What's the best way to handle it when a civilian thanks you for your service? https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>It always feels a bit strange to me because I know many servicemembers who sacrificed much more than I did...although I do appreciate the sentiment.  Any thoughts? Wed, 06 Nov 2013 12:04:35 -0500 What's the best way to handle it when a civilian thanks you for your service? https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>It always feels a bit strange to me because I know many servicemembers who sacrificed much more than I did...although I do appreciate the sentiment.  Any thoughts? CPT Brian Hughes Wed, 06 Nov 2013 12:04:35 -0500 2013-11-06T12:04:35-05:00 Response by CW3(P) Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 6 at 2013 12:07 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=3912&urlhash=3912 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I make it a point to thank civilians for their support of the troops. I don&#39;t say just &quot;thank you&quot; but &quot;thank you for your support&quot;. Its almost like giving back to them. Yes it may sound corny but its the civilians that run the military.&amp;nbsp; CW3(P) Private RallyPoint Member Wed, 06 Nov 2013 12:07:27 -0500 2013-11-06T12:07:27-05:00 Response by Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 6 at 2013 1:30 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=3952&urlhash=3952 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I look at it from the perspective that most people aren't thanking YOU/ME specifically, but the uniform and everyone we represent when wearing it. Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member Wed, 06 Nov 2013 13:30:35 -0500 2013-11-06T13:30:35-05:00 Response by MAJ Laurie H. made Nov 6 at 2013 3:54 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=4019&urlhash=4019 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>It's particularly awkward/uncomfortable when you aren't actually a vet, which just seems rude to point out when someone is thanking me. I always respond with a 'thank you for your support' as well. MAJ Laurie H. Wed, 06 Nov 2013 15:54:19 -0500 2013-11-06T15:54:19-05:00 Response by CMC Robert Young made Nov 6 at 2013 3:58 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=4022&urlhash=4022 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div><p>Sir, I feel much the same way. Everybody in the service does something that supports a greater good, but there are a select few who frequently bear the brunt of the heavy lifting. It is humbling to be associated with those people, and I am always mindful of what they do for us all.</p><p> </p><p>That said, every time I have been the beneficiary of somebody else's kindness towards me as a service member, I thank them for their support not for me, but for all who serve.</p> CMC Robert Young Wed, 06 Nov 2013 15:58:52 -0500 2013-11-06T15:58:52-05:00 Response by MAJ Laurie H. made Nov 7 at 2013 8:51 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=4239&urlhash=4239 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>CPT AuBuchon, that was guys in my unit, so I know all too well. I really appreciate your insight. MAJ Laurie H. Thu, 07 Nov 2013 08:51:01 -0500 2013-11-07T08:51:01-05:00 Response by CPT Mike M. made Nov 7 at 2013 9:13 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=4248&urlhash=4248 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I keep my response simple.  They thank us for the sacrifices we've had to endure but most of us nowadays joined after 9/11 so we knew what we were getting into.  I've always wanted to join the military so when someone thanks me for my service I just respond that I'm happy to have the opportunity to serve.  There are a lot out there who would have liked to join but have outside factors preventing them.  I'm greatful I'm able to. CPT Mike M. Thu, 07 Nov 2013 09:13:18 -0500 2013-11-07T09:13:18-05:00 Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 7 at 2013 10:42 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=4276&urlhash=4276 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I thank them for their support.   CPT Private RallyPoint Member Thu, 07 Nov 2013 10:42:12 -0500 2013-11-07T10:42:12-05:00 Response by Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 7 at 2013 3:14 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=4374&urlhash=4374 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I typically thank them for their support. Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member Thu, 07 Nov 2013 15:14:56 -0500 2013-11-07T15:14:56-05:00 Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 8 at 2013 4:14 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=4674&urlhash=4674 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>When I was a recruiter, I was thanked for my service almost daily.  My standard reply was, and still is, "Thank you for your support". SFC Private RallyPoint Member Fri, 08 Nov 2013 16:14:45 -0500 2013-11-08T16:14:45-05:00 Response by 1SG Jd Jones made Nov 10 at 2013 8:44 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5106&urlhash=5106 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I agree, Brian. It is difficult, when some of our comrades are not here to be appreciated for their ultimate sacrifice.<br />Retiring after many years of active service, it was purely a profession(some would call a religion). As with any profession, I elected to serve and with the not so good days comes memories and friendships that will be remembered and re-lived a LIFETIME! THANKS to everyone who served!!!! Infantry 1SG 1SG Jd Jones Sun, 10 Nov 2013 08:44:44 -0500 2013-11-10T08:44:44-05:00 Response by TSgt Ricky Cook made Nov 10 at 2013 8:55 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5110&urlhash=5110 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I always say "It's an Honor, Thank you"<br><br> TSgt Ricky Cook Sun, 10 Nov 2013 08:55:49 -0500 2013-11-10T08:55:49-05:00 Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 10 at 2013 9:39 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5118&urlhash=5118 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>You say your welcome smile.  