If someone asked what could you have done differently in your military career, what would you have chosen?

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Response by PO2 Robert M. made Dec 24 at 2016 12:24 PM

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I wish I could accept my Medical Retirement from the Navy better.
It has been over 20 some years, but I am still ANGRY and disappointed in myself that I could not "RETIRE NATURALLY" from the Navy.
I was in line for a brilliant career, then it was all ripped away from me!
Even my shrink is attempting to help me "let go" of my anger and disappointment. ........

Oh well, some things are left to a HIGHER POWER!

To everyone - MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR - TO A GREAT 2017! ! ! ! ! !

Response by SFC George Smith made Dec 24 at 2016 12:27 PM

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I would Not have gotten off active duty the First time ... gone to 91-C school (LPN) and to bootstrap for Nursing and then to PA school...

Response by Maj Marty Hogan made Dec 24 at 2016 12:47 PM

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I would do nothing differently. I earned what I worked for and where I am now is appreciated. I have made the best of life circumstances and been lucky enough to match them to my career.

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 24 at 2016 1:02 PM

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I would have enlisted as a medic, which was my initial plan anyhow. I also would have commissioned at least a decade ago. I'd be a Major on my way to LTC, instead of a butter bar.

Response by CSM Thomas McGarry made Dec 24 at 2016 1:05 PM

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Probably would have tried for a commission, though I did really enjoy my time as an NCO, 1st Sgt and CSM in leading troops!

Response by 1SG Al Brown made Dec 24 at 2016 1:07 PM

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I would have went to Airborne School the first time it was offered to me in basic training. That would have changed everything, but the grass is always greener.....

Response by GySgt David Weihausen made Dec 24 at 2016 1:50 PM

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Would have gotten into a commissioning program. Would have taken more advantage of the education opportunities sooner.

Response by CSM Charles Hayden made Dec 24 at 2016 2:36 PM

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I would have checked into the 'airborne volunteers needed' notice on the bulletin board at Ft Knox in 1953!

Response by CAPT Kevin B. made Dec 24 at 2016 2:42 PM

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Wish they had good suicide prevention stuff when I was a new JO. Might have saved Mike....

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 24 at 2016 3:30 PM

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I would have partied a little (ok, maybe a lot) less when I first joined and gone warrant when I had the chance.

Response by PO3 David Fries made Dec 24 at 2016 4:04 PM

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I would not have gotten married, I would have drank less, and I would not have gotten out.

Response by SSG Trevor S. made Dec 24 at 2016 5:10 PM

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I would have made a few investments as recurring allotments, and forgot them.

Response by SGT Jerrold Pesz made Dec 24 at 2016 6:18 PM

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If the military had paid enough to eat on back in those days I would have gone to OCS when it was offered the second time and stayed in awhile. With the pay scale that was in effect at the time that was not an real good choice. At the time I also felt that they had jacked me around (they really did) and I didn't trust the army. Otherwise I enjoyed my time in the army and glad that I served.

Response by MSgt George Cater made Dec 24 at 2016 6:23 PM

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Gone to jump school for my precious first reenlistment option instead of DI school. Don't know how easy it was to volunteer for the drill field compared to getting a permissive slot for jump school.
(Small thing, but the only thing that has repeatedly come to mind over the years.)

Response by MAJ David Vermillion made Dec 24 at 2016 7:46 PM

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I retired as a Major in the US Army. I would not change anything.

Response by SGT Philip Roncari made Dec 24 at 2016 10:52 PM

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I would have reupped but family matters at home came first,so that was that,I have to admit I did find a home in the Army if only for a very short time.

Response by SN Greg Wright made Dec 25 at 2016 1:20 AM

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I would have stayed in.

Response by 1SG Mike Case made Dec 25 at 2016 6:19 AM

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Flight school. Always loved riding in helicopters.

Response by CPT Jim Schwebach made Dec 25 at 2016 9:24 AM

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There were one or two times I probably should have stayed where I was instead of getting up and going looking for trouble.

Response by Cpl Joshua Caldwell made Dec 25 at 2016 10:34 AM

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I am a Marine and before I retired from Law Enforcement my partner was an Army Ranger and we used to have this conversation all the time. It basically revolved around 3 scenarios.

1) do better in high school, get appointed to a service academy, get commissioned into an intel MOS and then jump to the CIA/DIA

2) The special ops tour, Go to the Army first (easiest access to selection) become Ranger, SF, Delta (if possible) in first contract. Then jump to Navy, go to BUDs and earn Trident, Next stop USMC Amphib Recon school, last stop USAF and PJ school. Granted you have a training record that would look like a phone book but it would be an exciting journey.

3) Go in USMC, get combat Medals, CAR, Bronze Star or above, then move over to the USAF in some fast promoting MOS and live like a demigod.

Response by PO1 Brian Austin made Dec 25 at 2016 11:12 PM

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I would've taken my first enlistment more seriously and not partied like a rock star (Diego Garcia, Panama, Philippines). But man, was it fun! The folly of youth.

Response by Sgt Ramon Nacanaynay made Dec 25 at 2016 11:26 PM

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Destroy my time machine.

Response by SPC David Radford made Dec 26 at 2016 1:48 PM

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I totally regret not going airborne or air assault.
I went to repelling school in Korea and was offered to change my mos and the opportunity to go airborne, my only regret
Was not going

Response by Sgt John McRae made Dec 27 at 2016 7:13 AM

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I beat myself up for not re-enlisting after I got married. We talked about it and I just never went down to do it. I would have been retired in 1997!

Response by CPT Earl George made Dec 27 at 2016 7:55 AM

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tried harder to get orders to Vietnam. I regret not getting there during my active duty.

Response by MSG Mamerto Perez made Dec 27 at 2016 7:59 AM

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If I had done something different in my Military career, I 'never would have a wonderful live of I have with my wife and children.

Response by MAJ Bill Darling made Dec 27 at 2016 8:27 AM

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Two things come to mind.
I would have begged, borrowed, and stole to get out of the branch detail program and staying infantry. While I loved being in the Army, there we days--nay, years--I absolutely dreaded being an AG officer, which was about 362 on my wish list. Needs of the Army blah blah blah. While it was a privilege to serve, there is a lot to be said for job fulfillment and self esteem.

I would have sought out a mentor. I never heard of the term until my advanced course. Having one would have helped me navigate the waters of career management, helped me avoid shooting myself in the foot on more than a few occasions, and given me someone to confide in with personal issues.

Response by PO2 Kevin LaCroix made Dec 27 at 2016 8:34 AM

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My reality is that I would change nothing. My time in the Navy was what I needed at the time. It gave me structure and order at a time I needed it, but allowed for destructive behaviors that I still struggle with. Getting out was the best decision of my life at the time.

Response by CPO Donald Crisp made Dec 27 at 2016 8:44 AM

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Advanced quicker, stayed in longer, and learned more.

Response by Cpl Justin Goolsby made Dec 27 at 2016 8:53 AM

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If I could have done anything differently, it probably would have been enlist at a younger age.

Response by Cpl Tyler Therrien made Dec 27 at 2016 8:58 AM

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i would have stayed in the Corps and made a career of it

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 27 at 2016 10:37 AM

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Too many things: Spent more time taking civilian education classes, shied away from the booze, kept my mouth shut, checked my ego more and looked at getting a European assignment (not that Korea and Hawaii were bad, but it just would have been nice to see that corner of the world), not have let my small brain over ride my big brain when it came to the issue of my now ex wife. Like I said, too many things. Maybe had I done some of these things, I would have made SGM instead of SFC.

Response by SFC Dennis A. made Dec 27 at 2016 11:32 AM

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I would have partied less and worked harder on my education. Other than that I'd do it all again.

Response by CPT Jerry Bryan made Dec 27 at 2016 11:48 AM

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I wish I would have kept the names, contact info and permanent addresses of friends then kept in contact with them. It would be nice to know them now and it would helped having a network to share decision making with both in and out of the military.

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 27 at 2016 11:50 AM

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I would have planned for my success more completely. I'm a firm believer that the lack of mentorship, and personal motivation, is what caused me to take so long to promote between E-5 and E-6. As an E-6 I started planning and jumped in ranks fast after that.

