What's one thing from the holidays that only people in the military would understand?

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Response by SFC David Reid, M.S, PHR, SHRM-CP, DTM made Dec 12 at 2022 10:13 AM

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They don't ways understand lengthy periods of family separations resulting in missing normal events with family and loved ones!

Response by GySgt Jack Wallace made Dec 12 at 2022 10:22 AM

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Being station overseas.You were sent there where you liked it or not and you have to adjust to your surroundings and duty. The holidays came in second....

Response by SFC Casey O'Mally made Dec 12 at 2022 10:24 AM

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Finally getting your Christmas presents in the mail... in March. Only to open and find 90% of items crushed or expired.

Response by COL Randall C. made Dec 12 at 2022 11:20 AM

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Sandbag Christmas Trees

Response by Cpl Vic Burk made Dec 12 at 2022 1:54 PM

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The separation from your family. Personally it didn't bother me since I wasn't close to mine but most of my buddies were very sad to not be able to go home for the holidays. I remember one year they held a drawing to see who could get leave. Everyone's name went into the hat. They drew mine. One of my closest friends name wasn't drawn so I changed places with him. I was very glad I did. That was the last Christmas for his youngest son. He had leukemia and passed away in January.

Response by MSG Thomas Currie made Dec 12 at 2022 5:08 PM

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While in Korea, we were still living in Quonset huts built very shortly after the armistice decades earlier, the unit insisted that everyone MUST decorate their hut for Christmas. We replaced the 25W "fire light" over the door with a 150W bulb and "decorated" that end of the hut with large letters that spelled out significant quote from a famous Christmas story carefully chosen to express our joy for the season...

B_A_H___ H_U_M_B_U_G

The CO admitted that it met all the requirements stated in his memo. We were a bit surprised that he didn't tell us to take it down.

Response by SFC Terry Fortune made Dec 12 at 2022 5:09 PM

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Being away from home. Spent my first away from home in West Germany at the time. Got assign to my unit about six days before Christmas.

Response by Maj Robert Thornton made Dec 12 at 2022 5:54 PM

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The acceptance of an entirely new and diverse family of military members and their families to spend the holidays with while stationed overseas. They were our family during those 4 years in the UK.

Response by MSgt Frank Askins made Dec 12 at 2022 6:09 PM

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Probably being in a war zone and hearing "Merry F**king Christmas"...HO, HO, HO!

Seriously....I had the opportunity to attend one of Bob Hope's Vietnam Christmas tours in 1970. It was probably the best Christmas I ever experienced. I think only someone who attended woud understand how much it meant to all of us. Too bad he's gone! I doubt he would be allowed to crack those jokes in today's "woke" military!

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 14 at 2022 10:23 AM

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Opening presents via a phone or computer screen. A Bunsen oil can fire in front of a GI Stocking. Sleeping on a cot on Christmas Eve, only to be woken up by a thuddy whistle in the sky.

All Is Quiet on the Western Front.

Response by SGT Ruben Lozada made Dec 14 at 2022 1:00 PM

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Excellent post. Thank You for sharing this. I would say being separated a lot for the holidays.

Response by Cpl Fr. Wayne Wright made Dec 14 at 2022 5:55 PM

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The absence from family, loved ones, and friends during that time of merriment associated with the holidays and you are on your umpteenth night of guard duty and unknowing of what the night might bring before the dawn!

Response by SSG Jeff Nielsen made Dec 14 at 2022 5:55 PM

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Being thousands of miles away from family and feeling forgotten about.

Response by SPC Martin Landis made Dec 14 at 2022 5:56 PM

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How much a phone call means to soldiers that cannot make it home to be family.

Response by CPL Jason Blackwood made Dec 14 at 2022 6:02 PM

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It would have to be serving your country overseas and going home for the Holidays if you're lucky.

Response by SPC Kevin Scanlon made Dec 14 at 2022 6:04 PM

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Wow great contest

Response by PO1 James Bushon made Dec 14 at 2022 6:07 PM

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being away from family

Response by CPT Dan OShea made Dec 14 at 2022 6:10 PM

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Being a single officer, and volunteering on Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s to take the overnight duty officer assignment in HQ, so that married officers could spend quality time with their family and children.

Response by CPT Adam Patrick made Dec 14 at 2022 6:11 PM

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The John Lennon song -Happy Xmas (War is Over). From the litteral "So this is Christmas" to "War is Over" lyrics. Being in combat and thinking "so this is Christmas" and wishing the war was over or just for a small break for the holiday like in WWI. I think that song has a different meaning for veterans then for those who have not served.

Response by SP5 Linda Diianni made Dec 14 at 2022 6:15 PM

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Being alone missing loved ones. Sacrificing their lives for us. God Bless The USA!

Response by SGT Millard Turner made Dec 14 at 2022 6:20 PM

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It sure is great to be back home in the great USA for Christmas after spending a year near the DMZ in Korea .

Response by 1LT Richard Weid made Dec 14 at 2022 6:25 PM

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Getting through to your wife on a MARS call during the holidays. It made the season!!!!

Response by SrA Stacey G made Dec 14 at 2022 6:28 PM

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Christmas gift bags consisting of little brown bags full of beef jerky, sunflower seeds and boxer briefs... and feeling thrilled to receive them!

Response by PO3 Philip Arruda made Dec 14 at 2022 6:44 PM

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Knowing the meaning of pride, honor, and sacrifice. The many holidays that I sat on the USS Kitty Hawk (CV-63). Knowing that I and the many others aboard the ship had a duty to perform, whatever the holiday, Christmas, New Year, and Thanksgiving. As much as I would be missing my family, it was because what I was doing allowed them to sit together and enjoy each other without worry of war.

Response by LT Tim Flannery made Dec 14 at 2022 6:52 PM

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It didn’t matter if you celebrated Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, something else or nothing at all. We were all brothers and sisters united in mission and there was respect and well wishes for everyone as a result. The citizens could learn a lot from the military community.

Response by CW3 Christopher Burns made Dec 14 at 2022 6:52 PM

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One thing that most civilians will never know is: How good it feels to serve Christmas Dinner to your soldiers while deployed. This takes the Christmas spirit into high gear!

Response by PO3 Donna Tucker made Dec 14 at 2022 7:10 PM

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That warm, honest invites to lower enlisted personnel would be a blessing to someone who caught duty or lives so far, they can’t get home. Home cooked meals during the holidays is a blessing. However, if you can’t cook, buy them a gift.

Response by SGT Tommy Smith made Dec 14 at 2022 7:22 PM

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Ft. Bragg, NC.. Being on guard duty in the motor pool the night of Dec. 24th. It was a cold rain mixed with sleet and snow. Our CO's wife later showed up with hot soup and Christmas stockings for each of us. One of my personal memories of the true meaning of Christmas.

Response by SPC Anthony Bylewski made Dec 14 at 2022 7:25 PM

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Spending the holidays in a Walson Army Hospital ward recovering from injuries and ending up as a 100% T&P Disabled Vietnam Era Veteran.

Response by SP5 Richard Hatton made Dec 14 at 2022 7:31 PM

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The love for the men and women we served with.

Response by Cpl Dennis Wilarski made Dec 14 at 2022 7:49 PM

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Celebrating Christmas Dinner in the bush with a can of "C Rats".

Response by SSgt Adrian Sdano made Dec 14 at 2022 7:50 PM

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Enjoying the holidays, surrounded by family, is a privilege not a right. Don't take the chances you have to do so for granted. For while we enjoy our loved ones, service persons worldwide will be:

- standing watch
- supporting and/or in combat
- separated from family and friends

Thank you for your personal sacrifice to protect American freedom.

Response by A1C Lynn Parker made Dec 14 at 2022 7:53 PM

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One thing that only military people understand is being a multi-cultural, unity of diversified American citizens, voluntarily elected to serve and protect our fellow Americans from all others of intended alienization.

Response by Cpl Frank Birkemeier made Dec 14 at 2022 7:55 PM

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On fourth of July, eating steak and lobster in the chowhall overseas then being on a convoy a couple hours after that!

Response by SSG Ted Seal made Dec 14 at 2022 7:57 PM

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The one thing that I believe every member of the armed forces would agree on, is during the holidays you are physically separated from your immediate, and distant family members, producing memories, and sadness. Making deployment, be it in combat theater, or support services, it's simply you with the internal loneliness.

Response by SPC Dennis Michael made Dec 14 at 2022 8:06 PM

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Getting to be home with family during the holidays.

Response by SrA Kathleen Cuyler made Dec 14 at 2022 8:07 PM

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The value of friends and family

Response by SP6 Mary Ramirez made Dec 14 at 2022 8:16 PM

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Being away from your immediate family at Thanksgiving and Christmas when your children are 6,8, and 9 years old, during Desert Storm and Desert Shield.

Response by PO2 Catherine Bartlett made Dec 14 at 2022 8:22 PM

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Standing duty on Holidays, protecting our commands/ships

Response by SGT Steve Frank made Dec 14 at 2022 8:22 PM

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Spending Christmas in a foreign land, in a fox hole without your family.

Response by SGT Gary Bean made Dec 14 at 2022 8:23 PM

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fire guard duty.... listening for the reindeer

Response by SGT Robert Pine made Dec 14 at 2022 8:31 PM

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Celebrating Christmas in November because of being deployed during the actual Christmas time

Response by PO1 Willie Conaway made Dec 14 at 2022 8:34 PM

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Not being home for Christmas

Response by SP5 Don Becker made Dec 14 at 2022 8:37 PM

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The sadness of not being home with our family at Christmas :(

Response by SSgt Janine Wallace made Dec 14 at 2022 8:39 PM

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Family day/day off

Response by MAJ Victor Scott made Dec 14 at 2022 8:47 PM

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deployments

Response by HN Erika Courtney made Dec 14 at 2022 8:49 PM

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That I still regularly adopt random people and friends and bring them into my home or bring them home with me because I remember how many times I missed my family. I've been out for years now and I still bring home "strays" for the holidays..

Response by SPC Justine Blankenbeckler made Dec 14 at 2022 8:57 PM

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I remember when my husband was stationed at Ft. CAMPBELL, KY. He would come home home at night and tell me how the guys in the barracks were not going going home and we always celebrated Christmas. I asked him if he wanted to have some friend over, I love to cook and bake, and he said he would ask. So our place was not that big, but we borrowed a couple of chairs, and I bought a big ham, we had 3 soldiers over. They had such a Great time, watched football, I was so glad to see Happiness and them eat from the Buffett I put out. It warmed my heart that we could let others in to keep the loneliness away. They shared stories of their families. We played cards and games. I had such a good time too. I will never forget that Christmas. My husband came home one day shortly after Christmas and Handed me 3 cards. They were thank you cards from the soldiers telling me it was the Best Christmas they had in a long time and won't forget it. I won't either.

Response by SPC Brian Pritchard/Hall made Dec 14 at 2022 9:00 PM

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Spending the time with my brothers in arms on duty as an Military Police officer! Post Generals wife brought Christmas dinner to gate house MPs! Ft Polk 1981

Response by SP5 Mike Edmonds made Dec 14 at 2022 9:17 PM

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celebrating with a different family every year

Response by Capt Heather Brown made Dec 14 at 2022 9:18 PM

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There's no such thing as holidays.

Response by SPC Sean Neeld made Dec 14 at 2022 9:24 PM

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Living in the barracks and hoping your chow hall would be open instead of going to the little PX and getting a microwave burrito, Coke, and bag o'chips.

Response by PO3 Carvern James made Dec 14 at 2022 9:26 PM

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It's a lonely time being away from family. You have to be strong and put on a brave face so the hurt does not affect your family. Understand in your heart that the sacrifice you are making is so they will be safe and can enjoy the holidays in peace.0

Response by CPL Jack Obrien made Dec 14 at 2022 9:32 PM

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The true feeling of joy and the Christmas spirit being able to spend the holidays with loved ones. Even for a short time

Response by PO2 Otis Salmo made Dec 14 at 2022 9:37 PM

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how lonely it can be

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 14 at 2022 9:41 PM

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Decorating an MRAP with garland and having ‘Santa and his elves’ show up with care packages from home. ❤️

Response by PVT Anthony Figueroa made Dec 14 at 2022 9:45 PM

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that you used your leave days proprly through the year and you saved some for the holidays

Response by PO1 Paul Sturgeon made Dec 14 at 2022 9:47 PM

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An American, Philippino, Portarican, Japanese, southern, Mexican and Hawaiian Christmas potluck.

Response by SGT Talma Brown made Dec 14 at 2022 9:51 PM

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When I was on active duty in the 1980's (before the internet), the military services would allow us to send video greetings to our families in our 'hometown'. The video would then be sent to the local TV stations and shown during the Christmas season.

Response by CPO Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 14 at 2022 10:20 PM

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Holiday for some, routine for others.

Response by PO3 Brannyn Fitch made Dec 14 at 2022 10:23 PM

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Buoy Deck Snowmen in PPE.

Response by PO3 Brannyn Fitch made Dec 14 at 2022 10:31 PM

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Buoy Deck Snowmen in PPE.

Response by COL Tom Monahan made Dec 14 at 2022 10:36 PM

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Certainly the separation from family and loved ones we experienced during deployments. Plus, no adult beverages when we were in Kuwait.

Response by SP5 Samuel Hefty made Dec 14 at 2022 10:44 PM

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It really is the little things that count, and for that one day, anywhere in the world, your still with your family right beside you.

Response by PFC Carlos Cabanas made Dec 14 at 2022 10:59 PM

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Bringing a soldier from the barracks to base housing for Thanksgiving and Christmas. Sharing your home and holidays with a stranger, who becomes a friend.

Response by Tanya Alexander made Dec 14 at 2022 11:08 PM

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That you might not celebrate it on the day it happens example being Christmas is next week but your spouse is TDY o. A deployment and won’t be home until February so you let the kids open the gifts from Santa but the ones from you all when your spouse gets home. Or you bring home a military member who isn’t going home for the holidays and let them be part of your celebration. And your friends become family so when your far away from home and not able to celebrate you always have a built in family everywhere you go.

Response by SMSgt Ernest Liberati made Dec 14 at 2022 11:09 PM

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The importance of sharing precious time with family.