SFC Private RallyPoint Member Sun, 10 Nov 2013 09:39:57 -0500 2013-11-10T09:39:57-05:00 Response by PO3 Jeremy Davis made Nov 10 at 2013 11:06 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5136&urlhash=5136 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I always offer a hand shake and tell then "you're welcome and, thank you for your support". PO3 Jeremy Davis Sun, 10 Nov 2013 11:06:39 -0500 2013-11-10T11:06:39-05:00 Response by PO3 Jeremy Davis made Nov 10 at 2013 11:08 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5140&urlhash=5140 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I offer a hand shake and tell them you're welcome and thank them for their support. PO3 Jeremy Davis Sun, 10 Nov 2013 11:08:42 -0500 2013-11-10T11:08:42-05:00 Response by LTC Harry Gerecke made Nov 10 at 2013 12:03 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5166&urlhash=5166 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I usually thank them back or at least tell them that I had a lot of help.  But, I also feel bit annoyed and at times want to say, I went because you did not....but I try to stifle that impulse as they are usually strangers, and I do not know them. LTC Harry Gerecke Sun, 10 Nov 2013 12:03:18 -0500 2013-11-10T12:03:18-05:00 Response by SMSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 10 at 2013 12:48 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5171&urlhash=5171 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I say either thank you or thank you for your appreciation.<br> SMSgt Private RallyPoint Member Sun, 10 Nov 2013 12:48:59 -0500 2013-11-10T12:48:59-05:00 Response by Capt Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 10 at 2013 2:48 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5188&urlhash=5188 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I have often thought about this. Despite having been in the reserves for the past 5 years, I have not yet deployed, and I always feel humbled and unsure of the best way to respond. I usually smile and say something to the effect of it's an honor, but seeing the responses in here has given me some insights into what everyone else says and thinks about this. Thanks for the post! Capt Private RallyPoint Member Sun, 10 Nov 2013 14:48:45 -0500 2013-11-10T14:48:45-05:00 Response by CPL Andrew Green made Nov 10 at 2013 5:18 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5216&urlhash=5216 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I simply smile and say thank you for your support.<br> CPL Andrew Green Sun, 10 Nov 2013 17:18:38 -0500 2013-11-10T17:18:38-05:00 Response by MAJ John Ludiker made Nov 10 at 2013 9:57 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5323&urlhash=5323 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I agree with everything stated so graciously and elegantly by others who've already posted here; the greater difficulty comes with a grateful public wanting to thank ALL veterans and current serving Service members on Memorial Day, when all thanks on that day are reserved for those Service members revered for having given their lives in defense of-and service to-our nation, and as unfortunate and uncomfortable as it is in that circumstance, those people must be corrected and told that that day is not for thanking the living, but for remembering and honoring the sacrifices of the dead. MAJ John Ludiker Sun, 10 Nov 2013 21:57:06 -0500 2013-11-10T21:57:06-05:00 Response by SGT(P) Kyle B. made Nov 10 at 2013 11:51 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5353&urlhash=5353 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I always respond with thanking them back. SGT(P) Kyle B. Sun, 10 Nov 2013 23:51:08 -0500 2013-11-10T23:51:08-05:00 Response by SFC Charles S. made Nov 11 at 2013 12:17 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5356&urlhash=5356 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I tell them you are welcome, it was my honor to serve.  This has always worked well for me.  If the other person is a veteran I offer thanks for their service also. SFC Charles S. Mon, 11 Nov 2013 00:17:24 -0500 2013-11-11T00:17:24-05:00 Response by SFC Keith Bailey made Nov 11 at 2013 8:01 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5400&urlhash=5400 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>My response is  " Thank you for your support " SFC Keith Bailey Mon, 11 Nov 2013 08:01:29 -0500 2013-11-11T08:01:29-05:00 Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 11 at 2013 8:04 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5401&urlhash=5401 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I respond with "Thank you. It's an honor to serve." MSgt Private RallyPoint Member Mon, 11 Nov 2013 08:04:24 -0500 2013-11-11T08:04:24-05:00 Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 11 at 2013 8:19 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5402&urlhash=5402 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>When I first came in, I always felt it to be awkward and always felt out of place and never knew what to say.  Now that I have been in for a few years and passing by the Fort Hood "Hug Lady" put my perspective in a whole different light.  I now say thank you right back to them and hold out my hand to give a handshake or if I know them to be a past veteran I have even given a salute. SSG Private RallyPoint Member Mon, 11 Nov 2013 08:19:22 -0500 2013-11-11T08:19:22-05:00 Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 11 at 2013 9:26 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5407&urlhash=5407 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Yes, it does feel strange Sir, but my response is always "My honor/pleasure and thank you for your support."   Not to mention a lil older lady's hug makes the world brighter!! SFC Private RallyPoint Member Mon, 11 Nov 2013 09:26:51 -0500 2013-11-11T09:26:51-05:00 Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 12 at 2013 6:57 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5636&urlhash=5636 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I usually end up saying something along the lines of, "Thank you for the support" or "It's my pleasure, I'm proud to serve".  