I think I would have focused on promoting the developmental counseling a lot more, actually pushing leadership to use as it was it was meant to be used. Perhaps things have changed since I was a young soldier, but developmental counseling mostly was just used to tell you that you messed up, or a review of your duties when quarterly demands were made. It made the process next to useless.

Response by Cpl Tim Willis made Dec 27 at 2016 12:14 PM

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Stayed in and not got out, I've regretted every since.

Response by Sgt Peter Carruth made Dec 27 at 2016 12:47 PM

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Reenlisted - : ) and looked at FAC.

Response by SP5 Peter Hawkins made Dec 27 at 2016 12:50 PM

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I would have found a way to go on every staff ride, I would have visited battlefields and installations from Hadrian's Wall to Hue, taken the duty train to Berlin. It gripes me to think of the chances I had and blew off. But I was just a smartass kid trying to have fun. I didn't have the imagination to put myself in the place of those who served in perilous times.
I might have even stayed in if I'd thought about the opportunities. But I have to be honest and say that the Army was a mess when I got out in 1969, and it only got worse for a while. All honor to those who stuck it out and made it into the Army we have now!

Response by SSG Wayne Wood made Dec 27 at 2016 1:26 PM

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I wish I'd have known about USMAPS when the guy from the Point came to talk to a bunch of us from FAHS about appointments. I didn't think I qualified; should have realized they wouldn't have spoken with me if there was no chance of my getting in... Wish I could go back...

Other than that in 1981 I was looking at either going to the 82nd or putting in a packet for SF; my wife told me if I went to "Group" to put in my divorce papers - so I went to the 82nd - regrets, but the marriage ended anyway so...

Overall, no regrets really - been a good ride all considering.

Response by SPC Charles Forrester made Dec 27 at 2016 1:44 PM

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I wouldn't have let my recruiter talk me out of going to Ranger School and I would have gone to Pathfinder School and Air Assault School.

Response by SPC Douglas Bolton made Dec 27 at 2016 3:26 PM

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I would have reenlisted. Checked into OCS and have a full career.

Response by SFC Ernest Thurston made Dec 27 at 2016 4:10 PM

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I would not have re-married to a soldier. She re-enlisted for Alaska while I still had a year left on my Germany tour. Stupid me put in for retirement so that we could stay together and gave up being promoted to E-8 and beyond. Only to find out after I retired that she was following her Squad Leader to Alaska because they were having an affair. Within a year I lost the Army I loved and the wife I thought loved me. Twenty years later that is still a defining period in my life.

Response by SPC Darren Koele made Dec 27 at 2016 8:20 PM

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If I had the ability to do it over again, I would reenlist and reclass. Getting out when I did may have been the worst mistake in my early adult years and I allowed a negative attitude to affect my decision.

Response by PO2 Paul W. made Dec 27 at 2016 10:40 PM

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Simple, after making E5 in 19 months & with a GCT/ARI of 144, I would have opted either for the NENEP or NESEP program and re-enlisted!
Then I would have been a career Officer.........

Response by LCpl Cy Hotchkiss made Dec 27 at 2016 11:45 PM

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retired

Response by SrA Daniel Ferguson made Dec 28 at 2016 2:56 AM

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i would've done ramstein differently. tried harder,saved up alot of money

Response by Cpl Jeff Ruffing made Dec 28 at 2016 6:09 AM

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I would have never gotten married, kept my mouth shut and ears opened more. Would have done college, and invested my money rather than burning it up in the bars

Response by LTC Ed Gifford made Dec 28 at 2016 8:33 AM

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That is a difficult questions that opens up much thought and discussion. I was caught up in the 1992 drawdown. Pretty much told my career was over with by the Army and the best thing I could do is resign my Regular Army Commission and If I did not I would be involuntary separated. Well, I did as they strongly suggested and managed to stay in the Army Reserves for another 15 years retire with 29 years of service and go back as a retiree twice for two years to the Middle East. And I still was promoted to O-5. Always wondered what would have happened if I did not resign my commission in 1992 and stayed? I think I made a good choice.

Response by LTC Gregory Davis made Dec 28 at 2016 12:54 PM

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Didn't have that 6 year break in service

Response by SPC Wanda Vergara-Yates made Dec 28 at 2016 1:33 PM

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Tried to go to school while stationed in Germany. I had a babysitting situation that allowed it at the time.

Response by LCpl Sean Peters made Dec 28 at 2016 4:08 PM

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Kept my knee problems to myself and I would still be in

Response by 1SG Jack Crutcher made Dec 28 at 2016 5:56 PM

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Took the Army as a serious job or career when I first enlisted, stayed on the straight and narrow path and avoided getting my company and field grade article 15s.

Response by MAJ Richard Cheek made Dec 28 at 2016 6:13 PM

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I would not have let them divert me from Vietnam to the Korean DMZ. And I would never have gotten out after my first 2 years.

Response by CPL Hugh Hicks made Dec 28 at 2016 11:03 PM

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Stayed in. Till I died, then reenlist for longer

Response by Cpl Tyler Therrien made Dec 29 at 2016 12:02 PM

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would have stayed in the corps made it a career also- take LOTS of pictures someday you will want to look back

Response by PO3 William Fusick made Dec 29 at 2016 12:36 PM

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I would've stated in for the full 20 years

Response by SPC Kenneth Hand made Dec 29 at 2016 1:10 PM

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I think I would try to be a better soldier for the time I was in.

Response by Cpl Dennis F. made Dec 29 at 2016 1:44 PM

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I would have taken the Boot Camp offer of OCS and flight school that I received and probably put in twenty years.

Response by SSG Maurice P. made Dec 29 at 2016 2:20 PM

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I wouldnt have been a party animal as a Marine...When i left the Corps i tried the Army navy and air-force i wouldnt have done that i should have stayed Marine and retired...i Retired Active Army...

Response by SSG James Dennis made Dec 29 at 2016 6:56 PM

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Definitely partied less and worked on furthering my education. If I had a penny for every dollar I spent on alcohol.........

Response by SPC Sean Martin made Dec 30 at 2016 9:31 AM

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In all branches you will get/do at least 1, if not all: Drink, Cuss, Get a Tattoo, Smoke.

Response by Maj Paul Mordini made Jan 2 at 2017 2:58 PM

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I should have written my own evaluation instead of just giving input. My O-6 didn't know how to write and it ended my career. If I had just handed it to him to sign, it would have been a different road.

Response by SPC Douglas Bolton made Jan 5 at 2017 12:20 PM

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I would have gone through ROTC while I was getting my degree at Oregon State University, and made a career out of it.

Response by SPC Wanda Vergara-Yates made Jan 5 at 2017 3:36 PM

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Actually, if I had been on my game, I'd have gone for the reserve band while finishing college. That alone would have given me confidence. However, when the time came to choose the MOS, I think maybe I should have at least auditioned. If I didn't make it, I could still have gone for the MOS groupings I was considering during the recruiting process. One thing I do honestly believe: My recruiter actually was trying to look at for me and my family. Both he and my counselor listened to my concerns about family issues and used that to guide me toward specialties that worked to that end. As a result I landed a peachy MOS that gave me family time. However, I would have thrived in the band and later learned that Band units give comp time to soldiers as well as a few other perks I would have loved. Still, it worked out. No time for any real regrets.

Response by LtCol J W made Jan 6 at 2017 11:22 AM

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I never would have changed a thing. Enlisted at end of WW II, stayed in, fought in S. korea at Inchon & Seoul, wounded at Uijongbu, returned to North Korea at Chosin reservoir, acting platoon leader in a rifle company consisting of 1 lieutenant, 1 other sergeant and me and about 25 other troops but we kicked some Chinese ass! Fought in Viet Nam-a wasted war because we did not fight to win. Only change I would have liked was that I got a 502 for reckless driving which cost me my promotion to full Colonel. Otherwise i am proud of my service and of my Marine Corps. Semper Fidelis to all you other jarheads!

