What's a tasteful military ball gown?

CH (MAJ) William Beaver — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 06:35:48 -0400

You've been to military balls. Like me, you've seen a wide variety of ball gowns. What is an appropriate ball gown? What is not? Can you give or show example?

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 6:55 AM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 06:55:25 -0400

It's like Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewarts definition of obscenity/pornography, "I know it when I see it."

Response by CH (MAJ) William Beaver made Apr 27 at 2015 6:55 AM

CH (MAJ) William Beaver — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 06:55:36 -0400

Very classy

Response by CH (MAJ) William Beaver made Apr 27 at 2015 6:56 AM

CH (MAJ) William Beaver — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 06:56:14 -0400

Yes. This happened.

Response by CSM Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 7:16 AM

CSM Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 07:16:27 -0400

If that was my unit's function that couple would be asked to leave prior to even reaching the receiving line, I don't care what rank the husband is, completely unacceptable.

Before military formal functions I always give a LPD on etiquette to ensure this and things like this do not occur. I have seen some borderline gowns but never something to this extreme.

Response by Sgt Aaron Kennedy, MS made Apr 27 at 2015 7:34 AM

Sgt Aaron Kennedy, MS — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 07:34:49 -0400

Much like the discussion on "faddish" it's not what it is, it's what it is not. A rule by exception.

A Ball is a Formal / Semi-Formal event. Unfortunately, we, as a society, don't spend much time anymore explaining what Formal (White Tie), Semi-Formal (Black Tie), Business, etc mean anymore. The Military is the last place where it really matters, and even we do a poor job at it.

We've gone from Presidents being sworn in in White Tie (Kennedy was) to the Business Suit of the last 30 years.

Pictured, we see two gentlemen in uniform. One in Mess Dress (White Tie), and one in ASU Dress (Black Tie). We see a number of ladies dressed Formally (in gowns), while the lady showcased is not.

Below is a link to an article that helps some.

http://stylecaster.com/black-tie-formal-wear/

A Guide To Black Tie Formal Wear: Everything You Need ToKnow

What it really means for women.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 7:54 AM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 07:54:38 -0400

An appropriate ball gown is one that does not bring discredit to the military organization. A leader must make an assessment of their date's attire (both male and female). We set the example for our Soldiers to follow. This officer did not.

Response by Maj Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 8:16 AM

Maj Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 08:16:07 -0400

It's funny how this picture keeps popping up. It's tacky, yes but a lot of spouses treat military balls like the prom. A tasteful cocktail dress would suffice but I would hazard a guess that a lot of people want to get all dolled up and lack the ability to discern "tasteful" and "tasteless". I would really like to see a more current and relevant example as opposed to one that has been lingering for more than 10 years.

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 8:24 AM

MSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 08:24:56 -0400

Not that ^

Response by MSgt Manuel Diaz made Apr 27 at 2015 8:59 AM

MSgt Manuel Diaz — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 08:59:13 -0400

Well you can almost taste it

Response by SSG(P) Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 9:38 AM

SSG(P) Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 09:38:45 -0400

Un-freaking-real!! How old is this photo?

Response by SrA Daniel Hunter made Apr 27 at 2015 9:49 AM

SrA Daniel Hunter — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 09:49:12 -0400

He looks a bit embarrassed. On what planet is that dress okay?

Response by CW5 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 9:59 AM

CW5 Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 09:59:14 -0400

That is NOT tasteful, sir. Leaves too little to the imagination. My goodness.

Response by PV2 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 10:06 AM

PV2 Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 10:06:51 -0400

To me, this is something more tasteful than the picture on this question. That gown is the Officer's wife way of saying, look at me I'm hot. It is totally tacky and inappropriate. And dancing like that in a gown like that to boot. A simple gown like this is more in order.

Response by TSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 10:14 AM

TSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 10:14:08 -0400

I would be embarassed if that was my wife. For that matter, I would be embarassed if that was the wife of anyone in my unit!

Response by CW3 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 10:21 AM

CW3 Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 10:21:44 -0400

Not the one in the picture, that's for damn sure.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 10:46 AM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 10:46:04 -0400

What has been seen cannot be unseen.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 11:37 AM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 11:37:25 -0400

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 11:40 AM

MSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 11:40:20 -0400

Does it really matter I think not. If the spouse is non-military and is there to enjoy hemsf/herself and supporting their spouse rock on. I understand the whole conservative taste thing but I don't feel it matters as a whole.

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 11:48 AM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 11:48:32 -0400

Imagine my embarrassment. I showed up wearing the same dress...

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 12:04 PM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 12:04:40 -0400

The caption should read: I think I am the only sexy person in the world and I do not care how this affects how people see me or my husband.

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 12:11 PM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 12:11:19 -0400

Appropriate means covered with nothing falling out. A slit should be no more than knee high. Men should not feel like they are in a strip club.

Response by MAJ Karen Shive made Apr 27 at 2015 12:17 PM

MAJ Karen Shive — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 12:17:50 -0400

Not appropriate. Dress should be classic lines

Response by PO3 Steven Sherrill made Apr 27 at 2015 12:48 PM

PO3 Steven Sherrill — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 12:48:20 -0400

Perhaps she thought rather than an invitation to the Military Ball, that she was being offered Military's Balls, and she was just getting ready to receive what was promised to her?

As far as tasteful, all she needed was a google image search for cocktail gown, and she would have had thousands of appropriate samples right before her eyes.

A Military Ball is kind of like a Prom. The men pretty much all wear the same thing, and the focal point is the ladies. The same rules apply. *Simply put if you wouldn't allow your daughter to go to the prom with a hormone raging teenage boy in a dress like the one being considered, then it probably is not appropriate for the Military Ball either.

*Disclaimer: I want my daughter's prom dress to be a full suit of medieval armor just to make sure the hormone thing doesn't apply so my opinion is heavily biased.

Response by CMSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 12:51 PM

CMSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 12:51:33 -0400

^^NOT that, Sir. :\

I realize that we all have our own styles and that class cannot be purchased, but wow! This is definitely inappropriate in my opinion.

I am a big fan of classic and timeless, a la Audrey Hepburn. Being elegant does not mean being dowdy. Cannot go wrong with black! :)

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 12:52 PM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 12:52:39 -0400

My wife had asked a lot of questions pertaining to this topic so we had researched a few links.

http://militaryoneclick.com/what-to-and-not-to-wear-military-ball-fashion-and-etiquette/

http://www.veteransunited.com/spouse/5-things-to-know-before-attending-a-military-ball/

http://militaryspouse.com/military-life/top-10-tips-for-choosing-a-classy-not-trashy-ball-gown/

There are a lot of options out there for information. One link my wife found had over 100 "rules" and guides all the way down to nail polish.

The bottom line is be tasteful, especially as an Officer or NCO. Understand rank structure - it goes a long way as far as respect and making your date (the service member) look good as well.

Military Ball Fashion and Etiquette

Check out Sarah Peachey's guide to military ball fashion and etiquette!

Response by SGT(P) Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 1:16 PM

SGT(P) Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 13:16:36 -0400

CH (MAJ) William Beaver I guess the rank doesn't tell how your spouse should dress for a ball. They should learn from the Private's wife (insert bragging here). Kind of like the examples CMSgt Private RallyPoint Member uploaded.

Response by Capt Mark Strobl made Apr 27 at 2015 1:22 PM

Capt Mark Strobl — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 13:22:22 -0400

Always felt bad for the guy who brought "that girl" to the ball. Horrible to be the point of conversation on Monday morning... you know... "Did you see Pvt Schmuckatelli's date?!" It was even worse if it was a service-member in "that" dress. Ugghhh.

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 1:27 PM

CPT Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 13:27:36 -0400

Someone give that woman an old BDU field jacket (zippered) to cover herself up.

Response by SSG Richard Reilly made Apr 27 at 2015 1:31 PM

SSG Richard Reilly — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 13:31:31 -0400

Truthfully I believe this could have been a classy dress but the person wearing it isn't acting classy. If you wear a dress like that you can't drop it like it is hot or get low...low. Instead you literally just have to stand there and be the arm candy your supposed to be. You can find a classy functional dress but when in doubt less is more.
classy vs. trashy is easy. If you could wear it to church without asking for forgiveness then it probably is classy. If you can wear it to the club to pick up whomever pays the most for a drink then it is trashy.

Response by SGT(P) Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 1:39 PM

SGT(P) Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 13:39:59 -0400

CH (MAJ) William Beaver I'll just leave this here...

Response by SGT Anthony Rossi made Apr 27 at 2015 2:07 PM

SGT Anthony Rossi — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 14:07:33 -0400

This is the kind of stuff that undermines the respect out lower enlisted have for the officer/NCO corps. This is the kind of thing that causes good soldiers to loose all there motivation to reenlist. If I was at that function I would have left at the first chance. Who wants to associate with this kind of "unit"!

Response by COL Jean (John) F. B. made Apr 27 at 2015 2:25 PM

COL Jean (John) F. B. — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 14:25:17 -0400

Although I guess it really depends on each person's individual opinion, if someone has to wonder or decide if a dress is inappropriate or not, the default should be "yes".

A formal military event is no place for a spectacle and I think the command has every right to refuse admittance to anyone failing to meet proper standards of dress and that includes dresses that are too revealing.

I would have serious issues about the judgment of an officer or NCO who showed up with a date/spouse in an obviously inappropriate dress and would have no problem discussing it with him.

The officer in the picture included with the question would not have to worry about attending future events, if he was in my unit.

Response by SSG Donald Mceuen made Apr 27 at 2015 2:30 PM

SSG Donald Mceuen — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 14:30:17 -0400

It is bad dress for a ball. But most men not all well look and say dam that looks good.
Sorry guys she is a looker.

Response by LTC Stephen C. made Apr 27 at 2015 2:58 PM

LTC Stephen C. — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 14:58:53 -0400

CH (MAJ) William Beaver, what's a tasteful military ball gown? Not the one shown in your discussion thread introduction! Had it been in my power, they would have never gotten past the entrance.

Response by SGT Richard H. made Apr 27 at 2015 3:02 PM

SGT Richard H. — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 15:02:09 -0400

I'm not completely against the idea of "if you got it, flaunt it".

Maybe just flaunt it at the beach instead of at a formal ball.

Response by TSgt Kevin Buccola made Apr 27 at 2015 3:10 PM

TSgt Kevin Buccola — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 15:10:52 -0400

There is always one the pushes the envelope - until there is a dress code for spouses or significant others you will always have this. is it inappropriate? sure it is but I have seen much worse at other functions military and civilian.

Response by SGT Bryon Sergent made Apr 27 at 2015 3:41 PM

SGT Bryon Sergent — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 15:41:47 -0400

Personally, there would be a fight. I'm a Grunt, and if there are Grunts there they are GOING to look. And then someone gets there feel bads hurt and then someone says something and then all hell breaks loose.

This is why we can't have good things! one person ruins it for us all. If it would have been the Private showing up with his stripper girl friend dress like this we would have escorted them both out!
But all jokes aside, This is highly unprofessional and I think I would have wasted the money on the ball tickets and the dress and not have went!

Response by SPC Charles Brown made Apr 27 at 2015 3:44 PM

SPC Charles Brown — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 15:44:41 -0400

Somewhere in the crowd is a very senior officer thinking or actually saying aloud "Can you say HOOKER!" That is totally inappropriate dress for a formal function. But these are only the thoughts of one man.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2015 3:53 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 15:53:40 -0400

well . . . Saw this about 5+ years ago, making the rounds on the world-wide web...it's like a dead horse that keeps coming back to life! lol How does that song go, "let's give em something to talk about"...

Response by SrA Conrad Lewis made Apr 27 at 2015 4:49 PM

SrA Conrad Lewis — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 16:49:55 -0400

Not that^^

Response by SFC Mark Merino made Apr 27 at 2015 5:29 PM

SFC Mark Merino — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 17:29:38 -0400

Men, treat your woman like a Queen and she will make you feel like a King. Women, treat your man like a King and he will treat you like a Queen. If this does not happen, something is truly broken. But if you dress up a pig, it is still a pig. If you dress like a $20 hooker, you will turn a lot of heads and get a lot of attention, but you will get the respect of a $20 hooker.

Response by Maj Chris Nelson made Apr 27 at 2015 5:59 PM

Maj Chris Nelson — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 17:59:14 -0400

This is from last years AF Ball here at Malmstrom. My wife made her own dress this year.

Response by SPC Carl K. made Apr 27 at 2015 7:23 PM

SPC Carl K. — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 19:23:06 -0400

I honestly can't think of ANY time this dress/behavior would be appropriate, short of being at a strip club or sex club.

Response by CPT Chris Loomis made Apr 27 at 2015 7:31 PM

CPT Chris Loomis — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 19:31:15 -0400

Sorry, I have to go here....

"I remember my first beer too...."

Response by COL Mikel J. Burroughs made Apr 27 at 2015 7:32 PM

COL Mikel J. Burroughs — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 19:32:58 -0400

I would have been embarrassed to be at the same ball. I hope that someone in that group pulled this Captain to the side and asked him what the hell was thinking allowing this to take place. I feel sorry for both of them. Frankly, I divorced my wife because she got drunk at my military retirement ball and made a fool out of herself, my family, my daughters, and her parents. I'm not afraid to admit it, I made a big mistake, but we learn from our mistakes and we move on! I took the necessary action!

Response by SGT Richard H. made Apr 27 at 2015 8:16 PM

SGT Richard H. — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 20:16:25 -0400

Is it just me, or is there a certain hilarity in the way the good Captain is just standing there at attention?

Response by SPC David S. made Apr 27 at 2015 8:21 PM

SPC David S. — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 20:21:08 -0400

I think I found her date. Must be an armor thing with the tanker boots and and all.

Response by SFC Christopher Perry made Apr 27 at 2015 8:38 PM

SFC Christopher Perry — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 20:38:20 -0400

The last two I attended were at Fort Sill in the dead of winter. She would not have made it ten feet in the parking lot. She would have made for a highly entertaining ice sculpture!

Response by SGT Mark Sullivan made Apr 27 at 2015 8:57 PM

SGT Mark Sullivan — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 20:57:08 -0400

Looks like, Ol' Captain Iforgethisname, has been hanging around the strip clubs outside of gate 5 on Ft Campbell.

Response by SSG Todd Lysfjord made Apr 27 at 2015 9:15 PM

SSG Todd Lysfjord — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 21:15:39 -0400

Oh...this must be a Ranger Ball! Strip clubs usually had to close that night because their "workers" usually attended the auspicious occasion...

Response by MAJ Robert (Bob) Petrarca made Apr 27 at 2015 9:20 PM

MAJ Robert (Bob) Petrarca — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 21:20:09 -0400

Not that!

Response by Sgt Sasha Cruz made Apr 27 at 2015 11:34 PM

Sgt Sasha Cruz — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 23:34:02 -0400

Floor length gown, slit should not be higher than an inch (2 tops) above the knee. No side cut outs, and I wouldn't expect stomach cut outs either. Open back is ok, as long as it it not TOO low. Chest should not look like it's about to make you some money by falling out, but some cleavage is typically to be expected since we are all trying to look glam. Women are not expected to look like nuns, but also shouldn't look like they just got off work at the corner of Main and 5th St either.
Too many low ranks try to show off their gf to their friends and have them in club dresses that are one size fits all stretch with slits from top to bottom. Junior ranks need education, and well, in the case of the photo you posted, looks like so do some officers.

Response by MSG Gerry Poe made Apr 27 at 2015 11:52 PM

MSG Gerry Poe — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 23:52:01 -0400

Nothing super fancy, but my wife was very presentable. She is a classy, hardworking and well educated lady.

Response by CAPT Kevin B. made Apr 27 at 2015 11:54 PM

CAPT Kevin B. — Mon, 27 Apr 2015 23:54:44 -0400

In the old days, nobody could describe ponography, but they knew it when they saw it. I've grown more than tired of seeing women 25 pounds more than the halter top was designed for. Some looked like the Michelin Man. There's good taste but there is also a need for good sense to dress in something that flatters, not degrades. We'll always have the small minority that just doesn't get it.

That said, be sure to compliment the young woman in the overused prom dress as that might be all they can afford. We're all family.

Response by SPC Jan Allbright, M.Sc., R.S. made Apr 28 at 2015 1:23 AM

SPC Jan Allbright, M.Sc., R.S. — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 01:23:18 -0400

The military has balls?

Kadda-boom
Thanks folks, your lovely, we'll be here all week, try the veal, its delicious!

Response by LCpl Craig D. Pfautz made Apr 28 at 2015 4:12 AM

LCpl Craig D. Pfautz — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 04:12:09 -0400

The one in the picture isnt to tastfull, but I wouldnt mind being tastefull for that evening...

Response by SSG (ret) William Martin made Apr 28 at 2015 4:47 AM

SSG (ret) William Martin — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 04:47:08 -0400

The organization hosting the ball should put the expectation and standards out to all the units. If I was up to me, I would encourage the civilian ladies would be formal dresses and for the civilian guys would be wearing suits and ties.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 5:56 AM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 05:56:11 -0400

I am really lucky to have the spouse that I do. She is an Army Brat, prior-service member, so she understands how the military functions. It is remarkable, to say the least. She understands that she, and my children, are a direct reflection of me.

If she tried to go to a ball wearing something like the woman who is featured in the photo, I would not allow it. I wouldn't allow her to purchase such an article of clothing. That service member should be ashamed.

Response by SSG Kristell Lee made Apr 28 at 2015 7:14 AM

SSG Kristell Lee — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 07:14:14 -0400

Response by SSG Kristell Lee made Apr 28 at 2015 7:17 AM

SSG Kristell Lee — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 07:17:42 -0400

It the top is a bit revealing the bottom should be long and closed. Always keep it classy and keep your private areas to yourself!

Response by SSgt Suellyn Nuckolls made Apr 28 at 2015 10:22 AM

SSgt Suellyn Nuckolls — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 10:22:38 -0400

Not this at all but unfortunately I can see this at an AF Ball with fighter jock wives. Yes they should be kicked out and the military person should be reprimanded for keeping their spouse in line.

Response by SSG Scott Burk made Apr 28 at 2015 10:47 AM

SSG Scott Burk — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 10:47:50 -0400

Why didn't she just come in a bikini?

Response by CW4 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 10:54 AM

CW4 Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 10:54:29 -0400

Was she dancing or flexing?

Response by A1C Robert Barbour made Apr 28 at 2015 11:02 AM

A1C Robert Barbour — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 11:02:13 -0400

She looks like she belongs in the retired strippers convention!!!!! Can somebody please show her the door????

Response by MSG Greg Murry made Apr 28 at 2015 11:02 AM

MSG Greg Murry — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 11:02:57 -0400

"What do you want? Are you selling tickets to the Policeman's Ball?" "We're from the Border Patrol ma'am, we don't have balls." Flashpoint
but seriously, this is a serious problem in our military and worthy of endless discussion, oh look, a squirrel!

Response by MCPO Katrina Hutcherson made Apr 28 at 2015 11:39 AM

MCPO Katrina Hutcherson — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 11:39:29 -0400

THATS NOT APPROPRIATE !!!

Response by SrA Randy Brown made Apr 28 at 2015 11:47 AM

SrA Randy Brown — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 11:47:51 -0400

The one that is shown in this picture is not appropriate. Maybe for some places but never in a formal setting. I would be embarrassed for her escort.

Response by SSG Kenneth Lanning made Apr 28 at 2015 12:06 PM

SSG Kenneth Lanning — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 12:06:54 -0400

I think I look best in earth tones, preferrably nothing with padded shoulders 'cause it makes me look gaunt...I try to keep the slit less than two feet in length O.o ...in all seriousness though, it's a frikkin' military function-act accordingly. I'm sure I'm not the only one who has seen someone wear questionable attire to a dance club and literally dance their clothes off on the dance floor (yeah, smart decision wearing a tube top that's two sizes too big and then wonder why everyone is looking at you)-military balls require this amount of good sense at the minimum. You're not at the club, be modest at least.

Response by CPO Greg Frazho made Apr 28 at 2015 12:08 PM

CPO Greg Frazho — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 12:08:49 -0400

I went to an awards banquet when I was on recruiting duty many years ago. My girlfriend wore a very short skirt that was apparently the subject of some gossip, which I only found out about much later.

I didn't think it was inappropriate, but apparently the wives and girlfriends of some of my shipmates felt differently.

You be the judge.

Response by SPC David S. made Apr 28 at 2015 12:31 PM

SPC David S. — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 12:31:41 -0400

Maybe the good CPT just heard the "assy" part of classy when the COL said have your wife wear something "classy".

If you Google military ball don'ts this lucky lady is the winner winner chicken dinner. As well all at the ball got a free lesson in female anatomy.

