When you got married, whether during active duty or after, did you wear your military uniform?

2021-02-08T19:41:54-05:00

For some reason when I was talking to some of my students they asked me this question. My dress blues still fit . I didn't but wish I did now anyways even though my bride didn't like the idea.

Response by GySgt Gary Cordeiro made Feb 8 at 2021 7:45 PM

2021-02-08T19:45:23-05:00

I wore a tux. I got married in the church 20 years after a mad dash to Reno.

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 8 at 2021 7:53 PM

2021-02-08T19:53:50-05:00

I did the first time. I am not sure about the next time I get married.

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 8 at 2021 8:29 PM

2021-02-08T20:29:38-05:00

My wife and I 30 years ago. Our son-in-law, his father (Vietnam River Rat) and I for our middle daughter's wedding 7-1/2 years ago.

Response by SFC Casey O'Mally made Feb 8 at 2021 9:45 PM

2021-02-08T21:45:01-05:00

Both times. I asked my bride what she preferred, and both thought Blues was a good idea.

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 9 at 2021 12:24 AM

2021-02-09T00:24:55-05:00

Yes, I got married in my ASUs. At the request if my wife. Now, as for my first marriage, I wore a tux.

Response by SPC James Neidig made Feb 9 at 2021 1:06 AM

2021-02-09T01:06:28-05:00

My first time yes I was a MARINE NCO at the time married by NAVY Chaplain and walked through crossed Sabers the whole thing my second time a good friend was the local district judge we got married in his office wearing jeans and sweatshirts first one lasted 2 years second one 35 years and still going strong

Response by SSG Edward Tilton made Feb 9 at 2021 8:43 AM

2021-02-09T08:43:20-05:00

I was in the Army in the 1960s, CLASS Bs,
We were not allowed civilian clothes or Class As

Response by Maj Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 9 at 2021 9:24 AM

2021-02-09T09:24:08-05:00

My first marriage, on active duty, yes. My second marriage, deeply in the non-drilling reserves, no.

Response by SFC Steven Borders made Feb 9 at 2021 2:47 PM

2021-02-09T14:47:55-05:00

I did not get married in my uniform, I was married in 1999 and did not join the military until 2010. I have however been to several weddings were I wore my Uniform, and also funerals as well.

Response by TSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 9 at 2021 9:42 PM

2021-02-09T21:42:07-05:00

Hehehe, Yep! I saved money on a tux rental. My wife's parents could not afford to pay anything for the wedding so we paid for just about everything. Besides dress whites for a Florida summer wedding were more comfortable than a black tux.

Response by LTC Jason Mackay made Feb 9 at 2021 11:45 PM

2021-02-09T23:45:50-05:00

I was in my Army Dress Blue uniform with Spurs and crossed sabers branch insignia as I was in 11th ACR

Response by LtCol Robert Quinter made Feb 10 at 2021 5:33 AM

2021-02-10T05:33:12-05:00

There seems to be a trend of second marriages amongst the respondents; obviously something to consider.
As to the question at hand, I was on active duty and wore my uniform on both occasions. Don't know that I would wear it now but since the last wedding was over 40 years ago I do intend to wear it for my next ceremony even though I expect to be prone for the occasion.
Seriously, weddings are an occasion where the bride is the center of attention, with discretion being the better part of valor, I would not wear the uniform if the bride objected.

Response by SFC Michael Hasbun made Mar 7 at 2021 12:45 PM

2021-03-07T12:45:27-05:00

Of course. Why rent a tux when the military gave you a free one?