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 6 at 2017 6:16 PM

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I would have signed up as a member of the Georgia National Guard and attended basic training between my junior and senior year of high school. That would have meant doing drill once a month during my senior year of high school - something that my 18 year old self wanted no part of. Looking back it would have given me another year for retirement pay. Since I ended up attending West Point, I wouldn't have gone to AIT the next summer anyway and my GA NG contract would have been over at that point. But what teenager listens anyway...

Response by SPC Johnny Velazquez, PhD made Jan 7 at 2017 1:30 AM

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I would have opted to stay in the reserve. I loved my MOS, and could have put in 20 years, without any regrets.

Response by 1LT Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 8 at 2017 3:01 PM

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I would have done ROTC my first go around in college. I'm slated to be a cadet later this year but I lost some time.

Response by PO1 Rodney Bracey made Jan 8 at 2017 3:15 PM

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I would have sought out mental help assistance after the incident aboard USS IOWA, April 19, 1989. I spent over 20 years suffering from PTSD related to that incident because an officer told me to "suck it up and get over it."

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 8 at 2017 9:51 PM

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I've thought about this a lot over the years.

First, I would have gone active duty from the start, rather than joining the Reserves and going active six months later. Would have ended up with a fat enlistment bonus.

Second, I'm glad it happened the way that it happened, as I've been happily married now for 17 years and have two amazing sons. But my plan was to put in my flight warrant packet. Had it completed and ready for submission. And then met this guy....... Never did turn it in. But I don't regret it.

Third, I got out when our first son was born because dual military families are *hard*. I didn't want someone else raising him, so I got out so I could while my husband went to Korea/deployed/etc. But I missed it. I went DA civilian so I could still work with Soldiers, but I'm not taken as seriously as I was when I wore the same uniform. Still, I'm supporting Soldiers and my husband is now retired. I'm content. I would never trade my family for being a helicopter pilot. Never.

Response by PO1 William "Chip" Nagel made Jan 9 at 2017 1:19 AM

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PO2 Robert M. Come On! I know we Paid a Dear Price and I'm sure Locking the Two of Us in Safes, I mean SCIFs is probably not good for Mental Health but No Way I would have given it up for anything. The Two of Us got to Play with More Communications and Computer equipment ever. We were doing S**t that No One Else could Until the Advent of the Internet. Reading the Presidential Intelligence Brief from the CIA, DIA, NSA? Passing Executive Orders, Handling PEOs (President Eyes Only) Messages. Dirty Tricks Men for whoever the Occupant of the White House was. Yeah It Almost Got Us Both Blown Up that Wonderful Day but We are Still Rocking and Rolling and not Taking S**t from anyone. We Were Doing Counter-Terrorism before it was Fashionable. These Nicky New Kids Have No Idea Who and What We Are!

Response by CW3 Bradley Keiser made Jan 12 at 2017 11:56 AM

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Instead of retiring at 20 as a CW3, I would have continued to serve until I made CW4.

Response by SPC Eric Francis made Jan 12 at 2017 12:35 PM

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I would have joined when i was 18 instead of waiting until after i was 21. I would have joined regular Active Duty instead of 3 years in the National Guard. I wouldnt have gotten married in the Army either.

Response by SPC David Whitney made Jan 12 at 2017 1:38 PM

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Even though I was in during the freezes after Korean War, I would have liked to stay in the Intel Analyst business by working towards a Warrant that would have allowed me to remain an intel specialist for a full career. As it was, we were stuck at E-4 for an eternity with not much to look forward to in that area. While I do regret not being able to pursue the intriguing business of analysis it did serve me well as a journalist in later life - got nominated for the Pulitzer Prize three times but never won it! My Army time, plus military school before that and its ROTC plus another year of it in college, did put some structure in my life for which I have always been grateful.

Response by SPC Kevin Sickles made Jan 12 at 2017 5:49 PM

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I'd not have re-enlisted, just taken the Stop-Loss, deployed again and gotten out.

Response by SFC William Swartz Jr made Jan 14 at 2017 4:12 PM

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I would have tried 110% to get out of recruiting duty....worst 3 years of my career and my life....

Response by SPC James Oswald made Jan 14 at 2017 4:21 PM

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Well, a lot really the normal, not gotten married, pressed more for promotions and definitely not medically discharged would be my first thing loved army life, my favorite was watching all the guys/girls in the barracks getting drunk and stumbling over things placed strategically around the common rooms and hallways.

Response by SSG Brian Kresge made Jan 14 at 2017 6:08 PM

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I would have kept in better touch with dudes that ended up taking their own lives. Other than that, in the last 22 years, I've received more than I feel I've given, because even in the most miserable of times, I've gotten to be around other service members such as yourselves.

Response by Sgt Rick Parr made Jan 14 at 2017 7:19 PM

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I would have accepted the chance to go to the Naval Academy Prep School.

Response by SPC Nicholas V. made Jan 14 at 2017 9:27 PM

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I would have not tried as hard. Seems like all of the slackers who were just there to have a good time and make friends were always first in line when it came to awards and promotions.

Response by Deborah Gregson made Jan 15 at 2017 4:49 AM

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It might be meaningful for first year recruits to be able to read these posts. I think that having the voices of the future echoing somewhere in their ears might possibly be helpful to them as they start to walk the same roads. It seems that the "regrets" fall into similar situations that we recognize and correct as we mature - getting married too young; not understanding the value of enlistment opportunities; stressors of family vs military service; lack of financial planning/knowledge/choices; immaturity. Likewise the things people thought they did right are alike - taking the offers of schooling and training opportunities; using deployment to travel and learn; being wise about enlistment and financial opportunities for future financial security; making choices that took family obligations into consideration.

I want to say as a non military person who has known people who are both career and short time military vets, that there's no right answer for anyone. Military life isn't for everyone, and for sure not for every spouse or family. It was rough on my cousins, but my Aunt adapted. My niece wasn't thrilled about her husband's frequent deployments and his dad was dying, so he didn't re-enlist after 12 years in, for which now he's grateful. My girlfriend loved her career so much she became a contractor when she retired. My cousin only got out because she had two kids, but her husband retired and she loved the travel. We all have regrets, and things we're thankful for. The bottom line is you have to do what you think is right at the time, live your life out, readjust if you don't like what's happening, get help if you need it, and keep moving ahead.

Response by Sgt John McRae made Jan 26 at 2017 11:53 AM

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Would have gone back in after I got married. The one thing I kick myself for is only doing 4 years.

Response by SPC Ann T. made Jan 26 at 2017 2:23 PM

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I should have joined right out of high school.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 18 at 2017 10:34 AM

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Picked a better career path

Response by SPC Ryan Pierce made May 18 at 2017 12:54 PM

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I had orders for OCS and the physician assistant program. It was ripped away from me because I was transferred to another company across post and the chain of command there canceled the orders and told me they knew what was best for my career.

Response by SSgt Nicholas Merchant made May 18 at 2017 1:12 PM

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I would have choosen the military over my now ex wife

Response by LCDR Jack Spratt made May 18 at 2017 1:16 PM

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After 30 great years, I only have two regrets. (1) That night in Freemantle and (2) take more pictures - and label them to know who, what, where and when. Other than that, it was a helluva ridel

Response by SSgt John Carter made May 18 at 2017 1:20 PM

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Went to college FIRST, not afterwards.

Response by MAJ David Clawson made May 18 at 2017 1:36 PM

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Stayed in and retired.

Response by Cpl Tyler Therrien made May 18 at 2017 1:50 PM

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I would have stayed in the Corps and made a career out of it

Response by 1LT Jim Alkek made May 18 at 2017 2:16 PM

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I would have accepted the early promotion to Captain and taken the job as Senior Province Intel Officer in Nha Trang in 1969.

Response by MAJ Luca Luca made May 18 at 2017 2:35 PM

2017-05-18T14:35:02-04:00

Not much. It was a great show. I think I would like to be able to do it all over again just for the experience of it though, maybe stay enlisted, do broadcasting or water craft. Something entirely different, not because of dissatisfaction, but because it was a challenge. Think about the days of BCT, weren't they fun? Maybe this go around, I would volunteer for everything single stupid thing the Smoke wanted bodies for, be the first for every detail, every example, be in the front of every line. Be the muddiest, sweatiest boot troop on the trail. I guess, I would find the fun in the things that had some fun in it. Too often and too soon, we had to grim up. Being dumb and 17 has it's upside...
Maybe enlist as a Spacecraft Door Gunner...

