Posted on Dec 24, 2013
SSG Laureano Pabon
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Here in RP, we address each other as in the actual military.

At least I seem to think so.

For those who have a Facebook account, how do you address those you have that are either veterans or currently active SM?


I am curious to see what kind of feed back is provided on this topic.

While there may be different responses, I like to see how this inter communication is engaged outside of any military related platform.


Example:

SSG Laureno Pabon

PVT Jonathan Pabon


Are both in Facebook interacting with each other through email and chat.


Do you:

1 interact like this:

SSG Pabon: "PVT Pabon did you prepare for the GI party tomorrow?"

PVT Pabon: "Yes SSG, my room is ready for inspection".


2. Or like this:

SSG pabon: "Johnny did you prepare for the GI party tomorrow?"

PVT Pabon: "Yes, my room is ready for inspection."


I'm aware that family members are different but how do actual RP Members interact with each other is more the main question.



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Edited 11 y ago
SSG Pabon, that's my point, really.  I think since it's meant to be a personal venue, that it should be left to the discretion of the page owner is all.
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SSG Laureano Pabon
SSG Laureano Pabon
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Sorry for not replying as quick as normal, I ran out of thumbs up, so a thumbs up for your input. :)
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I have a rule about situations like this.  [I'm currently on hiatus from Facebook until I finish my Bachelors.]

1) I don't or at least try not to add anyone I'm currently working directly with.  This leaves awkward situations, inside jokes, rants, etc. out of the question for workplace interaction.  Once they or I depart the unit, I'm more than happy to add people to Facebook.

2) On my Facebook page, there's no such thing as "rank."  We're all people.  I tend to vent about things and post about controversial topics and everyone is more than welcome to chime in, as long as there's the understanding that FB doesn't equal "the military."

That's just me though.  I screen the people I add to my page and I try to keep the number below 300, so it's a very select list of those I know personally.  I'd like to think those who are on there are on the same page as me with first name/open discussion basis.
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SSG Laureano Pabon
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Thank you for posting your opinion SSG G. I on the other hand do have many of the personal that work with me in my face book, for the purpose of communicating what will be in the schedule the next day, or if I can't go in to work today, I normally inform one of the supervisors that way. But I use FB mainly to play War commander and that's it. I also have a group with only a few selected members that I've know for years or that I have to support for computer issues.  
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Whether it be here of on FB,

I address people accordingly, if it subordinate and they are active I address by rank, if they are veteran/retiree I address by first name.


NCO-FB by rank or 1st name depending on how much we know each other for active, veteran/retiree pretty much 1st name.


Officer-Sir/Ma'am whether active/retired/veteran, it is a respect thing for me that has been ground in along the years.


If it goes to 1st name basis it is initiated by them and told to address that way.

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SSG Laureano Pabon
SSG Laureano Pabon
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Thank you for sharing SFC Baber. :)
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SSG Laureano Pabon
SSG Laureano Pabon
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And congratulations your now No.1 in the list of top Veterans
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SFC James Baber
SFC James Baber
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Thanks, I hadn't even noticed, just been trying to be actively engaged and provide as much as I can while learning at the same time.
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