Response by Capt Sylvia DeBorger made Dec 14 at 2022 11:14 PM

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That you don't always get the leave you request so that you can go home for the holidays

Response by Capt Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 14 at 2022 11:16 PM

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Some of us Marine grunts spent Christmas on patrol in the Que Sohn Mountains south of Danang. The monsoon made the patrols somewhat interesting, and there were obviously many other higher priorities than the Holiday. But on Christmas day, the sun came out and about noon, Santa arrived in a Huey at our position on Hill 510, bringing turkey and all the trimmings. The food was cold, but it did not matter. The Marine Corps gave us a very memorable and delicious turkey dinner that I would guess none of us have forgotten!

Response by SPC Clyde Gilbert made Dec 14 at 2022 11:22 PM

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Being home

Response by SSgt Janine Wallace made Dec 14 at 2022 11:23 PM

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DFAC Holiday Food! :-)

Response by Sgt Dave VonAllmen made Dec 14 at 2022 11:27 PM

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Being away from home during the holidays. For me it was just part of the job and we all expected it. That didn't mean we didn't miss everybody back home, but it was just what we had to do. I think my Mom took it the hardest, my Dad was a WWII vet so he understood and my brother and Brother in law were both Viet Vet so they all went through it too and we all understood. For me I left on Dec 7 72 and came home Jan 7 74 so my timing really sucked. We all did "Christmas" in the barracks and then went to our jobs like it was another day. Those that got Christmas boxes full of cookies and goodies shared with everybody and we all made sure we had each others back and nobody was feeling to down. It was one of those days that we all kind of hung out together without really meaning to.

Response by Cpl Z Weiss made Dec 14 at 2022 11:34 PM

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Feeling the panic when I’m cutting it close to being 15 minutes early!!

Response by SSgt Deana Bagesse made Dec 14 at 2022 11:38 PM

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How it feels to spend Christmas without family due to deployment.

Response by SGT Ralph Cloer made Dec 14 at 2022 11:53 PM

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Unwavering commitment!

Response by SSgt Zachary Miller made Dec 14 at 2022 11:58 PM

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Skeleton crews and cutbacks

Response by PO3 April McCart made Dec 15 at 2022 12:05 AM

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Being aline, separated from your lived ones.

Response by SPC John Webber made Dec 15 at 2022 1:15 AM

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Being away from family makes you appreciate the closeness of being with them when you can.

Response by SrA Rhonda Colling made Dec 15 at 2022 1:19 AM

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You may not be home for the holidays. You may not get to spend Christmas with your family, but the job comes first. It's the sense of duty and camaraderie that brings the spirit of Christmas in those times right there, shining bright. It's felt by all.

Response by SSG Hannah Williamson made Dec 15 at 2022 1:26 AM

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In hindsight I should have just volunteered for flag duty

Response by SPC Laurie Plant made Dec 15 at 2022 1:53 AM

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Not being home on holidays.

Response by SPC Robert Michael Nelson made Dec 15 at 2022 2:20 AM

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one thing from the holidays that only people in the military would understand is, that you might get something special to eat during the day but you will still be working come night.

Response by SSG Ida Tomlinson made Dec 15 at 2022 2:41 AM

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The importance of spending time with family during Christmas

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 15 at 2022 2:50 AM

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A letter or packet from home

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 15 at 2022 2:51 AM

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A letter of or package from home

Response by SGT Michael Brand made Dec 15 at 2022 3:14 AM

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You have to get used to spending holidays away from home & family.

Response by SGT Jonathan Ewell made Dec 15 at 2022 3:22 AM

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The temporary ceasefire between two or more fighting nations. At least it happened in past wars

Response by MSgt Leon Laborn made Dec 15 at 2022 3:39 AM

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Only military will understand the pain of being separated from family during the Holidays especially when there's very young kids.

Response by SGT Joe Stockman made Dec 15 at 2022 3:47 AM

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I was deployed with a guy named Bobby one Christmas and we received some random care packages from a random church and inside there were some jars of Pickled Pigs Feet...to see the joy on his face over some Pickled Pigs Feet jars was priceless and to this day I can't see a Christmas present and not think of those Pickled Pigs Feet.

Response by SGT Anthony Silveira made Dec 15 at 2022 4:34 AM

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Being away from your loved ones.

Response by SPC Ron Rigdon made Dec 15 at 2022 4:58 AM

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After spending only a few Christmases away from home, it made me re-evaluate the importance of family in a positive manner. However, not a Christmas goes by that I don't experience that feeling while deployed, even when surrounded by my family. I just get on my knees and thank God for seeing me home safe and allowing me to be closer to my loved ones. And thank God for seeing my many brother and sisters in arms home safely to their families as well. Plus pray for the families who lost someone, especially during the holidays when families gather.

Response by SPC Mark Springer made Dec 15 at 2022 5:50 AM

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We are solders 24 hours 365 days a year

Response by SPC Sara Moraux made Dec 15 at 2022 5:57 AM

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Skype Christmas with your kids

Response by SP5 Jeff Davis made Dec 15 at 2022 6:09 AM

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Duty comes first, you are protecting your fellow citizen. The enemy might take a page from President Washington and attack on Christmas Day.

Response by SrA Chris Porter made Dec 15 at 2022 6:09 AM

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Reaching out to fellow co-workers and offering a place at the table. We all know what it means to be away from family. We all know how it feels to feel alone. No one should be alone during the holidays and when you're in the military you never have to be. There is always a place at someone's table.

Response by LCpl Jeffrey McNally made Dec 15 at 2022 6:53 AM

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being away from family and being lonely

Response by SCPO Jack Carlsen made Dec 15 at 2022 7:04 AM

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The one thing is the moments of feelings of loneliness you get as the holidays approach missing your family wondering what they will be experiencing with out you there and the sense of family you only get from being with your unit through the holidays. Somehow it works, everyone comes together and we make the best of it no matter where or what crap hole your in. Usually, for me at least, it was the meals (No matter how bad they may have been..it wasn't Moms cooking that's for sure.) sitting together with my brothers and sisters in arms. Stories and laughter seemed to make the best of the situation.

Response by CSM Ed Hepler made Dec 15 at 2022 7:10 AM

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Just how precious time with family really is...especially around this time of the year.

Response by MAJ Russell Sanderson made Dec 15 at 2022 7:11 AM

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The dramatic impact on individual and unit morale and cohesiveness following a Bob Hope Vietnam Tour. What a PATRIOT...and a Godsend!

Response by FN Edward Doty-Pomoransky made Dec 15 at 2022 7:23 AM

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How much regular letters and care packages are important

Response by SP5 Thomas Eckelbarger made Dec 15 at 2022 7:24 AM

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We understand what its like to spend the Holidays away from our family's

Response by Cpl Dennis Lehman made Dec 15 at 2022 7:36 AM

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The pleasure and frustration experience while wrapping gifts.

Response by HN Elizabeth Repass made Dec 15 at 2022 7:38 AM

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No matter where you are stationed during the holidays, you always have a family to share your spirit with. It is a wonderful feeling of comfort and peace. I connect back to it every year and it warms me.

Response by PO3 Cynthia Jackson made Dec 15 at 2022 7:42 AM

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USO Christmas Shows.. RIP Loretta Lynn!

Response by SGT Cynthia Foote made Dec 15 at 2022 7:51 AM

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Care packages

Response by CPL Desiree Day made Dec 15 at 2022 8:07 AM

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The individuals are you in the military with are your family. Everyone rallying together to celebrate the holidays in the barracks. The best way you know how.

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 15 at 2022 8:13 AM

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How to accept being separated from your loved ones during the holidays.

Response by A1C Charles Callahan made Dec 15 at 2022 8:18 AM

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Being in an active war zone during Christmas makes you appreciate every time at home with family around you.

Response by 1LT Michael Townes made Dec 15 at 2022 8:28 AM

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They don't understand the deep loneliness a service member can feel during a holiday without family, even though they are surrounded by people they see every day. In addition, there can be a sense of dread in looking toward the holiday without family.

Response by SrA Janie Jones made Dec 15 at 2022 8:37 AM

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THAT BEING AWAY FROM FAMILY DURING THE HOLIDAYS MAY BE NECESSARY TO COMPLETE THE MISSION.

Response by SSgt Rita Cardona-Fink made Dec 15 at 2022 8:38 AM

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There is the family that God gave you - and there is the family that you gather to yourself during your service. Over the holidays, you are grateful to both sets of family and enjoy spending the time together. If we can merge the two sets over the holidays, our lives are truly blessed.

Response by SGT Edward Murie made Dec 15 at 2022 9:02 AM

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you have a duty to perform and it could take you away for months or even years to get the duty done and people have to understand that it is to protect our country and serve our country and that we are proud to perform what we have to do and feel safe about it. I was a infratry man in vietnam and I had to only keep my mind on what we was there for orther wise I would not have made it back to the states, and I sure didn't want to end up as a casulity there. It was tough but I made it , and I was proud to serve and support our country.

Response by SSgt William B Sawyer made Dec 15 at 2022 9:02 AM

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Being away and deployed during the holidays only Veterans realize missing being with loved ones is a significant part of being in the military especially during the holidays.

Response by SPC Lisa Pointe made Dec 15 at 2022 9:04 AM

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Wearing BDU’s to the Christmas party so you can get a ride in the helicopter

Response by SFC Marvin Head made Dec 15 at 2022 9:06 AM

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Separation from families and the comfort of our Army families.

Response by MSG Carlos Ruiz made Dec 15 at 2022 9:10 AM

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Family and spending time with love ones

Response by Amn Cynthia Scott made Dec 15 at 2022 9:39 AM

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Being able to be home for the holidays and receiving mail from loved ones.

Response by SGT Eugene Stribling made Dec 15 at 2022 9:50 AM

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that the holidays unight them to be real people for the usa to defind it and trust in god

Response by Sgt Vito Mazzaro made Dec 15 at 2022 9:54 AM

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The love of family. Being away from family during the holiday makes your appreciation of loved ones. Your lose of freedom to come and go buying presents and then watching their faces as they open your presents is worth a million dollars. It’s like you lost a it of your life

Response by SSG Archie Martinez made Dec 15 at 2022 9:59 AM

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During the holidays people in the military bond greater than ever. While in the Army I recall the saying "we all bleed green" and do sincerely believe it to this day. I bonded with so many cultures and it has molded me as a person today.

Response by Lt Col Kim Haney made Dec 15 at 2022 10:05 AM

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Being separated from the last people on earth you want to be separated from.

Response by 1LT Michael Maertzweiler made Dec 15 at 2022 10:09 AM

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The gift of family who cares for you (us).

Response by COL Mike Burns made Dec 15 at 2022 10:12 AM

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How precious Family and friends are. I believe "non military" people take both of those fro granted while we don't because life can be a fleeting moment.

Response by WO1 Michael Shackley made Dec 15 at 2022 10:30 AM

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The true value of being with family during the holidays. Christmas 1969 for me was in Cam Ranh Bay Vietnam.

Response by PVT Robert Faulkner made Dec 15 at 2022 10:37 AM

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Many veterans suffer from the effects of PTSD. Many civilians don't understand that a person who suffers from this can be highly sensitive to loud sounds and many people talking at once. They may not be able to embrace a celebration with others as their thoughts may be haunted by memories of the past. This doesn't mean they're being a Scrooge,. One who is tempted to judge may never know how difficult controlling PTSD symptoms can be for a veteran.

Response by Sgt Joseph Adler made Dec 15 at 2022 10:41 AM

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sacrifice, spent my daughters first xmas in the middle of persian gulf

Response by PO2 Shelly Johnson made Dec 15 at 2022 10:56 AM

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That every day you are alive after being in country is a holiday

Response by CPT Frankie Oxendine made Dec 15 at 2022 10:59 AM

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Holiday meal served by Command Staff to the troops. This was always a treat to have the 'head shed' serving meals to the troops and interacting. I value those memories!

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 15 at 2022 11:00 AM

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Spending Christmas as the Battalion Staff Duty Officer. Then having a bunch of people from the BOQ show up with Christmas dinner for you and everyone else in the office. And the food is as good as their wishes for the Holiday season.

Response by SPC Michael Pogue made Dec 15 at 2022 11:25 AM

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The one this is Honor

Response by FA Robert Ashmore made Dec 15 at 2022 11:25 AM

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Waking up Christmas morning on my bunk in B-Div aboard USS Biddle CG-34, Hearing "I'll be home for Christmas, If only in my dreams" on the radio.

Response by PO2 Stephen Bonelli made Dec 15 at 2022 11:30 AM

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Missing loved ones and special celebrations with Thanksgiving family dinner, helping with Christmas decorations, and seeing all your family on Christmas day to open gifts. These times of being away from family will never be enjoyed by me.

Response by MSgt James Parker made Dec 15 at 2022 11:44 AM

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For most of us we grew up spending holidays with our blood family immediate and extended at times. Once we swear the oath we are from then on able to celebrate the holidays with our chosen family. I was stationed at Camp Lejeune for seven years and never once was I in the State of North Carolina in the months of December or January, I have no idea if it snows In Carolina during the winter, all of those years I spent with chosen family my brothers and sisters in far off lands. In the end as military members we understand what we have and how precious our time is. Even now not a holiday goes by that we don’t reach out to both sides of our family.

Response by PO2 Dawn Bykowski made Dec 15 at 2022 12:16 PM

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Having Christmas at Easter, because you were single and considered essential personnel, so you got to take the watch so the married essential personnel could be with their families for Christmas.

Response by HN Linda Sheffield made Dec 15 at 2022 12:29 PM

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Waking up at 5am... Regardless of being off of work on Christmas day! :) Eating soup directly from the can.

Response by SP5 Kathleen Barton made Dec 15 at 2022 12:33 PM

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Military personnel understand the dedication, loyalty, and honor necessary to serve their country. However, loneliness during the holiday season is at its highest. Memories of beloved family and friends flood our hearts.

Please remember veterans and our current military service members by offering them a simple smile, a comforting word, and an expression of gratitude and appreciation for everything that they have done to safeguard our nation and her people.

Army Veteran
Kathleen Pottkotter
Former Army Medic 1974-1977
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Response by SP5 Chavtz Seals made Dec 15 at 2022 12:39 PM

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What only military people can understand from the holidays is your absence from your family and friends because you are on a wall in a far distance land guarding against foreign aggression.

Response by Sgt Kathy Barbour made Dec 15 at 2022 12:47 PM

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Either not being home at all for Christmas or like me, having to work Christmas and all other holidays.