Response by CH (MAJ) William Beaver made Apr 28 at 2015 12:35 PM

CH (MAJ) William Beaver — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 12:35:40 -0400

What IS an appropriate dress or gown for military balls?

Response by MSG Brad Sand made Apr 28 at 2015 1:01 PM

MSG Brad Sand — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 13:01:52 -0400

While I am not an expert on what is tasteful, I know what is not tasteful when I see it. With the picture posted with the question...is she even wearing the dress the right way...that is even before the squatting on the dance floor...to pee?

Response by TSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 1:04 PM

TSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 13:04:54 -0400

Oh . . . you know . . .

. . . something simple.

Response by SFC Dennis Yancy made Apr 28 at 2015 1:31 PM

SFC Dennis Yancy — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 13:31:20 -0400

Whose career just got ruined?

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 2:00 PM

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 14:00:10 -0400

It depends on how you define... Appropriate?

Response by MAJ Ken Landgren made Apr 28 at 2015 2:01 PM

MAJ Ken Landgren — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 14:01:12 -0400

That is a splendid dress :)

Response by SPC Kimberly Anne made Apr 28 at 2015 2:03 PM

SPC Kimberly Anne — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 14:03:20 -0400

Hubby should have left her at home

Response by CN Kristen Ruder made Apr 28 at 2015 2:05 PM

CN Kristen Ruder — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 14:05:41 -0400

Not when your mams are hanging to your knees.

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 2:08 PM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 14:08:21 -0400

The lady in the silver dress behind her is far more sexy and appropriate. Funny how there seems to be an inverse correlation.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 2:41 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 14:41:47 -0400

Do the couples get refunds (if applicable) when they're kicked back at the door? :-)

I would define 'tasteful' as no chance of a wardrobe malfunction. That said, some women are just built a particular way that they'll get stares no matter what. Not that I would stare, because I only notice because I'm a photographer and have to see everybody. :-)

Response by SPC Antonio Massaro made Apr 28 at 2015 2:45 PM

SPC Antonio Massaro — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 14:45:56 -0400

Something like that is asking for double trouble to be talked about:

1. From fellow peers and command.
2. From fellow Soldiers and subordinates.

Avoid the embarrassment.

Response by SMSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 2:52 PM

SMSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 14:52:26 -0400

Great question! Not your example! At least it was floor length.

Response by PO1 Robert Dietrich made Apr 28 at 2015 2:56 PM

PO1 Robert Dietrich — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 14:56:10 -0400

Is that Bruce Jenner? :D

Response by SGT Melinda Ortiz made Apr 28 at 2015 3:03 PM

SGT Melinda Ortiz — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 15:03:23 -0400

Is she a female or a male cause you never know these days i dont think anybody with a conciouse will go dressed liked that but hey ive seen worse

Response by SSG Jayne Reed made Apr 28 at 2015 3:05 PM

SSG Jayne Reed — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 15:05:11 -0400

Some people just don't understand the definition of a "ball gown". A ball is a formal occasion.
Or else that woman is getting even with her husband for something he did, because that's going to impact his career.

Response by CWO4 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 3:23 PM

CWO4 Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 15:23:49 -0400

After 25 years, and multiple black tie affairs, I've seen a steady degradation in the attire of wives and girlfriends of Marines. I think it goes back to the saying "you can take the trash out of the trailer, but you can't take the trailer out of the trash". Not bashing EVERYONE that lived in or live in trailers, but you get what I mean.

Response by SGT Jeanine Mezei made Apr 28 at 2015 3:28 PM

SGT Jeanine Mezei — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 15:28:14 -0400

Not what is in the picture above! That is so tacky.

Response by PO1 Clayton Mitchell made Apr 28 at 2015 3:45 PM

PO1 Clayton Mitchell — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 15:45:39 -0400

What dress?

Response by PV2 John Cheek made Apr 28 at 2015 3:49 PM

PV2 John Cheek — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 15:49:45 -0400

That does not leave much to the imagination. Looking good is one thing. Looking trashy is another. You can show cleavage, you can have low cut dresses that hint at what is below. That is WAY overboard.

Response by CPT Pedro Meza made Apr 28 at 2015 3:56 PM

CPT Pedro Meza — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 15:56:34 -0400

I can not judge cause I never worn one, but being honest how many husbands or boyfriends tell their wives or girl friends how to dress? Now that is a real good question.

Response by SGT Alexander Wallgren made Apr 28 at 2015 4:08 PM

SGT Alexander Wallgren — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 16:08:00 -0400

Typically the dress listed in the above picture is quite
Conservative. One would recommend something on the skimpier side, maybe a little g-string-ish. Trust me.....

Response by SGT Frank Leonardo made Apr 28 at 2015 4:16 PM

SGT Frank Leonardo — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 16:16:18 -0400

Can't show any I wasn't married at the time but that dress shoes to much in opinion

Response by SPC Makissa Lewis made Apr 28 at 2015 4:18 PM

SPC Makissa Lewis — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 16:18:40 -0400

I find when it comes to what you wear there needs to be some common sense. You cannot teach or enforce that. One person may find an outfit that is too much and someone else may find the same outfit too little. Only common sense helps provide a compromise. For the record, the above picture I am not focused on the gown but the behavior of the person wearing it. Again, common sense. They do say common sense is so rare it should be a super hero.

Response by SSgt Sharron Nolley made Apr 28 at 2015 4:31 PM

SSgt Sharron Nolley — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 16:31:07 -0400

A respectful dress to wearer and rank they represent , classy , elegant , if a little fun style should still not be over revealing .. If spouse or date they need to remember who they have came with and wear it with respect .. If person is in military well they must respect their position and dress to fit that .

Response by SPC Makissa Lewis made Apr 28 at 2015 4:37 PM

SPC Makissa Lewis — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 16:37:39 -0400

Response by SFC Kevin (Ishmeil) Barnett (Retired) made Apr 28 at 2015 4:41 PM

SFC Kevin (Ishmeil) Barnett (Retired) — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 16:41:47 -0400

Definitely a big NG... Leadership would have to explain this one.

Response by CSM Donald McGlasson made Apr 28 at 2015 4:46 PM

CSM Donald McGlasson — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 16:46:46 -0400

I've seen this inappropriate photo before and although ok for a club cougar, it has no place at a military ball. We still struggle with appropriate dress code on post/px/bx, probably because we have a force of leaders who do not show the fortitude or personal courage to make a decision on these matters. As a former brigade CSM, this would not get pass my Sergeant at Arms.

Response by SSgt Matthew Lopez made Apr 28 at 2015 5:34 PM

SSgt Matthew Lopez — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 17:34:58 -0400

That just looks like a "People of Walmart" situation as a whole.

Response by SGT Dana Franckowiak made Apr 28 at 2015 5:38 PM

SGT Dana Franckowiak — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 17:38:14 -0400

She's hot and in better shape than her Ol'Man

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 5:46 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 17:46:55 -0400

I've never been to any type of ball, but I wouldn't let my date look like that no matter where I went. He doesn't look too concerned, and I think she thinks she's hot. I do like the tan.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 5:47 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 17:47:34 -0400

I believe that wives are also a reflection of the Soldier they are married to. Regardless of your rank, I know that behind every great man is a great woman. Well, it's supposed to be that way. That being said, I have been to a handful of Army formals myself. My wife has always kept it tasteful and classy, and I loved the dresses she wore. This pic is the last one I attended and my wife kept it very nice.

Response by LCpl David Kimbell made Apr 28 at 2015 5:54 PM

LCpl David Kimbell — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 17:54:52 -0400

Well that is not a Marine Corps Ball. That couple would have never made it thru the door. I would assume he would have been asked where he picked up the hooker. TASTELESS.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 5:53 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 17:53:56 -0400

Holy CSM Vote-Down. Did he say what it was he was voting down?? Surely he isn't taking up for this inappropriate attire???.... HHHHHHHHHHHHHHmmmmmmmmmmm

Response by Sgt Jack Neely made Apr 28 at 2015 6:17 PM

Sgt Jack Neely — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 18:17:29 -0400

Classless trash.

Response by MSgt Robin Sheehan made Apr 28 at 2015 6:20 PM

MSgt Robin Sheehan — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 18:20:41 -0400

Very inappropriate dress

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 6:35 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 18:35:14 -0400

Some people are just ass hats i guess have fun

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 6:40 PM

1SG Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 18:40:42 -0400

That is no way shape or form acceptable at a military ball. How is that formal attire?? She dressed like she is going to the club. I would've approached the captain and asked to speak to him first...if he did not listen to me then I'd take it one step higher.

Response by PO1 Michael Fullmer made Apr 28 at 2015 6:48 PM

PO1 Michael Fullmer — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 18:48:31 -0400

WAY ... way to over the top. Both husband AND spouse, REGARDLESS of rank should be asked and if necessary ordered to leave.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 6:59 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 18:59:42 -0400

With all due respect who gives a shit.. It's a nice dress.. Don't be so nitpicking.

Response by SPC James Glascock made Apr 28 at 2015 7:00 PM

SPC James Glascock — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 19:00:03 -0400

Eight years in and I had not been to a military ball but I can say this is the behavior I would have expected. Respect for others, or lack there of, was one of the reasons I left the military. I expected more and seeing this brings it all back. Can't say it is any better on the outside, I guess I am just old fashioned.

Response by 1SG Harold Piet made Apr 28 at 2015 7:06 PM

1SG Harold Piet — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 19:06:24 -0400

We were briefed and warned that this was a class act and not to be tacky, reputations and careers were on the line. I never saw anything like this. I did see some who drank a bit to much and the Commander or CSM got them a taxi and sent them on their way. No one ever said no to a taxi ordered by the CSM or Commander.

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 7:37 PM

CPT Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 19:37:59 -0400

that picture is the perfect example of what not to wear to a ball.

Response by PFC Lal Milliner made Apr 28 at 2015 8:07 PM

PFC Lal Milliner — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 20:07:40 -0400

That is

Response by SPC Louis Copechal made Apr 28 at 2015 8:36 PM

SPC Louis Copechal — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 20:36:47 -0400

This is complete and utter disrespect towards the military. What ever happened to the whole "the way your spouse and children conduct themselves in public reflects the way you run your home" so therfore the kind of conduct being portrayed by your wife right now show complete disrespect in your home!

Response by SFC(P) Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 8:56 PM

SFC(P) Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 20:56:03 -0400

I must agree with CSM Oldsen if someone made an inappropriate comment to her in hearing distance of the Captain who I think could be the spouse he would feel disrespected and then words and or fist could fly...

Response by PO2 William Smith made Apr 28 at 2015 8:59 PM

PO2 William Smith — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 20:59:19 -0400

I can't imagine seeing that "dress" on the red carpet in Hollywood.

Response by SPC Richard White made Apr 28 at 2015 9:05 PM

SPC Richard White — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 21:05:05 -0400

This is a picture of when I was in JROTC and this kind of gown is what I would consider appropriate for said function.The afore posted picture is disgraceful for a Ball.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 9:08 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 21:08:20 -0400

Obviously not the one shown. I'm not a dress/skirt kinda girl. Prefer blue jeans and t-shirt myself:)

Response by SMSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 9:55 PM

SMSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 21:55:09 -0400

There's only two types of class. First Class or no Class!!

Response by MSG Brad Sand made Apr 28 at 2015 9:55 PM

MSG Brad Sand — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 21:55:37 -0400

I am pretty sure she is peeing on his shoe? Just saying, if you look close.

Response by SFC Wes Mead made Apr 28 at 2015 9:59 PM

SFC Wes Mead — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 21:59:17 -0400

And I don't suppose that she goes to the base club when he is away. Very sleezy.

Response by MSG Paul Lopez made Apr 28 at 2015 10:18 PM

MSG Paul Lopez — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 22:18:57 -0400

She's hot let her dance and that's a lovely gown. What you expect an old grunt to say?

Response by SGT(P) Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 10:24 PM

SGT(P) Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 22:24:45 -0400

That's an awesome dress on a hot woman. But not a tasteful ball gown for a Military wife, let alone a Captains wife.

Response by SrA Amber Shaw (Miller) made Apr 28 at 2015 10:48 PM

SrA Amber Shaw (Miller) — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 22:48:27 -0400

An appropriate ball gown for a military function is one that doesn't bring shame upon the service you are representing, either through your spouse or yourself. It's not rocket science to dress with class, but I must say that half of the issue in the picture presented is the male. If he had higher standards for himself and the service he is supposed to be representing with honor, that woman would not be accompanying him...or at least would not be accompanying him looking like a tart. Shameful.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2015 11:17 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 23:17:11 -0400

This is just totally disgusting. They should not have been admitted no matter what rank. If that is a dance she is doing, someone really should have gotten them out at that point. So much for trying to teach young soldiers by leadership. I wonder if either really honestly think she is appropriately dressed for a formal function and not the bed room.

Response by SPC Michele Williams Bridgewater made Apr 28 at 2015 11:18 PM

SPC Michele Williams Bridgewater — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 23:18:16 -0400

Not ok

Response by Col Lyman Faith made Apr 28 at 2015 11:38 PM

Col Lyman Faith — Tue, 28 Apr 2015 23:38:35 -0400

Funny thing, no one is even paying attention to the soon to be former CPT and his date.

Response by SFC Tyrone Almendarez made Apr 29 at 2015 12:27 AM

SFC Tyrone Almendarez — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 00:27:30 -0400

There is nothing wrong with this dress. She is happy that her husband is home and is enjoying herself. If you got it flaunt it...she's not the one in the military. The dress is perfect! I would be proud to take her to the ball...

Response by SGT Sarah Bunn made Apr 29 at 2015 1:05 AM

SGT Sarah Bunn — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 01:05:41 -0400

Well that dress is clearly inappropriate. It should be elegant, fit nicely, and make one feel good about oneself. A dress should cover you middle half and not expose everything. If I wore something like that my husband would never let me get to the receiving line, heck he would not allow me to leave the house in that for the fact that I would be exposing way too much to his collaeges and command.

Response by Cpl Brian Meaker made Apr 29 at 2015 1:36 AM

Cpl Brian Meaker — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 01:36:10 -0400

A military ball is supposed to be a classy outing. If your gown is too provocative, just go party somewhere else

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2015 1:37 AM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 01:37:21 -0400

I wouldn't even bother showing up with a date dressed like that. That's just embarrassing.

Response by Maj Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2015 1:42 AM

Maj Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 01:42:21 -0400

My wife and I attended several military balls (Air Force) and there was never anyone dressed closed to this woman.

Response by PO2 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2015 1:51 AM

PO2 Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 01:51:49 -0400

Although I do not agree with the dress or their conduct, I also do not agree on posting this picture without their consent. I feel that it was not really their fault because instead of someone stepping in and saying something, people just stood back and took pictures and talked behind their backs. I been to many balls and seen very inappropriate attire and behavior and there is always someone who comes (usually a chief) and removes that person from the event. Is that simple.

Response by SSG(P) Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2015 3:17 AM

SSG(P) Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 03:17:58 -0400

Say "CHEESE!"

Response by GySgt Wayne A. Ekblad made Apr 29 at 2015 4:01 AM

GySgt Wayne A. Ekblad — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 04:01:38 -0400

I would certainly hope that this woman's officer-type husband was pulled aside and admonished. At the very least, I hope someone told him his wife is an embarrassment ...

Response by SFC Kenneth Hunnell made Apr 29 at 2015 4:46 AM

SFC Kenneth Hunnell — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 04:46:48 -0400

Is she looking for a date?

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2015 5:43 AM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 05:43:44 -0400

I repurposed a bridesmaid dress

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2015 6:41 AM

1SG Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 06:41:54 -0400

First of all rank has nothing to do with character of the individual. Secondly limitations are a must when putting out your dress code so not to embarrass both the guest and the individual's in question. We as leaders must remember that not everyone was brought up the same way so we need to always mimimize issues like this. Not a place for exposed skin!

Response by SGM William Burt made Apr 29 at 2015 7:08 AM

SGM William Burt — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 07:08:52 -0400

When going to a military ball. Your spouse is a reflection of you and your leadership. Your leadership not only in the unit but at home. If your spouse wears something as if she is going to a club and not a military ball, then you regardless of your rank has a leadership and a respect issue with military standards.

Response by SGM Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2015 7:20 AM

SGM Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 07:20:33 -0400

I prefer to wear trousers, however old fashioned they may be for males.

Response by TSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2015 7:57 AM

TSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 07:57:06 -0400

I would almost be embarrassed if that was my wife in that dress during an Air Firce Ball. I'm sure she feels beautiful and elegant in that dress, but there is a time and place for that article of clothing and it's not a military ball. Night club: sure, Vegas: Absolutely, Professional functions (any venue): Not so much.

Response by SPC Christian Ziegler made Apr 29 at 2015 8:15 AM

SPC Christian Ziegler — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 08:15:12 -0400

Why would I take my wife out looking like that, not saying body is bad or anything but its my wife and for me to look at and not my buddy's or my Commander. It's not the beach she is not showing of her body or her tan, there is no bikini if something pop's on that dress its all coming out.
Forgive me for being old fashioned but when your with me you should be grabbing my attention and other men's.

Response by CPT Michael Moyers made Apr 29 at 2015 10:20 AM

CPT Michael Moyers — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 10:20:33 -0400

It blows my mind whenever I see something like this. There was one of these at my last military ball at Stewart, unfortunately SHE was the Field Grade officer.

Response by PO2 Kevin LaCroix made Apr 29 at 2015 10:44 AM

PO2 Kevin LaCroix — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 10:44:15 -0400

The one in the picture is not tasteful.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2015 10:47 AM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 10:47:37 -0400

Well, considering the military is an organization of professionals, a tasteful gown is something that would be appropriate for a professional to wear. I can hardly agree with the gowns that leave little to the imagination. The "if you have it, flaunt it" mentality is not something dignified for a professional. If you have to ask if what you're wearing is showing too much skin, perhaps it is not something you should wear. There are numerous options out there where a lady can look beautiful and classy without having to be hanging out all over the place. Less is more is not always the best philosophy. Basically, if what you're wearing is something that covers less than your undergarments, it is not appropriate for a military ball. Military balls are supposed to be formal, organized events that bring units together, not a night out on the prowl or a night club. If you are a service member and you dress like this at said event, you will lose respect and it will undermine your leadership. If you are a spouse and dress like this, remember, it is not your image you're damaging, but the image of your significant other. Something to keep in mind.

Response by Sgt Adam Jennings made Apr 29 at 2015 11:55 AM

Sgt Adam Jennings — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 11:55:02 -0400

That's why I love having a classy wife, I don't have to worry about mess like that. She won't even leave the house to walk to the mailbox without a bra on, lol.

Response by 1SG Mark Reed made Apr 29 at 2015 11:58 AM

1SG Mark Reed — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 11:58:39 -0400

Just glad im retired and dont have to worry about suck an important issue of what not to wear.

Response by SSG Kelly Ferguson made Apr 29 at 2015 12:00 PM

SSG Kelly Ferguson — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 12:00:10 -0400

Yeah she wants to get loose, call FFE

Response by SSG Kelly Ferguson made Apr 29 at 2015 12:05 PM

SSG Kelly Ferguson — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 12:05:20 -0400

Splash repeat

Response by MAJ Karl Knutson made Apr 29 at 2015 12:48 PM

MAJ Karl Knutson — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 12:48:07 -0400

Would you approve your daughter wearing it? Would you be proud to have your photo seen by your mother/church? Military ball is conservative affair. You can be stylish without being slutty.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2015 2:08 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 14:08:35 -0400

I am trying to find what is wrong here. Can someone explain it to me in terms that can be applied to any dress choice. By this I mean an absolute standard?

Response by LCDR Jeffery Dixon made Apr 29 at 2015 2:11 PM

LCDR Jeffery Dixon — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 14:11:12 -0400

NOT! See above.

Response by PO1 Joy Atchley made Apr 29 at 2015 2:56 PM

PO1 Joy Atchley — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 14:56:54 -0400

No, they would have been ask to go change or to leave

Response by SGT Fernando Arreguin made Apr 29 at 2015 2:56 PM

SGT Fernando Arreguin — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 14:56:39 -0400

Good for moral

Response by PO2 Curtiss Johnson made Apr 29 at 2015 4:37 PM

PO2 Curtiss Johnson — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 16:37:58 -0400

I have never been to a military ball, nor have I been invited to one. But that gal's dress is not appropriate.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2015 5:02 PM

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 17:02:27 -0400

I don't know what's worse - her dress or the fake tan she is wearing. An appropriate ball how. Should not show an excessive amount of cleavage or be more than 3 inches above the knee. It also should not show the mid driff.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2015 5:16 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 17:16:43 -0400

I was just curious as to why you all had voted CH (MAJ) William Beaver down. RallyPoint Courtesy is that you give some sort of reason. Thanks and Have a great day!

