CPT Joseph K Murdock 1579185 <div class="images-v2-count-1"><div class="content-picture image-v2-number-1" id="image-92199"> <div class="social_icons social-buttons-on-image"> <a href='https://www.facebook.com/sharer/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.rallypoint.com%2Fanswers%2Fif-you-loved-the-wife-but-was-not-in-love-with-her-what-happened%3Futm_source%3DFacebook%26utm_medium%3Dorganic%26utm_campaign%3DShare%20to%20facebook' target="_blank" class='social-share-button facebook-share-button'><i class="fa fa-facebook-f"></i></a> <a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?text=If+you+loved+the+wife%2C+but+was+not+in+love+with+her%2C+what+happened%3F&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.rallypoint.com%2Fanswers%2Fif-you-loved-the-wife-but-was-not-in-love-with-her-what-happened&amp;via=RallyPoint" target="_blank" class="social-share-button twitter-custom-share-button"><i class="fa fa-twitter"></i></a> <a href="mailto:?subject=Check this out on RallyPoint!&body=Hi, I thought you would find this interesting:%0D%0AIf you loved the wife, but was not in love with her, what happened?%0D%0A %0D%0AHere is the link: https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/if-you-loved-the-wife-but-was-not-in-love-with-her-what-happened" target="_blank" class="social-share-button email-share-button"><i class="fa fa-envelope"></i></a> </div> <a class="fancybox" rel="8929c472ab14f5dd0f842785336ff7c4" href="https://d1ndsj6b8hkqu9.cloudfront.net/pictures/images/000/092/199/for_gallery_v2/f514793f.png"><img src="https://d1ndsj6b8hkqu9.cloudfront.net/pictures/images/000/092/199/large_v3/f514793f.png" alt="F514793f" /></a></div></div>If you loved the wife, but was not in love with her, what happens? Were the magnets and marriage vows strong enough to bind you two? This happened after wires in my brain got crossed. 2016-05-31T12:14:43-04:00 CPT Joseph K Murdock 1579185

<div class="images-v2-count-1"><div class="content-picture image-v2-number-1" id="image-92199"> <div class="social_icons social-buttons-on-image"> <a href='https://www.facebook.com/sharer/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.rallypoint.com%2Fanswers%2Fif-you-loved-the-wife-but-was-not-in-love-with-her-what-happened%3Futm_source%3DFacebook%26utm_medium%3Dorganic%26utm_campaign%3DShare%20to%20facebook' target="_blank" class='social-share-button facebook-share-button'><i class="fa fa-facebook-f"></i></a> <a href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?text=If+you+loved+the+wife%2C+but+was+not+in+love+with+her%2C+what+happened%3F&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.rallypoint.com%2Fanswers%2Fif-you-loved-the-wife-but-was-not-in-love-with-her-what-happened&amp;via=RallyPoint" target="_blank" class="social-share-button twitter-custom-share-button"><i class="fa fa-twitter"></i></a> <a href="mailto:?subject=Check this out on RallyPoint!&body=Hi, I thought you would find this interesting:%0D%0AIf you loved the wife, but was not in love with her, what happened?%0D%0A %0D%0AHere is the link: https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/if-you-loved-the-wife-but-was-not-in-love-with-her-what-happened" target="_blank" class="social-share-button email-share-button"><i class="fa fa-envelope"></i></a> </div> <a class="fancybox" rel="9c9d46c8a7669cd617035dd4af5bb216" href="https://d1ndsj6b8hkqu9.cloudfront.net/pictures/images/000/092/199/for_gallery_v2/f514793f.png"><img src="https://d1ndsj6b8hkqu9.cloudfront.net/pictures/images/000/092/199/large_v3/f514793f.png" alt="F514793f" /></a></div></div>If you loved the wife, but was not in love with her, what happens? Were the magnets and marriage vows strong enough to bind you two? This happened after wires in my brain got crossed.

2016-05-31T12:14:43-04:00 2016-05-31T12:14:43-04:00 PO1 John Miller 1579199

<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div><br />Sounds like my marriage. I think the main reason my wife and I are still married is because of our special needs daughter, who needs the benefits provided by my Navy retirement.

2016-05-31T12:18:22-04:00 2016-05-31T12:18:22-04:00 SFC Thomas Howes 1579216

<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I loved my wife but she did not love me she stayed with me till the kids were out of the house. I never saw it coming and there were signs.

2016-05-31T12:23:00-04:00 2016-05-31T12:23:00-04:00 Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member 1580318

<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Love is an action, not a feeling. If you will love her as you should, then she will respond. Then the feelings will follow. As my wife of 21 years often tells women she mentors, "If the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, then you need to be watering your own lawn!"

2016-05-31T16:39:33-04:00 2016-05-31T16:39:33-04:00 2016-05-31T12:14:43-04:00