Response by Cpl Chioke Bush made Dec 15 at 2022 12:59 PM

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How the most important thing about the holidays is not gifts or good foods. There is no value that can be placed on being in the presence of loved ones and family

Response by Cpl Chioke Bush made Dec 15 at 2022 12:59 PM

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How the most important thing about the holidays is not gifts or good foods. There is no value that can be placed on being in the presence of loved ones and family

Response by Capt John Lippert made Dec 15 at 2022 1:10 PM

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Our country's enemies never take a season off. So we must be ready to respond anytime we are called on by our country even if it is in the Holiday season. We served so we all could be protected in all times of the year. We in the military are the best " neighbors" Americans can ever have. We are there for others.

Response by SrA Kenyatta Grays made Dec 15 at 2022 1:18 PM

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The real significance and value of devotion and family.

Response by SGT Justin Fielder made Dec 15 at 2022 1:21 PM

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Being away from family during the holidays and unable to enjoy the company of their family while deployed or overseas serving their country. But there are special moments of surprising those family members for the holidays too.

Response by Capt Kenneth Salamon made Dec 15 at 2022 2:34 PM

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As a First Lieutenant in Vietnam I can remember eating a cold can of C-Ration ham and lima beans while being pinned down by intermittent fire on Christmas Day and thinking to myself how much it was like Christmas, being surrounded by 'family' (my fellow Marines); having my health (after more than 6 months in country); Praying; and appreciating all the blessings I had received throughout my life up to that point. It had more meaning than other Christmas's spent around a turkey dinner table with family since it actually forced you to see blessings and appreciation in the moment. I doubt that most people in routine peaceful Christmas settings ever stop to think about those blessings.

Response by LCpl Charles Kramer made Dec 15 at 2022 2:52 PM

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Upon us is the season in which all perenially hope and pray for Peace on Earth, Goodwill toward Men. Those of us with military service past and present know well that while prayers are offerd to a higher power, it is the men and women of the United States Armed Forces - Army, Navy, Marines, Air Force, Space Force and Coast Guard - who not only hope for a fullfillment of those dreams but are the Earth's best human hope of making them come true.

Semper Fi,

Charles D. Kramer
USMC
Vietnam 1967 -68

Response by PO1 Samantha Payne made Dec 15 at 2022 3:09 PM

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Celebrating the holidays months early or late and leaving the Christmas tree up for months after Christmas so that the kids can have Christmas with deployed parents upon their return.

Response by Sgt Harry Franz made Dec 15 at 2022 3:14 PM

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Only military people would understand what it's like to be in a combat zone during the holidays.

Response by PO2 Reginald A. made Dec 15 at 2022 3:16 PM

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Steal beach Christmas!

Response by PFC Bruce Bowers made Dec 15 at 2022 4:03 PM

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Mail from home and the TET Offensive

Response by TSgt Richard Elwell made Dec 15 at 2022 4:04 PM

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Being alone and a continent away from your loved ones during the holidays!

Response by PO1 Martin Glade made Dec 15 at 2022 4:08 PM

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The feeling of being disconnected and loneliness

Response by SP5 Kelly Fischer made Dec 15 at 2022 4:20 PM

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The separation from your family

Response by A1C Brian Gibson made Dec 15 at 2022 4:40 PM

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Commradarie

Response by CPO Walter Torres made Dec 15 at 2022 5:30 PM

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Duty.

Response by PO3 Tyrone m. Pope made Dec 15 at 2022 5:58 PM

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Not being with family.

Response by PO1 Anthony Owens made Dec 15 at 2022 6:34 PM

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"EVERYDAY IS A HOLIDAY WHEN I WAKE UP, BECAUSE I SEE THE RED, THE WHITE AND THE BLUE"

Response by CAPT Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 15 at 2022 7:13 PM

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I remember having our ship pull into Perth Australia for Christmas and I was with my liberty buddies and we did a white elephant gift exchange and hung out poolside. My sister made an expensive call to check on me and I was doing fine with my liberty buddies. She was having a stress-filled holiday season at her in-laws! Sometimes being on deployment with good shipmates is easier than being at home!

Response by SR Barry Williams made Dec 15 at 2022 7:13 PM

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The next best thing to bring home is being with your unit for the holidays.

Response by Cpl Dennis Brasier made Dec 15 at 2022 7:36 PM

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The separation from family. We have our military family to spend time with but the family back home when we are away from home is what people who aren't in don't fully understand.

Response by SrA Priscilla Gober made Dec 15 at 2022 8:13 PM

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Vacations/Holidays are always used for coming home and visiting family.

Response by CPL Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 15 at 2022 8:27 PM

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a phone call home to their loved one,s

Response by Amn Douglas St. Clair made Dec 16 at 2022 2:20 AM

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Loneliness

Response by MSgt Bruce Ray made Dec 16 at 2022 4:50 AM

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Especially for those that were assigned overseas, family is more than blood relatives, it's the ones that you share core values with. I'm retired and almost 70, and I have family all over this country because of the times we shared with them when we couldn't be "home".

Response by SSgt Ruben Rivera made Dec 16 at 2022 8:04 AM

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That family for the holidays can be whoever is to your left or right, regardless of where they’re from, what they look like, and what they believe if you choose so.

Response by PO1 Brianna Lane made Dec 16 at 2022 9:01 AM

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Told to decorate the office door for moral. Decorate door.
Told to take it off because it distracts shipmates from the mission and makes them loose their sense of urgency.
Resolution.
Decorate a human.

Response by PV2 Eric Harris made Dec 16 at 2022 1:02 PM

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Being away from family can be experienced by anyone. But spending the holidays with YOUR VETERAN FAMILY can help you find a certain peace and sense of togetherness that's right there with family holiday events. Spending the holidays with my brothers and sisters in arms wasn't what I was used to, but it wasn't any less special or loving. I believe that not being with your blood family during the holidays can be uncomfortable, but only ppl in the military understand the importance of having that 2nd family so we don't feel alone or isolated.

Response by SPC Rick Price made Dec 16 at 2022 10:34 PM

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Not being home

Response by TSgt Ken Vandevoort made Dec 17 at 2022 12:25 AM

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Missing Christmas at home four years in a row. Volunteering to work shift on Christmas day so married co-workers can be with their families. Most interesting experience was stepping out of the building at night at our site in Turkey on Christmas eve and hearing sheep out in the field surrounding us. Expected to see the sky full of angels at any moment.

Response by CPO Noel Switzer made Dec 17 at 2022 2:00 PM

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The reaction I felt and shared with a Salvation Army care package while serving in the Republic of South Viet Nam . A complete surprise and a card to mention to other brothers serving with me as a Christmas present , no strings attached and items all of us could use. It was waiting for me at the Ton San Nute, Christmas 1967. I was so touched by this unexpected gift and the chance to share same with our Sound boat crew in the Mekong Delta. God is good All the time !
V/R Noel M. Switzer
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Response by PO1 Jeffrey Maddrey made Dec 18 at 2022 7:37 PM

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Separation

Response by HN Max Flores made Dec 19 at 2022 9:14 AM

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Standing on that Wall to protect everyone's right to celebrate the Holidays, while missing the opportunity to be able to celebrate with family and friends the Holidays!!

Response by Cpl N Murphy made Dec 19 at 2022 9:48 AM

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Holidays are seen as a problem that needs to be managed by higher ups. They generally allow you to go home (although leave us always considered a privilege and not a right) but they make you jump through an exhausting amount of hoops to get the approval to leave and make sure to keep you at work as long as possible the day before. They hate to give up that control of knowing you're in the general vicinity. They also threaten to take holiday leave away weeks beforehand. Holidays can be more stressful and nearly impossible to plan (plane tickets, family gatherings) because of the threats to take it away, it's almost more work/frustration than it's worth going home. When you are home, you can't relax and are worried something will happen to your vehicle/ bad weather for flight and you'll be in trouble for getting back late. But if you do stay in the barracks, it's miserable and sad, most everyone that stays basically drinks the whole time and you wish you had gone home but now it's too late.

Response by PO2 Paul Dennert made Dec 19 at 2022 12:03 PM

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A one hour phone call from Hong Kong to the U.S. on Christmas Eve that cost $158.75!

Response by SSG Gretchen Blair made Dec 20 at 2022 8:58 AM

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Separation from family

Response by Sgt Ivan Boatwright made Dec 20 at 2022 9:43 AM

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I spent three Christmasses in Vietnam. I miss the time with the people there because Christmas had a totally different meaning there.

Response by TSgt Douglas Greenwood made Dec 20 at 2022 9:56 AM

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Broken cookies from mom

Response by CPL Sharon Fahey made Dec 20 at 2022 10:48 AM

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That there's things more important in life without all the distractions.

Response by SP5 Donna Barr made Dec 20 at 2022 11:43 AM

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That we're more whiny than anybody else about our own life choices? What? None of us are draftees.

Response by Cpl Craig Howard made Dec 20 at 2022 12:50 PM

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Being both deployed and on duty on a major holiday. I spent Christmas 1990 in Subic Bay and on Flight Deck Watch. My son was only 11 months old, and I was not there for it.

Response by SPC John Tsutsui made Dec 20 at 2022 1:22 PM

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I spent two holiday seasons overseas. The close bonds with your new family helps fill the void of not being home but not completely. We do make Brothers and Sisters for life! Merry Christmas to you all.

Response by TSgt Andrew Harper made Dec 20 at 2022 4:41 PM

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Christmas in July.

Response by MSG David Lambert made Dec 20 at 2022 4:45 PM

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Having MRE’s for holiday meals! And spending Christmas Eve deployed to countries that don’t celebrate Christmas Season.

Response by SFC Ronald Moore made Dec 20 at 2022 4:54 PM

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Nice decorations?

Response by SSgt Kelly D. made Dec 20 at 2022 6:53 PM

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Missing family when overseas and can’t go home.

Response by SGT Doug Blanchard made Dec 20 at 2022 10:27 PM

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Being away from family and loved ones during the holidays. There were several years fellow NCO's would have duty, since I was single at the time, I would take their duty for them so they could spend it with their family.

Response by SSgt George Dunham made Dec 21 at 2022 1:06 AM

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How hard the cooks worked to provide a home cooked meal with all the trimmings while you are stationed away from home. As a 19 year old Airman in Vietnam I experienced this Thanksgiving and Christmas of 1968 with plenty of Turkey and Ham.

Thank you and appreciation from over 50 years ago - still memorable.

Response by PFC Tiffany Sparks made Dec 21 at 2022 10:23 AM

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Not being able to see your family during any holidays

Response by SPC Rick Price made Dec 21 at 2022 11:17 AM

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On deployment, some officer in a santa suit (super corny) and the chow hall offering steak and lobster for dinner

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 21 at 2022 1:50 PM

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Freezing one's butt off during a stand-to Christmas morning in [add your place here].

Response by Lt Col Greg Meiers made Dec 21 at 2022 5:52 PM

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missing the family while on remote duty

Response by SGT LaTeisha Williams made Dec 21 at 2022 5:55 PM

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The truth behind the quote that “blood makes you related, loyalty makes you family”. In the military so many people from all over the world and different backgrounds become family. During the holidays the loyalty to your military family really speak volumes. I love my military family!

Response by PO2 Sherri Damon made Dec 21 at 2022 5:58 PM

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The sacrifices of their spouses and children waiting ffor their servicemembers who are overseas and/or at war for months and years at a time.

Response by Gloria Euland made Dec 21 at 2022 6:00 PM

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Being at home with your family for Christmas.

Response by SGT Vladimir Gordionok made Dec 21 at 2022 6:02 PM

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Good meal

Response by A1C Tony Preston made Dec 21 at 2022 6:16 PM

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"Home for the Holidays" is something our military find it difficult to voice. We are more conditioned to identifying with "Away From Home for the Holidays". It's what we are all too familiar with. To afford others to be Home for the Holidays, our military members maintain their posts, watching, protecting and defending. This away time often processed stressors and created ad-hoc military environments and extended families to created that "Home for the holidays" feeling. Yes, I can attest that the men and women that defend America are all too familiar with "Away From Home for The Holidays."

Response by A1C Hermogenes Rojas made Dec 21 at 2022 6:17 PM

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The sensation of loss and strange people around you

Response by PO2 Kenneth Bangert made Dec 21 at 2022 6:24 PM

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Letters from school children back home. Some were funny, some tugged at the heart strings, and some were filled with appreciation. All of these letters reminded us of the future generations we were out there defending and that we had a nation at our back with support and love.

Response by LTC Eric Heffner made Dec 21 at 2022 6:29 PM

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Being away from home over the holidays multiple years.

Response by LTC Casey Cox made Dec 21 at 2022 6:33 PM

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I remember my first holiday season away from home at Fort Hood. Hearing Christmas Carols made me miss home in a whole new way.

Response by PO2 Joshua Kost made Dec 21 at 2022 6:42 PM

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Part of the sacrifice military personnel endure is the expectation to be gone for multiple holidays, birthdays, anniversaries, funerals, etc. The civilian world generally thinks of the sacrifices that military personnel make are of life and limb, but there are so many more sacrifices we have made to protect this great nation

Response by Lt Col Walt Wise made Dec 21 at 2022 6:45 PM

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Being away from the family.

Response by Lt Col Walt Wise made Dec 21 at 2022 6:45 PM

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Being away from the family. Seems I was always gone on Christmas, Thanksgiving, birthdays, anniversary and many holidays.

Response by SPC Marcus Riles made Dec 21 at 2022 6:54 PM

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Arriving in afghan on Christmas Day

Response by SPC Mikel Daves made Dec 21 at 2022 6:56 PM

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The one thing would be as I see it, the fact of never having a holiday season. You are on the clock 100% of the time.

Response by Barbara Sekerak made Dec 21 at 2022 6:57 PM

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Being away from home. No leave available. Christmas was postponed until the service member was able to get home.

Response by PFC James Smith made Dec 21 at 2022 6:57 PM

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Crappy food and mandatory dinners on the holidays.

Response by SPC Mike Doobie made Dec 21 at 2022 6:57 PM

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A moments peace and quiet.

Response by TSgt Matthew Hanley made Dec 21 at 2022 6:58 PM

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Voluntarily sacrificing being with their families, while remaining ready to defend this country at a moments notice!

Response by CPO Steven Fifield made Dec 21 at 2022 6:58 PM

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Family separation during the holidays.