21 years and still going strong. MSgt Private RallyPoint Member Tue, 12 Nov 2013 06:57:51 -0500 2013-11-12T06:57:51-05:00 Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 12 at 2013 8:39 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5655&urlhash=5655 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I always follow-up with a smile, nod and say "Thank you for your support!"  SFC Private RallyPoint Member Tue, 12 Nov 2013 08:39:05 -0500 2013-11-12T08:39:05-05:00 Response by SSG Lisa Rendina made Nov 12 at 2013 10:32 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5863&urlhash=5863 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I, like others, say "thank you for your support".  What is awkward for me is when a WWII, Korea, Vietnam, etc Vet shakes my hand and thanks me for my service when I know they have sacrificed much more than I have.  I shake their hand even more vigorously and thank them for their commendable service. SSG Lisa Rendina Tue, 12 Nov 2013 22:32:41 -0500 2013-11-12T22:32:41-05:00 Response by Sgt Nicholas Chappell made Nov 12 at 2013 10:40 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=5868&urlhash=5868 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Well when it is a civilian I say the typical "Thank you for your support." However, when it is a older vet I say "No, Thank you for your service. If you hadn't served then I wouldn't have had the opportunity." Sgt Nicholas Chappell Tue, 12 Nov 2013 22:40:49 -0500 2013-11-12T22:40:49-05:00 Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 16 at 2013 10:01 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=6916&urlhash=6916 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I explain that my service has been an honor for me and thank them for supporting the troops.  Civilian support of Veterans and military members currently service is critical for the moral of those individuals.<br> MSG Private RallyPoint Member Sat, 16 Nov 2013 10:01:13 -0500 2013-11-16T10:01:13-05:00 Response by TSgt Marcial Guajardo made Nov 16 at 2013 1:37 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=6947&urlhash=6947 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div><p>Just accept their sentiment within the spirit in which it offered. Those who haven't served have no idea but, at least, they're making an effort to acknowledge the sacrifice of military service.</p> TSgt Marcial Guajardo Sat, 16 Nov 2013 13:37:07 -0500 2013-11-16T13:37:07-05:00 Response by LTC Kevin B. made Nov 26 at 2013 4:40 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=12029&urlhash=12029 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I normally just say "Thank you.  It's an honor to serve." LTC Kevin B. Tue, 26 Nov 2013 16:40:15 -0500 2013-11-26T16:40:15-05:00 Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 28 at 2013 2:47 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=13058&urlhash=13058 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I travel in uniform often on TDY for my current position and my usual reply is "Thank you for your support" LTC Private RallyPoint Member Thu, 28 Nov 2013 14:47:33 -0500 2013-11-28T14:47:33-05:00 Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 28 at 2013 3:03 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=13064&urlhash=13064 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Thank you, and thank you for your support. SFC Private RallyPoint Member Thu, 28 Nov 2013 15:03:58 -0500 2013-11-28T15:03:58-05:00 Response by 1SG(P) Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 28 at 2013 3:40 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=13079&urlhash=13079 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>"You're welcome."<br> 1SG(P) Private RallyPoint Member Thu, 28 Nov 2013 15:40:50 -0500 2013-11-28T15:40:50-05:00 Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 28 at 2013 4:03 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=13087&urlhash=13087 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>"I appreciate your support." MAJ Private RallyPoint Member Thu, 28 Nov 2013 16:03:01 -0500 2013-11-28T16:03:01-05:00 Response by Spc 1 J W. made Nov 28 at 2013 10:11 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=13209&urlhash=13209 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>You're welcome, it's been my honor to serve for over_____years now.<br> Spc 1 J W. Thu, 28 Nov 2013 22:11:39 -0500 2013-11-28T22:11:39-05:00 Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 28 at 2013 10:41 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=13220&urlhash=13220 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Thank you for supporting us SFC Private RallyPoint Member Thu, 28 Nov 2013 22:41:28 -0500 2013-11-28T22:41:28-05:00 Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 28 at 2013 10:58 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=13227&urlhash=13227 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I have always had a hard time with that one. Most of the time it tell them there is no thanks needed and I love what I do. SFC Private RallyPoint Member Thu, 28 Nov 2013 22:58:10 -0500 2013-11-28T22:58:10-05:00 Response by SGM Matthew Quick made Nov 28 at 2013 11:32 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=13233&urlhash=13233 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Thank you and thank you for the support...I love what I do. SGM Matthew Quick Thu, 28 Nov 2013 23:32:08 -0500 2013-11-28T23:32:08-05:00 Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 29 at 2013 11:49 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=13336&urlhash=13336 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I just learned not too long ago to say "Thank you for your support."  I really didn't know what to say and when I heard this one line I liked it.<br> SFC Private RallyPoint Member Fri, 29 Nov 2013 11:49:02 -0500 2013-11-29T11:49:02-05:00 Response by SFC Michael Boulanger made Nov 29 at 2013 1:54 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=13386&urlhash=13386 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I just say Thank you. SFC Michael Boulanger Fri, 29 Nov 2013 13:54:06 -0500 2013-11-29T13:54:06-05:00 Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 7 at 2013 3:15 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=16960&urlhash=16960 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I'm another one in the "Thank you for your support" camp...