Response by SrA Kyle Saritelli made May 18 at 2017 3:13 PM

2017-05-18T15:13:40-04:00

Fighting my Commanders decisions. Failed a PT test because the spotter stopped counting my push-ups and I was 5 short. This was weeks before PCSing out of Hawaii. The Commander said I'd have to stay for the next 3 months and do the FIP program before retesting. Only way to do it was being put in a control roster. Passed the test, still couldn't leave because the Commander thought he could take me off but couldn't. Air Force did a draw down and those are the roster were tagged first.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 18 at 2017 3:14 PM

2017-05-18T15:14:58-04:00

I would've gone active duty

Response by PVT Ryan P. Quirk made May 18 at 2017 3:36 PM

2017-05-18T15:36:26-04:00

Well When you have a Commander that is being QMP out. And he takes it out on his command. That sucks. I missed a promotion by one point because of his taking away his commanders points. And as such he flushed my chance at going to OCS. That was when I decided to get out and become a police officer. The best part of that was years later he was out of the service and I arrested him for drugs and a DUI. So win win. Oh and I reminded him that he was still a Piece of SHIT.. :)

Response by SSgt Donnavon Smith made May 18 at 2017 3:53 PM

2017-05-18T15:53:29-04:00

taken 30 days leave and payed cash to have lipo surgery without my command knowing. Years of heavy exercise and restricted dieting did not help me. Or if it is a time machine, I would have had the damn Military quack check my pituitary gland

Response by SGT Charles Lyttle made May 18 at 2017 4:18 PM

2017-05-18T16:18:30-04:00

If I could go back I would take advantage of my opportunity to go for the support side of Delta. I don't think I could have survived the Q course, but if I did it would have been a nice feather in my cap and I would have had a more stable career and not moved as much as I did, 7 stations in 14 years, four in a three year span.

Response by PO2 Joseph Fast made May 18 at 2017 4:32 PM

2017-05-18T16:32:43-04:00

I would not have tried to train people. I would not have taken the worse shift to train, when I had first say, and I would have taken the more lax shift and made someone else train on the crappy shift.

I would not have shared my internet "kind of hard when they put 4 people to a room".

If I had done the following two changes, I very well might not have hated the Navy due to the problems that resulted from my previous choices. I don't know if I would have stayed in, chances are I would have still gotten out, but I don't believe I would have been 100% dead set on it like I was.

Response by MAJ Glenn Lasater made May 18 at 2017 4:40 PM

2017-05-18T16:40:58-04:00

My military career consisted of serving in two branches, enlisted, NCO, and officer. I enjoyed some great assignments -- and survived some less than great ones. I was not a hero but I was honored to walk with a few. They inspired and motivated me to do more and go farther than I believed possible at the time.

I met and married my lovely wife of 50 years as a result of being in the service, our son survived a difficult birth thanks to military health professionals, and we had the opportunity to see the world like no tourist ever could.

I've considered this question carefully for some time now and come to the conclusion that I wouldn't change my career path because it has provided me with everything I hold dear in life. I would, however, appreciate the opportunity to go back and express my sincere appreciation and undying gratitude to the many men and women who played such an important role in my career.

Response by Lt Col Jim Coe made May 18 at 2017 4:52 PM

2017-05-18T16:52:04-04:00

Looking back, I think everything worked out better than I deserved. At most career crossroads I made the decision that I thought was best for my family. When I look at the alternative in every case, I still think I made the right choices. On a personal level I wish I had listened more and studied harder when I was a young officer. As a senior officer I should have had more humility.

Response by SN Bill Cartmell made May 18 at 2017 5:36 PM

2017-05-18T17:36:21-04:00

In bootcamp in 1983, It was an option to "Opt out" of the government matching education funding. I stupidly opted out and had nothing for college. big mistake. HUGE. but at 17, I only had eyes for the immediate paycheck. Didn't want anything taken away from it.

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made May 18 at 2017 5:39 PM

2017-05-18T17:39:39-04:00

I would have lifted weights sooner, focused on career planning, and less partying, and planned for retirement. That said... I don't really regret much.

Response by SFC Mark Lathan made May 18 at 2017 6:16 PM

2017-05-18T18:16:43-04:00

Never trust the word of officers in my chain of command/influence. Total distrust, and constant verification through others would have saved me a lot of misery. Not the least of which, were two investigations that were the result of officers lying to cover their asses. The days of a "gentleman" officer's word being his bond are long gone.

I also would have bought into Google at the beginning. :)

Response by CPT Tom Fawls made May 18 at 2017 6:17 PM

2017-05-18T18:17:44-04:00

Probably saved more of my pay.

Response by LTC Francis Irwin made May 18 at 2017 6:22 PM

2017-05-18T18:22:01-04:00

Would have told branch to stuff it for my third consecutive tour in Korea. Even as a foreign area officer that doesn't do your career any favors.

Response by PO3 Christopher Jonah Nelson made May 18 at 2017 6:23 PM

2017-05-18T18:23:19-04:00

Instead of going to a TRACON facility, I would have gone to the Nimitz.

Response by SPC Kari Grove Wright made May 18 at 2017 7:22 PM

2017-05-18T19:22:54-04:00

I would have stayed at OCS no matter the family issues!

Response by SGT Steve Hines-Saich B.S. M.S. Cybersecurity made May 18 at 2017 8:00 PM

2017-05-18T20:00:36-04:00

I would have gone to A.A. School. I would have also applied as a warrant officer.

Response by SSG Lon Watson made May 18 at 2017 8:02 PM

2017-05-18T20:02:21-04:00

I would have reenlisted for a new MOS after the first 6 years or went in the Marines after 6 years.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made May 18 at 2017 8:40 PM

2017-05-18T20:40:59-04:00

ETS at the end of the first term(not reenlist for more) and just go to college and live wherever the hell I want rather than move 9 times in 14 years.

Response by SGT Michael Klein made May 18 at 2017 9:15 PM

2017-05-18T21:15:12-04:00

Never use KL-43 key tape as a bookmark. Even IF it is left in a secure location.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made May 18 at 2017 9:35 PM

2017-05-18T21:35:36-04:00

Probably gone for 4 years and a Germany post, then used my GI Bill immediately after getting out. I took things too casually and took my time.

Although things did turn out pretty well and I'm happy with it all now, I could have been a *bit* more ahead of the curve and looking at retiring in 10 years instead of 15 like I am now.

Response by SP5 Rod Bernsen made May 18 at 2017 9:38 PM

2017-05-18T21:38:05-04:00

Turned down OCS after scoring high on the tests. No regrets, a 19/20 year old 2LT in Vietnam.

Response by Maj Private RallyPoint Member made May 18 at 2017 10:09 PM

2017-05-18T22:09:12-04:00

Take back two minutes.

Response by CW3 Steven Prestridge made May 18 at 2017 10:14 PM

2017-05-18T22:14:34-04:00

I did okay going from E1 to CW3 over 29 years active, but if I had to do it all over again, I would have accepted the CO's offer towards the end of Basic Training to attend the USMA Preparatory School. Instead, my punk ass 19 year old self said, "Thank you sir, but I must decline the offer. I only plan on being in the service for 4 years, and then I want to go to a civilian college". That was probably only rivaled by the time in late 1986 when I had 8k bonus money in my bank, and a friend from back in the states said I should put the money into this company called Microsoft. He was wicked into computers, and promised me it was a great idea. Instead, since I was in Germany, I bought a used Mercedes, and tooled around in it until it broke down two years later.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 18 at 2017 11:27 PM

2017-05-18T23:27:50-04:00

Here I am, mere months or one course away from getting my e6 ( in an e7 slot, need my course to receive e6 ((the national guard can be goofy))) I wish I had gone air force from the start. I am now 10 years in with the army signal corps and want to go air force mid air refueler with people telling me it will never happen.