Response by SPC Kentwan Love made Dec 21 at 2022 6:58 PM

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Missing their families

Response by SFC Robert Funke made Dec 21 at 2022 7:00 PM

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The knowledge that most of us realize that there are families of servicemembers that cannot be with their loved ones due to deployment or death while performing or have performed their service to the nation. I still mourn those who gave their all; some were the best men and women I have ever met or will ever meet.

Response by Capt Dale Weir made Dec 21 at 2022 7:02 PM

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When you gift on your small artificial Christmas tree and it's decorations to the person who replaces you on a remote, because you know that's the only way they'll have a tree for Christmas.

Response by Capt Robert Thompson made Dec 21 at 2022 7:04 PM

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I spent one Thanksgiving and Christmas, in the dessart of Saudia Arabia, and unless you were in the military, most will never understand how it feel to be in God forsaken place away from home, but being over there with your military buddies helps, but it is NOT the same being at home with your wife and kids.

Response by SSG Corey Duff made Dec 21 at 2022 7:04 PM

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Foregoing block leave and receiving the gift of mutliple staff duty shifts

Response by PO3 Bobby Quisenberry made Dec 21 at 2022 7:05 PM

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That if you are a woman, and you are single, that you will have to stand duty on every holiday. Holidays meant so much to my wife before entering the Navy. Even in the Church where she was going to on active duty, all the guys there on active duty stationed there got invited to people's homes for the occasions, but not her, the only woman there on active duty. My wife spent 10 years on active duty and got out to take care of her mother who had debilitating back problems. We got married 2 years later and I found that she was very depressed over the holiday seasons for many years because of her being made to stand duty on every holiday the whole time she was in. It was almost like PTSD and maybe it was. Nothing you did could cheer her up or get her out of the holiday depression. Thankfully the last few years have been better, after 26 years of marriage, and thoughts of suicide have passed, but this year the depression returned when she filed for compensation and had to dredge so much bad stuff up again that had happened to her and around her like this, seeing someone get killed, and being in a movie theater when someone started shooting. Perhaps it will get better in the future again after this. Professional counseling didn't help, and she only opens up to me and I to her. I try to make every holiday very special for her. Send a prayer up for her!

Response by MSgt Grant Davison made Dec 21 at 2022 7:06 PM

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Santa in a harness sitting on the tailgate of a C-130 doing a low fly by.

Response by SN Mary Garrett made Dec 21 at 2022 7:08 PM

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peace

Response by Cpl James Meadon made Dec 21 at 2022 7:13 PM

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Home for holidays

Response by Sgt Larry Stroebl made Dec 21 at 2022 7:14 PM

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They are alone from their families. But, they are not alone being with their comrades in the military.

Response by SSG Aaron Fletcher made Dec 21 at 2022 7:16 PM

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Being home with there family.

Response by CPL Deborah Gormley made Dec 21 at 2022 7:18 PM

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Day on day off

Response by SSG Aaron Fletcher made Dec 21 at 2022 7:20 PM

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loneliness

Response by SPC Rhonda Godlewski-Reese made Dec 21 at 2022 7:23 PM

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Posting 24 hour duty on Christmas Day

Response by PO3 Natasha G made Dec 21 at 2022 7:23 PM

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Im not sure if civilians experience something like this but, knowing you'll only be able to see your loved ones for about a week in a 4+ month period. The constant dread of going on deployment as soon as New Year's is over. It robs you of the ability to actually enjoy the time with them. You're already preparing yourself for being underway. Some of us don't even get that much, being deployed during the holidays, missing major events like the birth of their child, trying to feel present with your family while you're mentally stuck on the job.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 21 at 2022 7:26 PM

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Volunteering for deployments over the holidays; so the people with family's are able to spend that time with them.

Response by COL John Frederick made Dec 21 at 2022 7:26 PM

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Only people in the military would understand why their commanding officer and sergeant major would dress as Santa on Christmas and visit all the downrange sites. Snipers, IEDs, and thin-skinned vehicles didn't stop them. They looked ridiculous and the suits were of poor quality and didn't fit their athletic frames. These were the guys who handed out Article 15s for indiscipline, who made us clear our weapons three times to make sure we didn't pop one in the barrel, who would finish their run and come back to make sure everyone made it over the line in time. It made no sense and we had no reason to expect Santa would show up on site within observation of a vicious enemy. But they did it. What no one but those of us who were there really understands is that we loved them for it, knew they loved us, and that tomorrow they'd be the same team that kept us all alive and brought us home.

Response by Cpl Michael Bubacz made Dec 21 at 2022 7:27 PM

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Being on guard duty at midnight 10PM to 2AM Christmas Eve in Viet Nam at 18 years old and never been away from home before. At 70 years old now I will never forget that loneliness that night and looking at the stars wondering if they see the stars I was looking at. Thinking of Christmas Eve dinner at Grandmas and going to midnight mass with my friends, never happened again with the same innocence.

Response by LTC Carol J DeCambra made Dec 21 at 2022 7:31 PM

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Being separated from family for long periods of time; missing significant events (births, birthdays, deaths, graduations, etc); missing special holidays; depression; relationships and things of similar experiences.

Response by TSgt Ken Vandevoort made Dec 21 at 2022 7:39 PM

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Why it is hard sometimes to hear Bing Crosby sing " I'll Be Home For Christmas".

Response by CPL Dwayne Johnson made Dec 21 at 2022 7:39 PM

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The sacrifice from.beimg away from.Love one due to the service and commitment to protecting our way of life and the freedoms afforded to us based on our constitution

Response by COL Deborah Nelson made Dec 21 at 2022 7:39 PM

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What it is like to stand guard in a foreign country on Christmas Eve…..this night will never be the same for me thinking of all the men and women who are on duty that night while the rest of their unit celebrates the holiday.

Response by SSgt Jerry Cignoli made Dec 21 at 2022 7:40 PM

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Being assigned away from family and loved ones over the holidays really sucks!!

Response by PFC Jerome Barker made Dec 21 at 2022 7:40 PM

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Not being able to be with loved ones during holidays is replaced with the honor of protecting them
to insure that they will always be safe from harm...

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 21 at 2022 7:43 PM

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Making a video saying hello to family from an OCONUS base to be shown on local tv

Response by Maj Stephen Hepner made Dec 21 at 2022 7:47 PM

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The importance of being with family. On call 24/7 does not exempt holidays. Do not take for granted the importance of having family together especially on holidays.

Response by Valerie Del Vecchio made Dec 21 at 2022 7:48 PM

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Missing loved ones ( immediate family) and cherishing every minute you have with them.

Response by SrA Bob Farthing made Dec 21 at 2022 7:50 PM

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I think the religious services that was held on CHRISTMAS DAY at my first duty station in Dover, Delaware was something that people don't think about other than us VETERANS serving away from our home during the HOLIDAYS.

Response by A1C Verlyn Westgate made Dec 21 at 2022 7:50 PM

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Being on an isolated Radio Relay site with Albo, my sentry dog as the total security, for a site of 14-16 Radio guys on a mountain we climbed on foot for Christmas 1953 was not pleasant, but the final result for the South Koreans was worth it all...

Response by SGT Jennifer Tengono made Dec 21 at 2022 7:52 PM

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Recording an AFN holiday message in the summer because you are overseas and that's how long it will take to get processed.

Response by Maj Brian Mitchell made Dec 21 at 2022 7:56 PM

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Waiting for the Sears, Penney's and Montogomery Ward catalogs to arrive at the post office at a tiny base in Spain so we could order gifts in time for Christmas.

Response by MSG Brian Kinkead made Dec 21 at 2022 8:01 PM

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Coming together as a family while deployed, just having each other to lean on during the holidays.

Response by SrA Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 21 at 2022 8:05 PM

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Not being home for holiday. I was overseas a lot in my early years and spent many of those days very lonely.
Being a Vietnam veteran, we didn’t have access to phones and computers, as it is today.
I remember one such time going to a movie after duty. It middle of the night and was outdoors with benches to sit on. No cost, no popcorn and no drinks, just a screen and projector. After a little while rain began but we just sat there and watched. What was playing didn’t matter much, just a short distraction from loneliness.

Response by PO2 Jeffrey Webster made Dec 21 at 2022 8:06 PM

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Serving in the military on a holiday allows your family and friends to enjoy the freedom of celebrating in peace, knowing they are safe.

Response by PO1 Kyle Brown made Dec 21 at 2022 8:09 PM

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The importance of family. Being in the Navy you are way on 3 to 6 months cruises if you're on sea Duty. Sometimes you may not be able to be home for the holidays and if you had to see in the holidays are coming around you tend to really miss your family even more. Now don't get me wrong, I consider my Shipmates to be my family away from home. So whether you're with your biological family at home or with your shipmate families away. We never forget how important they both are as soldiers. And when you retire from the military you still remember your shipmate families and you make it a point to try and stay in touch whether it's by a phone call, or Facebook, or some other type of social media. For me as a soldier it just makes me enjoy my time with my family even more.

Response by SFC Michael Greenwood made Dec 21 at 2022 8:14 PM

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The feeling of acceptance and inclusion when you are invited to share another soldier’s and family and home by being treated as one of them.

Response by SGT Michael Corbett made Dec 21 at 2022 8:17 PM

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That there are NO HOLIDAYS!

Response by SCPO Michael Morales made Dec 21 at 2022 8:17 PM

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How Santa Claus Ended Up on U.S. Military’s Radar

Response by PO2 Mark Gravel made Dec 21 at 2022 8:18 PM

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I remember xmas 1980. First year in the Navy. 18 years old & first time away from home for Christmas. We had pulled into Pattaya Beach, Thailand. Had duty on Christmas day. Got a letter from my cousin back in Nebraska saying how pretty the snow looked on the pine trees. I looked out of a porthole & all I seen was Jungle. Cried like a baby. LOLLOL

Response by PO1 Darryl Mickens made Dec 21 at 2022 8:18 PM

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The anticipation, most serviceman on deployment endure hardship and long periods away from friends and family. But the one thing that gives promise and hope is the idea of a Christmas Homecoming. Perhaps Hollywood is the blame for over romanticizing such an event but regardless the idea of walking in the front door midway through Christmas dinner to the surprise of mom and dad, wife and kids, friends and other family is the dream that keeps on giving throughout the year regardless of the circumstances we face. At the end of the day we are all serving for our families, so what then can be a greater reward than spending the holidays with them?

Response by SGT Tommy Xiong made Dec 21 at 2022 8:24 PM

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family and friends

Response by SPC Mervin Lenhart made Dec 21 at 2022 8:26 PM

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When you are deployed to war during the holidays.

Response by PO2 Stanley Buck made Dec 21 at 2022 8:29 PM

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Being away from family and friends and getting care packages from your parents

Response by PO3 William Darlington made Dec 21 at 2022 8:31 PM

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It is not just the feeling of love or being loved but the actual connectedness that matters. We simply were not made to live alone.

Response by PO2 Mark Lull made Dec 21 at 2022 8:32 PM

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Rabbit on the mess deck for Easter.

Response by Sgt lELAND wILSON made Dec 21 at 2022 8:33 PM

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gATHERING AT HOME WITH FAMILY FOR A GOOD HOME COOKED MEAL.

Response by SSgt Paul Nye made Dec 21 at 2022 8:35 PM

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You can not be with the ones that you love during the holidays. The value that a card, letter or picture has.

Response by PO3 William Darlington made Dec 21 at 2022 8:38 PM

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It is not just the feeling of love or being loved but, the actual connectedness that matters. We simply are not made to live alone. Being deployed during the holidays bring a bond between us all

Response by TSgt Joseph Holder made Dec 21 at 2022 8:39 PM

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Family: Above all things, family is a huge icon for military personnel during the holidays. Most of the fellow military bothers and sisters, won’t get the chance to be around their family during the holidays. But when that golden opportunity arise, they will move mountains to be with their family.

Response by SPC Holly Hadley made Dec 21 at 2022 8:39 PM

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Those in the military notice the importance of family & the need for their support. It's not just at holidays but all the time. They fight on a daily basis for our country & dedicate their lives to their duties. The hardest part is accepting that every day is not to be taken for granted because tomorrow isnt promised. Military families understand that time is not to be taken for granted.

Response by PO2 Victor Austin made Dec 21 at 2022 8:40 PM

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How people take for granted how peaceful the holidays are with their loved ones.

Response by SGT Michael Firtos made Dec 21 at 2022 8:45 PM

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Bob Hope Show in combat areas with young american actresses, singers, and NFL Cheer Leaders!!!!

Response by MSgt Matthew Stogsdill made Dec 21 at 2022 8:46 PM

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Chow hall Holiday fish and local economy food, or an MRE and especially brotherhood time while serving overseas alone away from family for years. Love my team members, like true family, even to this day.

Response by SGT Daniel Rosas made Dec 21 at 2022 8:49 PM

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S1 losing your leave paperwork lol… jokes aside, that no matter how far away we are from our brothers and family we are always with each other even in the hard times when we are alone and struggling wether deployed or just far from one another we are always together one way or another so reach out to your brother and sister in this holidays for we all understand we are family.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 21 at 2022 8:50 PM

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Mandatory fun.

Response by PO2 Willie Hunt made Dec 21 at 2022 8:53 PM

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volunteer time to help others

Response by SPC Bruce Lemay made Dec 21 at 2022 8:57 PM

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Family separation. Where choice is not an option, but an obligation.

Response by Lt Col Richard Lawrenz made Dec 21 at 2022 8:57 PM

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Not being deployed overseas at Christmas time

Response by CPT John DeTroye made Dec 21 at 2022 9:02 PM

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Selecting the single 2LT to pull duty officer on Christmas so the married guys got some family time.

Response by PV2 Richard Wright made Dec 21 at 2022 9:02 PM

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Having the holiday meal served by the upper ranks.