<br><br>I slow down and make sure to look them in the eye, and give them a firm but warm handshake to be as sincere as possible SGT Private RallyPoint Member Sat, 07 Dec 2013 15:15:15 -0500 2013-12-07T15:15:15-05:00 Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 9 at 2013 8:57 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=17919&urlhash=17919 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>For a while I used to reply with Thank-you also...now-a-days I just reply with 'I chose this path and thanks for the support' SSG Private RallyPoint Member Mon, 09 Dec 2013 08:57:11 -0500 2013-12-09T08:57:11-05:00 Response by CPO John Dupee made Dec 9 at 2013 9:10 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=17921&urlhash=17921 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Yer welcome, but it's not necessary as I had the time of my life - I should be thanking YOU! CPO John Dupee Mon, 09 Dec 2013 09:10:10 -0500 2013-12-09T09:10:10-05:00 Response by SSG Brian Hart made Dec 9 at 2013 7:29 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=18135&urlhash=18135 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I thank them for recognizing my service. SSG Brian Hart Mon, 09 Dec 2013 19:29:28 -0500 2013-12-09T19:29:28-05:00 Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 9 at 2013 7:31 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=18136&urlhash=18136 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>One of the worst things you can do is rebuff a compliment but you can humbly say, "you're welcome'. SSgt Private RallyPoint Member Mon, 09 Dec 2013 19:31:37 -0500 2013-12-09T19:31:37-05:00 Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 9 at 2013 7:34 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=18138&urlhash=18138 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div><p>People these days have a need for heroes and while you may not feel you are,  it is okay just go with your heart.</p><p><br></p><p>Contrast that to Vietnam when my dad was called baby killer and the abuse I heard about when I first went in, in the 70s.     I would much rather have respect than that, any day,</p> SSgt Private RallyPoint Member Mon, 09 Dec 2013 19:34:23 -0500 2013-12-09T19:34:23-05:00 Response by CH (CPT) Heather Davis made Dec 9 at 2013 7:34 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=18141&urlhash=18141 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div><p>I look them straight in their eyes and grab their hands and say <br />thank you for your prayers and support.<br><br><br><br>If this person is a fellow veteran. I go to attention and stop and salute and thank them for serving before me</p> CH (CPT) Heather Davis Mon, 09 Dec 2013 19:34:53 -0500 2013-12-09T19:34:53-05:00 Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 9 at 2013 8:27 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=18173&urlhash=18173 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>First of all let me start by saying that it's wonderful that this is a phenomenon...that is, people walking up to a soldier on the street and saying "thank you for your service".  Not too long ago this almost never happened and even a little farther back quite the opposite happened with soldiers being spit.  This was a sad time in our society with the citizenry openly denigrating soldiers for political viewpoints.  Thankfully, we have moved beyond that rather neanderthal mentality and have experienced honest and heart-felt thankfulness from the citizenry.  With that said, I usually say something like thank you for your support or i appreciate your thanks, etc. LTC Private RallyPoint Member Mon, 09 Dec 2013 20:27:20 -0500 2013-12-09T20:27:20-05:00 Response by CH (MAJ) Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 10 at 2013 8:03 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=18422&urlhash=18422 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I always say that "it is a privilege to serve, that being said, you're welcome." CH (MAJ) Private RallyPoint Member Tue, 10 Dec 2013 08:03:13 -0500 2013-12-10T08:03:13-05:00 Response by WO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 10 at 2013 8:10 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=18430&urlhash=18430 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>No, Thank You (!), I love my job. WO1 Private RallyPoint Member Tue, 10 Dec 2013 08:10:38 -0500 2013-12-10T08:10:38-05:00 Response by SFC Rich Carey made Dec 10 at 2013 9:12 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=18460&urlhash=18460 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I always say "Thank You for Your Support" and if it comes from a service member "Thank You for Your Service and Taking the Lead" SFC Rich Carey Tue, 10 Dec 2013 09:12:13 -0500 2013-12-10T09:12:13-05:00 Response by PO1 Willis Mur'rel Wright Jr made Dec 10 at 2013 9:11 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=18685&urlhash=18685 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Thanks for leading me to the sea,been military since I was 15,Merchant Marine it was a Sailors life..thanks again PO1 Willis Mur'rel Wright Jr Tue, 10 Dec 2013 21:11:10 -0500 2013-12-10T21:11:10-05:00 Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 10 at 2013 9:45 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=18704&urlhash=18704 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>"My pleasure, I Enjoy what I do" SFC Private RallyPoint Member Tue, 10 Dec 2013 21:45:00 -0500 2013-12-10T21:45:00-05:00 Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 10 at 2013 10:20 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=18713&urlhash=18713 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I feel awkward saying &quot;Thank you&quot; back to them right after they said thank you to me... so my usual response is Thank you for your support and move on! Personally I do not like to make a spectacle out of myself but it is nice when people show their support. SPC Private RallyPoint Member Tue, 10 Dec 2013 22:20:05 -0500 2013-12-10T22:20:05-05:00 Response by CWO2 B. Sean Fairburn made Dec 11 at 2013 12:26 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=18763&urlhash=18763 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>When someone takes the time to thank me for my service, I smile look at them to insure they feel the words I am about to say and respond with<div><br></div><div> "I did it for you".