Response by SSG Edward Tilton made May 19 at 2017 12:29 AM

2017-05-19T00:29:03-04:00

You can't go back, there are no do overs. DO NOT take your dissatisfaction out on others

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made May 19 at 2017 1:34 AM

2017-05-19T01:34:27-04:00

Do not trust your supervision to have your best interest in mind! You are responsible for your own career and todays military leaders are just grabbing rank and will throw you under the bus if it suits their purposes.

Response by PO2 Private RallyPoint Member made May 19 at 2017 1:34 AM

2017-05-19T01:34:27-04:00

Wouldnt have reenlisted. The pays alright, but the Navy is a shitshow these days. Theres more concern with politics and whose dick youre sucking to make Chief, abd collateral duties/community service, than with preparing for war.

Response by Cpl Alan Michaud made May 19 at 2017 5:53 AM

2017-05-19T05:53:17-04:00

I would change Nothing. Was a part of history made in the spring of 2003, literally circumnavigated the earth in one direction (aboard ship, on foot, mounted in a vehicle, and air bourne), and built a trade from my military experience that serves my family well. I have life long friends and memories I will never forget. I am very blessed and have no regrets.

Response by PO3 Adam Finley made May 19 at 2017 7:08 AM

2017-05-19T07:08:47-04:00

I would have ensured I invested more during active duty. Would have kept..you mouth shut and ears open more often. Would have shown more respect and more humility to some than I did. Also would have kept my mouth shut during my last physical....

Response by PO2 Roy Lemons made May 19 at 2017 7:59 AM

2017-05-19T07:59:11-04:00

I went from E-5 to E-3 because I wrote up the command (art 183) after finding out our CO was kicking people out on drug charges because of their race and I had evidence he was a member of the KKK. He was going to be a one star so they covered it up. I got out, but found out that he was arrested about a year latter for stealing around $40,000 from the command rec fund. He was asked to retire with full benefits.

Response by PO2 Jeffery Reiser made May 19 at 2017 8:29 AM

2017-05-19T08:29:16-04:00

I would've spent more time working on developing my people skills and mentoring my subordinates to help further their careers in so doing to further my career along in the military and in the following civilian career. I would have also made sure to keep up with addresses and telephone numbers of my fellow sailors and soldiers... Nothing counts so much as family and I consider most all of whom I served as family!

Response by Cpl Kent Mitchell made May 19 at 2017 9:23 AM

2017-05-19T09:23:30-04:00

I look back sometimes and wonder "what if . . . " But the fact of the matter is that I was a pretty immature corporal after four years. I had a few rough years after I left the Corps but I found the right girl plugged ahead (like the Corps taught me) , had a great career as a sports writer and I'm still married to that girl after 55 years. None of the great adventure would have happened if I'd stayed in. However, my proudest memories are of being a United States Marine.

Response by MAJ Doug Rasor made May 19 at 2017 9:36 AM

2017-05-19T09:36:19-04:00

No regrets, I made some mistakes but those helped me learn. Served with some great folks and not so but all in all I'm proud to have served my 4 years Navy, Army 20 years active, reserves and NG

Response by SSG John Jennett made May 19 at 2017 10:22 AM

2017-05-19T10:22:00-04:00

I was offered to go to ANCOC right after BNCOC, I should have gone.

Response by LCpl Aaron Freeman made May 19 at 2017 11:10 AM

2017-05-19T11:10:55-04:00

I would refrain from having any integrity... in the Marine Corps, integrity is overrated, and people will use you, just to benefit them... but, here's the catch: they'll pat you on the back, and make you feel good about yourself, all the while, taking advantage of your abilities...

Response by MSG James Strickland made May 19 at 2017 12:08 PM

2017-05-19T12:08:04-04:00

I had a great career. Are there some things I wish I had done differently in my 23 years of service, "Yes". However, I have great memories of my experiences and I've learned from my mistakes. The military established me for success in my career after the military. It has and continues to help me provide for my family in many ways. I have to remember that the choices I made at a particular time was based on my knowledge or circumstances at that time. HOOAH!!!

Response by SPC Tony Savarino made May 19 at 2017 12:12 PM

2017-05-19T12:12:16-04:00

Joined the navy outta high school instead of the army in my late twenties

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made May 19 at 2017 12:15 PM

2017-05-19T12:15:08-04:00

i would have gone to college, and i wouldn't have reenlisted after my first contract was up

Response by SSG(P) Private RallyPoint Member made May 19 at 2017 12:30 PM

2017-05-19T12:30:12-04:00

I should have kept better record of awards in my early enlistment years and kept all of my coins. I also should have taken more photos with battle buddies.

Response by SSG Stephan Pendarvis made May 19 at 2017 12:47 PM

2017-05-19T12:47:27-04:00

I would change nothing. I am in a good place (DoD job) and I got here by what I have went through in the military...whether I liked it or not...and most of the time I hated it. But I look back and see that it was just a perception. I would change nothing at all. Life happened like it was supposed to for me to learn the lesson I have learned and for me to want to change something is like me saying I don't like the "me" that I am now...

Response by PO1 Barbara Matthews made May 19 at 2017 12:53 PM

2017-05-19T12:53:59-04:00

It all seems like crying over spilled milk now. There is a lot that I could have done different... But I'm mostly happy where I am now. At least I'm trying to make the most of it.

Response by CPO Allen Jaquins made May 19 at 2017 2:20 PM

2017-05-19T14:20:39-04:00

I would have picked a different subspecialty. Would have stayed on active duty to retire.

Response by PO2 Samuel Lewis made May 19 at 2017 3:21 PM

2017-05-19T15:21:55-04:00

I wanted to stay in. I had 10 1/2 years active duty and was forced out for medical reasons. I was an E-5 and half way to retirement.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made May 19 at 2017 3:47 PM

2017-05-19T15:47:33-04:00

Never left active duty--

Response by SGT Ben Crowley made May 19 at 2017 4:05 PM

2017-05-19T16:05:18-04:00

I quit ROTC my freshman year of college, only to enlist right after I graduated. Should have stuck with ROTC.

Response by SFC Jim Ruether made May 19 at 2017 4:43 PM

2017-05-19T16:43:54-04:00

I was asked to go to OCS when I returned from Basic Training but I came from a family of NCO's and decided to continue the tradition. I think now I should have considered being an officer.

Response by SSgt Seán H. made May 19 at 2017 6:00 PM

2017-05-19T18:00:35-04:00

I would've enlisted earlier, become a Flying Crew Chief instead of just staying a regular Crew Chief, traveled more, and not gotten out. I miss the brotherhood.

Response by SGT John Morris made May 19 at 2017 6:26 PM

2017-05-19T18:26:24-04:00

I'd have enlisted sooner and stayed longer, but really have no complaints. The honor of serving with the men I served next to has made me who I am, and has set the highest bars of standards to hold everything else to.

Response by CPL Tyson Burns made May 19 at 2017 6:31 PM

2017-05-19T18:31:57-04:00

I would have left and spent the night at a friends house when the battalion commander's teenage daughter came to the barracks looking to get back at her daddy by doing half the mortar and scout platoons.

Response by Pvt Basil Sands made May 19 at 2017 6:40 PM

2017-05-19T18:40:08-04:00

I would have gone to sick bay the first time my knees and ankles started hurting too bad to stand still, instead of tightening my boots like a cast, and probably not be limping full time today.

Response by PO2 Sean Baker made May 19 at 2017 8:17 PM

2017-05-19T20:17:32-04:00

I would have stayed.....

Response by PO2 Mark Romero made May 19 at 2017 8:25 PM

2017-05-19T20:25:26-04:00

I got an ROTC scholarship awarded to me after I had been in a little over a year. I transferred to my unit and decided to decline my scholarship and stay on active duty. I was lazy. I just didn't want to do what it took. I would change that if I had a do over.