Response by SPC Justine Blankenbeckler made Dec 21 at 2022 9:07 PM

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Being in the military, and living on base, when your husband is gone long periods of time, you hope to make friends. The year we lived on Ft. Hood, I had 2 close girlfriends. Both of their husband's were gone for periods of time also. I asked them how about we surprise them and make one Big Christmas. One tree, one Big dinner, one everything. It sounded crazy, we kept it a secret, as much as we could, whose house would the tree go in? Lol. We all had small children. I had 2, so we decided me. They each had three, orv2 and expecting. They did all their shopping, money was tight, we got gifts from home, and I told my family what we were doing, and they said huh!! I said , we don't need 3 trees, we can get more food, gifts, and enjoy. We put the tree up and husband's came in from the field. Only to find out there was one tree. It did not go over well with one husband at first, but then when he found out how much he was saving, it became special. We had a Beautiful Christmas eve, I putbout all kinds of snacks, the kids played and fell asleep, and we enjoyed egg not. We decided what time to come over to open Christmas. My husband wanted to video tape the memory, as we had purchased a camcorder recently. What a thrill, paper, wrappings, you name it, so much fun. My girlfriends surprised me with breakfast for us all. The third girlfriend had a turkey cooking, and we had dinner at her house that night. That is one Christmas I will never forget. I missed my girlfriends when their husband's got orders. I heard from them with Christmas cards the next Christmas. Both said thinking of our past Christmas and we pulled it off. Thank you and Happy Holidays

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 21 at 2022 9:12 PM

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That you can feel good and horrible about not being at home for the holidays. Of course you miss your family, that's the bad part. But knowing that your family is safe because you're guarding their freedom

Response by Sgt Arnold Hanson made Dec 21 at 2022 9:15 PM

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When most Americans gather around at this holiday season to celebrate with family and friends the freedom to choose who, when, where, and why; many of those who sacrifice to make that freedom a reality will not have the freedom to enjoy those festivities.

Response by CMSgt Jeff Middaugh made Dec 21 at 2022 9:18 PM

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Being thousands of miles from family, friends and loved ones. Christmas is about the birth of Christ not the marketing free-for-all it has become. It is a time for family, love, peace and joy. Only those who have served overseas and missed out on this most precious time as a result of defending our great nation can truly understand and appreciate beauty and true meaning of this holy season.

Response by PO3 Nikki Buccieri made Dec 21 at 2022 9:20 PM

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Not celebrating the holiday on the actual holiday.

Response by PFC Matt Taylor made Dec 21 at 2022 9:21 PM

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Actually being home to appreciate them, because you know what it’s like to have to forget about them.

Response by PFC Anthony Guarnieri made Dec 21 at 2022 9:24 PM

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the importance of mail when far from loved ones - what makes you feel that you're still part of the family and close to friends

Response by SGT C Reed made Dec 21 at 2022 9:25 PM

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Receiving Christmas cards - mailed on time - from December through May because that's how the APO/FPO/DPO works.

Response by CPT Thomas Donahue made Dec 21 at 2022 9:27 PM

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That we sacrifice without question our national holidays & many weekends to train for, prepare & accomplish our mission with our fellow soldiers-in-arms to protect the USA & our national interests overseas regardless of missing special times with family & close friends outside the military. Tom Donahue, West Point '81, Army Infantry Captain '81-'87

Response by PO2 Lawrence Moody made Dec 21 at 2022 9:27 PM

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Just about the same as any other day aboard a small ship

Response by SSG Allen Liang made Dec 21 at 2022 9:30 PM

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Skelton crew

Response by Col Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 21 at 2022 9:32 PM

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Santa Clause adjusting his schedule to come on the day when the family can be together.

Response by SGT Ronald Shelton made Dec 21 at 2022 9:35 PM

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The need to be away from family , loved ones and sucking it up and driving forward.

Response by SMSgt Robert Holbrook made Dec 21 at 2022 9:37 PM

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Spending the holidays with your fellow enlisted members and their families instead of spending it with your family.

Response by LCpl David Peters made Dec 21 at 2022 9:40 PM

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Cod and ramen

Response by SP5 Gary Duspiva made Dec 21 at 2022 9:41 PM

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Dedication to Country & Family equally.

Response by SPC Scott Prisk made Dec 21 at 2022 9:42 PM

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There are no holidays in the Military.

Response by Maj Michelle Lindo McCluer made Dec 21 at 2022 9:43 PM

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Inviting total strangers to a Christmas party.

Response by 1stSgt Phillip Rakestraw made Dec 21 at 2022 9:45 PM

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You'll always be with family, either your personal or your unit.

Response by MAJ Jon Philbrick made Dec 21 at 2022 9:46 PM

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Military personnel share what family and country really mean. Being away from family and country during the holidays only increases what these really mean to us.

Response by SPC Rhonda Ricks made Dec 21 at 2022 9:48 PM

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Being able to be home with your family a lot of people take that for granted during the holidays

Response by SGT Ryan Lantta made Dec 21 at 2022 9:48 PM

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Hoping S1 actually got your leave form signed so you can leave the base on time to get to the airport so you can actually see your family...

Also, why was it that when we were on active duty, it always seemed like people expected us to go visit them, using up our "vacation days," you could never lift a finger to come see us, when they had vacation time???

Response by SP5 Ronald Rouse made Dec 21 at 2022 9:49 PM

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HOME

Response by SrA Jennifer Hunter made Dec 21 at 2022 9:51 PM

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Singing "I'll be home for Christmas" unironically and Christmas packages from home in late January. I was stationed in Germany for four years. My folks didn't learn to send anything early to compensate! Oh well, by that time it was my birthday. Good enough!

Response by SGT Jody Brooks made Dec 21 at 2022 9:52 PM

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Something only military knows, we spend Christmas together and everyone in the unit has a place to come to. Never did i leave a soldier alone on Christmas, we are and will always be a big family. Also its not about the most flashy expensive thing, but the simple things like giving some peanut butter when you know they love it and look forward to a special treat.

Response by Cpl Carlos Cortez made Dec 21 at 2022 9:52 PM

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Everyone gets sad around the holidays and being around people during the holidays can make a huge difference.

Response by SPC Brian Murry made Dec 21 at 2022 9:54 PM

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You realize that you may have spent your Last holiday with family. Airborne All The Way

Response by PO3 Keely Sarratt made Dec 21 at 2022 9:54 PM

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Celebrating Christmas in august because you will be away from your kids during that time

Response by SPC Alberto Garcia made Dec 21 at 2022 9:54 PM

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Separation from Family ! while being deployed to combat zone!

Response by SGT David White made Dec 21 at 2022 9:57 PM

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Having to spend consecutive holidays away from loved ones

Response by LCpl Victor Black made Dec 21 at 2022 9:57 PM

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Being away from family

Response by PFC Benjamin AyalaMontalvo made Dec 21 at 2022 10:03 PM

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toys for tots" By the United States Marines Corps

Response by TSgt Duane Tewinkel made Dec 21 at 2022 10:03 PM

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BEING HOME FOR CHRISTMAS

Response by SSgt Clyde Lindemuth made Dec 21 at 2022 10:05 PM

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A situation unique to the military is having single friends who are away from home and alone, or being in that position oneself. We usually tried to invite at least one unattached member to share our meal. I myself was treated to dinner with a local family. It means so much.

Response by CPO Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 21 at 2022 10:06 PM

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The normalization of being away from family during a time in the year when you should be around them. Its a strange feeling because you develop a numbness to it but at the same time you would give anything to be with your loved ones. Depending on your support system at home will determine how easy/hard the time spent away will be. Its never "easy" though, just more manageable.

Response by PO3 Rebecca Nickerson made Dec 21 at 2022 10:06 PM

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One act of kindness to your brothers and sisters in arms is like a gratitude times 1000

Response by Lt Col Tim Klopfer made Dec 21 at 2022 10:07 PM

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Setting up a Christmas tree, hanging stockings, and putting lights on the house in August so you can celebrate “Christmas” as a family before your service member deploys for 6 months.

Response by SP5 Raymond Follum made Dec 21 at 2022 10:10 PM

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Older vets might think of a Bob Hope USO show. Sure meant a lot to us when he came to Camp Eagle in Vietnam.

Response by LTC Ernest Edge made Dec 21 at 2022 10:14 PM

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Pulling staff duty on Christmas Day.

Response by Capt Rhonda Hertwig made Dec 21 at 2022 10:18 PM

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The separation from family during deployment

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 21 at 2022 10:20 PM

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Missing family and spending it with other besides family

Response by Cpl Ronnie Rohan made Dec 21 at 2022 10:23 PM

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Many things about the holidays are unique to military life, such as the challenges of being deployed or separated from loved ones during the holiday season. Some military members may also have to work on holidays or may be unable to participate in traditional holiday celebrations due to their duties. Additionally, military members may experience a sense of camaraderie and solidarity during the holidays, as they may be far from home and rely on each other for support and companionship.

Response by MAJ Betty Chamness made Dec 21 at 2022 10:27 PM

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Peace on earth and no more wars.

Response by CW4 Kenneth Johnson made Dec 21 at 2022 10:30 PM

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A Soldier’s Christmas

A foot-tall artificial tree -
a decorated memory
of time spent with a family -
stands by his dusty bed.

A Christmas card sits underneath
with a bright yellow ribboned wreath.
A printed sign stands in relief –
“Daddy, come home soon.”

The gifts from home he’ll get this year
won’t fill his mind with Christmas cheer
though, for a moment, they’ll feel near.
He holds them in his heart.

He remembers carols that they sing
but knows the gift he’s offering
finds meaning in “Let freedom ring.”
He proudly stands his post.

It’s times like this that make him sad.
He should be home; husband and Dad
are parts of life that make him glad.
Such is his sacrifice.

For just a moment, his eyes tear
but in his mind, his vision’s clear
to keep his loved ones free from fear.
He straightens up with pride.

He whispers a familiar prayer
asking for God’s love and care
as he grips tight the cross he wears.
He heads out on patrol.

Afghanistan, the DMZ,
dozens of places we don’t see,
freedom’s gift is given free;
each soldier pays the price.

At home, another holiday
explaining why Dad is away.
“He’ll be home soon,” Mothers say.
Someday, perhaps, for good.

God bless those who serve
and the families that wait for their return.

Response by MAJ Charles Hildebrand made Dec 21 at 2022 10:31 PM

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Flying in Iraq on Christmas Day. Thinking how lucky I was to be flying I thought once in a lifetime event.

Response by SP5 Tim Johnston made Dec 21 at 2022 10:35 PM

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Not being at home with friends and family during the holidays.

Response by SPC John Peralta made Dec 21 at 2022 10:36 PM

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knowing you might not ever see your family again. But also knowing that what you are doing is for the greater good so your family will not have to experience what you are experiencing.

Response by PFC Larry Hart made Dec 21 at 2022 10:37 PM

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Missing my family

Response by COL John Dwyer made Dec 21 at 2022 10:38 PM

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Sitting in a bunker on the perimeter on Christmas Evening when just before midnight, "Silent Night" breaks out softly from a position down the line, then the carol is picked up by every position along the entire perimeter fence. By the last verse the entire perimeter line was softly singing the carol.

Response by SP5 Linda Laird made Dec 21 at 2022 10:42 PM

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The word Deployment, it never comes at the right time. It could be a birthday, Mother's Day, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and the many other holidays our soldiers missed to ensure our nations freedom. Many with or without family to support them, but yet did it year after year. I salute and thank all my fellow soldiers in their sacrifices.

Response by Pvt Bobby Glover made Dec 21 at 2022 10:47 PM

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When you spend enough time away from those you love and care for the holidays are the time you think…”fuck it, it’s just another day away from those I love and care for!” Ha

Response by PO3 David Mclauchlin made Dec 21 at 2022 10:49 PM

2022-12-21T22:49:24-05:00

Being away from home on holidays.

Response by PO2 Greg Rager made Dec 21 at 2022 11:00 PM

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Being in a large group, and feeling completely lonely, and alone - a feeling shared with everyone else in the group.

Response by PVT Adrian Allen made Dec 21 at 2022 11:04 PM

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Being with their families

Response by SSG Michael D. made Dec 21 at 2022 11:05 PM

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A service member may be called off leave to deploy anywhere we are called upon.

Response by TSgt Frank Cicero made Dec 21 at 2022 11:12 PM

2022-12-21T23:12:15-05:00

Combined Federal Campaign (A Volunteer Contribution!)

Response by PO1 Dennis Koba made Dec 21 at 2022 11:13 PM

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That military camaraderie

Response by PO3 Melory Lindo made Dec 21 at 2022 11:17 PM

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That video calls or as much communication are a must as possible

Response by 1SG(P) Dean Mcbride (MPER) (SPHR) made Dec 21 at 2022 11:20 PM

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Being thousands of miles away from friends and loved ones and finding those few things around you that bring you peace and puts the holiday spirit into your heart. I had this experience in Panama when I was 18 and 19 years old, in Germany when I was 21, during three tours in Vietnam when
I was 26, 27, and 28, and Okinawa when I was 29 and 30...

Response by TSgt Debra Bernucho made Dec 21 at 2022 11:22 PM

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Eating MRE’s at undisclosed locations half a world away from your family.

Response by SGT Theodore Pham made Dec 21 at 2022 11:32 PM

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A case of Rip-Its!

Response by SGT Theodore Pham made Dec 21 at 2022 11:34 PM

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Surf-n-turf with our brothers and sisters down range.

Response by A1C Jerry Jerome made Dec 21 at 2022 11:34 PM

2022-12-21T23:34:31-05:00

Being away from your family and friends

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 21 at 2022 11:37 PM

2022-12-21T23:37:28-05:00

Depends…

A) if you are stationed where you get to go home, the togetherness of family and the military family was all that mattered, you get to share with FRIENDS and FAMILY

B) If you are stationed overseas or deployed, where you were not accompanied by family members, it can be thought. But you got your safety net; the other family, the military FAMILY that its there for you!

I do cherish both, they were special times, and I look back with love and tendernes, and say to myself, IT WAS ALL WORTH IT!

Response by PO2 Greg Rager made Dec 21 at 2022 11:44 PM

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Being in a large group, and feeling sad, very lonely, and very alone - like all the others in the group.

Response by SP5 Keith Holden made Dec 21 at 2022 11:45 PM

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There’s nothing like R&R in Hawaii on Christmas.

Response by Cpl James Graves made Dec 21 at 2022 11:46 PM

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A chit from the base commissary.

Response by SP5 Larry Anderson made Dec 21 at 2022 11:46 PM

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Being away from Home and Family

Response by Cpl James Graves made Dec 21 at 2022 11:47 PM

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A chit for the base commissary.

James Graves
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Response by PFC Daniel Sessler made Dec 21 at 2022 11:53 PM

2022-12-21T23:53:18-05:00

Being able to be home with Family.