</div><div><br></div><div>CWO2 B. Sean Fairburn USMC</div><div>DS/DS 91   OIF 03</div> CWO2 B. Sean Fairburn Wed, 11 Dec 2013 00:26:40 -0500 2013-12-11T00:26:40-05:00 Response by Sgt Collin Marchant made Dec 11 at 2013 12:34 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=18772&urlhash=18772 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>My father was thanked for the first time in his life ten years ago and he was a Vietnam Vet.  Ive been thanked nonstop since 2001.  I thank other veterans for their service.  all I can say is what I say to everyone who thanks me…I reach for their hand and say no sir/maam thank you.  If it werent for you I would not of had the experiences that I had.  <div><br></div> Sgt Collin Marchant Wed, 11 Dec 2013 00:34:28 -0500 2013-12-11T00:34:28-05:00 Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 11 at 2013 12:52 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=18782&urlhash=18782 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I say thank you, smile and shake their hand if offered. SSG Private RallyPoint Member Wed, 11 Dec 2013 00:52:09 -0500 2013-12-11T00:52:09-05:00 Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 11 at 2013 6:38 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=18831&urlhash=18831 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I always Smile....Say Thank You!....and Thank them for their support....and lastly shake their hand! SSG Private RallyPoint Member Wed, 11 Dec 2013 06:38:59 -0500 2013-12-11T06:38:59-05:00 Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 11 at 2013 6:50 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=18832&urlhash=18832 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Thank you for your Support. SFC Private RallyPoint Member Wed, 11 Dec 2013 06:50:31 -0500 2013-12-11T06:50:31-05:00 Response by TSgt John Lyda made Dec 11 at 2013 11:12 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=18914&urlhash=18914 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I say "Thank you, it was an honor and a privilege"<br> TSgt John Lyda Wed, 11 Dec 2013 11:12:05 -0500 2013-12-11T11:12:05-05:00 Response by SGT Ben Keen made Dec 11 at 2013 11:39 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=18921&urlhash=18921 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Just like everyone else, I thank them for their support and try to remind them that we need support beyond just the war zone.  Never hurts to remind people of the issues we face during and after we transition to the civilian sector. <div><br></div><div>The one question I have is has any one come across a Veteran saying they don't deserve a thank you?  I ran into one and they feel because they didn't lose a body part or wounded in any other way they don't deserve  it.  I tell them regardless of injury they still deserve it because they raised their right hand and successfully completed the challenges we all faced that the general public will never face.</div> SGT Ben Keen Wed, 11 Dec 2013 11:39:41 -0500 2013-12-11T11:39:41-05:00 Response by LTJG Robert M. made Dec 11 at 2013 1:34 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=18952&urlhash=18952 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I tell them Thank You and add "It was an honor to defend your freedom" LTJG Robert M. Wed, 11 Dec 2013 13:34:18 -0500 2013-12-11T13:34:18-05:00 Response by SFC Lawrence Hayward made Dec 11 at 2013 4:24 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=19021&urlhash=19021 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I say thank you. The world can use a few more pleasantries. SFC Lawrence Hayward Wed, 11 Dec 2013 16:24:29 -0500 2013-12-11T16:24:29-05:00 Response by SCPO Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 11 at 2013 4:37 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=19025&urlhash=19025 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I always thank those I see in Uniform being retired for a few years I've blended into the community so with a beard and shirt and tie they see another business manager on travel. I loved my time in the Navy and serving my country was a rewarding career surrounded my friends (Shipmates) that will be life long family. The service these young men and women provide our country is outstanding not the Navy I left but each generation brings our service forward with strength, honor, courage, and commitment that those that serve would buckle under the microscope our service men and women work under.  SCPO Private RallyPoint Member Wed, 11 Dec 2013 16:37:30 -0500 2013-12-11T16:37:30-05:00 Response by SSG Kevin McCulley made Dec 11 at 2013 6:51 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=19078&urlhash=19078 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Thanks for paying taxes.  SSG Kevin McCulley Wed, 11 Dec 2013 18:51:40 -0500 2013-12-11T18:51:40-05:00 Response by SSgt James Guy made Dec 11 at 2013 10:34 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=19192&urlhash=19192 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Isay Thank you and thank you for your support.<br> SSgt James Guy Wed, 11 Dec 2013 22:34:02 -0500 2013-12-11T22:34:02-05:00 Response by SSgt James Guy made Dec 11 at 2013 10:35 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=19195&urlhash=19195 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I say thank you and thank you for your support. I also thank everyone for their service when I meet them for the first time.