Response by LCpl Leonard Misner made May 19 at 2017 8:54 PM

2017-05-19T20:54:37-04:00

Staying the fuck out of Tijuana

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made May 19 at 2017 10:29 PM

2017-05-19T22:29:08-04:00

I wouldn't have told anyone I banged the company commanders daughter

Response by PV2 Mark Zehner made May 19 at 2017 10:55 PM

2017-05-19T22:55:54-04:00

Stayed in

Response by PFC Michael Falderoff made May 19 at 2017 10:58 PM

2017-05-19T22:58:54-04:00

Be all that you can be....next time, join the Air Force

Response by SrA Dean Updegraff made May 20 at 2017 12:02 AM

2017-05-20T00:02:15-04:00

I would have stayed in. My first wife was the reason I got out. She went nuts when I went to the Philippines. I have Paper work to prove it.

Response by SrA Dean Updegraff made May 20 at 2017 12:03 AM

2017-05-20T00:03:15-04:00

I got out in 1978. I wished I had stayed for 20.

Response by PO2 Caleb Pearson made May 20 at 2017 2:38 AM

2017-05-20T02:38:50-04:00

I wouldn't do anything different. I learned valuable life lessons, had life long experiences, got new brothers, and I loved my job. I am who I am today because of my military experiences.

Response by TSgt Russell Brand made May 20 at 2017 6:39 AM

2017-05-20T06:39:04-04:00

Took the cryptological linguist job when I enlisted instead of Security Police. I might have actually stayed active for 20 instead of getting out and going in the Guard.

Response by SSG Keith Phillips made May 20 at 2017 7:50 AM

2017-05-20T07:50:25-04:00

Stayed in!

Response by SPC Rick LaBonte made May 20 at 2017 8:49 AM

2017-05-20T08:49:38-04:00

I would've re-enlisted, managed my money better and stayed in 20 instead of 4 and out. 20 years seemed like forever at 22, now at 46 it's not all that long

Response by CH (LTC) Robert Leroe made May 20 at 2017 8:50 AM

2017-05-20T08:50:44-04:00

I would have taken up an outlet to relieve stress. I kayak now and wish I had taken it up while in the Army.

Response by SPC James Looby made May 20 at 2017 8:52 AM

2017-05-20T08:52:31-04:00

I would've finished my packet to go to rotary flight. Older me wants to beat the younger me with a stick. Poor leadership in battalion and up and their choices left me with a bitter view. Will never know now so there's no point on dwelling. Dwell on the good stuff like your battle's flavor of fart or some nasty catch at the bunny club.

Response by MAJ Leslie Martin made May 20 at 2017 8:59 AM

2017-05-20T08:59:13-04:00

Took a lot more photos. Fired a couple of NCOs that needed to be fired instead trying to bring them along. Reverse 2 decisions for the sake of the family that cost me career wise and seemingly were not appreciated as time went on. Sought mentors and do what they recommended and be humble enough to take advise from those with experience.

Response by SN Reece Russell made May 20 at 2017 9:08 AM

2017-05-20T09:08:36-04:00

Worked harder than I did to stay in... But such is the life of a young sailor in a toxic command...

Response by PFC Scott Thompson made May 20 at 2017 10:58 AM

2017-05-20T10:58:33-04:00

I never would have become an MP. And I probably would have joined the Coast Guard instead of the Army.

Response by PO1 Felix Rivera made May 20 at 2017 11:02 AM

2017-05-20T11:02:49-04:00

Should have really listen to my inner voice and put my foot down. Work on my education, probably would have retired as a Warrant or Commisioned Officer.

Response by PO2 Lori Klement made May 20 at 2017 11:06 AM

2017-05-20T11:06:33-04:00

I would have stayed in and re-enlisted. I was on the fast track and moving up quickly but youth and ego won.

Response by SFC SFC Gregory Rogers made May 20 at 2017 12:13 PM

2017-05-20T12:13:59-04:00

I would have chosen a different MOS

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 20 at 2017 3:15 PM

2017-05-20T15:15:21-04:00

I would have signed up for nuclear or machinist trades and gotten a civilian job in it as soon as I ets'd.

Response by SPC David Sumrall made May 20 at 2017 3:38 PM

2017-05-20T15:38:46-04:00

Would have changed to coast guard.

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made May 20 at 2017 5:01 PM

2017-05-20T17:01:38-04:00

I wouldn't have given up on being a PJ. The PAST test kicked my ass. I should have trained harder. But at the end of the day, it was a great 20 years in the world's #1 Air Force. #airpower

Response by SPC Seth Dietrich made May 20 at 2017 5:42 PM

2017-05-20T17:42:48-04:00

I was offered the opportunity to go to the prep school in order to go to West Point. I said no because I wanted to get married. Marriage did not last.

Response by PVT Paul Vary made May 20 at 2017 5:48 PM

2017-05-20T17:48:40-04:00

I would have chosen to go into the Marines instead of the Army as I feel that I would be more disciplined in both my personal as well as my professional life as the Marine Corps instills discipline in their men.

Response by CW3 Private RallyPoint Member made May 20 at 2017 6:40 PM

2017-05-20T18:40:45-04:00

On the whole, a fantastic career. I did things and saw places I never imagined I would do/see. Things to do different? Not have gotten married as young as I did and saved money which a young SM rarely does (at least back then - so proud to see young SM saving like fiends these days)

Response by Mike Martin made May 20 at 2017 7:35 PM

2017-05-20T19:35:46-04:00

I would have made sure to see a shrink and see if my tourettes diagnosis at age 7 was a mistake. Then I might have gotten further than getting rejected twice.

Response by PO1 Jose Morales made May 20 at 2017 7:48 PM

2017-05-20T19:48:33-04:00

Should have had an alotment to save money for retirement.

Response by SPC Tanya Beaver made May 20 at 2017 8:26 PM

2017-05-20T20:26:33-04:00

Picked a different field. Maybe realized I had nothing to prove and joined the Air Force instead.

Response by LTC Orlando Illi made May 20 at 2017 9:23 PM

2017-05-20T21:23:11-04:00

I would have tried to get into SF. As it was I was identified early as a Acquisition Corps Officer and groomed as such since I was a 1LT. I had a number of 05,06, 08 mentors that saw in me the talent to become a successful Program Manager. I am not complaining - just wondering ...

Response by LTJG Frederick Birchmore made May 20 at 2017 9:58 PM

2017-05-20T21:58:15-04:00

Would have listened more carefully with my one remaining good ear when they said, "Your leg and hearing may probably recover. We can test it but we'd have to keep you in for another two weeks."

Response by SPC Melissa Lee made May 20 at 2017 10:03 PM

2017-05-20T22:03:03-04:00

I would have turned in my squad leader who sexually assaulted me. I would have turned in my whole command(SFC,SSG,SGT my team) who did nothing to help me after I was sexually assaulted by Jordian soldiers x2 to my CO when we got back from the mission. I would have claimed it all when I got out on my medical discharge.

Response by SSgt Thomas Crisp made May 20 at 2017 10:19 PM

2017-05-20T22:19:31-04:00

Retirement

Response by PO1 Mark Hutchins made May 20 at 2017 10:32 PM

2017-05-20T22:32:42-04:00

I probably should have stayed for 2 past Twenty and Kissed more Ass to retire with that Fricking Anchor. I was just not and Ass Kisser. Was not my nature. Still not. Anchor would have kept me so I could continue share my knowledge with those that needed it to make rate. High year-end year sent me to the House. All Good Seabee's need to go home sooner or later.

Response by Cadet 2LT Private RallyPoint Member made May 21 at 2017 12:25 AM

2017-05-21T00:25:55-04:00

Joined sooner.

Response by SGT Philip Roncari made May 21 at 2017 12:32 AM

2017-05-21T00:32:38-04:00

I really did not have a military career just a three year enlistment but things at home kept me from reenlisting as was my plan,I actually liked Army life,probably better for me in the long run as my chosen profession would have put me in situations where such things as life expectancy was not altogether a sure thing,still regret it though.

Response by AA Private RallyPoint Member made May 21 at 2017 12:33 AM

2017-05-21T00:33:48-04:00

Never cop an attitude with anyone E-1 to O-10. You never know who could still have your 6 after you get out

Response by PFC Jim Mills made May 21 at 2017 1:14 AM

2017-05-21T01:14:22-04:00

Definitely would not have gotten married!