Response by CN Matthew Lawson made Dec 21 at 2022 11:57 PM

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Home

Response by PVT Ryan Turner made Dec 22 at 2022 12:01 AM

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The importance of home.

Response by SP5 Amy Padilla made Dec 22 at 2022 12:03 AM

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Separation from family and having your battles you through it.

Response by SSgt Mike Conway made Dec 22 at 2022 12:13 AM

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Celebrating a holiday or other event either before or after the actual day. Quite a few times we "moved" a holiday or birthday to accommodate duty schedules. This included anything from just having the duty that day to a TDY over that day. Now my oldest is spending her first set of holidays away and is going to learn first-hand the juggling we did to make things work.

We sent her Christmas stuff well in advance so she is just waiting for the day and will probably call us. Glad she decided to serve.

Response by SSgt James Bell made Dec 22 at 2022 12:15 AM

2022-12-22T00:15:07-05:00

The low man on the roster works on the Holidays.

Response by CPL Sagen Patton made Dec 22 at 2022 12:16 AM

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It's different for us. Our lives are on pause over there, with dramatic jumps forward. We wait to come home, while fulfilling our dury. While everyone back home does everything they've always done. Including the holidays. A holiday is just another day over there.

Response by Sgt Gerald Dean Johnson made Dec 22 at 2022 12:24 AM

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Being away from home the holidays with out the option to come home because you’re on duty … but we did sign up for for it .

Response by COL George Patrin made Dec 22 at 2022 12:32 AM

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The one thing from the holidays that only people in the military understand, really understand, is that the freedom to publicly celebrate a Holiday, especially those with religious originations, is made possible by servicemembers volunteering to be away from their loved ones for many of them so others can be free to choose to spend them with their families. The choice we make has significant impact on our relationships that we cannot get back. Only the strongest of military families survive it intact.

Response by SR Heather Ross made Dec 22 at 2022 12:34 AM

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Having to cope without loved ones while defending our country

Response by SCPO Vern Lababit made Dec 22 at 2022 12:48 AM

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The best present is what God has provided for us Sailors while deployed which is 360 degrees of pure blue ocean, endless view of the universe brightened by trillions of stars, and last but not least to be part of a family living on a floating city which includes a melting pot of human beings that are willing to sacrifice their very own lives to provide and protect FREEDOM for all of our Family and Friends from all over the World. Where else can you say that you not only served your country but as a member of the US Navy contributing to World Peace.

Response by SPC Mitchell Jeffers made Dec 22 at 2022 12:55 AM

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The togetherness and closeness you. Scone with your fellow soldiers since your not able to go home for the holidays sometimes. You learn about their family and traditions.

Response by SPC Arthur Bernal made Dec 22 at 2022 1:00 AM

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guard duty 7 days a wk. including holidays happy holidays fellow soldiers specialist 4 art bernal

Response by PV2 Tohid Naeem made Dec 22 at 2022 1:04 AM

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The sacrifice

Response by CPO Dayle Simonson made Dec 22 at 2022 1:14 AM

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Standing watch, anywhere in the world, either in the sand box, on the Quarterdeck of a Navy Vessel, or haze grey and underway, a foreign country, or even at a military compound in the United States, reminiscing about past family Christmases is truly what I remember most. The separation from family is grueling. Most people remember family times, however those in the Military, serving somewhere oversees, an prior to the “cell phone” age were not able to call home on most holidays.

Response by A1C Michael Brunswick made Dec 22 at 2022 1:24 AM

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Love

Response by PO2 David Morales made Dec 22 at 2022 1:24 AM

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Having to stand duty/watch on christmas, and not being able to go home after watch.

Response by SP5 Alan Doenges made Dec 22 at 2022 2:52 AM

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Stars and Stripes

Response by SFC Kenneth Cox made Dec 22 at 2022 3:29 AM

2022-12-22T03:29:21-05:00

Holidays away from Family, what else?

Response by SPC Jennifer West-Loyd made Dec 22 at 2022 3:48 AM

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Holidays are not "a right;" they are a privilege. The needs of the Army (out whichever service a person Belongs to), and civilians don't often understand what their service member gave up by signing on the dotted line. I lived on both sides, bring a wife to someone in the Army and then bring in the Army at the age of 34. At which time, after completing not camp I called my husband and apologized for harassing him about how he should match into his "bosses" office and tell his boss that he needed to be home for our family's Thanksgiving dinner. Thankfully my husband had a sense of humor and simply laughed at my comment.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all!

Response by SSG Mike Yoakam made Dec 22 at 2022 3:57 AM

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You only get a special meal if you're at a location with a dining facility. It's usually just MREs and Care Package leftovers otherwise.

Response by PVT Michael Brouillette made Dec 22 at 2022 4:23 AM

2022-12-22T04:23:44-05:00

Spending the Holidays alone and not see or even hearing from your Family and in a lot of cases even your friends

Response by Cpl Steve Godlewski made Dec 22 at 2022 4:27 AM

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Seldom where we really want to be on a holiday so make the most of it no matter where you are.

Steve

Response by Sgt Hector Mendez made Dec 22 at 2022 4:39 AM

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Loneliness above all with the disparity that this country needs your sacrifice to inspire a more prosperous and peaceful world is not always welcomed by loved ones insuring world peace ☮️

Response by Sgt Kathleen Smith made Dec 22 at 2022 4:41 AM

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When I was 18 years old, I was overseas in Turkey in the Air Force in 1977. For Christmas, my mother sent me a recording on cassette tape of the music from her jewelry box. I cried when I got it, it reminded me so much of home, my mother, and being loved. I used to open that jewelry box as a child, just to hear the music and see the twirling ballerina dance, so that sound had so many happy memories attached to it. My Christmas in Turkey was so much better because of that cassette tape, which I kept for years afterwards. My mother got cancer and passed away shortly afterwards. The Air Force moved me back stateside from Turkey so I could be with her at the end.

Response by LCpl Melanie Smith made Dec 22 at 2022 5:29 AM

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My first Christmas away from home was during bootcamp and there was NO leave. I then married another active duty Marine and trying to get home for the holidays was so expensive plus we were not from the same area so we couldn't be 2 places at once. As a young active duty couple, we decided that our tiny apartment would become the home away from home for a few friends that weren't able to go home for the holidays. Waking up on Christmas morning with fellow Marines curled up on the floor in their issued sleeping bags helped us to realize that family isn't just blood, it's who you choose to make your family. Even after 34 years of marriage, we still have not had a true family Christmas with both sides of the family and yet we don't feel like we are missing out. It is not just the active duty person that has to adapt to military life, your whole family must learn to accept that duty comes first.

Response by PO2 William Church made Dec 22 at 2022 5:35 AM

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Doing a battery charge deep under the water of the Mediterranean Sea - on Christmas Day!

Response by TSgt Troy McVay made Dec 22 at 2022 5:51 AM

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Working cheerfully on Thanksgiving and Christmas and not having it any other way.

Response by Cpl Abbey Hosken made Dec 22 at 2022 6:11 AM

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How lonely the holidays can be, and time away from loved ones. Regardless of deployment or duties otherwise, any holiday isn't the same without family. That's the hardest part itself for a lot of people, and the note reason to keep in contact with fellow service members. On any given dayz, you never know what people are going through

Response by SPC Cafilliar Perdue made Dec 22 at 2022 6:17 AM

2022-12-22T06:17:41-05:00

A soilder in the military is usually separated from their family for long periods of time!

Response by SrA Shawn Martin made Dec 22 at 2022 6:32 AM

2022-12-22T06:32:21-05:00

Guessing you mean this season, but I think of Independence Day and wonder why everyone thinks it's so great to have all the explosions for fun. I have never heard anyone speak to how that must impact our combat vets-even those without severe PTSD.

Response by SSG Gary Abner made Dec 22 at 2022 6:33 AM

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FREEDOM

Response by SSgt Dave Stelter made Dec 22 at 2022 6:41 AM

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I know a lot of people are going to think that being away from your family during the holidays is the answer to this thread, while for most it is but for me its much deeper.

I think the one thing from the holidays that only people in the military will understand is the shared feelings during the holidays. Yes, everyone misses home and their loved ones during this time, but that is one of the many things my brothers and sisters in arms have in common.

While deployed over and over during most every holiday or special event, I have come to realize that the people to my left and right are experiencing the same emotions and troubles. That to me is the thing that helps me in those times, coming together with a common woe in my opinion brings you closer to your brothers and sisters. We are all the same, feel the same, go through the same things, and we are now ever closer to each other.

I will always have the backs of my buddies as they have mine at a monuments notice. Even though I was away from one family, I was with another, and man we have some stories.

Response by PO1 James Tracy made Dec 22 at 2022 6:46 AM

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Being away from home and loved ones and the Holiday meal

Response by PO2 Frederick Boerner made Dec 22 at 2022 6:56 AM

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FUBAR!!

Response by Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 22 at 2022 7:07 AM

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One thing about being in the military, and being away from your family during the holidays is that you have a built-in family with your military brothers and sisters. No matter where in the globe, I was deployed or separated from my own family. I always felt like I had the support of my fellow airman and soldiers. This is some thing that most civilians would not understand as there is not as close a camaraderie for civilians as we have being in service.

Response by Col P Mc made Dec 22 at 2022 7:22 AM

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Being separated from your loved ones due to deployments is NOT like your civilian neighbor whose spouse was gone for a whole week at a company retreat. Instead of hotel lodging, golf outings, meals in restaurants, etc, the military servicemember is potentially in harm's way defending our country while their family worries about whether or not they may come home as originally scheduled or may not come home at all.

Response by SSG Gary Abner made Dec 22 at 2022 7:24 AM

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Price of Freedom

Response by AN Adrianna Panzara made Dec 22 at 2022 7:50 AM

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Being away from home and having to work.

Response by A1C Richard Jean made Dec 22 at 2022 8:09 AM

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Hurry up and wait

Response by 1stSgt Douglas Heath made Dec 22 at 2022 8:09 AM

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What it’s like to not be with our families during the holidays.

Response by LTC Thomas VaVerka made Dec 22 at 2022 8:11 AM

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Santa Clause showing up to the unit Christmas Party wearing jump boots.

Response by FA Charles Barhite made Dec 22 at 2022 8:11 AM

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The joy of being with family and loved ones is something that too many people take for granted. Spending time away (especially in a war zone) is hard enough without knowing that you are missing one of the biggest family moments gone. Missing important milestones in your children's lives is something that one takes for granted when you decided to protect our freedom and way of life. I was lucky enough to not have my own family while I served, but many of my shipmates had families that they had to spend time away from and it was very hard on them.

Response by Claudia Sousa made Dec 22 at 2022 8:17 AM

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Being away from your family and loved ones and having the holidays with your friends that have become your family.

Response by PO3 Yaw Owusu-Ansah made Dec 22 at 2022 8:24 AM

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Family.

Response by SPC Adrea Benedetti made Dec 22 at 2022 8:27 AM

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I would say we all understand what is it like to appreciate the people with you in the moment since everyone is so distant from their family. Yet we always have each other. Especially when a veteran travels during the holidays and sees that new recruit at the Atlanta airport. Usually the new recruit don't even truly grasp why this random stranger walks up and blesses them with a gift, food, and money to spend on their trip. Be a Blessing daily.

Response by PVT Fred ONeal made Dec 22 at 2022 8:29 AM

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How it feels to be so far away from family and friends during the holidays and unable to spend time with those that mean the most to them. When the goal is peace, and you have to fight for the freedom of others.

Response by PFC Robert Lee Gregory made Dec 22 at 2022 8:34 AM

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Eating T Rations and MREs while the civilians were enjoying home cooked food.

Response by SPC Floyd Richardson made Dec 22 at 2022 8:35 AM

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A card and letter full of cheer. Amen and Amen

Response by PO1 Janice Ritz made Dec 22 at 2022 8:43 AM

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That signing on that dotted line means sacrificing holidays, birthdays, and anniversaries because, someone has to do it, and it should be us (me).

Response by SGT Mike Yaple made Dec 22 at 2022 8:48 AM

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being away from love ones at Christmas in Operation Desert Strom 1990

Response by SGT Ryan Kear made Dec 22 at 2022 8:50 AM

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Being told you can’t leave the post for the holidays. Then the day before being told you can have a three day pass and having to pay a billion dollars for airplane tickets…

Response by MSgt Derrick Lock made Dec 22 at 2022 8:54 AM

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Separation from family members due to deployment in defense of country. Countless days and special moments (birthdays, holidays, graduations, births) missed due to the call of duty and love of country.

Response by SPC Fred E Krizan made Dec 22 at 2022 8:56 AM

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What it is like not getting off for the holidays.

Response by SN Lester Pena made Dec 22 at 2022 8:57 AM

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Being away from family and close friends for me!

Response by SPC Carlton Phelps made Dec 22 at 2022 9:13 AM

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That being a soldier means sacrifice as well as just protecting Democracy. I learned that the guys in my squad were missing home just as much as I was and supported each other through the holidays. My wife was able to move down to Panama after us missing our first Christmas together. So we opened up our apartment for the guys who couldn't make it home at Christmas time. We cooked meals and had different desserts that might help them through the Christmas blues.

Response by SMSgt Paul Dubay made Dec 22 at 2022 9:17 AM

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Others just don’t and can’t imagine the difficulty our families faced when we would deploy over the holidays. It’s also difficult when dependents would hear civilian families complain about the stressors of the holidays and know they should just hold it all in while we were away.

Response by PO2 Irvin Turberville made Dec 22 at 2022 9:17 AM

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Being away from all family members from before Thanksgiving until late after the first of the year. Non military will often be disgruntled to just have to be away from family even part of a holiday.

Response by PFC Elton Macklin made Dec 22 at 2022 9:29 AM

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The mission shall go on.

Response by MSgt Brian Duchscherer made Dec 22 at 2022 9:32 AM

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When you are deployed over a holiday, your unit members "are" your family, and you are lucky if you are able to celebrate at all. Then when you do return home, that is a holiday in itself being back with your spouse and children!

Response by PO2 Jim Anderson made Dec 22 at 2022 9:32 AM

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Holidays represent family, church services, food and being together in a home setting with the ones you love!

