If a NG officer and enlisted are dating, and the enlisted SM goes on AD orders, would that be in violation of Army policy under AR 600-35?

2022-08-24T11:10:59-04:00

I have a specific question. I know of two National Guard Soldiers, and they are currently dating. One is a 1LT and the other is a Specialist. They have been dating for about a month now. The specialist is thinking of going on Active-Duty orders for the National Guard. If she does this, would that be in violation of the Army policy under 600-35? I am not the 1LT in question, but he is a friend of mine.

Response by LTC Eugene Chu made Aug 24 at 2022 11:25 AM

2022-08-24T11:25:00-04:00

Along with rank, the other issue is chain of command...

Are they in same unit? Was the 1LT in a supervisory position above the SPC? Will the SPC be assigned to same or different unit while mobilized?

Response by Lt Col Jim Coe made Aug 24 at 2022 11:40 AM

2022-08-24T11:40:04-04:00

As I understand, the Guard has an "exception" to the policy to cover Guard Members who have a relationship outside of their Guard duty time, especially if the relationship pre-existed their joining the Guard. When the couple is under the UCMJ, that is when at drill or called to duty, the Army policy prohibiting fraternization applies. When off duty, the policy does not apply. Your friend needs to read the Guard exception and any state or unit directives to make sure they know the rules.

LTC Eugene Chu has a good point about Chain of Command.

Overall, the relationship is a bad idea. Even if the couple strictly follows the Gurad rules and there's no chain of command issues, the appearance of fraternization will still exist. Additionally, it will stress the relationship. IMO, both should consider moving on.

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 24 at 2022 3:18 PM

2022-08-24T15:18:27-04:00

I believe Reserve component members, such as AGR or military technicians, who are on active duty (other than annual training) are subject to the policy.

Response by Sgt Eugene M. Stewart made Dec 14 at 2022 10:46 PM

2022-12-14T22:46:56-05:00

I think it would, but would have to research it.

Response by Amn Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 1 at 2024 8:09 AM

2024-11-01T08:09:46-04:00

I remember a similar story from a friend who was in the same boat—dating someone in a different rank can definitely raise eyebrows. They handled it by being super transparent and keeping things professional at work, which I think is key. If the Specialist goes on Active-Duty orders, it might be a good idea for them to consult their leadership to ensure they're compliant with all regulations. For more insights and discussions, I found this website helpful: https://villideitti.net. Navigating adult dating in the military can be challenging, but open communication is crucial!

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