<br><br> SSgt James Guy Wed, 11 Dec 2013 22:35:31 -0500 2013-12-11T22:35:31-05:00 Response by PO2 Jeffrey S. made Dec 12 at 2013 5:57 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=19284&urlhash=19284 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I like it when they say that to me. I thank them and I try to start a small conversation with them. I tell them what I do for the veterans community and they tell me about their family members who are and have served. PO2 Jeffrey S. Thu, 12 Dec 2013 05:57:44 -0500 2013-12-12T05:57:44-05:00 Response by Cpl Glynis Sakowicz made Dec 12 at 2013 6:51 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=19293&urlhash=19293 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>My response to that simple comment is usually surprise.  Most times, when I am out, I am with my husband who wears a ball cap with USMC on it.  Instead of the hat, I have a "Bird, Ball, and Hook" necklace that I wear.<div>   LOTS of people come up to my husband and thank him for his service, and always, he mentions that I am also a retired Marine.  Most people blink slowly, they slide their eyes over to me, and I know its coming.  "You served too?"  they ask, and I nod, and people usually give a nervous little grin, "Oh... well, thank you too."<br>   Even in this day and age, most people are surprised to meet a woman veteran, and when they do, they give this 'Blink... stare... nervous smile.'</div><div>   I am sorry to say, that once, when faced with this, I gave a sweet smile back, "I'm almost house trained now..."   </div><div>    I appreciate it when someone says thank you, honestly I do, but those comments are very far between for women, as most people still don't realize that women veterans can look like any other woman, because its still unique enough to surprise, even in this day and age.</div> Cpl Glynis Sakowicz Thu, 12 Dec 2013 06:51:42 -0500 2013-12-12T06:51:42-05:00 Response by TSgt Phillip L. made Dec 12 at 2013 7:39 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=19299&urlhash=19299 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Thankfully since growing a beard and a belly....it doesn't happen very often anymore. lol. Prior, my first response was generally to simply say, "thank you" and move on. Children, other vets, or those actually sincere got a more thought out response.<br> TSgt Phillip L. Thu, 12 Dec 2013 07:39:23 -0500 2013-12-12T07:39:23-05:00 Response by COL James Stevens Roach made Dec 12 at 2013 7:42 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=19300&urlhash=19300 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Sometimes, the situation doesn't allow for anything except a 'you're welcome' - but when I have the opportunity I like to respond:  I have spent 20 years of my working life, overseas, mostly in third world countries. Many of our fellow citizens in this great country don't understand that what we (and our ancestors) have developed here in the United States of America.  Our culture and our country is unique - the very best deal for the common man. So I believe that my military service to this country has also served the interest of humanity.  The USA is the last and best hope of humanity, and we need to perserve it for our children and grand children. COL James Stevens Roach Thu, 12 Dec 2013 07:42:10 -0500 2013-12-12T07:42:10-05:00 Response by Cpl Robert Clark made Dec 12 at 2013 8:36 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=19318&urlhash=19318 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I tell all vets I meet, thank you for your service... When they thank me, I reply with, "I was just doing my job, it was the least I could do." Cpl Robert Clark Thu, 12 Dec 2013 08:36:04 -0500 2013-12-12T08:36:04-05:00 Response by Cpl Robert Clark made Dec 12 at 2013 8:38 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=19322&urlhash=19322 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I like to tell them (in my best Elvis voice) Thank you... Thank you very much. Cpl Robert Clark Thu, 12 Dec 2013 08:38:31 -0500 2013-12-12T08:38:31-05:00 Response by Cpl Robert Clark made Dec 12 at 2013 8:41 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=19324&urlhash=19324 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I like to have a few responses at the ready... like a magazine full of ammo... Cpl Robert Clark Thu, 12 Dec 2013 08:41:48 -0500 2013-12-12T08:41:48-05:00 Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 12 at 2013 5:05 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=19560&urlhash=19560 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I keep it short an simple. You are welcome and thanks for the support. 1SG Private RallyPoint Member Thu, 12 Dec 2013 17:05:46 -0500 2013-12-12T17:05:46-05:00 Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 12 at 2013 5:17 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=19572&urlhash=19572 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I tell them that they are welcome and it has been my pleasure to serve in the best military in the world. SGT Private RallyPoint Member Thu, 12 Dec 2013 17:17:07 -0500 2013-12-12T17:17:07-05:00 Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 12 at 2013 5:18 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=19573&urlhash=19573 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I say, "you're welcome and it has been my pleasure to serve in the greatest military in the world"!  SGT Private RallyPoint Member Thu, 12 Dec 2013 17:18:17 -0500 2013-12-12T17:18:17-05:00 Response by PO2 Heather Ashby made Dec 12 at 2013 6:29 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=19621&urlhash=19621 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I love it. I feel a bit guilty since I actually do more for the troops, vets, families, etc. today than I did on active duty. But, as a military novelist, I engage them in conversation and they usually have a family member of some kind who has served, so I thank them back. Since I donate half my author royalties to Fisher House Foundation - Helping Military Families - I feel comfortable sharing my books with them. Heatherashby.com PO2 Heather Ashby Thu, 12 Dec 2013 18:29:50 -0500 2013-12-12T18:29:50-05:00 Response by CPT Don Buzzelli made Dec 12 at 2013 7:30 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=19675&urlhash=19675 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>My typical response is "It Was my Honor" and I mean that from the bottom of my heart as Vietnam was not a popular home coming. CPT Don Buzzelli Thu, 12 Dec 2013 19:30:58 -0500 2013-12-12T19:30:58-05:00 Response by CPT Don Buzzelli made Dec 12 at 2013 7:33 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=19677&urlhash=19677 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>What I typically say is "it was my Honor" and that comes from the bottom of my heart, as when I returned from Vietnam we were not appreciated.  