Response by Sgt Caleb Nelson made Dec 22 at 2022 9:32 AM

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How grateful we are for the freedom to celebrate the holidays with family and friends. While deployed you are far from family which makes it difficult to celebrate the holidays. We also know the sacrifice of our fellow brothers in arms that will never come home and give thanks to both their memory and family for their brave and selfless deeds. Personally, I always remember PFC Corona's family and PFC Clevenger's family. Both of these men were friends of mine who died in a training accident in 2000.

Response by SPC Sam Luckhurst made Dec 22 at 2022 9:37 AM

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What it's like to be so far away from your family at the holidays but still surrounded by family!

Response by MSgt LaTanza Meabon-Whiteside made Dec 22 at 2022 9:42 AM

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Initially my thoughts were “missing family/friends”, but then I realized, even people outside of the military can understand this, based on their job/circumstances. What I finally settled on regarding the one thing from the holidays only people from the military would understand is “freedom to give and freedom to receive”. When in places of the world like Afghanistan, Iraq, Africa, etc handing out supplies to those in the community, and witnessing the appreciation for the “little things”, it gives a whole new meaning to the concept of FREEDOM, and the choices we have with it. Yes, missionary teams may witness a subset of this, but for military members it’s different - we are giving possibly the ultimate sacrifice for doing what we do, as sometimes it’s unwanted by the recipients despite them being in need. Missionaries go where they’re invited, military goes wherever they’re told to go, even during the holidays, giving of themselves a glimpse of what freedom may resemble to those encountered.

Response by PO3 Walter Boyd made Dec 22 at 2022 9:42 AM

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Duty days and standing watch, not being able to see your friends and family.

Response by LCpl Lance Wallace made Dec 22 at 2022 9:43 AM

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The holidays are a special time of year for many people, but for military personnel, the experience can be quite different. Being away from home and family is one of the most difficult aspects of serving in the military, especially during the holidays. It can be especially challenging for those who are deployed or stationed far from their loved ones, or for those who are serving in combat zones or other high-stress environments.

Despite the challenges, military personnel must maintain readiness and be prepared to respond to any situation that may arise. This means that they may have to work on holidays, or be on call even when they are off duty. While this can be difficult, it is a necessary part of their service and an important way that they protect and defend their country.

Homesickness is another common experience for military personnel during the holidays. Being away from home and the familiar comforts of family and friends can be difficult, especially during a time of year when people are typically surrounded by their loved ones. Coping with homesickness can be challenging, but there are ways to stay connected with family and friends, such as through phone calls, video chats, and other forms of communication.

Finally, the holidays can be a difficult time for military personnel who have experienced the loss of a fellow service member. The loss of a friend or loved one who was serving in the military is a devastating experience that can be especially difficult to cope with during the holiday season. While it may never be easy to deal with such a loss, it is important to remember that the military is a close-knit community, and there are resources available to support those who are grieving.

Overall, the holidays can be a challenging time for military personnel, but they are also a time to reflect on the sacrifices that have been made and to appreciate the freedoms that have been protected. While the experience may be different for military personnel, it is no less special and meaningful, and it is a time to be thankful for all that they do to keep our country safe.

Response by PO3 Jon Harren made Dec 22 at 2022 9:47 AM

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Holidays have little meaning beyond consumerism.

Response by SFC Justin Zimmerman made Dec 22 at 2022 9:55 AM

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MRE Potluck! While on deployment, we would put together an MRE potluck around the holidays. You would select your favorite MRE or MRE's and mix and match ingredients within the MRE to create your favorite concocted meal. Then we would place the pouches of food in a line on the ground or a table and with our spoon, we would take a bite out of each MRE pouch containing the concoction. It definitely brought up morale during the holiday season.

Now there is an MRE recipe cookbook out there that can be purchased! HA!

Response by Sgt Richard Quigley made Dec 22 at 2022 9:59 AM

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You may be required to sacrifice being with your loved ones to protect our freedom. Be grateful for the opportunity and ability to do this with your brothers and sisters in uniform. Semper Fi

Response by SPC Alexander Morales made Dec 22 at 2022 10:00 AM

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Awol

Response by SSG Richard Ward made Dec 22 at 2022 10:00 AM

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Being away from friends and family.

Response by PO1 John Chaya made Dec 22 at 2022 10:09 AM

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It's difficult to explain to people what it's like to go to work on Halloween and come home on Valentines day.

Response by SSG Felicia Stephens made Dec 22 at 2022 10:17 AM

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The one thing that people in the military would understand from the holidays is ""SERVING." As we serve our country, we also serve each other. The seniors would get in the dining hall and serve the enlisted and we created new memories with our military family. Serving one another was just another way of us showing the pride we take in our country and in one another. It was not about the gifts (we did not have anyway) but about having a battle buddy, a friend, and each other to survive the deployment.

Response by CPL Veronica Egland made Dec 22 at 2022 10:22 AM

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Being a military veteran, is one of my proudest accomplishments of my life. I acquired a relentless, and strong relationship with fellow veterans. Not having family, and loved ones around to hug,and create memorable moments with; puts a veteran in a place of “missing out”. I was fortunate to have a Support Unit of my fellow veterans. We all wore the same uniform inside(feeling), and outside(proud). The experience of having other people like myself missing holidays without family was accepted. We(the soldiers)made our time with each other very memorable. Now as I live as a honorable veteran; I have Army stories to tell my loved ones, about those loved veterans who have served honorably for a country we live inside, and love. In hind side the holidays in the military is a family affair with ones nearest to each other. We “made it all it can be”.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 22 at 2022 10:24 AM

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Spending it without their spouse (wife or husband) due to deployment.

Response by SGT Gerald Nichols made Dec 22 at 2022 10:40 AM

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be with family

Response by SGT Gerald Nichols made Dec 22 at 2022 10:40 AM

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be home for holidays

Response by PO2 Pamela Flores made Dec 22 at 2022 10:42 AM

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Military people know how precious time with their families is. While some family members only see each other once or twice a year on holidays, they still have the option to see them. Active duty military members may not get to see any of their extended family for years at a time-depending on many military job related factors. Military people have an appreciation for freedom and for family that civilians may not have, simply due to the challenge we face of being away from loved ones and focused on doing our jobs with pride and dedication. It's as if we give up our freedom to be with family whenever we want to, so that all the families in America will have the chance to be together. Then we hope and long to be with those people we left behind, especially on holidays when we may be deployed or we may literally be in combat. Home time during the holidays with family represents everything we fight for in the armed forces. I am so grateful to be a Navy veteran and an American, because I know how to appreciate both my family and my freedom thanks to all that I sacrificed.

Response by SPC Tiffany B made Dec 22 at 2022 10:56 AM

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Being grateful to have a Thanksgiving meal in a tent surrounded by people that all dressed alike.

Response by PV2 Viktor Polishchuk made Dec 22 at 2022 11:05 AM

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Diring the holidays being a soldier can be very challenging. You are serving your country thousands of miles away from what matters most, family and friends. There is a military tradition where higher ranking officers and sergeants serve food toregular soldiers during the holidays. That definitely helps in raising morale but, you can’t help but feel homesick during the holidays.

Response by PO3 Loren Asbury made Dec 22 at 2022 11:10 AM

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Lots of times no fresh vegetables for Christmas no time off.

Response by SSgt Earl Stout made Dec 22 at 2022 11:19 AM

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MAMA's home cooking!

Response by SP5 Alan Parso made Dec 22 at 2022 11:20 AM

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Only another veteran can understand how lonely you can be during the holidays even though you're with all your best buddies. Not being home with family when you are serving is a hardship that nobody understands except those of us who have experienced it.

Response by LCpl Thomas Reed made Dec 22 at 2022 11:30 AM

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port and starboard leave for Christmas and New Year

Response by PV2 Brandon Avila made Dec 22 at 2022 11:32 AM

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Eating as fast as you can without talking

Response by Sgt Christian Clark made Dec 22 at 2022 11:33 AM

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Getting to see family members that you have been separated from for a long time. You are often stationed far from home and visiting is a difficult tasks. Taking some time to go see your loved ones or have them travel to you is an uplifting experience.

Response by PO2 Charles Rivers made Dec 22 at 2022 11:35 AM

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Deployment

Response by CPL Mary Bakker made Dec 22 at 2022 11:40 AM

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Being overseas,not being able to celebrate Christmas or Thanksgiving with family. The time together, the closeness and the fun.

Response by SPC Gregory Diaz made Dec 22 at 2022 11:42 AM

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Sacrifice is the law of life, we as soldiers are called to discpline ourselves in maintaining our duty no matter what day it is, our holiday is on the battlefield our reward is freedom, our passion is family and country in this sense we provide America the space to celebrate her holidays in peace and safety.

Response by PO3 Griggs Hull made Dec 22 at 2022 11:53 AM

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Floating in the Indian Ocean away from loved ones is impossible to understand unless you have lived it. There are no lights, no Christmas trees, no eggnog, no family gatherings, none of the things that make Christmas special. The one saving grace was services on the forecastle Christmas morning. Singing some hymns and reading about the birth of Christ reminded us that we were there to defend our country so that those back home could have the freedom to celebrate as they choose. It didn't matter if it was Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Christmas, or even Festivus, we were there to guard the freedom of all. It was an honor to have been able to serve this great country, and help maintain the freedoms so many of us cherish.

Response by LCpl Tammy Lewis-Williams made Dec 22 at 2022 12:05 PM

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There are many things a non military person wouldn’t understand. But most of all, being deployed and unable to see or talk to your family on the holidays. The emptiness that you feel is not describable. Then when you get home, it still isn’t the same.

Response by CPL Melba Cooper made Dec 22 at 2022 12:07 PM

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As a military veteran I would say being away from family. That's one thing all active duty and military veterans understand

Response by MSgt Charlotte Nelson made Dec 22 at 2022 12:07 PM

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Going to the Dining Facility on Thanksgiving and having the Commanders and First Sergeants working on the serving lines.

Response by PO2 Morris Eutsey made Dec 22 at 2022 12:08 PM

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Most holidays are famiuy getting together and having a good time but we in the military will miss some of them days due to the fact we are defending our country so our people can celebrate each and every day

Response by Cpl Michael Ellison made Dec 22 at 2022 12:14 PM

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R & R/ cold beer

Response by SPC Elaine Manaoat N. made Dec 22 at 2022 12:16 PM

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Days referred to as ADONSA.

Response by SP6 John Marshall made Dec 22 at 2022 12:18 PM

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Chemlight ornaments on some random tree from Amazon.. the only Xmas tree on fob.

Response by PFC Glenda Morrissette made Dec 22 at 2022 12:18 PM

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People in the military make a commitment to their Country when they join the service. And they know that can mean long periods of separation from their loved ones. And thanks to technology those periods are better than they used to be.

Response by CAPT Robin Felix made Dec 22 at 2022 12:20 PM

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The sheer joy of a phone call with family when you are forward-deployed.

Response by PO1 Pamela Legaspi made Dec 22 at 2022 12:20 PM

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As long as I was with my shipmates, there was always peace and happiness in my heart. I missed my family, but knew that they were always in good hands.

Response by AN Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 22 at 2022 12:32 PM

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I'm sure there are plenty of civilians who experience the loneliness that all military people go through during the Holidays. Some manage to take leave and are able to bond with their family at the holiday meal but most remain at their post and yearn for that special feeling that comes over you when you celebrate with your family. Merry Christmas to all military men and women left to carry on at posts all over the world.

Response by LTC Jerret Grisham made Dec 22 at 2022 1:01 PM

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Freedom to worship

Response by PFC Gladys Washington made Dec 22 at 2022 1:29 PM

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Not being able to be with family, when you have older family members, it is a joy to be able to see their faces, smile, and touch them. We are all here by the grace of God. Cherish the moments because one day we may be gone

Response by LCpl Michael Shaffer made Dec 22 at 2022 1:32 PM

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The importance of having all of your family in one room to enjoy each other.

Response by TSgt Donnie Warren made Dec 22 at 2022 1:34 PM

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Not being home with loved ones...

Response by SP5 Jeff Mykel made Dec 22 at 2022 1:35 PM

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MISS BEING WITH FAMILY

Response by Cpl Theresa Larkin made Dec 22 at 2022 1:36 PM

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Cpl Theresa Larkin V

Being away from family, but having the pleasure of the Chaplin inviting a small group of us over a Colonel's house to enjoy a Christmas or Thanksgiving meal that his wife cooked.

Response by Sgt James Belrose made Dec 22 at 2022 1:55 PM

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Comraderie

Response by SFC Gilbert Aquino made Dec 22 at 2022 1:57 PM

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Why love ones will not be home for holidays.

Response by SFC Rick Mearns made Dec 22 at 2022 2:23 PM

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Trying to make a Christmas video call to home that keeps freezing and then watching your 4 year old son cry because he can't see or hear me anymore.

Response by SP5 Timothy Cooper made Dec 22 at 2022 2:49 PM

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Taking on some ones duty if they have not seen the kid's for a long time.

Response by PFC Katharina Imberi made Dec 22 at 2022 3:08 PM

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Gratitude for sox.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 22 at 2022 3:08 PM

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24 Duty!

I've been on the receiving end of the Christmas Eve/Day CQ/Staff duty roster as well as New Years Eve duty. Was the lucky winner of being on the roster for both of these major holidays in 2018! I don't know who I managed to piss off that year but after that I made sure to drop a leave packet the following year!

Response by Klieta Bagwell made Dec 22 at 2022 3:13 PM

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We'll never get it in time for Christmas, Mom sent it three APO's ago.

Response by SPC Louis Laneve made Dec 22 at 2022 4:04 PM

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there is no place like home

Response by SSG Arthur Livingston made Dec 22 at 2022 4:27 PM

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Entertaining American soldiers and their families for the holidays. Include American soldiers (no matter the color or race) as family. 'American' was the key.

Response by SGT Stephen DeMartini made Dec 22 at 2022 4:53 PM

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If you get a chance to get home for the holidays, JODI will be there to welcome you!
home!

Response by CWO4 Teresa Sanders made Dec 22 at 2022 5:32 PM

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Holiday for some, routine for others.

Response by CWO4 Teresa Sanders made Dec 22 at 2022 5:35 PM

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Holiday for some, routine for others.

Response by Maj Carl Forziati made Dec 22 at 2022 6:36 PM

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Loneliness and the missing of one's family, especially during significant times and dates.

