Where can I go for help with sorting myself out and deciding what to do with life?

2022-02-24T14:55:18-05:00

Been discharged since 2015 and since then life has been erratic and unstable. At one point I knew what i was doing or wanted but life changed. Ive just been coasting by really unsure with where to go or what to do. I guess i can say I've lost my military bearing somewhat. Just mixed up and lost.

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2022 3:05 PM

2022-02-24T15:05:32-05:00

Depending on where you live, reach out to your nearest VA and see if there is a Vet Center nearest you IOT seek therapy. You can also try reaching out to any VSO (American Legion, VFW, etc.) that you qualify for membership. Of course, you could always try and see if you can find your military bearing again and reenlist (if eligible).

Response by SSgt Christophe Murphy made Feb 24 at 2022 3:10 PM

2022-02-24T15:10:21-05:00

There are plenty of services out there. Depending on what you need your local VA, Vet Center or local Vet non profits like American Legion, VFW, DAV can help.

Response by Lt Col Charlie Brown made Feb 24 at 2022 4:22 PM

2022-02-24T16:22:03-05:00

You can reach out to the EasterSeals/Cohen Clinic. Are you in the VA system? If so ask for a counselor. You can also reach out to the American Legion often has help available. And then there are the Vet Centers located in virtually every city across the US...

Response by SFC Ralph E Kelley made Feb 24 at 2022 8:18 PM

2022-02-24T20:18:16-05:00

Your unit Chaplain is a good place to start.

Response by PVT Jennifer Yellets made Feb 24 at 2022 8:27 PM

2022-02-24T20:27:58-05:00

The VA hospital & peer support. Certified peer support specialists work at the VA and they are wonderful. They are individuals who can relate to what your going through through their own personal experiences and can help steer you in the right direction with all different types of resources.

Response by SMSgt Bob W. made Feb 25 at 2022 12:44 AM

2022-02-25T00:44:26-05:00

Couple of things. [1] Go to the nearest VA or VA assistance office as Thomas recommended. [2] Seek public assistance by getting into a work/training program. What skills did you receive in the Army and how can you utilize them to stabilize your life? Remember your first job may not be the one you want the rest of your life, BUT it is a start. Good luck.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 25 at 2022 4:51 PM

2022-02-25T16:51:32-05:00

Thanks everyone. I got a list and ill start looking in. New to RallyPoint but damn, never knew there was a military community platform like this out there. Couldve used this years ago. Ill be in touch. Thanks again I appreciate the outreach.

Response by Lt Col Jim Coe made Feb 25 at 2022 7:47 PM

2022-02-25T19:47:41-05:00

Help us help you. Your profile is very incomplete Please fill in a lot more information We have lots of RP members who can give advice and direct you to resources Some education and experience information would help a lot.

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 1 at 2022 12:10 AM

2022-03-01T00:10:11-05:00

Hello! First and foremost, I want you to know that what you are experiencing is a common part of this journey called life. We all experience unexpected changes from time to time. There are several services that could assist you with the things you mentioned:
- Military OneSource (https://www.militaryonesource.mil/) provides a wide range of support and confidential services, including online services and webinars; Call center consultation and services; Language translation services for documents and telephonic interpretation; Non-medical counseling available in person, by telephone, via secure chat or by secure video session; Tax consultation and filing services; Health and wellness coaching; Financial counseling; Child and youth behavioral military and family life counseling. You can get personalized 27/7 help 365 days a year by telephone and chat.
- Veterans' Service Officers (VSO) (https://www.va.gov/ogc/apps/accreditation/index.asp) are located in cities and towns throughout the US. VSOs help with accessing support and resources in your state. They can help with state Veteran benefits (such as Chapter 115 safety net assistance or annuity benefits), health care, housing, education benefits, mental health resources, and more. They can also help you access federal VA benefits; file service-connected disability claims with the VA; Get help with job readiness and employment search help, Apply for VA home loans, etc.

Hopefully, this is enough to get you started in your desired direction. If not, please don't hesitate to reach out.

Keep your head up because better days are coming...

Take care!

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Response by MSG Brenda Hayes made Mar 1 at 2022 6:32 AM

2022-03-01T06:32:30-05:00

Find out if any Support Groups for Veterans in your area or online? Vet Centers? VA VOC REHAB?
Contact your State VOC REHAB** Contact State VET ORGS.
Take free Apt Testing at local Colleges; Likes/Gifts/Apptitudes in sinc?? Process; be Patient; Put a plan together with a timeline
You are NORMAL for what you've been through and what is happening in your life now. KEEP VENTING** Use this group and others** Keep busy with JOBS, HOBBIES (GET ONE OR TWO), VOLUNTEER, SHADOW what you THINK you might like to do**
Hugs, Brenda