CPT Don Buzzelli Thu, 12 Dec 2013 19:33:45 -0500 2013-12-12T19:33:45-05:00 Response by SPC Thomas Morrissey made Dec 13 at 2013 7:56 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=20556&urlhash=20556 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Thank you for your support<br> SPC Thomas Morrissey Fri, 13 Dec 2013 19:56:24 -0500 2013-12-13T19:56:24-05:00 Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 17 at 2014 11:59 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=77488&urlhash=77488 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I generally tell them Thank you for your support as well as it is my pleasure to serve.  In the end its not about us as individuals...they are truly thanking the uniform we wear...not the person wearing it. MSgt Private RallyPoint Member Mon, 17 Mar 2014 11:59:29 -0400 2014-03-17T11:59:29-04:00 Response by PO2 William Ingram Jr made Apr 20 at 2014 3:36 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=106463&urlhash=106463 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I tell them, Thank you for letting me serve.  PO2 William Ingram Jr Sun, 20 Apr 2014 03:36:48 -0400 2014-04-20T03:36:48-04:00 Response by MSG Floyd Williams made Apr 26 at 2014 6:31 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=112244&urlhash=112244 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I thank them for their prayers and support. MSG Floyd Williams Sat, 26 Apr 2014 18:31:02 -0400 2014-04-26T18:31:02-04:00 Response by CPT Jacob Swartout made Apr 29 at 2014 10:16 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=114970&urlhash=114970 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I always thank them for their continued support and ask them to thank and shake the hands of other service members when they see them too. CPT Jacob Swartout Tue, 29 Apr 2014 22:16:00 -0400 2014-04-29T22:16:00-04:00 Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made May 23 at 2014 10:30 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=133268&urlhash=133268 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Simply "Thank you for your support". MSG Private RallyPoint Member Fri, 23 May 2014 10:30:16 -0400 2014-05-23T10:30:16-04:00 Response by SMSgt Brian Millington made Aug 25 at 2014 2:35 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=216817&urlhash=216817 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I always respond "it was my pleasure, and thank you for your support of the troops". SMSgt Brian Millington Mon, 25 Aug 2014 14:35:57 -0400 2014-08-25T14:35:57-04:00 Response by CW3 Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 25 at 2014 8:46 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=217158&urlhash=217158 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>My response is always the same. I thank them back. <br /><br />"Thank you for paying taxes and allowing me to do what I love for a living."<br /><br />I flew Blackhawks for eight years and it NEVER felt like work.<br /><br />THANK YOU TAXPAYERS! I'M STILL GREATFUL! CW3 Private RallyPoint Member Mon, 25 Aug 2014 20:46:48 -0400 2014-08-25T20:46:48-04:00 Response by PO3 Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 26 at 2014 7:19 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=218387&urlhash=218387 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>An appropriate response is, "Thanks for your support." PO3 Private RallyPoint Member Tue, 26 Aug 2014 19:19:44 -0400 2014-08-26T19:19:44-04:00 Response by SGT James S. made Aug 27 at 2014 8:58 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=219001&urlhash=219001 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I usually respond, "It was an honor to serve, thank you for your support." SGT James S. Wed, 27 Aug 2014 08:58:46 -0400 2014-08-27T08:58:46-04:00 Response by SFC Mark Merino made Aug 27 at 2014 7:13 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=219705&urlhash=219705 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I always thanked them for their support. Now that I'm retired, I still shake the hands of everyone I see in uniform. I never mention my service because because it is about rendering honor to those still serving, unless they ask me. I see our vets wearing their hats and shirts and thank them for their service as if they were wearing their fatigues. They are still in uniform, albeit civilian clothes now. If I'm really lucky, I get to hear about a story that they are willing to share. I get to hear about how different we were as a country "back in the day". I've met people who built the roads in Alaska, I met several POW's, and I've met Waves and WACs. I've had a meal bought for my entire family when I was still in, I've left thank you notes on vehicles. We are all family. We are all Americans. We are all God's children. SFC Mark Merino Wed, 27 Aug 2014 19:13:39 -0400 2014-08-27T19:13:39-04:00 Response by Cpl Dennis F. made Aug 27 at 2014 7:41 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=219729&urlhash=219729 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>For a long time it stunned me speechless, as I never heard it. I had to remember what hat I was wearing (Mobile 1 or Marine Veteran). I just say <br />"you're welcome" My new hometown I hear it often. Cpl Dennis F. Wed, 27 Aug 2014 19:41:19 -0400 2014-08-27T19:41:19-04:00 Response by 1LT Nick Kidwell made Aug 27 at 2014 9:11 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=219821&urlhash=219821 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I usually just respond that it was an honor to serve. 