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2015 5:17 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 17:17:41 -0400

I don't think this dress is something I'd wear to a ball. I have seen dresses in this format at balls and they still had class and dignity. I think it's the positions of dancing that she was caught in that make the dress inappropriate. I'd also like to venture to say that this is someone's wife and I don't think it's appropriate to have her photo taken and turned into a joke. Which I don't think is the intent of your post; however, some of these comments are not in good taste either. Let's not belittle or degrade this family.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2015 5:32 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 17:32:52 -0400

This pic was taken years ago at the Cavalry Ball in Knox. Tastes differ, but class is partly defined on how you represent.

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2015 6:29 PM

MSG Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 18:29:35 -0400

Because this is the first thing I think of when I think of class and character.

Response by CW3 Kevin Storm made Apr 29 at 2015 7:20 PM

CW3 Kevin Storm — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 19:20:06 -0400

I have seen a lot of things at Military balls, but not that. Having attended balls for some of our European Allies back in the early 1990's. I saw some interesting attire, but what is acceptable at a German Army Ball and an American Ball are not quite the same. Part of me looks at this and says does this person have an issue, one of those its all about me? What other things does she do in public? Captain Clueless does not seem to pick up on the fact that his significant other is showing a wee too much, or maybe it is me. I don't know.

Response by SMSgt Tee Rogers made Apr 29 at 2015 7:29 PM

SMSgt Tee Rogers — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 19:29:02 -0400

It certainly is NOT that one!

Response by SFC James Mathias made Apr 29 at 2015 7:53 PM

SFC James Mathias — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 19:53:46 -0400

In my 22 years of service, I have been to numerous Dinning Ins and Dinning Outs. I never saw anything as disrespectful as that and I have seen some pretty strange crap.

Response by SSG William Aponte made Apr 29 at 2015 8:17 PM

SSG William Aponte — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 20:17:50 -0400

Scary

Response by 1SG Charles Shank made Apr 29 at 2015 8:27 PM

1SG Charles Shank — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 20:27:51 -0400

Scandalous

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2015 9:13 PM

1SG Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 21:13:50 -0400

This is TOTALLY OUT OF LINE.. GO HOME

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2015 9:48 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 21:48:13 -0400

I don't even know what to say.

Response by PO1 Jessica Ault made Apr 29 at 2015 10:03 PM

PO1 Jessica Ault — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 22:03:25 -0400

She would not have been alowed into any Seabee ball I've been to.

Response by SSG Roger Ayscue made Apr 29 at 2015 10:56 PM

SSG Roger Ayscue — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 22:56:33 -0400

I would have to use more than one criteria but here goes:

1) Would it make the woman look like she made a career spinning on a pole?

2) Does it appear that you paid her by the hour for her time, and it WILL have a happy ending?

3) Would she want HER daughter to be photographed dressed like her and acting like her?

If the answer to any of these is "YES", God have mercy on the soul of that poor Soldier that she is married to and embarrassing in front of his troops and superiors.

Response by MSgt Steven Holt, NRP, CCEMT-P made Apr 29 at 2015 11:05 PM

MSgt Steven Holt, NRP, CCEMT-P — Wed, 29 Apr 2015 23:05:55 -0400

How about choosing something that doesn't make you look like a $20 gutter whore?

I don't know the background of this picture (nor do I care to) but I'd be very disappointed with my wife if she wore something like this to a formal event. I'd hope she would have more respect for herself than to present this image.

As for the officer accompanying her... I would lose all respect for this individual as a Leader. This to me shows a PROFOUND lack of judgement and good common sense.

Response by TSgt Scott Podeyn made Apr 30 at 2015 12:01 AM

TSgt Scott Podeyn — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 00:01:15 -0400

Well she must've just arrived after her shift at the gentlemans club?

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 30 at 2015 12:01 AM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 00:01:30 -0400

Please forgive me I can't stop laughing... I'm being plunked.... Right!?

Response by SPC John Levine made Apr 30 at 2015 12:13 AM

SPC John Levine — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 00:13:36 -0400

A tasteful gown is something you'd allow your teenage daughter to wear to prom.

Response by SSgt Mac Mcmeans made Apr 30 at 2015 1:00 AM

SSgt Mac Mcmeans — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 01:00:15 -0400

I think she would have gotten a lot less attention if he wore that dress.

Response by SGT Shawn Keasling made Apr 30 at 2015 6:12 AM

SGT Shawn Keasling — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 06:12:09 -0400

Trashy

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 30 at 2015 8:24 AM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 08:24:51 -0400

Totally unanaceptable.

Response by SPC Kevin Schober made Apr 30 at 2015 8:26 AM

SPC Kevin Schober — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 08:26:45 -0400

I will have to agree it may not have been the best dress to wear to this particular function BUT If she is proud of herself and she can pull off the look than more power to her. The problem I see is she does need some etiquette training and lessons on how to act at a ball or dance based on the function and wardrobe she has chosen for that function. I am willing to bet a few adult beverages may have been involved by the time the picture was taken and I would be more worried about the person that felt it was necessary to take the picture and post it all over the internet. I also believe the Military may "own" the soldier but they do not "own" the spouse or family . I was also brought up that until I am perfect do not judge or worry about what others are doing unless it is hurting you personally and work on your own self improvement until you make yourself perfect. JMHO and I do not expect that everyone will agree but thats why we chose to defend this Great Nation .

Response by SSG Greg Rivera made Apr 30 at 2015 8:37 AM

SSG Greg Rivera — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 08:37:38 -0400

This should be more to everyone's taste

Response by SSgt Simone Hamilton made Apr 30 at 2015 9:21 AM

SSgt Simone Hamilton — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 09:21:46 -0400

This gown was in such bad taste, and it was such bad form for her to wear it. You may have a nice shape, and body, but that doesn't mean you can put a piece of cloth on certain areas and call it a dress. this was so disrespectful. I'm sure her husband though, " I'm going to show off my hot wife". No dude. Bad, bad form.

Response by SPC Donna House made Apr 30 at 2015 9:33 AM

SPC Donna House — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 09:33:45 -0400

This gown is very inappropriate. I'm sure the unit put out to all soldiers and spouses as to what is acceptable and what is not. I have been to three military balls and thank goodness no one had the audacity to wear something so revealing. You are representing your spouse in the military not going out whoring around. Jeez get it together ladies.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 30 at 2015 10:20 AM

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 10:20:18 -0400

Not at all appropriate for a military ball or any formal event.

Response by SP5 Allison Ferreira made Apr 30 at 2015 10:37 AM

SP5 Allison Ferreira — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 10:37:48 -0400

Sorry, not appropriate!

Response by SSG Andrew Ward made Apr 30 at 2015 10:50 AM

SSG Andrew Ward — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 10:50:17 -0400

I think she looks sexy......mind you I was never allowed to attend formals because of my drunken states and fondness for debauchery. PS formals were crap anyway. I always ended up at a titty bar

Response by PO3 William Whitaker III made Apr 30 at 2015 11:01 AM

PO3 William Whitaker III — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 11:01:07 -0400

Barracks Booty

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 30 at 2015 12:01 PM

CPT Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 12:01:43 -0400

How does this post get (4) x 'thumbs-downs'?

It would only make sense if the woman pictured is the voter(s) wife/girlfriend/mistress/etc, and they simply don't like the thought of her picture being posted online.

Then again, I am sure this picture has already been used in many a briefing about appropriate attire for military balls....

Response by PO2 Danny Bott made Apr 30 at 2015 12:12 PM

PO2 Danny Bott — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 12:12:31 -0400

I don't see anything wrong with this. The reason her right breast is showing the way it does is because she is bent down!! She has a nice tan and a well shaped body which indicates she takes care of her self!! Relax guys your all there to have fun and celebrate forget all the "pagan and good ol O-club stuff. If there isn't a dress code format, who are you to decide who may stay and who not?!?!
Good day ladies and gents

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 30 at 2015 12:16 PM

CPT Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 12:16:38 -0400

Class not ass....respect the uniform and the person wearing it....

Response by CPL Don Wiggins made Apr 30 at 2015 12:17 PM

CPL Don Wiggins — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 12:17:56 -0400

It probably wouldn't be so bad if she wasn't acting a fool. I personally think sexy is good. This is just slutty! If she was acting appropriately it wouldn't look that bad!

Response by CPL Tyson Burns made Apr 30 at 2015 12:19 PM

CPL Tyson Burns — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 12:19:46 -0400

This is very unfortunate and happens a lot in the military. His battle buddy asked his newly divorced ex-wife to go to the ball. So he took his favorite stripper to try to show them up. Really bad move for everyone involved.

Response by CSM Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 30 at 2015 12:33 PM

CSM Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 12:33:22 -0400

Distasteful and disgusting, why he would want his wife to dress that way especially around his peers and where alcohol is usually a factor that leads to misconduct.

Response by SPC Kirk Kinnell made Apr 30 at 2015 12:47 PM

SPC Kirk Kinnell — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 12:47:45 -0400

That is the wrong answer, unprofessional, and unbecoming.

Response by PO2 Alberto Sandoval made Apr 30 at 2015 12:49 PM

PO2 Alberto Sandoval — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 12:49:46 -0400

That's the kind of gown that should be worn to the AVM awards in Las Vegas. lol!

Response by SGT Renee Houston Biswell made Apr 30 at 2015 1:27 PM

SGT Renee Houston Biswell — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 13:27:01 -0400

I've. Seen. Worse. It's a way to show off, a way to be seen, the goal is to get attention and if you think a person who would wear this to a military function is concerned with the judgement, their not. She was the talk of that function no doubt, but now she's a legend. Exactly what she wanted.

Response by SGT Renee Houston Biswell made Apr 30 at 2015 1:49 PM

SGT Renee Houston Biswell — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 13:49:44 -0400

I recall a Navy Holiday Party that my husband and I attended while in Japan and the dress in question was so tiny that when she walked cheeks could be seen and on the dance floor Vag in full view. My husband asked her to leave and upon speaking with his sailor who brought her it was revealed that she was an escort he hired so he would have a date! The funniest part is no one was shocked or surprised!

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 30 at 2015 2:05 PM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 14:05:34 -0400

As I have been told its either not quite or its after skanksgiving. keep it classy and timeless!

Response by SFC Michael Hasbun made Apr 30 at 2015 3:25 PM

SFC Michael Hasbun — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 15:25:26 -0400

In fairness and in defense of this woman, if I was half as attractive, you'd be hard pressed getting me to wear anything, much less anything specific..

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 30 at 2015 4:24 PM

PO1 Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 16:24:53 -0400

Figured I would post some pics from 2004 (red dress) and 2012 (creme dress) with my lovely dates. Oh and yeah that's my bike in the background. Lol

Response by PO3 Robert Lee made Apr 30 at 2015 4:32 PM

PO3 Robert Lee — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 16:32:05 -0400

Definitely wouldn't have made it in!!

Response by PO3 Robert Lee made Apr 30 at 2015 4:33 PM

PO3 Robert Lee — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 16:33:40 -0400

Would've never made it in the door!!

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 30 at 2015 4:45 PM

MSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 16:45:42 -0400

Definitely NOT tasteful.

Response by SSgt Chris Frey made Apr 30 at 2015 4:59 PM

SSgt Chris Frey — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 16:59:23 -0400

I bet the whole unit got it in that night but is he the dad?

Response by PO2 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 30 at 2015 5:29 PM

PO2 Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 17:29:53 -0400

That definitely looks like the female WWE wrestler Medusa/ Alundra Blaze. She was inducted into the hall of fame recently and her husband was there and he is active duty. Pretty sure that is them.

Response by Sgt Krystal Badmann made Apr 30 at 2015 5:34 PM

Sgt Krystal Badmann — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 17:34:04 -0400

Yah, your husband may be an O- whatever but you're a A+ unnacceptable.

Response by MAJ Randall Faulkner made Apr 30 at 2015 6:31 PM

MAJ Randall Faulkner — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 18:31:13 -0400

The one above is not

Response by SPC Philip Walbridge made Apr 30 at 2015 8:22 PM

SPC Philip Walbridge — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 20:22:53 -0400

Rank does not mean class, which they clearly do not have.

Response by SMSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 30 at 2015 8:27 PM

SMSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 20:27:23 -0400

Not that!

Response by CSM Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 30 at 2015 8:43 PM

CSM Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 20:43:26 -0400

I would say these are appropriate.

Response by Sgt Melody Courtney made Apr 30 at 2015 9:03 PM

Sgt Melody Courtney — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 21:03:30 -0400

I'm feeling mail order bride idk

Response by Sgt Matthew McCusker made Apr 30 at 2015 9:55 PM

Sgt Matthew McCusker — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 21:55:08 -0400

This gentleman doesn't look very comfortable with the situation!

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 30 at 2015 10:08 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 22:08:02 -0400

Completely tasteless. Yet we wonder why Soldiers and there families act the way they do...

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 30 at 2015 10:15 PM

PO1 Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 22:15:30 -0400

So, one an unrelated note, the dress is hideous.

More to the point, I've been in Guam (although the port is irrelevant if it's foreign) a few times during sub ball, and many people either don't have significant others, or just don't want to waste a couple thousand dollars flying them out. So who's on the chopping block? Strippers, duh. Now, to be fair, those strippers are usually pretty excited to put clothes *on* and attend a nice event, so they tend to be classy, but I can't imagine ANYONE being upset about it if they weren't.

And here I thought Marines might have a sense of humor. Silly me.

Response by SSG Justin Bridged made Apr 30 at 2015 10:35 PM

SSG Justin Bridged — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 22:35:46 -0400

Army is so fucken soft these days. If the bitch and husband wants to degrade her so be it. Stop being bitches there all adults and everyone has seen more skin than that, hopefully. Well take that back I had a pl who was a virgin. Cry about it

Response by LTC Donell Kelly made Apr 30 at 2015 11:01 PM

LTC Donell Kelly — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 23:01:07 -0400

I can tell you that the "gown" in the picture doesn't qualify as appropriate for hardly anything.

Response by SMSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 30 at 2015 11:27 PM

SMSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 23:27:32 -0400

There is a time and a place for everything. This obviously was not the time or the place. Perhaps a momentary lapse in judgement. I can honestly say that before any official function/ball we have or participate in, I cover with our military members the proper etiquette of apparel. I especially let then know that if the 3 B's aren't covered then don't bother showing up. You and your plus one are representing the unit and our core values. I'm sure in this picture there was more "values" being represented. I would hope that a fellow solider, marine, airmen would've discreetly asked them to retire early in hopes of not drawing any more attention than they already had. Moot point now that it's on social media.

Response by PFC Candi Arrington made Apr 30 at 2015 11:38 PM

PFC Candi Arrington — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 23:38:46 -0400

Are you sure that us a female? If so, I would spend more time on teaching how to dress at an event rather than showing how her poll dancing has paid off. Looks like trash, dressed like trash ...well if the shoe fits , wear it.

Response by COL Charles Williams made Apr 30 at 2015 11:57 PM

COL Charles Williams — Thu, 30 Apr 2015 23:57:45 -0400

I know I am late to this one. I have seen that photo before.

"Conservative" is the word that comes to mind. My wife, also (although she did not sign up for it) had a duty to model what right looks like. Like CSM Private RallyPoint Member said, if that was my ball, I would have asked them to leave.

I actually have many photos, from many, many (too many) balls, but this is my favorite I could locate. Sorry that I messed it up by being in it.

Response by Maj Michael Spehar made May 1 at 2015 12:28 AM

Maj Michael Spehar — Fri, 01 May 2015 00:28:43 -0400

We have to remember - these days, many people think it's all about them, regardless of the circumstances. Pity the poor fool married to her, as he tries to explain just why they were shunned at the ball.

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made May 1 at 2015 1:30 AM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 01 May 2015 01:30:18 -0400

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made May 1 at 2015 1:31 AM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 01 May 2015 01:31:05 -0400

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made May 1 at 2015 1:32 AM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 01 May 2015 01:32:14 -0400

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made May 1 at 2015 1:55 AM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 01 May 2015 01:55:09 -0400

Why would anyone vote down this embarrassing person?

Response by SrA Kelly Richard made May 1 at 2015 2:05 AM

SrA Kelly Richard — Fri, 01 May 2015 02:05:45 -0400

Here's the deal, your civilian girlfriends and wives might not be aware of our more conservative culture, but that's where is is your job to let her know. If you're supposed to tactful correct someone of any rank for being in the wrong, you should be able to correct this.

Ask to see the dress WELL in advance, if you are unsure of your date's idea of class. This way if it's not appropriate, she has time to pick out different one. (Some of us ladies take weeks or months to find and have the right dress tailored, as some places require you to place your order 6-8 weeks in advance)

How do you tell her without hurting her feelings... Yeah, very few of you guys can pull this one off, I know I've worked with enough military men, and I'm married to one too (bless his heart), and what sounds honest and harmless in your head, not always the case when you say it out loud... All you say is, "Wow that's a (insert positive adjective here... beautiful, stunning, sexy, phenomenal, fun, etc.) dress!!! I love it! But can we save this for another occasion? The military is very conservative, and as much as I would love to see you in that dress, I wouldn't want you to feel out of place." Now one of two things could happen... She says, okay and asks your opinion on something else, or she's still slightly crushed because that was the only one she liked and now she has no idea what you mean by "conservative." Show her that picture of Audrey Hepburn, use adjectives like, traditional, classy, floor or near floor length, and she should know what to do.

If you still need more help or have questions, ask a military female! Believe it or not, we're always happy to help with girl things!

Response by SPC Nathan Freeman made May 1 at 2015 7:56 AM

SPC Nathan Freeman — Fri, 01 May 2015 07:56:36 -0400

Looks like a stripper.

Response by SSG Gerhard S. made May 1 at 2015 8:37 AM

SSG Gerhard S. — Fri, 01 May 2015 08:37:34 -0400

One of these is tasteful, the other, over (or perhaps under) the top.

Response by SSgt Joseph Thayer made May 1 at 2015 9:14 AM

SSgt Joseph Thayer — Fri, 01 May 2015 09:14:49 -0400

Nope, it's a ball not a brothel.

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made May 1 at 2015 9:33 AM

PO1 Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 01 May 2015 09:33:36 -0400

The gown is really not tasteful. Personally I feel the gown should accent a woman's natural beauty. If you want to leave nothing for the imagination then don't come to the ball.

Response by SGT Matthew Mark made May 1 at 2015 10:39 AM

SGT Matthew Mark — Fri, 01 May 2015 10:39:09 -0400

Horrid. Everyone I have shown it to wants to know where you can "Rent" a date like that. Poor choice of behavior and style.

Response by Sgt Karl Wenzel made May 1 at 2015 10:46 AM

Sgt Karl Wenzel — Fri, 01 May 2015 10:46:40 -0400

WTF is she doing, got sand in the bag or what. Not the right place for a dress like that at all. Embarrassing to say the least.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made May 1 at 2015 11:27 AM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 01 May 2015 11:27:00 -0400

I think her dress is extremely disrespectful. This is me at 6 months pregnant in my black dress. My Fiance and I are both Army and we attend a retirement ceremony every year. We never have inappropriate dressed women and I am extremely grateful the military wives respect the uniform where I am at.

Response by SGT Christian Belcourt made May 1 at 2015 11:45 AM

SGT Christian Belcourt — Fri, 01 May 2015 11:45:53 -0400

That's not classy

Response by CPL Katie Golden made May 1 at 2015 12:13 PM

CPL Katie Golden — Fri, 01 May 2015 12:13:51 -0400

At least she is in shape lol!!!

Response by LT Maggie Bush made May 1 at 2015 12:18 PM

LT Maggie Bush — Fri, 01 May 2015 12:18:10 -0400

It's a dress and it covers all the vital parts. At least she is able to pull it off. Who cares. Move on to more important things. YOU DO YOU!

Response by PO2 Richardson Lau made May 1 at 2015 12:56 PM

PO2 Richardson Lau — Fri, 01 May 2015 12:56:13 -0400

I guarantee when he's on deployment that hoe (slut) hop in bed w/ every GI SHE she can think of.. Or he makes rank because of her.

Response by SSgt Frederick Evans made May 1 at 2015 1:12 PM

SSgt Frederick Evans — Fri, 01 May 2015 13:12:56 -0400

That's so tacky. It screams trash. Have some form of self respect. That's the one who gets talked about, because he's "That Guy".

Response by 2ndLt Private RallyPoint Member made May 1 at 2015 2:02 PM

2ndLt Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 01 May 2015 14:02:48 -0400

My wife and I at a ball in 2011!