Response by MSgt Daniel Armstrong made May 21 at 2017 8:39 AM

2017-05-21T08:39:27-04:00

Only do 20 years instead of 25. Those last five years really destroyed my health. Lot harder being a grunt and door kicker at 42, instead of 22.

Response by PO1 Giovanni Bellomo made May 21 at 2017 9:11 AM

2017-05-21T09:11:14-04:00

I would have pursued my education earlier, I did complete a bachelor's in Healthcare Administration but over 20 years I could have had a double doctorate.

Response by TSgt Johnnie Keller made May 21 at 2017 9:32 AM

2017-05-21T09:32:50-04:00

I would have listened to my friends and not married my ex-wife. Then after marrying her, I got out of the service because she didn't want me to take an assignment at reenlistment time. Hind sight is always 20/15 or better. I did finish with 21 years of service, but my break's in service hurt my advancement, but I did find a fine wife who supported my military service.

Response by SMSgt Mike Wood made May 21 at 2017 10:25 AM

2017-05-21T10:25:42-04:00

Really don't know. Being a medic was all i ever wanted. There are times that I question whether everything that could possibly have been done. When you lose a person, you'll almost always question your actions. The losses never go away.

Response by PO1 Joseph Ratner made May 21 at 2017 11:54 AM

2017-05-21T11:54:20-04:00

I would have taken orders over seas sooner and staayed in Italy longer when I got there.

Response by SGT Tony Paredes made May 21 at 2017 12:10 PM

2017-05-21T12:10:27-04:00

Would of re-uped and done my 20, 3 diferant services . 8 years service

Response by SN Ira Thompson made May 21 at 2017 2:15 PM

2017-05-21T14:15:41-04:00

Knowing what I know now I would have taken that baseball scholarship.

Response by SSgt Wayne Sasuta made May 21 at 2017 2:31 PM

2017-05-21T14:31:28-04:00

I would have pushed the Docs at the base I was at much harder to do an MRI on my injured spine quicker than it was done. The initial injury occurred January 2005, and because I wasn't showing "enough" pain, they figured an MRI was a waste of money. Fast forward to June 2008, I finally get an MRI done to show my L5-S1 disk is completely gone on my right side, and bulged 200% on my left side. When the Doc asked if previous MRIs had shown the same thing, his jaw hit the floor when I told him that was my first...

Needless to say, had I pushed harder for an MRI to be done earlier, I might still be Active Duty to this day instead of a disabled military retiree

Response by SGT Benjamin J Bell made May 21 at 2017 2:35 PM

2017-05-21T14:35:43-04:00

Response by CPT Terry Callison made May 21 at 2017 4:04 PM

2017-05-21T16:04:26-04:00

I would have transitioned to Warrant Officer after I got promoted to 1LT

Response by SGT Peter Hayes made May 21 at 2017 4:37 PM

2017-05-21T16:37:12-04:00

I would have stayed in

Response by LCDR Steve Rowlands made May 21 at 2017 9:15 PM

2017-05-21T21:15:41-04:00

I would have never changed from CPW-10 to VP-31

Response by SGT Allen Rouscher made May 21 at 2017 10:07 PM

2017-05-21T22:07:15-04:00

Saved more of my pay, bought a umaller stereo system, cut back on the beer.

Response by SGT Allen Rouscher made May 21 at 2017 10:10 PM

2017-05-21T22:10:52-04:00

Saved more of my pay, bought a smaller stereo system, drank less beer and quit smoking.

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made May 21 at 2017 11:32 PM

2017-05-21T23:32:51-04:00

Study more for advancement. The haunch doesn't advance you quicker.

Response by SFC Ted Brumet made May 22 at 2017 12:14 AM

2017-05-22T00:14:09-04:00

Drink less, focused on my career more.

My first four years I didn't want to be in. Spent the next 21 years making up for it.

Also, I would have stayed on active duty. Don't get me wrong I enjoyed my time with the Guard. But I would have been better off on active duty.

Response by SGT Johnny Owens made May 22 at 2017 2:00 AM

2017-05-22T02:00:24-04:00

Taken more pictures.

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made May 22 at 2017 5:36 AM

2017-05-22T05:36:42-04:00

I would have signed up to be a UAV operator (I don't know the MOS code for that) Instead of ammo. I could have had a good job working for Raytheon. On the flip side I met some of the coolest people and I still hang out with one of my buddy's from my unit, so the grass is always greener i suppose.

Response by PO3 Tracy Sefcik made May 22 at 2017 8:10 AM

2017-05-22T08:10:52-04:00

I wish I would have worn those Nicky Mouse a little more in the engine room, other than that I would not change a thing.

Response by SPC Robert Stewart made May 22 at 2017 10:26 AM

2017-05-22T10:26:08-04:00

i would have never gotten out

Response by PO2 Steven Youngblood made May 22 at 2017 11:01 AM

2017-05-22T11:01:10-04:00

I would not have gotten married, would have stayed in for 20

Response by SPC Kristina Robinson made May 22 at 2017 12:00 PM

2017-05-22T12:00:54-04:00

I would never have told anyone about the nightmares and the nin sleep I was having when they sent me stateside from Iraq. I would have kept my mouth shut and suffered in silence if I knew then what I know now.

Response by Cpl Eric Honomichl made May 22 at 2017 12:08 PM

2017-05-22T12:08:12-04:00

take more pictures and drink "less" hahaha

Response by CPO Patrick McGinn made May 22 at 2017 1:42 PM

2017-05-22T13:42:57-04:00

I wouldn't do anything different, no regrets...good or not so good. These experiences made me who I am today.

Response by SGT Scott Stancik made Jul 7 at 2017 8:44 PM

2017-07-07T20:44:29-04:00

Nothing.....I did 3 years as an AD Army 11B, 10th MTN. One deployment to Iraq, a lot of it sucked and I dealt with some really shit people but also some great ones. It was an adventure, I got a chance to do my part for the Red White and Blue, but when the time came to ETS with an Honorable Discharge I ran with it. I could see in 2010, that the Army was starting to enter a fucked up period ,many of the E-5's and E-6's with numerous deployments that I respected were getting out, they told me "dude just ETS shits getting fucked"

Response by Sgt Tony Wasion made Jul 7 at 2017 11:23 PM

2017-07-07T23:23:31-04:00

Air Force Survival Specialist. I was a MP and couldn't get out of the field because they were short MP's.

Response by CW2 Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 10 at 2017 9:40 AM

2017-07-10T09:40:34-04:00

I would had had a different MOs, I would had been a cook, instead if leaving the Army as a Signal WO i would had been a food Service WO. If that had happened I would have a show on the Food Network called "How to feed an Army"

Response by Cpl Lester Lachappelle made Jul 10 at 2017 11:13 AM

2017-07-10T11:13:02-04:00

I would would of opened a bar off base

Response by SP5 Roland Clark made Jul 10 at 2017 11:19 AM

2017-07-10T11:19:11-04:00

Affirmative action screwed me out of E-6, so I decided it was not for me, being young I Let my ego get in the way or I would have been a lifer.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 10 at 2017 11:44 AM

2017-07-10T11:44:41-04:00

I had a chance to commission as an officer in the USAR but I wanted out of that unit so bad I transferred out instead of taking the commission. Should have stayed at least long enough to have gotten that bar.

Response by CPO Michael Hatten made Jul 10 at 2017 12:24 PM

2017-07-10T12:24:50-04:00

I would have embraced military life earlier in my career. Because I joined to avoid getting drafted, I spent too much of my first enlistment wishing I were back at home. When I finally grew up a little and started being where I was instead of dreaming of being somewhere else, I kind of liked it. By then, several years had passed and I'm sure it affected my promotions.

Response by 1stSgt Bill Wilson made Jul 10 at 2017 2:40 PM

2017-07-10T14:40:36-04:00

Been more family oriented while achieving career goals!