1LT Nick Kidwell Wed, 27 Aug 2014 21:11:47 -0400 2014-08-27T21:11:47-04:00 Response by CPL Jesse Richards made Aug 28 at 2014 12:33 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=219984&urlhash=219984 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>good question! i feel the same way about this CPL Jesse Richards Thu, 28 Aug 2014 00:33:19 -0400 2014-08-28T00:33:19-04:00 Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 29 at 2014 12:38 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=221347&urlhash=221347 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>If I have my wits about me, I try to respond with "it's my pleasure!"<br /><br />And if it's another veteran I go with "thank you for paving the way!"<br /><br />As others have stated, they aren't thanking me per se, but all of us. It always makes me squirm a little, as I see this as my calling more than anything. <br /><br />Great question, CPT. SSG Private RallyPoint Member Fri, 29 Aug 2014 12:38:29 -0400 2014-08-29T12:38:29-04:00 Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 29 at 2014 2:19 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=221456&urlhash=221456 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div><a class="dark-link bold-link" role="profile-hover" data-qtip-container="body" data-id="68217" data-source-page-controller="question_response_contents" href="/profiles/68217-cpt-brian-hughes">CPT Brian Hughes</a> <a class="dark-link bold-link" role="profile-hover" data-qtip-container="body" data-id="2583" data-source-page-controller="question_response_contents" href="/profiles/2583-16px-political-military-affairs-strategist-saf-ia-secaf">Col Private RallyPoint Member</a> - Happened to me just two days ago at Walmart, and the guy was calling for me and ran up to me when I turned around to see who was yelling. (his dad WWII) and I said, "Your're Welcome". I was a little on the spot but then I have mixed emotions here. Coming in at the end of the Vietnam War and we never got that treatment. SSgt Private RallyPoint Member Fri, 29 Aug 2014 14:19:42 -0400 2014-08-29T14:19:42-04:00 Response by SFC Christopher Perry made Aug 29 at 2014 3:14 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=221507&urlhash=221507 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Without going through the thread of this post, I shall regurgitate the line I took from a past conversation on RP. I simply answer "thank you for your support". SFC Christopher Perry Fri, 29 Aug 2014 15:14:44 -0400 2014-08-29T15:14:44-04:00 Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 29 at 2014 3:36 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=221529&urlhash=221529 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Most of the time I say "Thanks for the support". At first when i was thanked and didn't realize that it would happen as frequently, "Thanks", "Your welcome", or just a smile was the first thing that came into mind, but sometimes people speed walk to catch me in places like Walmart where I am quick to get in and out. They clearly go out of the way to thank all of us, so then I thought the best thing to do was to not only just say a quick your welcome, but in a way, thank them for stopping and "showing support". To me that shows the person recognizes the sacrifices our military has made for the USA. SSgt Private RallyPoint Member Fri, 29 Aug 2014 15:36:48 -0400 2014-08-29T15:36:48-04:00 Response by PO2 Arnold Mungin made Aug 29 at 2014 6:46 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=221715&urlhash=221715 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I once felt a little strange as well when people would thank me for my service. I went ahead and put a little speech together which seems to make civilians smile and convey my gratitude to the people we defend and serve. I simply reply with "No, thank you for allowing me the pleasure and honor of serving you and our country" PO2 Arnold Mungin Fri, 29 Aug 2014 18:46:11 -0400 2014-08-29T18:46:11-04:00 Response by LTC Paul Heinlein made Aug 30 at 2014 9:15 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=222209&urlhash=222209 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I just respond "thank you for acknowledging it, we could not do it if it was not for the support of the American People; keep it up" LTC Paul Heinlein Sat, 30 Aug 2014 09:15:47 -0400 2014-08-30T09:15:47-04:00 Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 5 at 2015 8:26 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=457805&urlhash=457805 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I tell them I am honored to serve. LTC Private RallyPoint Member Thu, 05 Feb 2015 20:26:51 -0500 2015-02-05T20:26:51-05:00 Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 17 at 2015 11:54 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=482526&urlhash=482526 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I always respond with "it's my pleasure to serve Ma'am/Sir" If they linger and tell me about their service, I thank them for their service. Especially Vietnam era Veterans as they didn't hear it at all when they should have. 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Some are civilians, but a few are older vets from previous service, and often with a story to tell (which I'm grateful to listen to). SSG Private RallyPoint Member Wed, 18 Feb 2015 00:08:20 -0500 2015-02-18T00:08:20-05:00 Response by TSgt Mario Guajardo made Feb 18 at 2015 10:10 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=484420&urlhash=484420 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I just say thanks TSgt Mario Guajardo Wed, 18 Feb 2015 22:10:10 -0500 2015-02-18T22:10:10-05:00 Response by SFC Dennis A. made Feb 26 at 2018 9:40 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=3393498&urlhash=3393498 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I generally thank them for their support in return. SFC Dennis A. Mon, 26 Feb 2018 09:40:24 -0500 2018-02-26T09:40:24-05:00 Response by SSG Edward Tilton made Feb 26 at 2018 10:37 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service?n=3393683&urlhash=3393683 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Throw him to the ground, step on his throat and yell, SO WHERE WERE YOU, WORM! SSG Edward Tilton Mon, 26 Feb 2018 10:37:14 -0500 2018-02-26T10:37:14-05:00 2013-11-06T12:04:35-05:00