Response by Sgt James Touma made May 1 at 2015 2:03 PM

Sgt James Touma — Fri, 01 May 2015 14:03:31 -0400

... aaaaand she's whorange

Response by PO2 Vince Chmiel made May 1 at 2015 3:18 PM

PO2 Vince Chmiel — Fri, 01 May 2015 15:18:57 -0400

Did this man hire a wife for the evening? Incredibly tasteless.

Response by 1LT Ernest DeLong made May 1 at 2015 3:59 PM

1LT Ernest DeLong — Fri, 01 May 2015 15:59:15 -0400

If you marry a pole dancing stripper, then is it a surprise when they show up like this? No need to judge, just go with it.

Response by SPC Jamie Carkees made May 1 at 2015 4:48 PM

SPC Jamie Carkees — Fri, 01 May 2015 16:48:40 -0400

Show a little respect for the military and their families... Its ok to be sexy in a way that is not to flashy when attending, after all you are there to enjoy the evening not give a lap dance!

Response by PO2 Manny Diaz made May 1 at 2015 5:24 PM

PO2 Manny Diaz — Fri, 01 May 2015 17:24:51 -0400

Response by MSgt James Lohr made May 1 at 2015 6:03 PM

MSgt James Lohr — Fri, 01 May 2015 18:03:33 -0400

I blame everyone who attended that function that outranks him. How come none of them took him aside as soon as they saw the dress (and the behavior) and let him know it was inappropriate and sent them home say they would be discussing it further the next duty day?

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made May 1 at 2015 6:18 PM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 01 May 2015 18:18:18 -0400

Capt Private RallyPoint Member What is your objection downvote about?

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made May 1 at 2015 6:22 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 01 May 2015 18:22:03 -0400

That is not appropriate

Response by Lt Col Jim Coe made May 1 at 2015 7:00 PM

Lt Col Jim Coe — Fri, 01 May 2015 19:00:43 -0400

Sat across from a Captain's wife at dining out. Her dress clearly had a see-through knit top. Everyone noticed. After the event my wife said, "well at least she had band aids over her nipples." But that was another time (1980s). We still had disco dancers in the O'Club "stag bar."

Things have changed.

Response by SSG William Phillips made May 1 at 2015 7:09 PM

SSG William Phillips — Fri, 01 May 2015 19:09:56 -0400

Judging by the fact nobody seems to be paying her any attention, I imagine the secret is already out and the whole unit has already seen it, so it's no big deal. Lol.

Response by CW4 Ray Montano made May 1 at 2015 7:16 PM

CW4 Ray Montano — Fri, 01 May 2015 19:16:17 -0400

Ok, it's a crippy question. Personally, I think I look best in black and heels.

Response by PO2 Leah Spencer Rosetti made May 1 at 2015 7:33 PM

PO2 Leah Spencer Rosetti — Fri, 01 May 2015 19:33:24 -0400

Gross

Response by PO3 Beth Goodson made May 1 at 2015 7:56 PM

PO3 Beth Goodson — Fri, 01 May 2015 19:56:53 -0400

There's a definitive line between being sexy/classy and sexy/trashy. It's called modesty. I find them both very disrespectful and distasteful. I consider myself a lady... A lady that sometimes feels the urge to punch certain people in the throat...

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made May 1 at 2015 8:06 PM

PFC Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 01 May 2015 20:06:05 -0400

As long as it's not showing most of your midriff and areas that should otherwise be covered it is fine.

Response by SrA John Whittaker made May 1 at 2015 8:35 PM

SrA John Whittaker — Fri, 01 May 2015 20:35:00 -0400

Nah

Response by PO3 Steven Costa made May 1 at 2015 9:09 PM

PO3 Steven Costa — Fri, 01 May 2015 21:09:43 -0400

I have no problem with it what wrong with the dress

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made May 1 at 2015 9:11 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 01 May 2015 21:11:47 -0400

So much for dignity

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made May 1 at 2015 10:20 PM

MSG Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 01 May 2015 22:20:43 -0400

This picture has been going around for at least 15 years...and it might even have been staged...but ive seen some doozies before..from short dresses and no panties....to guys bringing strippers and Escorts....

Response by CPL Eric Allen made May 1 at 2015 11:38 PM

CPL Eric Allen — Fri, 01 May 2015 23:38:38 -0400

Isn't that you and your wife

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 2 at 2015 12:24 AM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 02 May 2015 00:24:27 -0400

A ball gown should at least cover the females chest and tummy area. No slit to the crouch, and be in general a tasteful dress. My rule of thumb if you would be proud to let your daughter out in it it will be ok. But this dress so not ok and her behavior is inappropriate.

Response by SR Kellie Balandra made May 2 at 2015 12:25 AM

SR Kellie Balandra — Sat, 02 May 2015 00:25:22 -0400

Not appropriate. This is what celebrities do to out naked each other. Veterans have pride, honor , dignity and a class above this.

Response by SPC Traci Williams made May 2 at 2015 1:41 AM

SPC Traci Williams — Sat, 02 May 2015 01:41:40 -0400

you can take the whore off the streets but you can't take the street out of the whore

Response by SrA Private RallyPoint Member made May 2 at 2015 1:47 AM

SrA Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 02 May 2015 01:47:48 -0400

That is sad. That fact he even stood next to her and felt it was "okay"...The people you associate with are an extension of yourself. Spouses are included, and are not special snowflakes entitled to exceptions. This is just tasteless and gross. She's wearing the gown completely bass ackwards by the way. On purpose. Some peoples...kids?

Response by LT Private RallyPoint Member made May 2 at 2015 4:18 AM

LT Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 02 May 2015 04:18:39 -0400

Just ideas. My husband and I attend several formats a year.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made May 2 at 2015 6:44 AM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 02 May 2015 06:44:11 -0400

Unacceptable!!!!

Response by SFC Rob Bradshaw made May 2 at 2015 7:56 AM

SFC Rob Bradshaw — Sat, 02 May 2015 07:56:35 -0400

That is also probably the same type of wife who thinks she can talk down to Enlisted members wives. Looks like she should be swinging on a pole in that get up.

Response by SGM Private RallyPoint Member made May 2 at 2015 7:57 AM

SGM Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 02 May 2015 07:57:53 -0400

The last ball 'Household 6' and I attended.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made May 2 at 2015 8:09 AM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 02 May 2015 08:09:02 -0400

What I don't see pictured, are wraps. There is etiquette requiring that ladies shoulders are covered until the formal part of the event is over. (Obviously dancing is the informal.) Maybe I'm old school, but I always had wraps with my gowns. As a reflection of my husband, I wanted his chain to know that we knew and exemplified the rules. Lead by example!

Response by LCDR Private RallyPoint Member made May 2 at 2015 9:05 AM

LCDR Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 02 May 2015 09:05:42 -0400

The military has balls?

Response by PO2 Alana Nielson made May 2 at 2015 9:55 AM

PO2 Alana Nielson — Sat, 02 May 2015 09:55:52 -0400

If I ever end up at a ball, I intend to wear this.

Response by MAJ Ken Landgren made May 2 at 2015 12:08 PM

MAJ Ken Landgren — Sat, 02 May 2015 12:08:58 -0400

I have a stupid question which demands a stupid answer. Why is she the only one dancing?

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made May 2 at 2015 12:10 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 02 May 2015 12:10:41 -0400

Sorry to say this as a female and retired veteran. By the way she dresses and is dancing. She looks like one of those Army wives her husband goes out on a military mission and she goes loose if you know what I mean. Not a person to trust. This is so disrespectful. I cannot understand how her husband was not embarrassed by her.

Response by Sgt Tom Vaughn made May 2 at 2015 12:28 PM

Sgt Tom Vaughn — Sat, 02 May 2015 12:28:52 -0400

There's only one word to describe this behavior
""" sl#¥ """. And maybe very very low class

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made May 2 at 2015 12:35 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 02 May 2015 12:35:34 -0400

That's definitely NOT it

Response by LTC Peter Clark made May 2 at 2015 12:40 PM

LTC Peter Clark — Sat, 02 May 2015 12:40:12 -0400

I remember seeing this years ago. Young CPT married to a hot SFC.

Response by Cpl Brett Wagner made May 2 at 2015 12:40 PM

Cpl Brett Wagner — Sat, 02 May 2015 12:40:26 -0400

As a man I gotta say what a lucky guy. As a husband & veteran I have to say poor taste Whiskey Tango.

Response by SSG Gerardo Ruiz made May 2 at 2015 12:51 PM

SSG Gerardo Ruiz — Sat, 02 May 2015 12:51:11 -0400

She looks like backwoods white trash.

Response by PO1 Billy Williams made May 2 at 2015 1:01 PM

PO1 Billy Williams — Sat, 02 May 2015 13:01:14 -0400

Cougar Dating 101

Response by LTC Bink Romanick made May 2 at 2015 1:34 PM

LTC Bink Romanick — Sat, 02 May 2015 13:34:45 -0400

Did she bring her pole?

Response by A1C Justin Tortora made May 2 at 2015 1:51 PM

A1C Justin Tortora — Sat, 02 May 2015 13:51:53 -0400

Well obviously this is an embarrassment I'm kinda surprised the husband didn't say anything. She looks like an escort and even then that's a little much there Hannah Montana

Response by Cpl Traci (Williams) Burwell made May 2 at 2015 2:24 PM

Cpl Traci (Williams) Burwell — Sat, 02 May 2015 14:24:32 -0400

The stance May make the gown look even more scandalous than it may actually be. However, to judge from this photo, it appears she has no respect for herself nor husband. What was she thinking? Additionally, why did he think it was acceptable?

Response by CPT(P) Private RallyPoint Member made May 2 at 2015 3:07 PM

CPT(P) Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 02 May 2015 15:07:56 -0400

The obvious answer to this question is undoubtedly a conservative one! For some reason some spouses feel the need to, for the lack of better terms, express themselves at formal functions and it is absolutely appalling! It’s a disgrace to the spouse that’s in the military, the unit, and worst of all their respective families. Just my opinion of course.

Respectfully,
Jason T. Blanco

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made May 2 at 2015 3:09 PM

PFC Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 02 May 2015 15:09:38 -0400

It looks like a classic photo

Response by SrA Lakeesha Rhodes made May 2 at 2015 3:34 PM

SrA Lakeesha Rhodes — Sat, 02 May 2015 15:34:26 -0400

That dress is soo tacky

Response by A1C Private RallyPoint Member made May 2 at 2015 3:57 PM

A1C Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 02 May 2015 15:57:03 -0400

An appropriate dress covers all the naughty bits(completely). If you want it to be a little sexy, perhaps one that slits no further up than just above the knee. Besides, some sort of nylons should go under a dress that shows your legs. No matter what, the person you take shows a lot about who you are as a person.

Response by SSG Buddy Kemper made May 2 at 2015 4:31 PM

SSG Buddy Kemper — Sat, 02 May 2015 16:31:20 -0400

I think she lifts weights....?

Response by PVT Idella Firstlist made May 2 at 2015 5:55 PM

PVT Idella Firstlist — Sat, 02 May 2015 17:55:16 -0400

Something from June Cleaver's wardrobe on a night out with Ward! Lol.

Response by SSG(P) Private RallyPoint Member made May 2 at 2015 6:54 PM

SSG(P) Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 02 May 2015 18:54:02 -0400

My wife and I.

Response by LTC Bink Romanick made May 2 at 2015 7:19 PM

LTC Bink Romanick — Sat, 02 May 2015 19:19:21 -0400

Response by PFC Cynthia Mitchell made May 2 at 2015 7:20 PM

PFC Cynthia Mitchell — Sat, 02 May 2015 19:20:39 -0400

Embarrassing to the service member and his chain of command.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made May 2 at 2015 8:02 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 02 May 2015 20:02:28 -0400

For the love of God, can you have a little more respect for yourself and your spouse. She looks like a hooker and he is just as bad for allowing that! There comes a time when you just have to say no, that was so inappropriate.

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made May 2 at 2015 8:03 PM

PO1 Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 02 May 2015 20:03:20 -0400

If it's good enough for Hollywood's red carpet, add some more cloth.

Response by SGT Romeo Reyes made May 2 at 2015 8:16 PM

SGT Romeo Reyes — Sat, 02 May 2015 20:16:11 -0400

Looks hot to me!

Response by Sgt James S. made May 2 at 2015 8:23 PM

Sgt James S. — Sat, 02 May 2015 20:23:09 -0400

That dress is many things, but a tasteful ball gown it is certainly not.

Response by SFC Vince Dunlap made May 2 at 2015 8:43 PM

SFC Vince Dunlap — Sat, 02 May 2015 20:43:49 -0400

I believe the reason this photo is taking so much heat is because of what's happening in the picture. A lot of you are questioning the dress when your response might be more because of your feelings of what she's doing. Yes, the dress is a little revealing but if they were posing for picture as opposing to dancing (at least she is), then maybe this isn't that much of an issue. Our society and our world is changing: gay rights, women in the infantry, tattoos, etc. They're are bigger more important things going on right now than to be worried about this woman and her dress and a military function in which most of the personnel there will get drunk to begin with. Just my two cents though.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made May 2 at 2015 8:44 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 02 May 2015 20:44:14 -0400

She should have never been allowed to enter. Dresses should be long and any side slits should be kept to just right above the knee and no cut outs at all. Low backs on the dress shouldn't be too low. The dress should be of darker color meaning no brights like orange, yellow, or lime green. You are supposed to be representing the person you are attending with, you should never get out of control drunk or give your date a strip dance. And above all wear some underwear.

Response by Sgt Den OBrien made May 2 at 2015 9:02 PM

Sgt Den OBrien — Sat, 02 May 2015 21:02:30 -0400

The gown wasn't too tasteful, but she was pretty tasty.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 3 at 2015 12:26 AM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 03 May 2015 00:26:51 -0400

She looks more like she was bought that night than a wife.. he must have got desperate and got her off the street.

Response by PO1 John Meyer, CPC made May 3 at 2015 6:26 AM

PO1 John Meyer, CPC — Sun, 03 May 2015 06:26:38 -0400

Well.... if you're woman is dressed like she's an employee of a strip club or if her gown says, "Let's get in on like I'm in a club looking to pick up a man!", then I'd have to say that "gown" is a no go.

In my opinion, military balls are an event to let loose and have some fun with fellow service men/women and their significant other, but really.... Military balls are also a formal function and everyone (active duty or otherwise) should dress appropriately.

And now for a little stop and some humor...

A young woman was pulled over by a State Trooper for speeding. The trooper walked to her car window, flipping open his ticket book, and asked for her license and registration. As she handed the trooper the paperwork she said, “I bet you are going to sell me a ticket to the State Trooper’s Ball, aren’t you?”

He looked at the woman and said, ” Ma’am, State Troopers don’t have balls.” There was a moment of silence, he closed his book, tipped his hat, got back in his patrol car and left.

An oldie, but goodie. LOL

Response by MAJ Corena Gardner made May 3 at 2015 7:05 AM

MAJ Corena Gardner — Sun, 03 May 2015 07:05:16 -0400

Very crude fora professional gathering. I have never seen a dress so immodest for a military ball or other formal event.

Response by CPO Jeanie Kittleson made May 3 at 2015 12:04 PM

CPO Jeanie Kittleson — Sun, 03 May 2015 12:04:57 -0400

If memory serves me correctly (pardon but the data banks are getting full) this is a picture from a ball in the 90s and for some reason I want to say was held in Germany. Location might be wrong, but this can across e-mail and long before Facebook.

This is quite inappropriate. Class is showcasing your form in a well fitted dress that complements your escort's uniform. It is not to be the attention seeking "look at me" Barbie doll. If no one had the courage to escort her out before this and I was there, they would have seen what a salty FMF HMC is capable of is a polite and respectful manner as to not embarrass the hosts of the ball

Response by SFC Sylvia Contreras White made May 3 at 2015 12:21 PM

SFC Sylvia Contreras White — Sun, 03 May 2015 12:21:48 -0400

This by all means is not tasteful!

Response by SN Jessica Johnson made May 3 at 2015 12:38 PM

SN Jessica Johnson — Sun, 03 May 2015 12:38:25 -0400

This is so disgraceful!

Response by CPL Billie Jo Linville made May 3 at 2015 1:24 PM

CPL Billie Jo Linville — Sun, 03 May 2015 13:24:40 -0400

Dress with respect ladies, this is not a night out at the club!!

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made May 3 at 2015 1:41 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 03 May 2015 13:41:19 -0400

Woah! I got nothing.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 3 at 2015 1:43 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 03 May 2015 13:43:35 -0400

This is my wife and I at the Army b-day ball 2013.

Response by CSM Private RallyPoint Member made May 3 at 2015 2:10 PM

CSM Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 03 May 2015 14:10:51 -0400

Inappropriate wear for a Military ball, however there are ways to address the issue without embarrassment and tactfulness.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made May 3 at 2015 2:23 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 03 May 2015 14:23:23 -0400

As a man why would you even allow your wife to leave the house dressed as such.?

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made May 3 at 2015 4:27 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 03 May 2015 16:27:06 -0400

The fact that I have seen this dress on a lingerie website.....

Response by SFC Thomas Martin made May 3 at 2015 5:11 PM

SFC Thomas Martin — Sun, 03 May 2015 17:11:12 -0400

Honestly glad I retired from the Army some years ago. It is situations like this that appall me. Those in power try to regulate morality while simultaneously pardoning those who commit some of the most vile acts in the ranks, (DUI, adultery, coercion, sexual assault etc.) Because YOUR significant other doesn't look that good and has had perhaps way too many visits at Dunkin, you want to bash other people. Try looking in the mirror.

Response by Cpl Luis Correia made May 3 at 2015 5:53 PM

Cpl Luis Correia — Sun, 03 May 2015 17:53:33 -0400

I think my SgtMaj would have said something to this affect;

"Excuse me Captain, I know you think this is either a High School reunion or Frat party... But I assure you it is neither... Please take that "escort", pay her whatever it is she charges for the evening and send her on her way..."

And then my CO would probably have him on "special" duty, like Bareacks Inspection Officer or some other BS of that nature...

Response by SSgt James Wilder made May 3 at 2015 6:51 PM

SSgt James Wilder — Sun, 03 May 2015 18:51:44 -0400

That dress is nothing compared to some of the dresses I have seen over the past 20 years. It seems that as our society becomes more open about sex and sexual conduct clothing has become more revealing.

Response by SSG Rex McFarland made May 3 at 2015 7:24 PM

SSG Rex McFarland — Sun, 03 May 2015 19:24:57 -0400

She might as well have shown up naked. To much skin showing.

Response by SSG Judith Cotten made May 3 at 2015 8:16 PM

SSG Judith Cotten — Sun, 03 May 2015 20:16:58 -0400

Inappropriate. The military has changed a lot since I've retired.

Response by Sgt Michael Bredthauer made May 3 at 2015 9:02 PM

Sgt Michael Bredthauer — Sun, 03 May 2015 21:02:23 -0400

Very inappropriate, who can you blame more, the women who wears the dress to such a formal military occasion or the service member who brings her along?

Response by MSgt Earl Nelms made May 3 at 2015 9:57 PM

MSgt Earl Nelms — Sun, 03 May 2015 21:57:06 -0400

Not this

Response by Sgt Jerri Pippin made May 3 at 2015 10:19 PM

Sgt Jerri Pippin — Sun, 03 May 2015 22:19:15 -0400

If this is an official military ball then absolutely not...as a female veteran I find this distasteful and disgraceful to not only to women everywhere. ..but, extremely disrespectful to women who wear or have worn the uniform.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made May 3 at 2015 10:21 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 03 May 2015 22:21:17 -0400

CH (MAJ) William Beaver Sir, you definitely picked a winner. Over 202,000 views in a week...! I'm surprised more people haven't seen this photo. Nice post.

Response by LCDR Private RallyPoint Member made May 3 at 2015 11:46 PM

LCDR Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 03 May 2015 23:46:41 -0400

When do people get arrested for indecent Exposure?

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made May 3 at 2015 11:57 PM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 03 May 2015 23:57:36 -0400

82nd?

Response by Capt Tony Pennello made May 4 at 2015 12:28 AM

Capt Tony Pennello — Mon, 04 May 2015 00:28:40 -0400

Class
simple = elegant

Response by PO3 Amanda Vaughn made May 4 at 2015 12:51 AM

PO3 Amanda Vaughn — Mon, 04 May 2015 00:51:14 -0400

Anything but that... it's a military function, not a club.

Response by SGT Nikki West made May 4 at 2015 7:18 AM

SGT Nikki West — Mon, 04 May 2015 07:18:43 -0400

I've seen soldiers of all ranks marry none prostitutes. It's a common theme so I'm not surprised.

