:00 2019-12-04T23:10:13-05:00 SGT(P) Private RallyPoint Member 5309834

<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Recruiter mumbo jumbo paperwork drill best I can think of

2019-12-05T10:29:26-05:00 2019-12-05T10:29:26-05:00 2019-12-02T21:02:56-05:00