PO3 Phyllis Maynard 5366288 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>After many years of hardships, my son and I are a close knit family. Once he could not wait to get out of my presence and declared he would never marry a woman like me. Time has zoomed by and he is still telling me when my health is better he will do some things. I am fine; I have Auron. He has his own life, a college degree, his own money, a steady job, good coworkers, the few friends he chooses are nice people, so RP parents, what is his dilemma?<br /> 2019-12-21T11:21:20-05:00 PO3 Phyllis Maynard 5366288

<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>After many years of hardships, my son and I are a close knit family. Once he could not wait to get out of my presence and declared he would never marry a woman like me. Time has zoomed by and he is still telling me when my health is better he will do some things. I am fine; I have Auron. He has his own life, a college degree, his own money, a steady job, good coworkers, the few friends he chooses are nice people, so RP parents, what is his dilemma?<br />

2019-12-21T11:21:20-05:00 2019-12-21T11:21:20-05:00 TSgt George Rodriguez 5366335

<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>A mother figure. A mother hen that when he was growing up smothered him. His need to find a woman that won&#39;t smother him.

2019-12-21T11:32:21-05:00 2019-12-21T11:32:21-05:00 SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth 5366387

<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Your his anchor in life, so he doesn&#39;t want to lose th

2019-12-21T11:53:56-05:00 2019-12-21T11:53:56-05:00 SFC Private RallyPoint Member 5366412

<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>You have to stop being that safe spot in his life. Now that he&#39;s an adult you have to move that relationship away from mother/son and towards something more like friend/mentor. In order to do that you have to have your own life, lifestyle, activities that you share just between you and your significant other. Basically, you have to freeze him out a bit. And of course, his own place.<br /><br />If you&#39;ve done all that, it&#39;s not you, it&#39;s him. He doesn&#39;t want to get married and you&#39;re a convenient excuse why. Maybe he&#39;s gay, maybe he&#39;s asexual, Mayne he&#39;s scared to death of losing half his wealth in a divorce.

2019-12-21T12:00:46-05:00 2019-12-21T12:00:46-05:00 Cpl Jeff N. 5367002

<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Time to push him out of his comfort zone and out of the nest. He needs to start his own life and give you some grandchildren as well. Him staying at home is only allowing him to dither his life away. This will not serve either of you well.

2019-12-21T15:26:20-05:00 2019-12-21T15:26:20-05:00 SPC Stewart Smith 5368138

<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>You are not responsible for his actions. <br />Perhaps he doesn&#39;t want to get married. I&#39;m 32 and not married. I do not plan to get married. I do not want to get married. I do not see a point in marriage.

2019-12-22T00:37:34-05:00 2019-12-22T00:37:34-05:00 2019-12-21T11:21:20-05:00