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made May 4 at 2015 7:44 AM

MSG Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 04 May 2015 07:44:50 -0400

I would say that modesty should rule the event, and how you act (dance pictures) while there should be proper for the event.

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made May 4 at 2015 9:01 AM

PO1 Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 04 May 2015 09:01:16 -0400

☝️That's a cocktail waitress in a Dolly Parton wig! (I said I know it Dad, ain't she COOL?!? That's the kind I dig!)

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made May 4 at 2015 9:33 AM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 04 May 2015 09:33:43 -0400

Well it goes to show that you have to be specific in the directions/rules of decorum at functions because you get this type of issue. Not the right time and place to wear but at the yellow ribbon ceremony for my unit at check in we kinda had some of the same issue and we had to set them straight

Response by PFC Gary King made May 4 at 2015 10:31 AM

PFC Gary King — Mon, 04 May 2015 10:31:52 -0400

I'm sorry if I offend someone. But she look like a street walker. That is very disgraceful. No way my woman would go out of the house that way.

Response by SFC Susan Hoppe made May 4 at 2015 11:38 AM

SFC Susan Hoppe — Mon, 04 May 2015 11:38:14 -0400

Being Military and married to a CSM, I chose to wear civilian attire. This is so not appropriate. Sorry to say it is not even age appropriate for her. She is not 25 any more, let it go lady.

Response by SP5 John Harms made May 4 at 2015 12:09 PM

SP5 John Harms — Mon, 04 May 2015 12:09:18 -0400

That's is absolutely ridiculious she looks like a slob!

Response by SPC Sheila Lewis made May 4 at 2015 12:10 PM

SPC Sheila Lewis — Mon, 04 May 2015 12:10:35 -0400

that's not it

Response by Cpl Tropix Knight made May 4 at 2015 1:04 PM

Cpl Tropix Knight — Mon, 04 May 2015 13:04:39 -0400

How unladylike...

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made May 4 at 2015 1:53 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 04 May 2015 13:53:46 -0400

Not only is the dress beyond inappropriate, her behavior is totally out of place. I'd expect to see this dress and behavior at a high school prom, as much as I hate to admit it, not a Military Ball.

Response by MSG James Douglas made May 4 at 2015 2:17 PM

MSG James Douglas — Mon, 04 May 2015 14:17:37 -0400

Etiquette was completely blown out the water.

Response by LTC Bink Romanick made May 4 at 2015 2:30 PM

LTC Bink Romanick — Mon, 04 May 2015 14:30:00 -0400

Please tell me that he is not an armor officer.

Response by SGT Darush Zardoust made May 4 at 2015 3:37 PM

SGT Darush Zardoust — Mon, 04 May 2015 15:37:28 -0400

Wow havent seen that pic since germany 2001

Response by SFC Fred Holt made May 4 at 2015 5:13 PM

SFC Fred Holt — Mon, 04 May 2015 17:13:18 -0400

Sad part is I know exactly what ball this was. I don't remember the exact year. I believe it was either 1999 or 2000 but it was 5th Groups ball. On a positive note, the Group Commander did tell him to leave and take his wife and if they wanted to return then she would need to be dressed appropriately.

Response by SPC Stephanie Been made May 4 at 2015 5:22 PM

SPC Stephanie Been — Mon, 04 May 2015 17:22:34 -0400

I think we have all had a bit to drink at a ball, kicked our shoe's off and did some dirty dancing. Being military or military spouse, you still are supposed to have some etiquette. The dress would be fine for a close Christmas party or similar function but as a spouse it does state that we are supposed to keep military bearings as well as our active duty. If this was Michelle Obama doing this, what would our kids think, some would say do what she wants. Other countries would be mortified. We do need to have some class and bearing for our structure. It is sad to see that our country usually doesn't care one way or another.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made May 4 at 2015 5:23 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 04 May 2015 17:23:42 -0400

I find this very uncomfortable, it's not te club, or the street corner, it is "supposed" to be a formal function, dresses should be closed all the way around especially if you are going to "dance" like that. Utterly disgusting to me that this person represents someone in the military

Response by SFC Arlin Kramer made May 4 at 2015 6:05 PM

SFC Arlin Kramer — Mon, 04 May 2015 18:05:03 -0400

This photo is older then you have been in the Army CPT. I retired 11 yrs ago and this photo was posted about 5 yrs before that.

Response by CPL Bryan Claeys made May 4 at 2015 7:15 PM

CPL Bryan Claeys — Mon, 04 May 2015 19:15:13 -0400

My limited experience with military balls leaves me with the impression that an appropriate gown would be more conservative since the military itself, at least in my opinion, is pretty conservative.

Response by Cpl Peter Martuneac made May 4 at 2015 8:05 PM

Cpl Peter Martuneac — Mon, 04 May 2015 20:05:34 -0400

This was the gown my date wore to my last Marine Corps Ball. Conservative and appropriate while still being sexy.

Response by SFC Johnny Ragin made May 4 at 2015 8:43 PM

SFC Johnny Ragin — Mon, 04 May 2015 20:43:30 -0400

I was a private and that gentleman was my commander...but that was not his spouse. Needless to say, his career ended shortly thereafter.

Response by SSG Brenda Garibaldi made May 4 at 2015 10:38 PM

SSG Brenda Garibaldi — Mon, 04 May 2015 22:38:47 -0400

Well for one as a Female I chose classy over trashy secondly there is no way in hell I would embarrass my bf or husband dressing like that let alone myself.

Response by PO2 Roger Duncan made May 4 at 2015 10:58 PM

PO2 Roger Duncan — Mon, 04 May 2015 22:58:06 -0400

What is appropriate? Not judging others is appropriate. We as a society need to be able to move on and accept that what the majority of you are calling "appropriate" are gowns some of the younger generation would find in their grandmother's closet. Get used to it folks, the older we get the more we cling to older styles and the more judgmental we get of our younger generations. Evolve.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made May 4 at 2015 11:14 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 04 May 2015 23:14:49 -0400

Can we take this post down? Every time I see this picture I vomit!!

Response by CPL Private RallyPoint Member made May 4 at 2015 11:35 PM

CPL Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 04 May 2015 23:35:47 -0400

Is that Kelly Lynch?

Response by SGT Mike Rudd made May 4 at 2015 11:37 PM

SGT Mike Rudd — Mon, 04 May 2015 23:37:29 -0400

This is not proper attire for ball maybe for a bar

Response by SSG Anthony Piper made May 4 at 2015 11:51 PM

SSG Anthony Piper — Mon, 04 May 2015 23:51:47 -0400

I remember this from the 80s

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made May 5 at 2015 12:06 AM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 05 May 2015 00:06:47 -0400

My beautiful wife and me.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made May 5 at 2015 12:07 AM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 05 May 2015 00:07:35 -0400

I am not certain I can quantify a tasteful military ball gown, however, I can say the one pictured isn't appropriate so I will give it a shot. An appropriate military ball gown does not draw undo attention. An appropriate military ball gown should not say "look at me" more than once and certainly not for more than 20 to 30 seconds. I agree with the CSM from Fort Stewart. I find it difficult to believe that person was allowed to enter the event much less stay long enough to dance. Unfortunately those of us in the Army with a sense of fashion and respect for others are faced with having to deal with the results of deminished recruiting standards. I suppose that comes with 15 years of war, but it doesn't have to. People want to be part of something exclusive. If the Army establishes a standard of education and appearance in recruits and maintains standards throughout training and within unit assignments situations such as the one pictured can be avoided or at least diminished. Had I been in attendance I would have been torn between quietly suggesting to the couple that her appearance was inappropriate and they should leave and simply inquiring as to the cost of hiring an escort to attend an evening such as that, because, truly, the only place you see someone dressed such as that is either a Hollywood awards event or an upscale gentlemen club.

Response by PO1 James Grady made May 5 at 2015 12:10 AM

PO1 James Grady — Tue, 05 May 2015 00:10:53 -0400

Why are officers seemingly 10x more obsessed with appearance, rather than substance?

Response by A1C John Driscoll made May 5 at 2015 12:12 AM

A1C John Driscoll — Tue, 05 May 2015 00:12:47 -0400

Depending on the "Theme" of the Ball.... she might have been wearing the correct gown, HOWEVER, her choice to "show" what she has was definitely in poor taste and should have been corrected when she was noticed to behave in this manner. From the appearance of the other gowns in the picture, i'm guessing the dress was not in relation to the "theme" of this ball. This dress would have been a good choice for the "Vegas Nights Ball" or the "Salsa Dancing Night" events.

Response by SGT(P) Private RallyPoint Member made May 5 at 2015 12:45 AM

SGT(P) Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 05 May 2015 00:45:42 -0400

I've look at the photo for a bit, and the only thing I can say with all honesty is that it really doesn't seem to be the appropriate garment for this specific occasion. Power to the woman for feeling confident with herself to wear such a dress. This is more a dress one would wear to go club hopping and not an elegant affair such as the military ball. I do, however; think her hair and heals are quite lovely and she is obviously a fit woman.

Response by PO2 James Gregory made May 5 at 2015 12:50 AM

PO2 James Gregory — Tue, 05 May 2015 00:50:37 -0400

that's inappropriate for any function unless you're going to a nightclub.unfortunately Not everybody gets it!I'm going to tell you truth he or she don't have respect for the military!!!

Response by CW4 Private RallyPoint Member made May 5 at 2015 2:32 AM

CW4 Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 05 May 2015 02:32:20 -0400

Is there any way to remove a post from your "timeline"?? I am seriously tired of seeing this women every time I log in to RP lol!

Response by MSG Randall Abrahamson made May 5 at 2015 3:46 AM

MSG Randall Abrahamson — Tue, 05 May 2015 03:46:30 -0400

Like it, nothing wrong with warriors showing of the women who supported them during many long deployments.

Response by 1stSgt Private RallyPoint Member made May 5 at 2015 3:53 AM

1stSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 05 May 2015 03:53:26 -0400

It shouldn't matter what the rank of the individual, a LADY should never want to embarrass herself nor the gentleman escorting her. Furthermore, this gentleman should have manned up and checked her on this outfit prior to leaving their home.

Response by Cpl Eric Plater made May 5 at 2015 7:11 AM

Cpl Eric Plater — Tue, 05 May 2015 07:11:50 -0400

Show class not your ass ! I feel embarrassed for him !!

Response by TSgt Tom Bartlett made May 5 at 2015 7:29 AM

TSgt Tom Bartlett — Tue, 05 May 2015 07:29:57 -0400

Show a little class. A proper lady would dress more appropriate.

Response by SGT Timothy Stroud made May 5 at 2015 9:11 AM

SGT Timothy Stroud — Tue, 05 May 2015 09:11:32 -0400

I've seen ladies wear this type of attire to formal functions and they become quite the spectacle. I love to "people watch" and she would've given me ammunition for at least three party conversations. Let's give credit where credit is due though. She is in amazing shape and obviously very proud of her physique. Who knows? Maybe she is a personal trainer but there is a time and place for a dress like this and I'm fairly confident that she didn't walk The Red Carpet that evening. As males, our eyes are drawn to areas that are both covered and uncovered. We look for the contrast and I'm sure all eyes were on her that evening. My question is what do WOMEN think of women who wear dresses like this at formal functions?

Response by SPC Carl Foster made May 5 at 2015 11:54 AM

SPC Carl Foster — Tue, 05 May 2015 11:54:31 -0400

http://www.OncePerMonthGoldClub.com
I think the couple were both consenting adults, But it will turn alot of eyes during the ball.

Response by Capt Mark Strobl made May 5 at 2015 2:47 PM

Capt Mark Strobl — Tue, 05 May 2015 14:47:51 -0400

I see you got some "down" votes for this discussion. Looks like there are 10 ladies who were asked to "go change."

Response by SPC Arthur Hanley made May 5 at 2015 2:56 PM

SPC Arthur Hanley — Tue, 05 May 2015 14:56:50 -0400

Totally inappropriate at almost any function, military or civilian.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made May 5 at 2015 3:24 PM

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 05 May 2015 15:24:33 -0400

Bottom line is that if we are being taught to be professionals and we are acting as professionals, our spouse or significant other should respect that we talk, look and act as professionals. I despise the fact that both sides need to express themselves in a way that we would only see that kind of stuff in the privacy of our own home or place. Not at a professional military function.

Response by MAJ Anthony DeStefano made May 5 at 2015 4:09 PM

MAJ Anthony DeStefano — Tue, 05 May 2015 16:09:21 -0400

The officer corps of yesteryear would have policed itself of this nonsense! How can you control the discipline of soldiers if you cannot contain yourselves as a couple? Makes no sense. You are always on display to subordinates, peers and superiors in the military...this does not cut the mustard gang...

Response by SSgt Kacie Esparza made May 5 at 2015 4:17 PM

SSgt Kacie Esparza — Tue, 05 May 2015 16:17:24 -0400

Something tasteful and elegant.

Response by SN Jeff Phillips made May 5 at 2015 4:21 PM

SN Jeff Phillips — Tue, 05 May 2015 16:21:08 -0400

Talk about trophy wife

Response by TSgt James Kirk made May 5 at 2015 5:14 PM

TSgt James Kirk — Tue, 05 May 2015 17:14:40 -0400

I am very open minded so lets take this dress you are showing for example. It can be tasteful or tasteless depending how the person carries them self their attire.

Response by CDR Private RallyPoint Member made May 5 at 2015 5:17 PM

CDR Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 05 May 2015 17:17:01 -0400

That's definitely not tasteful, acceptable, respectful, appropriate.

Response by SGM M Crisp made May 5 at 2015 5:22 PM

SGM M Crisp — Tue, 05 May 2015 17:22:59 -0400

She is hot.. And all you uptight ass people get a grip

Response by PO2 Sandra Ingram made May 5 at 2015 6:31 PM

PO2 Sandra Ingram — Tue, 05 May 2015 18:31:33 -0400

No picture to show, but i she that this gown is WAY INAPPROPRIATE.

Response by SSG John Erny made May 5 at 2015 6:38 PM

SSG John Erny — Tue, 05 May 2015 18:38:00 -0400

Classy, she is a Princess

Response by SSG John Erny made May 5 at 2015 6:41 PM

SSG John Erny — Tue, 05 May 2015 18:41:05 -0400

Que Bow chicka music

Response by PO3 Jennifer Lease-Medairos made May 5 at 2015 7:20 PM

PO3 Jennifer Lease-Medairos — Tue, 05 May 2015 19:20:41 -0400

I got no words other than tasteless and un-becoming of the service member.

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made May 5 at 2015 8:08 PM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 05 May 2015 20:08:57 -0400

When all else fails, just wear your undergarments... (don't forget to check out those hashtags)

Response by PFC Mike Martioski made May 5 at 2015 8:59 PM

PFC Mike Martioski — Tue, 05 May 2015 20:59:41 -0400

No way in hell should these people have gotten into the function. Class is class regardless of rank. These folks have none. #officersshouldknowbetter

Response by PFC Mike Martioski made May 5 at 2015 9:02 PM

PFC Mike Martioski — Tue, 05 May 2015 21:02:08 -0400

Also, that officer needs to square away his uniform. Fix the trouser break and the thumb break is too short. ##fail

Response by PO1 Bob Klinger made May 5 at 2015 9:37 PM

PO1 Bob Klinger — Tue, 05 May 2015 21:37:34 -0400

Not the your showing

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 5 at 2015 9:53 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 05 May 2015 21:53:00 -0400

Something that you would wear to meet your mother in law in.

Response by PO3 Kj Harris made May 5 at 2015 10:14 PM

PO3 Kj Harris — Tue, 05 May 2015 22:14:21 -0400

Like my little brother and his friends say going to a ball is no place to be dress like a THOT

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made May 5 at 2015 11:17 PM

1SG Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 05 May 2015 23:17:13 -0400

Depends if your date is a stripper from The Aztec Lady.

Response by 1SG Ricardo Cordero made May 5 at 2015 11:24 PM

1SG Ricardo Cordero — Tue, 05 May 2015 23:24:35 -0400

Should not even exit their home. What Rank was the principal ?

Response by TSgt Cheryl Burris made May 5 at 2015 11:47 PM

TSgt Cheryl Burris — Tue, 05 May 2015 23:47:31 -0400

Tasteful, if it comes out of the prom section, you should probably think twice.

Response by SSG KimMeshia Hill made May 6 at 2015 7:55 AM

SSG KimMeshia Hill — Wed, 06 May 2015 07:55:45 -0400

No it was not, very inappropriate

Response by Capt Private RallyPoint Member made May 6 at 2015 8:10 AM

Capt Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 May 2015 08:10:08 -0400

This is definitely unacceptable. Your spouse is a direct reflection on you at these functions, so not only should she want to look nice and classy for herself, she also should understand that she needs to look nice and classy for her spouse. One person commented "have you seen what prom dresses look like now" - we are not in high school! It is easy to find a beautiful gown for a ball that is not a "prom" dress.

Additionally, it is not a cocktail party either! A military ball is a formal event requiring evening dress. That mean a long gown, not a cocktail length dress.

While the cocktail dress I posted a pic of is perfectly acceptable and appropriate for some functions, a formal military ball is not where it should be worn.

As a female in the military, I am required to wear my mess dress to these events, so it drives me nuts when I see women dressed inappropriately, rather than in a nice evening gown, which is what I want to wear! :)

Response by SGT Joe Bish made May 6 at 2015 9:21 AM

SGT Joe Bish — Wed, 06 May 2015 09:21:52 -0400

That looks like former wwe wrestler alundra blaze

Response by PO1 Winfred Stinespring made May 6 at 2015 9:23 AM

PO1 Winfred Stinespring — Wed, 06 May 2015 09:23:44 -0400

Let people live, stop judging and telling people what is appropriate and not. Let freedom ring.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made May 6 at 2015 10:04 AM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 May 2015 10:04:29 -0400

It is the service members reputation that takes the biggest hit, what message are you sending to your troops.

Response by MAJ Ken Landgren made May 6 at 2015 11:16 AM

MAJ Ken Landgren — Wed, 06 May 2015 11:16:16 -0400

This:

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made May 6 at 2015 11:44 AM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 May 2015 11:44:53 -0400

Ummmm if you held it at the strip club, maybe.

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made May 6 at 2015 11:52 AM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 May 2015 11:52:48 -0400

Not that.

Response by SGT William Howell made May 6 at 2015 12:04 PM

SGT William Howell — Wed, 06 May 2015 12:04:02 -0400

Yeah pretty slutty. I'm down with eye candy at a ball as long as it has no ties to me. My wife would have been left at home if she thought she was going sport that outfit.

Response by SSgt Mary Kelly Anderson made May 6 at 2015 12:17 PM

SSgt Mary Kelly Anderson — Wed, 06 May 2015 12:17:26 -0400

Just goes to show the husband, the military member, is as tacky as she is for not stopping her before leaving the house. I don't know Army rank but obviously his is not high enough to where the spouse has mandated etiquette classes/training in how to be an appropriate squadron officer's wife.

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made May 6 at 2015 12:23 PM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 May 2015 12:23:36 -0400

Looks like the last high school dance my wife and I helped chaperone (and the administration does do jack about anything)!

Response by SGT John Housenick made May 6 at 2015 3:03 PM

SGT John Housenick — Wed, 06 May 2015 15:03:04 -0400

Tasteless !!!!!

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made May 6 at 2015 4:33 PM

PFC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 May 2015 16:33:31 -0400

I thought events like military balls were classy events, this officer's wife dress is absolutely trashy. sorry you don't wear something like that to a military function. it seems like she is seeking not only her spouse's attention but other's as well.

Response by SGT Victoria Wolff made May 6 at 2015 5:27 PM

SGT Victoria Wolff — Wed, 06 May 2015 17:27:53 -0400

definitely need to cover up more

Response by PFC Janice Mayer made May 6 at 2015 5:28 PM

PFC Janice Mayer — Wed, 06 May 2015 17:28:10 -0400

Her "gown" is completely inappropriate for any function, let alone a military formal where your spouses superiors will see. The fact that her husband, a captain, who should've know better as this probably wasn't his first military ball, approved of her wearing it. That shows a serious lack of judgement.

Response by GySgt Tricia Walters made May 6 at 2015 6:08 PM

GySgt Tricia Walters — Wed, 06 May 2015 18:08:46 -0400

So inappropriate. .they should have been asked to leave

Response by GySgt Tricia Walters made May 6 at 2015 6:08 PM

GySgt Tricia Walters — Wed, 06 May 2015 18:08:58 -0400

Was that an escort?

Response by GySgt Melanie Ballesteros made May 6 at 2015 6:15 PM

GySgt Melanie Ballesteros — Wed, 06 May 2015 18:15:39 -0400

Hell no. Did he pick her up at the strip club before the Ball? He should have known better than to take her looking like that.