Response by SPC Ronald Willis made Dec 22 at 2022 6:59 PM

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Only a service member understands the hard work put in by the staff preparing holiday meals for veterans and civilians overseas and stateside. While serving my country I was grateful for all the work the Mess Hall/Cafeteria soldiers put in to brighten up our spirits and moral. Especially while being station in Germany.

Response by C D made Dec 22 at 2022 7:09 PM

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NOT BEING WITH LOVED ONES

Response by CW4 Randy King made Dec 22 at 2022 7:50 PM

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Being away for home and missing your wife and kids.

Response by PO3 Murvyn DaCosta made Dec 22 at 2022 8:37 PM

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To give a shot of alcohol on the ground or grave to our fellow fallen colleagues before we consume a drink.

Response by PO3 Murvyn DaCosta made Dec 22 at 2022 8:38 PM

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To give a shot of alcohol on the ground or grave to our fellow fallen colleagues before we consume a drink.

Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 22 at 2022 9:05 PM

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Watching TV and missing the commercials from "real TV" because AFN has replaced them all with key public service announcements.

Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 22 at 2022 9:05 PM

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Watching TV and missing the commercials from "real TV" because AFN has replaced them all with key public service announcements.

Response by SN Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 22 at 2022 10:06 PM

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SF following/escorting 2 Fedexs trucks full of gifts

Response by SPC Tracy Wheatley made Dec 22 at 2022 10:16 PM

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Being on the other side if the world without your birth family. Making new holiday memories with your military family.

Response by SP5 Kent Bahr made Dec 22 at 2022 10:29 PM

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THE LONELINESS OF BEING APART FROM THEIR FAMILY AND LOVED ONES, BUT THE UNDERSTANDING THAT THEIR DUTY EXCEEDS THEIR PERSONAL WISHES AND ARE STRENGTHED BY THEIR DEDICATION TO THEIR DUTY.

Response by SPC Jose Davila made Dec 22 at 2022 10:31 PM

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One unique thing about military life is using MRE contents to decorate a Christmas tree. The main courses were the presents under the tree.

Response by A1C Edward Broussard made Dec 22 at 2022 10:55 PM

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That They Will Be Home For Christmas With Family and Friends And Get A Good Raise The First Of January 1 2023

Response by PO2 Phillip Ramirez made Dec 22 at 2022 11:22 PM

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The feelings of loneliness when you can’t make it home for the holidays.

Response by PO2 Robert Clancy made Dec 23 at 2022 12:18 AM

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When the clock strikes 12:00 am Christmas Day and you are standing watch in a foreign country over your fellow sleeping soldiers or in a Combat Information Center on a destroyer in the Persian Gulf (as I did), or in an Air Force B-52 flying above us protecting our homeland, something comes over you. You know you are doing your duty that you swore to protect the interests of your country. But you also have that feeling in your gut that you miss your family and friends so very far away. This is what thousands of our Military men and women feel every year at this time.

Response by CWO4 Sidney Doyle made Dec 23 at 2022 8:44 AM

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Family separation. These two words sums it up when you are deployed for a week, month, year or more. You can miss births, birthdays, anniversaries, graduations, marriages, deaths, and such. These are sacrifices you are willing to endure to provide for your family and to keep them and our country safe.

Response by PO2 Lance Melnik made Dec 23 at 2022 8:55 AM

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While serving and missing every Christmas with family back home. When you finally are able to spend Christmas with your family, it is not about receiving any material gifts, but just being able to spend time with them. AND there are a few instances where you wish you were back spending it with your fellow military brethren instead as they were more of a family than your blood family.

Response by CPL Don Allen made Dec 23 at 2022 9:15 AM

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CQ duty on holidays.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 23 at 2022 9:55 AM

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Although far from family, celebrate living one more day and one less day to see our beloved one. You brothers and sisters in arms, are the best ones to share the holidays

Response by SrA Ami Hollis (Dunn) made Dec 23 at 2022 9:56 AM

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1. having to purchase and mail Christmas gifts by mid-October to make sure they made it to the USA on time, (for some reason a large part of our mail was "missent to Islamabad, Pakistan") so we tried to send ours out by the first week of October.
2. enjoying Thanksgiving and Christmas dinner in the mess hall with your family and having it served to you by members of the Top 3 association. If you were on duty they provided the meat and everyone else would bring the side dishes. There was often a shortage of what we consider traditional food for the holidays in the commissary so that is one reason for the family dinners in the mess hall and even those who didn't have their family with them got to enjoy a family atmosphere for the holidays.

Response by Sgt Roger Loveall made Dec 23 at 2022 10:34 AM

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The separation from family an the true love of family members an the true meaning and family love

Response by CPO Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 23 at 2022 10:52 AM

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Putting off kids holiday shopping til Jan 1st paycheck because youll be traveling

Response by SMSgt Rickie Bellamy made Dec 23 at 2022 10:53 AM

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The one thing for the holidays that military members would understand would be missing anniversaries, marriages, births, birthdays, graduations, sporting events, 1st steps, 1st day of School, 1st tooth, 1st words, deaths and all holidays. The firsts are the worst and the missing it list is endless.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 23 at 2022 11:56 AM

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HBL

Response by MSG Dennis Russo made Dec 23 at 2022 12:28 PM

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That Military Service Members are deployed world wide and are on call 24/7. That their families often spend Holidays without them.

Response by MSgt Luis Prado made Dec 23 at 2022 12:55 PM

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Being away from the family in a season that calls for family unity.

Response by Sgt Stephen Bessette made Dec 23 at 2022 1:18 PM

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How my efforts are/were providing security for the people in the United States of America so they can enjoy freedom for the holidays and everyday life.

Response by PO2 May Sharma made Dec 23 at 2022 2:00 PM

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Ice Cream Social

Response by 1SG Scott Christensen made Dec 23 at 2022 2:34 PM

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The value of a woobie…

Response by SPC Edie Guild made Dec 23 at 2022 3:58 PM

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Leaving the Christmas tree and lights up until March while waiting for him to come home also.

Response by SPC Zahra Land-Ragland made Dec 23 at 2022 4:06 PM

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Our mental health is very critical around this time of year. We are separated from our loved ones for most of the year and if we can’t afford to go home, we have to stay in our barracks room or apartments and still have to go to work. This goes especially lower enlisted soldiers. Young soldiers tend to spend, spend, spend throughout the year and can’t afford to go home in December or don’t have enough leave days to go home. Holiday depression is very real and unfortunately, some soldiers commit suicide or fall into deep depression. I do wish our families understood that we deal with a lot on a daily basis and even a phone call or text will make the biggest difference.

Response by PO2 Gary Wasileski made Dec 23 at 2022 4:23 PM

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PEACE

Response by PO3 Juan Santell made Dec 23 at 2022 4:25 PM

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Feeling blue because you're missing out on everything back in the world.

Response by Amn Dale Preisach made Dec 23 at 2022 5:54 PM

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Having to be on a list of when you can Take christmas vacation..., that is, there is a list of when each person can get scheduled to go on vacation, and those that have to stick around or even pull C Q Duty.

Response by PO3 Craig Hettinger made Dec 23 at 2022 11:05 PM

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We are thankful that we have 2 families that we are committed to. Things often don’t go our way when it comes to pulling duty or being granted access to leave. So, when the straws are drawn, as much as it may hurt that we pulled the short straw and can’t go home to our civilian loved ones, we will at least be together with our shipmates… you know, the men and women who will fight to the death along side of us should that moment in history arise and require us to do so. Merry Christmas to all.

Response by MSgt Richard StGermain made Dec 24 at 2022 12:54 PM

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When it comes to the special holidays like Thanksgiving, Christmas and Easter, it is extremely difficult for those that never served and could NOT be with family what it means to become self-sufficient. How it feels when you and your spouse, young and far away start to prepare for a Holiday Feast, and cooking for 2. (More if you invited others, which usually is what happens). Although you have friends with you, it is never the same as the same old family routines. There is a feeling of belonging yet something is missing. The table discussions ALWAYS end up about Aunt Jane's casserole, Uncle Jim's crazy way of doing things or how "my mom would..." etc.
Very few that have never served will understand the stories you have to tell when you are able to make it home. It becomes idle chatter, and the service member becomes isolated because the only thing anybody talks about is "remember when" and all of your recent experiences become unimportant to those around you and you long for someone to talk to with similar experiences.
Only those that served will understand the sense of belonging to two different worlds. The experience of seeing Holiday traditions from other countries while trying to be traditional and "normal” for those routines you loved and hold dear.
In answer to the question, there is never ONE THING that only the military would understand about the holidays. Only those that served can understand that the Service Member needs nothing, yet needs it all; Can be alone, especially with company; Has family, both blood and by those we serve with; mostly, that no matter where we are or who we are with, we are a special breed of proud Americans ready to serve and protect at all cost regardless of those that never served whether they understand that dedication or not.

Response by MSgt Richard StGermain made Dec 24 at 2022 1:16 PM

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Response by MSgt Richard StGermain made Dec 24 at 2022 1:23 PM

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Response by PFC Louis Ryczek made Dec 24 at 2022 3:42 PM

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Loss of family gathering to celebrate the Christmas. [login to see]

Response by CPL Racquel Parfait made Dec 24 at 2022 6:27 PM

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The feeling of being away from your family and friends while deployed, not knowing if you will spend another holiday with them.

Response by PO2 Andre Mandeville made Dec 25 at 2022 5:06 PM

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Christmas aboard ship is somewhat lonely even though you have friends all around.

Response by SGT Angelita Padua Sanchez made Dec 25 at 2022 9:07 PM

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one thing that only military people would understand is in the military we used to sharing with people from different countries and learn new traditions and different languages.

Response by SSgt Charles Reiss made Dec 25 at 2022 9:15 PM

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Being away from family and being okay with it is something that only people in the military would understand. I have a lot of friends and family that say they couldn't stand the thought of not seeing their family for the holidays!

Response by MSgt Mike Ash made Dec 25 at 2022 10:27 PM

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How much it helps (AND HURTS) getting pictures, videos, etc from home on the holiday...you love that everyone is enjoying the time and is wishing you happy holidays, but it hurts that you have to be so far away. You (and they) understand the reason is right and that the greater good is being served, but the pain (on both sides) is very real.

Response by A1C Candie Palmer made Dec 26 at 2022 9:33 AM

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How to make the best of an unfavorable situation.

Response by A1C Paul Schroeder made Dec 26 at 2022 2:56 PM

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The importance of being with family for holidays

Response by GySgt Ray Harris made Dec 26 at 2022 6:35 PM

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Military at Christmas?
It ain't all about you.

Response by Pvt Michelle Negrete made Dec 26 at 2022 8:20 PM

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PTSD triggered by the loneliness of civilians not understanding

Response by Sgt Catherine Sosinsky made Dec 27 at 2022 9:09 AM

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Anywhere can be home for the holidays.
We can be hundreds or thousands of miles away from any address we hold dear, but anywhere can be home for us. Surrounded by our wide-eyed young enlisted and officers to our salty seniors, we are surrounded by men and women who become our family. So wherever we are for the holidays we always take care of our own and make it a home for all.

Response by SSgt M Thomas made Dec 27 at 2022 1:29 PM

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15 minute morale calls.

Response by Sgt James Walters made Dec 28 at 2022 4:07 AM

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How nice it is to be able to open that C Ration can of turkey loaf or ham slices for the holiday meal in the field

Response by SMSgt David Lindee made Dec 28 at 2022 6:23 PM

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The strength of family. Regardless of being together or apart, family support during the holidays keeps the service member focused and able to perform. Having the support of the member's unit when deployed makes the family feel cared for, and eases the member's concern for her/his family, again, enabling the member to be focused on the job.

Response by SPC Bruce Brill made Dec 29 at 2022 2:37 PM

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So often in today's world, including the United States, people often focus on divisions that separate us. In America, where the population is anything but homogeneous, divisions among people can often be divisive. In the US military, however, religious divisions can actually unite us. This is especially true during the holiday season of Christmas and Chanukah. It's an opportunity for the Jew to volunteer to be on call during Christmas and allow their Christian partner the day off to celebrate their holiday. Ditto on the holiday of Chanukah, where the Christian comrade in arms can fill in for the Jew.
In this way the military which requires someone "to be on deck" to have their holiday off thanks to their comrade who doesn't celebrate it. This generates good feelings, so appropriate for the holiday season, and it's especially seen in the military.

Response by TSgt David Ballentine made Dec 29 at 2022 11:53 PM

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The loneliness of being far from and away from their family, and gathering around the Holiday dinner table, have been in this situation many times over 21 and half years.

Response by PFC Kim Covington made Dec 30 at 2022 2:57 AM

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Friends can get you through times of no family

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 30 at 2022 7:50 PM

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Thanksgiving meal at the DFAC may not stack up to Grandma's turkey, but it's still the best tasting food you'll get from the DFAC!

Response by 1LT Darrell Foster Sr made Dec 31 at 2022 9:23 AM

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Leave for family time!!!

Response by A1C Patricia Sabo made Dec 31 at 2022 11:32 AM

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If you can’t be with your family being with your military family is the next best thing!

Response by SrA Robert Deshay Hancock made Jan 1 at 2023 8:46 AM

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Eating a delicious meal in the mess hall with other military families. It is so wonderful.

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Response by PO2 Stephen Bonelli made Jan 9 at 2023 9:22 AM

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How difficult it is to be away from home and family during special holidays while serving your country.

Response by SSgt Dennis Kindrick made Feb 9 at 2023 10:46 PM

2023-02-09T22:46:50-05:00

Care package from home

Response by SN Russell Helberg made Feb 20 at 2023 11:33 AM

2023-02-20T11:33:00-05:00

standing watches on port and starboard--or being away on duty god knows were--russ

Response by SPC John Lind made Mar 13 at 2023 11:10 PM

2023-03-13T23:10:10-04:00

Civilians don't understand what it's like to spend Christmas thousands of miles away from home, in a country that doesn't recognize or celebrate Christmas and not even have the ability to call home. Add to this the stress of combat, living in dirty clothes and eating cold MREs. Remember to pray for our soldiers, especially around the holidays.

Response by 1LT Michael Townes made Mar 30 at 2023 6:36 AM

2023-03-30T06:36:10-04:00

Volunteering to work so someone else could be with family.

Response by PFC Dorothy Coston made Oct 22 at 2023 1:21 PM

2023-10-22T13:21:44-04:00

Being away from your family and friends.