Response by SrA Andrew Morel made May 6 at 2015 7:51 PM

SrA Andrew Morel — Wed, 06 May 2015 19:51:54 -0400

See the funny thing is he thinks hes the Man, but shes wearing that dress somewhere else when he gets deployed......we all knew'em We all seen'em

Response by SSG Carol Harris made May 6 at 2015 9:02 PM

SSG Carol Harris — Wed, 06 May 2015 21:02:47 -0400

Wow, where is the dignity and respect for self. I am a believer for equal opportunity however her mate, escort or whatever should have refused to take her to such an important event that represents the military in any form. The higher ups should have asked them both to leave. The dress should not have exposed the majority of body trunk.

Response by Cpl Jeff Ruffing made May 6 at 2015 9:45 PM

Cpl Jeff Ruffing — Wed, 06 May 2015 21:45:40 -0400

Not tasteful at all. She shows a complete lack of respect for the function. Is she trying to show how "hot" she is? Sometimes people need to realize, it ain't about you.

Response by 1LT Private RallyPoint Member made May 6 at 2015 9:50 PM

1LT Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 May 2015 21:50:37 -0400

This just makes me sad. As a lady and a military officer.

Response by PO3 Alexis Lodge made May 6 at 2015 9:57 PM

PO3 Alexis Lodge — Wed, 06 May 2015 21:57:46 -0400

At our military ball the woman had to wear their uniforms as well as the males

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made May 6 at 2015 11:26 PM

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 May 2015 23:26:46 -0400

I believe I was at this ball!

Response by PO1 Andrew Cottrill made May 7 at 2015 1:44 AM

PO1 Andrew Cottrill — Thu, 07 May 2015 01:44:08 -0400

Inappropriate! This officer should have a counseling sheet entered into his service record. It would happen if he were enlisted.

Response by Cpl Isela Cienfuegos made May 7 at 2015 7:53 AM

Cpl Isela Cienfuegos — Thu, 07 May 2015 07:53:43 -0400

Her mindset is not military ball standards. It's appropriate for nightclubs or places with poles. A bit of class, knowing the history of the ball, liquor limitations and self respect.
He should be punished for knowing better. Page 11.

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made May 7 at 2015 8:10 AM

MSG Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 07 May 2015 08:10:18 -0400

Not that!!

Response by SCPO William Martinez made May 7 at 2015 9:22 AM

SCPO William Martinez — Thu, 07 May 2015 09:22:45 -0400

Nice eye ball liberty, but not classy... not for a ball.

Response by CPT Joseph Justice made May 7 at 2015 10:12 AM

CPT Joseph Justice — Thu, 07 May 2015 10:12:06 -0400

judging by all the superlifer chatter... it appears things are returning to normal after 10 years at war.

Response by PO2 James Marlow made May 7 at 2015 11:30 AM

PO2 James Marlow — Thu, 07 May 2015 11:30:43 -0400

I would imagine that a "tasteful" Military Ball gown would be a gown that you would wear in front of your mother. That was always my standard for good taste.

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made May 7 at 2015 12:53 PM

1SG Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 07 May 2015 12:53:03 -0400

To me, that should of been nipped in the butt at the receiving line. My wife is not only a representation of me as a man but also as a Soldiers and the institution I stand for.

Response by MSgt Jamie Smith made May 7 at 2015 1:20 PM

MSgt Jamie Smith — Thu, 07 May 2015 13:20:27 -0400

Completely unacceptable. What was her spouse thinking? Even an E-1 would know that is not appropriate attire for a military function.

Response by SSG Joseph LeGrand made May 7 at 2015 2:21 PM

SSG Joseph LeGrand — Thu, 07 May 2015 14:21:27 -0400

She looks like she's attending a Hookers and Pimps Ball!

Response by PFC Brian McCloud made May 7 at 2015 3:55 PM

PFC Brian McCloud — Thu, 07 May 2015 15:55:35 -0400

It may not be the classiest dress, but she wears the hell out of it

Response by PO1 Chris Edgar made May 7 at 2015 7:15 PM

PO1 Chris Edgar — Thu, 07 May 2015 19:15:05 -0400

Damn! Trophy Wife! Not cool for a Military Ball. I'm a retired Sailor and the thoughts that go through my mind are not nice!

Response by SGT Scott Bailey made May 7 at 2015 8:41 PM

SGT Scott Bailey — Thu, 07 May 2015 20:41:58 -0400

Its a party! Lighten up! Just my opinion.

Response by SGT Thomas Raun Jefferson II made May 7 at 2015 8:46 PM

SGT Thomas Raun Jefferson II — Thu, 07 May 2015 20:46:54 -0400

The last ball I went to, there was this woman wearing what can only be described as a giant g string. It only covered her hot spots.... Nipples, butt, and her genitles. I thought I was at a strip club, not a military function!

Response by SGT Scott Bailey made May 7 at 2015 8:53 PM

SGT Scott Bailey — Thu, 07 May 2015 20:53:11 -0400

Wow!

Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made May 7 at 2015 10:08 PM

COL Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 07 May 2015 22:08:27 -0400

Not an appropriate attire for a lady nor military function!

Response by Sgt Alan Shepherd made May 7 at 2015 10:23 PM

Sgt Alan Shepherd — Thu, 07 May 2015 22:23:14 -0400

No way I would even let my wife out of the house in that for military function

Response by MSgt Todd Achterberg made May 7 at 2015 10:39 PM

MSgt Todd Achterberg — Thu, 07 May 2015 22:39:57 -0400

Class some have it some don't !

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made May 7 at 2015 10:47 PM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 07 May 2015 22:47:57 -0400

I went to my brothers a few years ago, that dress is totally unappropriate for a military ball... I've been to a few military balls and seen where they actually wouldn't let a women in with the stomach section cut out.. Military balls are a image of pride.. That lady made it a joke.

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made May 7 at 2015 10:50 PM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 07 May 2015 22:50:47 -0400

My husband wouldn't have even let me buy a dress like that... More less leave the house in it to go to a function like that!

Response by SPC Marlo Darrah made May 8 at 2015 12:07 AM

SPC Marlo Darrah — Fri, 08 May 2015 00:07:49 -0400

Response by SPC Kirth Blount made May 8 at 2015 6:20 AM

SPC Kirth Blount — Fri, 08 May 2015 06:20:26 -0400

If she isn't in the military it shouldn't matter, she likes the way it looks so stay out of her business.

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made May 8 at 2015 10:35 AM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 08 May 2015 10:35:04 -0400

I will not share to much about this picture, as I was there and I will say that there were many members that were embarrassed by this behavior. I will also add that alcohol had a lot to do with leading it to the point it is depicted here in the picture. There were many who disapproved of this scene and wished the senior leaders would have reacted appropriately and asked them to leave.

Response by MAJ Todd Lamb made May 8 at 2015 10:56 AM

MAJ Todd Lamb — Fri, 08 May 2015 10:56:06 -0400

It really does not require a specific act of genius but I have seen some spouses wearing pretty racy stuff. I didn't like it then, and still don't. The vast majority during my two commands were proper, and tasteful. During my last, my Brigade HQ was in Las Vegas, and I saw stuff there that made ME blush. I didn't have to ask anyone anything. It was understood. I always applied the Mom rule.

Response by CPT Adrineh Gouloomian made May 8 at 2015 2:27 PM

CPT Adrineh Gouloomian — Fri, 08 May 2015 14:27:35 -0400

This is a perfect "what not to wear" slide for the next briefing. Absolutely distasteful.

Response by CH (MAJ) William Beaver made May 8 at 2015 3:00 PM

CH (MAJ) William Beaver — Fri, 08 May 2015 15:00:27 -0400

I had no idea this simple post would go a little bit viral. What does that say about all of us?

Response by SPC Suzanne Howard made May 8 at 2015 3:20 PM

SPC Suzanne Howard — Fri, 08 May 2015 15:20:01 -0400

That dress in the picture and the dance would be better behind closed doors. I'm not a prude. I'm all for a good time. But I don't need an audience. Respect for my husband and myself come first. It takes all kinds of people to make the world go round.

Response by PO2 Private RallyPoint Member made May 8 at 2015 3:46 PM

PO2 Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 08 May 2015 15:46:26 -0400

Clearly Laura Bush had an influence on almost all of the wives. Ladies you all look great.

Response by SFC Mike Porter made May 8 at 2015 4:02 PM

SFC Mike Porter — Fri, 08 May 2015 16:02:51 -0400

Nope, whoever wore the rank of 1SG or CSM should've ask them to leave and return with a more appropriate dress

Response by SSG Rick Miller made May 8 at 2015 6:00 PM

SSG Rick Miller — Fri, 08 May 2015 18:00:13 -0400

Denied entry. Not appropriate. Sure, she's a civilian however there is a time and place. Respect, etiquette, and tradition is what you should see at a formal ball.

Response by CPT Tamara Brewer made May 8 at 2015 6:36 PM

CPT Tamara Brewer — Fri, 08 May 2015 18:36:09 -0400

APPROPRIATE DRESSES YHAT CAN STILL MAKE YOU FEEL SEXY. JUST REMEMBER THAT MOST DRESSES WOULD BE APPROPRIATE IF YOU HOLD YOURSELF AS A LADY.

Response by SGT David Nicholas made May 8 at 2015 9:53 PM

SGT David Nicholas — Fri, 08 May 2015 21:53:49 -0400

Yep ...hooker

Response by CPT Christopher Webb made May 8 at 2015 10:20 PM

CPT Christopher Webb — Fri, 08 May 2015 22:20:00 -0400

Well, I've seen the next two pics ... As big a pig as I am, even I think she should have at least worn panties.

Response by PFC Billy Rhea made May 8 at 2015 11:24 PM

PFC Billy Rhea — Fri, 08 May 2015 23:24:10 -0400

what was he and she thinking this is a military function not a strip club, come on nether one has respect for one another...

Response by SFC Merion Washington Jr. made May 8 at 2015 11:27 PM

SFC Merion Washington Jr. — Fri, 08 May 2015 23:27:53 -0400

This is clearly an inappropriate dress for this event. I completely agree with SGM both would've been told to leave immediately.

Response by Cpl Nikki Reynaga made May 8 at 2015 11:53 PM

Cpl Nikki Reynaga — Fri, 08 May 2015 23:53:31 -0400

Appropriate or visually pleasing?

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made May 9 at 2015 1:28 AM

1SG Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 09 May 2015 01:28:44 -0400

That is not a gown of class, it is a come to bed with me gown. It speaks to know one in particular.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made May 9 at 2015 1:32 AM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 09 May 2015 01:32:42 -0400

Was this in a foreign country? Perhaps this was a shock and awe tactic. Appropriate clothing concerns have come up a few times at military functions ball, dining out, etc that I have attended over the years. The standards of good taste still ring true. Best guidance I ever heard when it comes to "is this clothing appropriate?"---is "if you have to ask don't wear it!"

Response by SSgt Kevin Jamison made May 9 at 2015 4:27 AM

SSgt Kevin Jamison — Sat, 09 May 2015 04:27:56 -0400

The dress is not proper for the eventt.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made May 9 at 2015 8:11 AM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 09 May 2015 08:11:37 -0400

Dress classy not trashy

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 9 at 2015 8:19 AM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 09 May 2015 08:19:12 -0400

It looks like she was dressed for the wrong event!

Response by PFC Tuan Trang made May 9 at 2015 9:24 AM

PFC Tuan Trang — Sat, 09 May 2015 09:24:32 -0400

If i were a higher ranks i prob ask them to leave. It look disrespectful to the military balls.

Response by SFC Lilo Santana made May 9 at 2015 12:02 PM

SFC Lilo Santana — Sat, 09 May 2015 12:02:55 -0400

What a bunch of dumb/ square asses. If your wife is fat you have no choice but to wear a burka type dress to a ball. If she is fit, good looking and awesome, she has to do the same so as not to insult a SGM or General's wife. What a bunch of crap...

Response by SFC Dennis Leber made May 9 at 2015 1:10 PM

SFC Dennis Leber — Sat, 09 May 2015 13:10:32 -0400

There is a time and place for everything, a formal Military Ball is probably not the time nor the place for that dress. Different venue, different group, Hell go for it. I like it to going to a nude beach; if everyone is nude than it is not that big a deal, its expected, but if you are the only one nude, there lies your problem.

Response by SPC Christine Thomson made May 9 at 2015 2:05 PM

SPC Christine Thomson — Sat, 09 May 2015 14:05:40 -0400

Very distasteful! She definitely should have been kindly escorted to the door

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 9 at 2015 3:29 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 09 May 2015 15:29:02 -0400

What happened to class?

Response by PV2 Abbott Shaull made May 9 at 2015 6:23 PM

PV2 Abbott Shaull — Sat, 09 May 2015 18:23:51 -0400

Well I sure it tasteful in some of seeder place on Bragg Blvd. back in the day.

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made May 9 at 2015 6:28 PM

CPT Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 09 May 2015 18:28:48 -0400

Plain tacky.

Response by PFC Tuan Trang made May 9 at 2015 7:18 PM

PFC Tuan Trang — Sat, 09 May 2015 19:18:41 -0400

Disgraceful to the Military balls and dress code, If i were an officer i'll ask them to leave.

Response by Col Gary Rhinesmith made May 9 at 2015 7:37 PM

Col Gary Rhinesmith — Sat, 09 May 2015 19:37:28 -0400

While I can appreciate the ladie's obvious assets, I feel her choice of apparel was disrespectful, in my opinion... A military ball is to acknowledge and honor those whom have sacrificed some, or all, and is not intended to bring attention to one's self...

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made May 9 at 2015 11:44 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 09 May 2015 23:44:08 -0400

Meh.....why should I care? More to look at. Just don't get mad when I'm staring. They do it for attention, anyway, most of the time.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made May 9 at 2015 11:47 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 09 May 2015 23:47:16 -0400

Plenty of other, major issues to go around. If things like this come to the forefront, then start another war or something, because obviously folks are bored.

Response by SPC Dale West made May 10 at 2015 5:22 AM

SPC Dale West — Sun, 10 May 2015 05:22:13 -0400

If The Ball Was Held At A Strip Joint I Guess It Would Be. Most Officers And Senior Enlisted I Know Have Their Wives And Even Girl Friends Dress With Some Form Of Class And Elegance

Response by CPL Thomas Brewer made May 10 at 2015 5:41 AM

CPL Thomas Brewer — Sun, 10 May 2015 05:41:15 -0400

Most do not have respect,they just want to be seen no matter what the cost....

Response by LCpl Robert Kent made May 10 at 2015 6:44 AM

LCpl Robert Kent — Sun, 10 May 2015 06:44:18 -0400

Not the red carpet. That cloth "covering " her is not for a military function of any type. Quite frankly, with the way she is dancing, i have a feeling that there are trust issues too...lol

Response by CPL Michael Gonzalez made May 10 at 2015 9:33 AM

CPL Michael Gonzalez — Sun, 10 May 2015 09:33:44 -0400

That's so incredibly disrespectful to the uniform I barely have the words...what was he thinking?!? It looks like he brought a hooker to the ball to impress his people. He may think he's doing just fine, but simply standing next to something like that in a uniform tarnishes it.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made May 10 at 2015 11:13 AM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 10 May 2015 11:13:00 -0400

Me and my wife at the 2014 MP Ball! Your wife is a reflect of yourself, if you can't have your wife follow the standards for a proper dress, how can you expect having your soldiers followin standards???

Response by SGT Gary Theel made May 10 at 2015 12:54 PM

SGT Gary Theel — Sun, 10 May 2015 12:54:05 -0400

My question is, as an officer, what made him give his companion (struggling to not say "escort") the go ahead to wear that?

Response by SGT Amelia Byrne made May 10 at 2015 1:26 PM

SGT Amelia Byrne — Sun, 10 May 2015 13:26:46 -0400

Oh my thank goodness we were in the Calvary at spurring balls and yearly award events I don't think they ever would have made it to the door before being talked to and sent home I have seen son ify dresses but this one takes the cake WOW tasteless.

Response by Sgt Brehan Harvill made May 10 at 2015 1:45 PM

Sgt Brehan Harvill — Sun, 10 May 2015 13:45:43 -0400

This is not classy at all. A gown is suppose to be elegant not TRASHY.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made May 10 at 2015 2:42 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 10 May 2015 14:42:31 -0400

gross…not the dress but her dancing…save that for the private lap dance in your room…the only thing I see that she shoulda' accessorized with a pole...just sayin'

Response by SGT Julio Martinez made May 10 at 2015 5:10 PM

SGT Julio Martinez — Sun, 10 May 2015 17:10:48 -0400

We can all agree that this dress is far from Formal as far as Military etiquette goes. Is it appealing? Yes-No? My conclusion is; etiquette starts at home and subsequently filters to other areas. Her Husband should have had a civil conversation with his significant other and explained why it might not have been appropriate for the environment they were in, and if the advice given was not received then it would have been appropriate for the master of ceremonies to make a suggestion. The issue might have been resolved much easier with a memo on appropriate civilian formal wear prior to the ball

Response by Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member made May 10 at 2015 5:50 PM

Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 10 May 2015 17:50:49 -0400

Tasteless and unbecoming for any couple at a formal military function.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made May 10 at 2015 6:52 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 10 May 2015 18:52:40 -0400

I thankfully never saw anything even remotely near that level trashiness.

Response by SFC Jason Hodge made May 10 at 2015 7:04 PM

SFC Jason Hodge — Sun, 10 May 2015 19:04:46 -0400

Response by CW4 Private RallyPoint Member made May 10 at 2015 9:36 PM

CW4 Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 10 May 2015 21:36:08 -0400

I'm sorry but I can't stand looking at this women any more lol! I have tried unfollowing this post, hiding it from my updates but nothing seems to work!

Response by SPC Norman Graves made May 10 at 2015 10:57 PM

SPC Norman Graves — Sun, 10 May 2015 22:57:43 -0400

not the dress, nor the people who chose it. exit, stage left.

Response by PO2 Diane Glass made May 11 at 2015 6:08 AM

PO2 Diane Glass — Mon, 11 May 2015 06:08:40 -0400

Totally inappropriate!

Response by TSgt Lori Stock made May 11 at 2015 7:35 AM

TSgt Lori Stock — Mon, 11 May 2015 07:35:57 -0400

And....your new assignment will be guarding a radar site in Fort Wachuka, AZ....I'm sorry, there are no more positions available in Command War College. Oh, you're up for promotion? You can't make rank without the course? Well, I just don't see any room in the UMD to slot you into that position.

Response by GySgt Private RallyPoint Member made May 11 at 2015 8:32 AM

GySgt Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 11 May 2015 08:32:09 -0400

Though many people feel that dress is distasteful , I think it's funny that a woman that can still wear that dress!!

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made May 11 at 2015 9:16 AM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 11 May 2015 09:16:16 -0400

This is completely not tasteful to wear to a military ball.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 11 at 2015 9:30 AM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 11 May 2015 09:30:56 -0400

Anything is more tasteful than that. That is a disgrace.

Response by PO1 Mike Whipple made May 11 at 2015 12:36 PM

PO1 Mike Whipple — Mon, 11 May 2015 12:36:49 -0400

That definitly was not appropriate.

Response by SGT Jared Aprill made May 11 at 2015 1:40 PM

SGT Jared Aprill — Mon, 11 May 2015 13:40:54 -0400

Wow, if this is how she is with her husband there, I couldn't imagine how much worse she is when he's deployed.

Response by SGT Jared Aprill made May 11 at 2015 1:45 PM

SGT Jared Aprill — Mon, 11 May 2015 13:45:50 -0400

Lol, officers lead the way......????? What a douche he is for allowing it,and what a slut she is for presenting herself in such a distasteful fashion.

Response by PO3 Private RallyPoint Member made May 11 at 2015 1:54 PM

PO3 Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 11 May 2015 13:54:19 -0400

I always went by the rule if the dress is showing some cleavage cover the back, and vice versa. But never in excess!

Response by Cpl Nikki Washington made May 11 at 2015 4:11 PM

Cpl Nikki Washington — Mon, 11 May 2015 16:11:02 -0400

No. This is inappropriate. It is a BALL! This means gown attire/FORMAL wear. This is not the VMA's or the Grammys, or any other music award. This is a military ball. Military has dress guidelines and so should the others who accompany them!

Response by MSgt Tommy Loomis made May 11 at 2015 4:20 PM

MSgt Tommy Loomis — Mon, 11 May 2015 16:20:02 -0400

Looks likes the boss's wife to me. Maybe he's married to a stripper?

Response by Cpl Bobby McIntosh made May 11 at 2015 5:31 PM

Cpl Bobby McIntosh — Mon, 11 May 2015 17:31:49 -0400

RESPECT AND HONOR THE UNIFORM OR DON'T WEAR IT. I HOPE THAT WASN'T HIS WIFE!!!

Response by MSgt Sharon Davis made May 11 at 2015 6:30 PM

MSgt Sharon Davis — Mon, 11 May 2015 18:30:08 -0400

Not that dress or her behavior

Response by GySgt Mike White made May 11 at 2015 10:00 PM

GySgt Mike White — Mon, 11 May 2015 22:00:40 -0400

Very distasteful! The officer shows very little respect for his fellow servicemembers, allowing himself to be with such a tasteless date. Advertising sex is not what the balls are about. After spending 22 years in the service, I can't recall seeing anything like this at any of the balls that I have attended. As one said earlier, if a junior enlisted member would have tried this he probably wouldn't have made it in the building.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 11 at 2015 11:48 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 11 May 2015 23:48:27 -0400

Wtf hell no

Response by PO3 Mike Beachem made May 12 at 2015 1:03 AM

PO3 Mike Beachem — Tue, 12 May 2015 01:03:33 -0400

Inappropriate

Response by SSG Trust Palmer made May 12 at 2015 3:55 AM

SSG Trust Palmer — Tue, 12 May 2015 03:55:12 -0400

I agree that she needs to respect the event that she's attending... however, at least she's in shape. That's a good thing, right?

Response by SPC Rebecca Schall made May 12 at 2015 8:35 AM

SPC Rebecca Schall — Tue, 12 May 2015 08:35:39 -0400

Very distasteful and disrespectful to wear something like this to a military ball! Or anything short of a strip club. I never got to go to a military ball while I served in the military but I did buy a dress because I almost did and it was much more tasteful than this is!

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 12 at 2015 12:41 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 12 May 2015 12:41:42 -0400

I am disturbed every time I scroll down my phone and see this picture. About a thousand and one words it spoke to me.

Response by SSgt Jason Rose made May 12 at 2015 1:06 PM

SSgt Jason Rose — Tue, 12 May 2015 13:06:28 -0400

My Wife's first and only formal dinner. She must have asked me 100 times if that dress was ok. Last thing she wanted to do was embarrass me, my unit or the Air Force.

Response by SGT Rebecca Kuschka made May 12 at 2015 2:04 PM

SGT Rebecca Kuschka — Tue, 12 May 2015 14:04:14 -0400

Thats ridiculous. .. wouldnt it be more enjoyable to be talked to and not talked about

Response by SSG Derek Varchulik made May 12 at 2015 3:00 PM

SSG Derek Varchulik — Tue, 12 May 2015 15:00:39 -0400

there is always that one person!

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 12 at 2015 3:32 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 12 May 2015 15:32:07 -0400

Response by A1C Rachel Fayas made May 12 at 2015 4:13 PM

A1C Rachel Fayas — Tue, 12 May 2015 16:13:49 -0400

This is so not. Wear something that covers up. Respectful, classy, can be sexy just not slutty.

Response by Maj Private RallyPoint Member made May 12 at 2015 11:18 PM

Maj Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 12 May 2015 23:18:55 -0400

Has anyone interviewed this woman? I would really like to know because this picture has been floating around for a while now. I'm wondering if she knows she is the poster girl of what not to wear at a military ball.

Response by SPC Robin Buell made May 13 at 2015 12:12 AM

SPC Robin Buell — Wed, 13 May 2015 00:12:37 -0400

Couldn't taste any better than that sir,

Response by CH (MAJ) William Beaver made May 13 at 2015 12:28 AM

CH (MAJ) William Beaver — Wed, 13 May 2015 00:28:47 -0400

Dare ya to try this gown at the ball

Response by PO3 Sean Kenney made May 13 at 2015 7:29 AM

PO3 Sean Kenney — Wed, 13 May 2015 07:29:23 -0400

No way

Response by CDR Skip Albee made May 13 at 2015 12:58 PM

CDR Skip Albee — Wed, 13 May 2015 12:58:52 -0400

churchworthy nonprovocative.

Response by PFC Judy Herigstad made May 13 at 2015 4:48 PM

PFC Judy Herigstad — Wed, 13 May 2015 16:48:11 -0400

Prior to a military ball there were always a set of regulations in regards to what appropriate attire was that were sent out to everyone. If a female was going to wear a dress it had to be a single piece dress that covered at least the space from her chest to about 6 inches bellow her knees at least. Split dress, either ones with a split or ones such as the one this woman is wearing were not allowed. That's what I remember from the dress code in regards to dresses, but just those few guidelines I know rule out a LOT of options since we seem to be in a time period where everyone feels that it's necessary for everyone and their mothers to see parts that should remain private.

Response by 1SG Marisol Azzopardi Nethken made May 13 at 2015 8:40 PM

1SG Marisol Azzopardi Nethken — Wed, 13 May 2015 20:40:58 -0400

Definitely not this... It's disrespectful!!!!

Response by SPC James Scott made May 13 at 2015 11:06 PM

SPC James Scott — Wed, 13 May 2015 23:06:19 -0400

Seriously has a retired lower enlisted what does that tell other service members

Response by SGT Angie Hendricks made May 14 at 2015 9:20 AM

SGT Angie Hendricks — Thu, 14 May 2015 09:20:55 -0400

Totally inappropriate for the function.

Response by SFC Darryl Stevenson made May 14 at 2015 10:01 AM

SFC Darryl Stevenson — Thu, 14 May 2015 10:01:28 -0400

I think it's tasteless and she shouldn't been able to enter unless she had some type of cover-up on like a wrap.

Response by 2LT Raul Del Llano made May 14 at 2015 11:21 AM

2LT Raul Del Llano — Thu, 14 May 2015 11:21:26 -0400

I have been to many military balls both as an enlisted man & an officer. There is NO WAY that would EVER have been permited!!!!

Response by MAJ Sean Hood made May 14 at 2015 7:33 PM

MAJ Sean Hood — Thu, 14 May 2015 19:33:21 -0400

well at least she had the body to wear it..........not sure its going to help his OER however lol

Response by Cpl Kenneth Timmons made May 14 at 2015 9:01 PM

Cpl Kenneth Timmons — Thu, 14 May 2015 21:01:48 -0400

Well I think this a pic of her dancing so the shot makes it look bad other than that I would say its if she has the body to pull it off go for it

Response by SSG Jeffrey Landry made May 14 at 2015 9:05 PM

SSG Jeffrey Landry — Thu, 14 May 2015 21:05:55 -0400

No way would I allow my wife or significant other to wear a dress like that to a ball, though very sexy, every one would be starring

Response by PO3 Jody Lauricha made May 14 at 2015 9:30 PM

PO3 Jody Lauricha — Thu, 14 May 2015 21:30:56 -0400

Don't mind my fatness, but this is the dress I wore to my husbands SeaBee ball back in 2011, it has straps and a shawl as well. There was an officer at the ball who was asked to have his date go and change...I say keep it simple and remember you are representing your so in uniform.

Response by PO3 Kandi Peterson-Fritz made May 14 at 2015 9:33 PM

PO3 Kandi Peterson-Fritz — Thu, 14 May 2015 21:33:20 -0400

That's tasteful alright....TASTELESS!!! OMG JUST DISRESPECTFUL to every military member there...

Response by PO2 Christina Hutson made May 14 at 2015 9:46 PM

PO2 Christina Hutson — Thu, 14 May 2015 21:46:57 -0400

this is not what I call an gown that should be worn at a military ball maybe she should of re consider but who knows what she was trying to acheive.

Response by PFC Monica Palase made May 14 at 2015 9:52 PM

PFC Monica Palase — Thu, 14 May 2015 21:52:08 -0400

Air Force Ball 2013. The spouse most definitely reflects upon the military member and should dress appropriately.

Response by SA Harold Hansmann made May 15 at 2015 8:51 AM

SA Harold Hansmann — Fri, 15 May 2015 08:51:16 -0400

To be honestly tactful, that dress should have been saved for a romantic dinner at a high class restaurant where he would be wearing a tuxedo and not a military uniform.
For the military ball, which I have never been to, something with elegance, and tact should have been first thought on his and her mind. But not everyone has the same ideas of elegance and tact. No, I am not suggesting anything prudish, just something that leaves a little to the imagination.

Response by LT Robin Downing made May 15 at 2015 3:45 PM

LT Robin Downing — Fri, 15 May 2015 15:45:18 -0400

that definately is sleek and sexy, but that is not in line with what a military ball stands for. Definately inappropriate.

Response by CMSgt Veronique Nicklas made May 16 at 2015 8:21 AM

CMSgt Veronique Nicklas — Sat, 16 May 2015 08:21:30 -0400

Situational awareness please, while you may be a body builder; a military ball is not the place for a risqué dress.

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made May 16 at 2015 9:11 AM

MSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 16 May 2015 09:11:41 -0400

Highly inappropriate and unsat!

Response by MSG Tony Reilly made May 16 at 2015 7:22 PM

MSG Tony Reilly — Sat, 16 May 2015 19:22:23 -0400

I remember this couple, I was at that ball!

Response by SPC Ei McS made May 17 at 2015 12:03 AM

SPC Ei McS — Sun, 17 May 2015 00:03:33 -0400

I think that is an appropriate military ball gown!

Response by MAJ Robert Sutter made May 17 at 2015 7:54 AM

MAJ Robert Sutter — Sun, 17 May 2015 07:54:12 -0400

The dress is disrepectful and the Captain in the picture is a idiot.

Response by SPC Timothy Husk made May 17 at 2015 11:25 AM

SPC Timothy Husk — Sun, 17 May 2015 11:25:01 -0400

All she was wanting to do is get every other troops attention, and I feel he failed by letting her attend dressed in that manner.. My thoughts

Response by SSG Catherne Galloway made May 17 at 2015 1:32 PM

SSG Catherne Galloway — Sun, 17 May 2015 13:32:52 -0400

What we find appropriate for a soldier is understandable, but their spouse is not our place to judge only to support. If the spouse approve of what they wear, they do not need the approval of others. We causes more stress on a marriage in military worrying about things that will neither protect or destroy our country. My mother always told if you are focus on getting your house in order you will not have time to worry about other faults unless it have a direct impact on you.

Response by MSG(P) Thomas Finn made May 17 at 2015 2:05 PM

MSG(P) Thomas Finn — Sun, 17 May 2015 14:05:54 -0400

Use class when deciding about a gown. We in the military do not follow trends like Hollywood.

Response by PO1 Jeff Hagopian made May 18 at 2015 9:24 AM

PO1 Jeff Hagopian — Mon, 18 May 2015 09:24:43 -0400

Classless

Response by SrA Private RallyPoint Member made May 18 at 2015 10:58 AM

SrA Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 18 May 2015 10:58:10 -0400

That is beyond trashy. There is NOTHING tasteful about this..."gown". I am all for bucking convention and doing your own thing and being confident in your skin, but this is just beyond tasteless.

Response by SFC Timothy Reynolds made May 18 at 2015 12:39 PM

SFC Timothy Reynolds — Mon, 18 May 2015 12:39:14 -0400

Does anyone have her phone number because I'd love to ask her out?

Response by SFC Timothy Reynolds made May 18 at 2015 1:24 PM

SFC Timothy Reynolds — Mon, 18 May 2015 13:24:43 -0400

Lighten up Francis! Goodness sakes this was a freakin dining out. Whether a dining in or out, those functions let us blow off steam and build camaraderie and here you are sniping at a woman who was brave enough to do both. And brave enough to show off her hot body thank goodness. In all truthfulness, most guys think she's hot and would love to dance with her, closely. The guys who feign being offended are hen pecked wussies afraid of disagreeing with their wife. The women who are offended are in actuality, jealous because they're not that hot or they caught their man drooling or both. You bunch of busy bodies have nothing better to do than take pot shots at a woman who did nothing to you and brought enjoyment to everyone at that dining out. BTW, does anyone know how to get in touch with her because I'd love to meet her.

Response by PO3 Dale Leach made May 18 at 2015 10:38 PM

PO3 Dale Leach — Mon, 18 May 2015 22:38:37 -0400

wouldn't be somethinglike this, however she is hot and the gentleman that is with her should know better,( this would be cinderella )

Response by SPC Annette Watchous made May 19 at 2015 9:08 AM

SPC Annette Watchous — Tue, 19 May 2015 09:08:50 -0400

now I know what happened to my dish towel.

Response by LCpl David Ward made May 19 at 2015 4:45 PM

LCpl David Ward — Tue, 19 May 2015 16:45:16 -0400

the dress black dress in photo NOT ACCEPTABLE

Response by PO2 Damiain Arnold made May 19 at 2015 7:42 PM

PO2 Damiain Arnold — Tue, 19 May 2015 19:42:33 -0400

this is why I STAYED SINGLE while i was in. The things I witnessed CHEATING "wives" do was nothing short of Amazingly BAD

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made May 19 at 2015 8:51 PM

PFC Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 19 May 2015 20:51:44 -0400

Absolutely not!!!! A military gown should show that you know how to be a beautifully, strong, female and that you dress with respect for yourself.

Response by GySgt Martin Nelson made May 20 at 2015 3:00 PM

GySgt Martin Nelson — Wed, 20 May 2015 15:00:39 -0400

I think it is great!

Response by SGT Scott Bailey made May 20 at 2015 3:13 PM

SGT Scott Bailey — Wed, 20 May 2015 15:13:48 -0400

I think the man who picked her up is an idiot. If the man had any self respect, he'd have to stand her up. I would never go anywhere with a woman dressed like that. It should tell you she's seeking more than your attention. Just my opinion

Response by CPL Lynn Brown made May 21 at 2015 9:07 AM

CPL Lynn Brown — Thu, 21 May 2015 09:07:03 -0400

Absolutly not, our gowns had to be approved before any military forma.

Response by SPC Stephon McIntyre made May 21 at 2015 12:29 PM

SPC Stephon McIntyre — Thu, 21 May 2015 12:29:30 -0400

One would say something that don't show cleavage at all, more than likely she was showing her body off for one of his friends and that's just wrong show so class.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made May 21 at 2015 3:35 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 21 May 2015 15:35:47 -0400

Absolutely no!! It looks like it belongs in a strip club!! No no no!!!

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made May 21 at 2015 3:44 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 21 May 2015 15:44:29 -0400

Oh I'm so embarrassed for her.

Response by SPC Lanny Shelley made May 22 at 2015 11:04 AM

SPC Lanny Shelley — Fri, 22 May 2015 11:04:31 -0400

I consider this tasteless. This should never be allowed or even occur. What a disgrace to her partner's uniform. Very sad.

Response by Maj Mike Sciales made May 23 at 2015 2:37 AM

Maj Mike Sciales — Sat, 23 May 2015 02:37:48 -0400

Why not? She is very fit and we encourage fitness. Now, carry on.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 23 at 2015 7:05 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 23 May 2015 19:05:43 -0400

It's a little risky For a formal ball I personally would not let my girl dress like that for a ball of this type

Response by PO3 Lisa Arredondo made May 24 at 2015 10:42 AM

PO3 Lisa Arredondo — Sun, 24 May 2015 10:42:31 -0400

Disgusting

Response by LTC Thomas Rumsey made May 24 at 2015 5:57 PM

LTC Thomas Rumsey — Sun, 24 May 2015 17:57:37 -0400

Seeing an attractive woman in a sexy dress sure is too much to handle when you get back from a 9 month deployment of fighting the Muj and seeing your buddies get hit. I feel far more comfortable when the formal is populated with the standard 200lb wives in dresses that double as table clothes. That is far more proper, appropriate, formal and "to standard". It is also bullshit...let people of all stripes have fun. If the army is going to let same sex partners attend and enjoy the formal, then the stiffs can deal with a little leg and cleavage...it is, after all, where the next paratrooper will come from.

Response by PFC Kyle Corcoran made May 24 at 2015 6:55 PM

PFC Kyle Corcoran — Sun, 24 May 2015 18:55:40 -0400

Looks like the same type of chick that would yell at privates to salute her because her husband is a officer.

Response by PO2 Josh Rymer made May 25 at 2015 8:20 AM

PO2 Josh Rymer — Mon, 25 May 2015 08:20:33 -0400

Anything but that one lol, it has to be tasteful for sure

Response by PFC Randy Hulse made May 25 at 2015 9:45 PM

PFC Randy Hulse — Mon, 25 May 2015 21:45:59 -0400

Nope...that "dress" is not appropriate. It doesn't appear that hubby is too thrilled with her dance style either. I would have been embarrassed.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made May 26 at 2015 1:25 AM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 26 May 2015 01:25:22 -0400

What ever happened to class. When did we substitute class for skanky. When did it become ok for someone to look themselves in the mirror in an outfit like that and go yep I look beautiful, every woman wants to be me. I am disgusted. This is not attractive by any means and what is wrong with her husband being proud to take her to a formal function like that? Maybe we need to reevaluate our ideas as to what toxic leadership is and include how you carry yourself in public functions. The higher you are in rank the more you and your spouse as a couple should set some kind of example, and this clearly is not it. I am all for having fun but there are clearly lines and this couple crossed them.

Response by PVT Private RallyPoint Member made May 28 at 2015 1:18 AM

PVT Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 28 May 2015 01:18:21 -0400

That is crazy

Response by PVT Mike Michelle Rinehart made May 28 at 2015 11:31 AM

PVT Mike Michelle Rinehart — Thu, 28 May 2015 11:31:12 -0400

Honor & respect

Response by SSgt Simone Hamilton made May 28 at 2015 2:02 PM

SSgt Simone Hamilton — Thu, 28 May 2015 14:02:31 -0400

Okay, I have had the opportunity
to see all of the responses to this question and picture, and here is my two cents:

1. No, No, No this is NOT an appropriate dress to wear to a military ball. I don't care if you have a slammin' body or not. You can look hot without having everything hang out. Being hot is about what you wear, how you wear it, and how you act. I think it was very bad form. When they think of him, they will think of HER, HER dress and the way she was acting, or dancing. She could have found something else. I'm sorry I think it was just bad form.

Response by PO2 Christopher Taggart made May 28 at 2015 6:02 PM

PO2 Christopher Taggart — Thu, 28 May 2015 18:02:30 -0400

You have a figure like this .... this gown is very appropriate I think?

Response by CPO Susan Peterson made May 29 at 2015 11:30 PM

CPO Susan Peterson — Fri, 29 May 2015 23:30:14 -0400

NOT an appropriate ball gown I don't care what rank.

Response by SPC Mark Runyan made May 30 at 2015 12:49 AM

SPC Mark Runyan — Sat, 30 May 2015 00:49:50 -0400

It's to Oscar Awards try to out whore the other chick fashion.

Response by LCpl Rustin Poorboy made May 30 at 2015 3:41 AM

LCpl Rustin Poorboy — Sat, 30 May 2015 03:41:01 -0400

Not that one lol.

Response by SSG Leroy Farmer made Jun 1 at 2015 2:10 PM

SSG Leroy Farmer — Mon, 01 Jun 2015 14:10:52 -0400

Chaplain, the woman depicted in the photo used is an embarrassment. I cannot believe that the officer's superior didn't order him to have his date change or leave. Even in a spirit of kindness that kind of attire is unacceptable.

Below is attached a photo of my wife and I at an Army Birthday Ball.

Response by SPC Jimmy Vazquez made Jun 1 at 2015 7:46 PM

SPC Jimmy Vazquez — Mon, 01 Jun 2015 19:46:15 -0400

Response by TSgt Rhonda Leveille made Jun 2 at 2015 2:26 PM

TSgt Rhonda Leveille — Tue, 02 Jun 2015 14:26:41 -0400

when you marry a tramp expect a tramp. I not only served in the military, but I later married and O-6. Military decorum has always been of up-most importance to me. My father always said "a man wants a lady on his arm, and a whore in his bed" guess this couple didn't get the memo.

Response by SCPO Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 2 at 2015 2:38 PM

SCPO Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 02 Jun 2015 14:38:13 -0400

That one ain't it, unless the ball is being held at the Playboy Mansion!!!

Response by PFC Pamala (Hall) Foster made Jun 2 at 2015 8:54 PM

PFC Pamala (Hall) Foster — Tue, 02 Jun 2015 20:54:35 -0400

An appropriate gown for any military function has to follow guidelines of common sense, class, taste and elegance. Take the gown shown above. This is a DO NOT WEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The gown style you should wear is one that leaves ALOT to the imagination of your date and other gentlemen in the room. Elegance/ettiquette dictates that as a rule of thumb. the slit should not go past the knee, fabric should be in accordance to the temperatures of the region where the event is held, and follow the guidelines of the military spouses/escorts unit.

As a veteran, I will attend my second ball this year. It is an honor-NOT a right-to attend these events. I will post pictures of what is appropriate in my opinion of what to wear or not to wear for the event of this magnitude.

Response by SrA Dawn Tate made Jun 5 at 2015 7:14 PM

SrA Dawn Tate — Fri, 05 Jun 2015 19:14:43 -0400

Twerking and grinding on the dance floor is also inappropriate. They should never have been allowed past the receiving line.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 6 at 2015 12:28 AM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 06 Jun 2015 00:28:54 -0400

very distasteful....not appropriate for this type of ball at all

Response by TSgt Susan Bernarducci made Jun 6 at 2015 12:52 AM

TSgt Susan Bernarducci — Sat, 06 Jun 2015 00:52:54 -0400

Disrespectful for both the function and the individual. Of course there are at least one who requires attention on themselves. Personally I would have both kicked out of the function and with at least a verbal counseling, documented to the military member.

Response by SP6 Carolyn Wyland made Jun 6 at 2015 1:41 PM

SP6 Carolyn Wyland — Sat, 06 Jun 2015 13:41:12 -0400

Sparkly!

Response by SPC Theresa Pierce made Jun 6 at 2015 3:47 PM

SPC Theresa Pierce — Sat, 06 Jun 2015 15:47:54 -0400

That one, definitely is not for a military ball. Sexy but conservative - but not sexy revealing and then gyrate on the dance floor like that. I understand women who work hard to stay in shape are proud of their accomplishment and want to show it off. However, there is always a right place and the right time to do so. A military ball - and your significant other in uniform is bad taste.

Response by MSgt Sherry Ingram made Jun 6 at 2015 5:28 PM

MSgt Sherry Ingram — Sat, 06 Jun 2015 17:28:32 -0400

No. This is a military function not a strip club.

Response by PO2 Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 7 at 2015 12:06 AM

PO2 Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 07 Jun 2015 00:06:44 -0400

ok maybe she doesn't have a brain! totally inappropriate!!!

Response by SSgt Cat Donahue made Jun 7 at 2015 4:52 PM

SSgt Cat Donahue — Sun, 07 Jun 2015 16:52:02 -0400

Absolutely inappropriate for a Military Ball!

Response by SSG Art Ferris made Jun 7 at 2015 5:40 PM

SSG Art Ferris — Sun, 07 Jun 2015 17:40:28 -0400

Bad taste doesn't have a rank

Response by Cpl Shane Duncan made Jun 8 at 2015 12:16 AM

Cpl Shane Duncan — Mon, 08 Jun 2015 00:16:16 -0400

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Response by SrA Karen Penyak made Jun 8 at 2015 10:17 AM

SrA Karen Penyak — Mon, 08 Jun 2015 10:17:19 -0400

This one is not acceptable. If you want to see this go somewhere else. A military ball gown should not show so much.

Response by PO1 Kenny Britt made Jun 8 at 2015 1:27 PM

PO1 Kenny Britt — Mon, 08 Jun 2015 13:27:51 -0400

I don't see the issue. You all are confusing a spouse's attire with that of a prostitute. It is pretty obvious that the young man in question paid his date for her services, so therefore her attire is appropriate. Obviously he would not want his spouse dressed in that attire.

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 8 at 2015 4:10 PM

PFC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 08 Jun 2015 16:10:33 -0400

My wife and I at a ball last month, appropriate?

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 8 at 2015 9:33 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 08 Jun 2015 21:33:59 -0400

thats totally inappropriate especially with the army emplacing policy's on dress code for civilians and spouses or family members and I hold the husband accountable because he should of said something to his wife.

Response by SGT Lillie M Epps made Jun 9 at 2015 12:23 AM

SGT Lillie M Epps — Tue, 09 Jun 2015 00:23:04 -0400

Not that!

Response by COL Laurence Potts made Jun 9 at 2015 1:53 PM

COL Laurence Potts — Tue, 09 Jun 2015 13:53:48 -0400

That is a disgrace to a military ball! And to the brother and sisters that are not alive to attend one.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 9 at 2015 6:29 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 09 Jun 2015 18:29:17 -0400

The military ball is NOT a strip club and has NEVER been one in our Nation's history! Strip tease your spouse or date at home, don't ride him like a pony in front of his fellow Comrades in Arms! Sexual Harassment, even as showing off, is still Sexual Harassment. Don't make this Soldier a bad example for everyone else!

Response by CWO5 Lori Young made Jun 9 at 2015 7:43 PM

CWO5 Lori Young — Tue, 09 Jun 2015 19:43:45 -0400

Just because it zips doesn't mean it fits....tasteful, lets be tasteful ladies.

Response by PO2 Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 10 at 2015 12:13 AM

PO2 Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 10 Jun 2015 00:13:05 -0400

She just showed total disrespect to everyone there.

Response by Sgt Bobby Taylor made Jun 10 at 2015 10:23 AM

Sgt Bobby Taylor — Wed, 10 Jun 2015 10:23:07 -0400

Not good. Might be alright for the club but not any military function I ever when to.

Response by TSgt David L. made Jun 10 at 2015 10:45 AM

TSgt David L. — Wed, 10 Jun 2015 10:45:28 -0400

You can't see all of the dress but you get the idea The top is conservative but tasteful, IMO.

Response by PO2 Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 10 at 2015 1:58 PM

PO2 Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 10 Jun 2015 13:58:25 -0400

She's so orange!

Response by MSG James Blomberg made Jun 10 at 2015 3:33 PM

MSG James Blomberg — Wed, 10 Jun 2015 15:33:22 -0400

2 revealing

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 10 at 2015 7:49 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 10 Jun 2015 19:49:20 -0400

Nice Stripper dress. Not a dress for a ball.

Response by SSG Amy Koblos made Jun 11 at 2015 12:33 AM

SSG Amy Koblos — Thu, 11 Jun 2015 00:33:23 -0400

sorry but that's totally unprofessional. not at all appropriate for a military ball.

Response by PFC Katina Pugh made Jun 11 at 2015 9:43 AM

PFC Katina Pugh — Thu, 11 Jun 2015 09:43:47 -0400

my son & his wife, I approved these choices

Response by LTC Steven Sabia made Jun 11 at 2015 10:51 AM

LTC Steven Sabia — Thu, 11 Jun 2015 10:51:22 -0400

Simple, classy, not terribly expensive and appropriate.

Response by LTC Steven Sabia made Jun 11 at 2015 1:05 PM

LTC Steven Sabia — Thu, 11 Jun 2015 13:05:44 -0400

Self made digital cammo dress!

Response by SFC Michael Wright made Jun 11 at 2015 1:12 PM

SFC Michael Wright — Thu, 11 Jun 2015 13:12:59 -0400

It should be something appropriate.Not showing up looking and acting like a hose bag

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 11 at 2015 1:43 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 11 Jun 2015 13:43:11 -0400

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Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 11 at 2015 4:16 PM

MSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 11 Jun 2015 16:16:29 -0400

Chest covered, gown flows to the floor, no waist high slits, or ability to see the crotch.

Response by SrA Crystal Parker made Jun 11 at 2015 7:38 PM

SrA Crystal Parker — Thu, 11 Jun 2015 19:38:51 -0400

I would like to point out that she is dressed trashier than they dressed for the globes this year. That being said, the porn stars were dressed classier than the women at the globes. It is sad when women can not have enough respect for themselves to dress as though they are expecting to get laid on the dance for. Also, what the hell is up with the dance style she is demonstrating? Very inappropriate for a formal gathering, even for her age. It is disgraceful and she should have not been allowed to walk into the door. I would have told her to leave immediately.

Response by LTC Bink Romanick made Jun 11 at 2015 8:38 PM

LTC Bink Romanick — Thu, 11 Jun 2015 20:38:38 -0400

Response by LTC Bink Romanick made Jun 11 at 2015 8:40 PM

LTC Bink Romanick — Thu, 11 Jun 2015 20:40:03 -0400

Response by SP5 Kim Choplin made Jun 12 at 2015 7:18 AM

SP5 Kim Choplin — Fri, 12 Jun 2015 07:18:30 -0400

I think I would have just as much problems with her actions on the dance floor in the dress as I do with the dress. This is not appropriate for a military ball no matter who your escort is.

Response by CW3 Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 12 at 2015 10:44 AM

CW3 Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 12 Jun 2015 10:44:31 -0400

Ha, infamous shot of an incident which resulted in disciplinary action. Remember that officers (and by association their guests) are expected to conduct themselves as ladies and gentlemen and you'll be fine. Then go to a dress shop.

Response by SPC Frank Aguero made Jun 12 at 2015 12:07 PM

SPC Frank Aguero — Fri, 12 Jun 2015 12:07:24 -0400

OK heres my 2C in; weve all been to Civi parties where ladies (even some men) with more vulgar distasteful get ups (hey check the look what I saw in walmart page...ezzhh!) All of us have to chill, decompress and not be so uptight, up-down-all around, this country is going back to War OP Tempo (gulf war III) our families brothers fathers,uncles,sons (I can go on and on) will be volunteered to go back and fix the issue that combat can only temporarily gain, its political will that needs to do the hard choices to fix it. We can only do so much. our military is overtasked, overburdended,underpaid, but the mission still gets done. thank you all for that! I come from generations of patriot warriors and seen the suffering on both ends. We need to stick together and support each other. Personal note if cap'ns sweet luscious momma wants to flaunt the goodies and cap'n is GTG with, chalk it up for troop morale! "thank you sir-mam!" all we want is our country to love us...as much as we love it!

Response by SPC Lisa White made Jun 12 at 2015 12:55 PM

SPC Lisa White — Fri, 12 Jun 2015 12:55:47 -0400

you can dress sexy without having everything hanging out. as a female i understand you want to look good, but you have to remember where you are and as a senior nco's wife you need to set an example to the younger women.

Response by SGT Homer Mcwilliams made Jun 12 at 2015 2:00 PM

SGT Homer Mcwilliams — Fri, 12 Jun 2015 14:00:56 -0400

a tasteful military ball gown fits tastefully with out revealing everything that God gave you. A simple black dress can be very tasteful if worn with the correct accessories. modest is always better than gaudy.

Response by SSG Hank Ortega made Jun 12 at 2015 3:00 PM

SSG Hank Ortega — Fri, 12 Jun 2015 15:00:34 -0400

The grey one is fine, the black one shows a really poor ability to make choices.

Response by PV2 Jana McIntosh made Jun 12 at 2015 3:17 PM

PV2 Jana McIntosh — Fri, 12 Jun 2015 15:17:30 -0400

Anything and anyone dealing with the military should be represented with dignity and respect. Obviously this is neither.

Response by SFC Henry Bartosik made Jun 12 at 2015 4:20 PM

SFC Henry Bartosik — Fri, 12 Jun 2015 16:20:48 -0400

The captain in this picture should of taken his wife shopping; evident she is not mature enough or has common sense not to dress like a stripper at a unit function let alone a ball. Where was the CO and CSM. They should have stopped them a the door and turned them around. I might be old school; but the ildea of showing off your wife in public as a lady and not a tramp. That they can do in the privacy of their own home.

Response by SFC Henry Bartosik made Jun 12 at 2015 4:36 PM

SFC Henry Bartosik — Fri, 12 Jun 2015 16:36:00 -0400

The gown should be a formal one that fits the individuals body with no slits up the thigh or deep cleavage and flows down to floor length.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 12 at 2015 7:24 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 12 Jun 2015 19:24:16 -0400

Trashy

Response by TSgt Tim Burnett made Jun 12 at 2015 9:37 PM

TSgt Tim Burnett — Fri, 12 Jun 2015 21:37:49 -0400

whatever the woman wants to wear is appropriate!!

Response by MAJ David Vermillion made Jun 13 at 2015 8:57 AM

MAJ David Vermillion — Sat, 13 Jun 2015 08:57:17 -0400

I have been to many military balls and that woman is disrespectful.

Response by SSgt Gregory Holder made Jun 13 at 2015 3:29 PM

SSgt Gregory Holder — Sat, 13 Jun 2015 15:29:30 -0400

that's not it

Response by CW3 Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 13 at 2015 3:56 PM

CW3 Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 13 Jun 2015 15:56:42 -0400

have to be classy or she stay home

Response by SSG Robert Blair made Jun 13 at 2015 10:39 PM

SSG Robert Blair — Sat, 13 Jun 2015 22:39:18 -0400

That is not it. Lost my respect and I can only imagine that his wife is a cheating slut.
I would definitely let it be known if he was in my chain that his sense of decision making holds no ground.

Response by SPC Pamela Edwards made Jun 14 at 2015 1:33 PM

SPC Pamela Edwards — Sun, 14 Jun 2015 13:33:30 -0400

I believe that anything that looks pleasing but doesnt look like your going to the porn awards the photo on the original post is gross, i don't want to see her vag popping out while enjoying a military ball.

Response by SSgt Thorin Palladino made Jun 14 at 2015 4:27 PM

SSgt Thorin Palladino — Sun, 14 Jun 2015 16:27:17 -0400

At last the photos of her here are classier than some I have seen of her. On these you cannot tell that she is going commando.

The dress itself is not that bad. If she had stuck to slow dances or anything less energetic there would be no comments. It does not show that much cleavage, and the slit up the leg is fairly common for dresses.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 15 at 2015 6:06 AM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 15 Jun 2015 06:06:53 -0400

yes i have been to several ball...one i am woman of standard with decorum, this look like more for a gentlemen club than military ball.....the army has a bad reputation women don't need to add fuel to the fire.

Response by LTC Steven Sabia made Jun 18 at 2015 11:55 AM

LTC Steven Sabia — Thu, 18 Jun 2015 11:55:04 -0400

I truly admired the home made camo gown!

Response by SGT John Steiner made Jun 18 at 2015 8:49 PM

SGT John Steiner — Thu, 18 Jun 2015 20:49:20 -0400

This is Not what I expect to see at a Military Ball. Their are regulations for every type of dress
the military has. For both service members AND civilians. In my old units, every time a ball was
announced they ( Chain of Command ) handed out a copy of the regulation for us the service member could show our other halves.

Response by A1C Nathan Fordahl made Jun 19 at 2015 4:16 PM

A1C Nathan Fordahl — Fri, 19 Jun 2015 16:16:45 -0400

It's a Ball not a club, it's supposed to be a classy event. I believe the picture you posted is not something that should be worn. The person you bring is going to be a reflection on you, I would want to give a positive image.

Response by LTC John Wilson made Jun 19 at 2015 7:54 PM

LTC John Wilson — Fri, 19 Jun 2015 19:54:31 -0400

Very attractive woman making herself look like a tramp with her lack of dress protocol. There is no reason to show that much at the military ball if you are married or single. Whomever her date was should have been pulled aside and asked to take her home.

Response by SFC Gisela Payne made Aug 7 at 2015 8:33 AM

SFC Gisela Payne — Fri, 07 Aug 2015 08:33:59 -0400

Are we running a pussy army in this country are we all afraid to speak up were it counts. She should have been given her money for the evening and send on her way.

Response by CPL Fred Freeman made Aug 9 at 2015 8:26 AM

CPL Fred Freeman — Sun, 09 Aug 2015 08:26:46 -0400

I was there, and the worst thing about it I was in the same dress!

Response by CPL Fred Freeman made Aug 9 at 2015 8:33 AM

CPL Fred Freeman — Sun, 09 Aug 2015 08:33:32 -0400

I served many years ago. I went to one of these. My date was a stripper who I met in a class at a local community college. She bought her outfit at a thrift store, and she was orders of magnitude more appropriate than that.

Response by CW3 Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 9 at 2015 9:23 AM

CW3 Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 09 Aug 2015 09:23:22 -0400

That one does not pass the coverage test.

Response by LTC John Wilson made Aug 20 at 2015 5:19 PM

LTC John Wilson — Thu, 20 Aug 2015 17:19:05 -0400

If you have to ask if this gown is appropriate then you don't belong in the Army or should ever attend a military ball. The senior officer attending the ball, should have talked to her husband or date and have him immediately remove her from the event. This is disrespectful and dishonors the integrity of most of Army wives, Fiances, or girl friends. I don't know, maybe we should ask the Supreme Court?

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 19 at 2015 2:30 AM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 19 Sep 2015 02:30:39 -0400

The above dress is NOT!!

Response by PFC Pamala (Hall) Foster made Nov 13 at 2015 7:42 PM

PFC Pamala (Hall) Foster — Fri, 13 Nov 2015 19:42:36 -0500

Tomorrow night in MY first Marine Corps Ball and I am prior Army so I am very honored and nervous at the same time. I have my gown, pearls, gloves, shoes ready, but I am wondering if I should keep my shoulders covered during dinner?

Response by SGT Jaime Alaniz made Nov 17 at 2015 9:42 AM

SGT Jaime Alaniz — Tue, 17 Nov 2015 09:42:12 -0500

I hope his senior rater for his OER addresses the issue of UNSATISFACTORY DECISION MAKING!!! You sir are a prime example of why spineless, whines, wimps should NEVER BE ALLOWED IN THE MILITARY!!! You are a disgrace to the CAVALRY BRANCH, the officer Corp, and manhood in general. You have destroyed your own career. Better luck next time.

Response by TSgt Ronald Bailey made Jan 17 at 2016 4:13 AM

TSgt Ronald Bailey — Sun, 17 Jan 2016 04:13:02 -0500

This lady in the picture and her escort should be directed to leave the ball!

Response by CPT Quentin von Éfáns-Taráfdar made Jan 18 at 2016 4:22 AM

CPT Quentin von Éfáns-Taráfdar — Mon, 18 Jan 2016 04:22:54 -0500

That is an elegant and tasteful gown she isn't wearing.

Response by SPC Annette Watchous made Jan 21 at 2016 12:48 PM

SPC Annette Watchous — Thu, 21 Jan 2016 12:48:56 -0500

what she is wearing should be outlawed. example is like a prom dress or just a nice dress that is tasteful or dress uniform.

Response by PO3 Sherry Thornburg made Apr 19 at 2016 6:58 PM

PO3 Sherry Thornburg — Tue, 19 Apr 2016 18:58:51 -0400

My version of formal classy. I own two dresses, one velvet and this shimmery one. Both deep blue. Never failed me yet, or gotten me into trouble.

Response by MAJ David Vermillion made Apr 20 at 2016 5:29 PM

MAJ David Vermillion — Wed, 20 Apr 2016 17:29:45 -0400

One that doesn't show cleavage and thigh.

Response by CPT Quentin von Éfáns-Taráfdar made Apr 21 at 2016 3:43 AM

CPT Quentin von Éfáns-Taráfdar — Thu, 21 Apr 2016 03:43:34 -0400

That is a very lascivious dress she is almost wearing.

Response by SPC Elizabeth DeCamp made May 15 at 2016 1:23 PM

SPC Elizabeth DeCamp — Sun, 15 May 2016 13:23:03 -0400

I think my mother said it best that a lady looks like she's neither hunting nor fishing nor catching.

Response by SPC Joseph Bagonis made Oct 27 at 2016 1:25 PM

SPC Joseph Bagonis — Thu, 27 Oct 2016 13:25:09 -0400

Mmmmmm....i guess this is a not...

Response by SGT Stephen George made Nov 3 at 2016 2:14 PM

SGT Stephen George — Thu, 03 Nov 2016 14:14:57 -0400

If that's an appropriate formal gown ...then this is an appropriate penguin suit.

Response by SPC Elizabeth DeCamp made Nov 4 at 2016 11:28 AM

SPC Elizabeth DeCamp — Fri, 04 Nov 2016 11:28:12 -0400

Got a lot of compliments on this one. Too bad I "outgrew" it.

Response by PV2 Glen Lewis made Mar 12 at 2017 1:09 AM

PV2 Glen Lewis — Sun, 12 Mar 2017 01:09:31 -0500

One piece, covers the brassiere, strapless or not and also the abdomen. The skirt of at least mid-calf legnth, no slit above the knee and doesn't look like it's been sprayed on.

Response by CPO Earl Jones made Mar 16 at 2017 3:36 PM

CPO Earl Jones — Thu, 16 Mar 2017 15:36:51 -0400

The only thing missing for that woman is a pole. To me it simple remember that you are being to a black tie formal event, not the club.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 22 at 2017 9:33 AM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 22 Mar 2017 09:33:07 -0400

This is probably one of the most infamous ball gown photos on the www!

Response by CPT Wes Marsh made Mar 23 at 2017 5:35 PM

CPT Wes Marsh — Thu, 23 Mar 2017 17:35:22 -0400

Not only should it cover all of the nasty bits but what about tattoos?

Response by SPC Elizabeth DeCamp made Jul 13 at 2018 9:54 AM

SPC Elizabeth DeCamp — Fri, 13 Jul 2018 09:54:03 -0400