Response by SSG Ricky Johnson made Jul 11 at 2017 6:04 PM

2017-07-11T18:04:09-04:00

I got out after 11 yrs, 3mo, 17 days, because I didn't want to spend 2+ years away from my wife and newborn son. I had orders for Vincenza, Italy and my wife was a QASAS. The QASAS slot there was a GS12. She was a GS11, I was a SSG. The QASAS program would not even consider sending her there. DA wouldn't consider sending me any where else, so I declined to reenlist. I ended up with an reup code of RE3, which means if I wanted active duty in the future, it would be as a SP4. HR asked if I wanted to join the IRR, but as an E4. No, thank you. So I got out and ended up as a retired Dept Army GS13. I really wish I could have stayed on AD, but I guess it kind of worked out.

Response by SGT Kaelin Locker made Jul 11 at 2017 6:13 PM

2017-07-11T18:13:30-04:00

I would have gone to more schools. I regret not doing Airborne/Air Assault/EFMB/SFQC/Ranger etc.. I should have just put in for anything and really made an experience out of it. There is no civilian equivalent to that stuff either..

Response by 1SG John Ginn made Jul 11 at 2017 9:53 PM

2017-07-11T21:53:54-04:00

I would've stayed on active duty Navy for 20. Married the girl I was dating.

Response by TSgt Roger Chouinard made Jul 12 at 2017 11:11 AM

2017-07-12T11:11:00-04:00

To have known about ADD in 1969 (which wasn't in existance then), May have made a career difference instead of just 1 tour!!

Response by SPC Jake Robinson made Jul 12 at 2017 5:01 PM

2017-07-12T17:01:58-04:00

Maybe a branch transfer after getting out of the Army. I enjoyed the Army but not the job I had or much options I had with them.

Response by PO3 Greg Gehrke made Jul 12 at 2017 7:56 PM

2017-07-12T19:56:42-04:00

Should have hired a lwyer to defend myself from MMSC (ss) Winkleman & stayed in...

Response by Maj Howard Charleboix made Jul 13 at 2017 9:26 AM

2017-07-13T09:26:03-04:00

In basic the TI Gave a fatherly talk the day before we graduated.. told us that we had the most important decisions to make in the next four years.. getting married and get out of the service ... I now know I screwed the both up!!

Response by SSG Arlene Rivera made Jul 13 at 2017 11:24 AM

2017-07-13T11:24:11-04:00

I should have accepted that transfer to Alaska and gotten my promotion to E-7. I choose my family, but I hate being a civilian. Boring out here.

Response by MSgt Ed Dayton made Jul 14 at 2017 10:14 AM

2017-07-14T10:14:52-04:00

msgt (now Rev.)Ed Dayton Absolutely nothing! As far as I'm concerned it was win-win

Response by PO1 Edwin Anderson made Jul 14 at 2017 3:19 PM

2017-07-14T15:19:18-04:00

The Navy wanted to make me a sub nuke ET. I wanted nothing to do with it. I finally 'failed' ET school. Best move. I have been stationed in 3 countries, sailed on 5 ships on 8 oceans/seas, and visited about 30 countries and learned enough of several languages to get something to eat, shop, get directions and carry on at least a limited conversation. I met my wife at a restaurant in Virginia Beach (slept through lunch Labor Day weekend at Dam Neck). I went to Antarctica where I spent 13 months and learned some Russian from our exchange scientist and had a chance to use some of what I knew living in Portland, Oregon which has quite a Ukrainian/Russian community. My SK training helped me get a great job working with foreign navies for almost 20 years after I retired from the Navy, meeting some great folks and doing quite a bit of travelling. I wouldn't have the wonderful grandkids I have, and wouldn't be a member of the Patriot Guard Riders that my youngest son turned me on to, with the friends I've made. Also, because of my job I held after the Navy, I would be living only on my SS and Navy pension. I worked under a union where I built up enough seniority to receive a life time pension, along with my shipyard small pension. Moving recently to Oregon gave me a nice break since they don't tax SS or military pension, and my 2 civilian pensions aren't quite enough to be taxable in Oregon. Nothing about my life is a coincidence, as far as I'm concerned.
No, I wouldn't change a thing about my career in the Navy.

Response by SFC Shannon Ford made Jul 15 at 2017 1:55 AM

2017-07-15T01:55:38-04:00

I would have chosen to remain silent. My biggest regrets were not my own decisions, but the ones forced on me. The choices I couldn't avoid, which put me in the positions I hated the most. Taking a man out of combat arms, as a Tank Master Gunner, and forcing me into recruiting, to serve under some very obvious stolen valor motherfuckers, and then have your career trashed because they were offended that they were caught? In the end I came out on top, but I never should have had that battle.

Response by AN Christopher Crayne made Jul 15 at 2017 3:08 AM

2017-07-15T03:08:49-04:00

I would like to go back and re up and get back to the job I loved,AMH. I have an aircraft and helicopters fettish. I think I would have swapped P-3 Orion's to work on helicopters though. I could have used the experience and training to use it in the real world. But I chose one and a W.U.

Response by PO1 Ken Kyle made Jul 15 at 2017 10:28 PM

2017-07-15T22:28:38-04:00

I wouldn't have gotten caught kissing that E-3 Mess Specialist (yes, female, early co-ed ship) in the Mess Management office.

Response by SGT Stephen Croushore made Jul 16 at 2017 8:20 AM

2017-07-16T08:20:19-04:00

Not gotten married.

Response by Cpl Kent Mitchell made Jul 20 at 2017 7:06 PM

2017-07-20T19:06:53-04:00

Things couldn't have worked out better . . . and with no planning at all. I served my four years as a grunt, came home to a crap job situation, met my dream girl who inspired me to be way better than I thought I could ever be. Had a great, 40-year career as a sports writer and retired. We're still together 55 years later. I've thought about different scenarios and their outcomes and my only conclusion is I wouldn't have met her and that was the key moment of my life.

Response by Sgt Lyle O'Connor made Jan 12 at 2018 9:22 PM

2018-01-12T21:22:31-05:00

I had a line number for E-5 but the President put the military in check and said the Military had a duty to repay the cost of the war. Okay, I was pissed. My orders to Korea were red-lined, sewing on E-5 red-lined, killed all pay raises, offered me to reenlist and go to Minot if I wanted to stay in! I decided against the reup and ended my career at 4-years, 3-months, and 21-days. I would have rather stayed but I felt they wanted us out (1977).

Response by SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth made Oct 5 at 2019 1:12 PM

2019-10-05T13:12:46-04:00

Would tried to stay in a few more years.

Response by TSgt Joe C. made Oct 5 at 2019 3:40 PM

2019-10-05T15:40:15-04:00

I would've joined when I was 18 if I could do it all over PO2 Robert M.!

Response by Capt Daniel Goodman made Oct 6 at 2019 10:32 AM

2019-10-06T10:32:12-04:00

Honestly, that's a really interesting question...I'd seen you'd listed 100% total perm svc-connected disabled (SCD), I am also, just figured I'd mention for perspective (really long story, obv)...anyway, I'd made one biggie bollix-up when I'd gone in, I'd gone line accidentally, instead of on the clinical side, as I'd wanted (also another really long story), which, needless to say, caused me untold beaucoup heartache, misery, grief, and aggravation later on, of course...my wife and I are obv also stable now, thank God, however, I'd just figured to relate at least that much, if only as your thread got my mental gears rather whirling, as it were, if nothing else, you know? Really well-phrased question, actually, for real, as I'd said....

Response by PV2 Morris Graham made Oct 6 at 2019 12:37 PM

2019-10-06T12:37:57-04:00

I would have wanted to be a Warrant Officer. I failed by few points going to OCS school & they wanted me to take my Morse Code over so I could go. But wasn't interested until I met one in Germany. Wow. To start over that would be my choice.

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 6 at 2022 12:06 PM

2022-01-06T12:06:03-05:00

I would never have left the Air Force for the Army. I may not have been able to commission as quick as I did (non tech degree), but at least they would still be paying me and I would still be able to retire from the service. No one should have to go through what my family has had to endure for the last 15 or so years. No one. This includes the US Army refusing to acknowledge my commission, my mother pulling her hair out trying to understand the situation (she pinned me at Benning), my uncles (who were all in the military) getting frustrated and angry due to the US Army's attempt to reneg on their contract, my wife and children's disbelief, and the ABCMR refusal to even address the situation when it was posed to that entity.

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 6 at 2022 12:08 PM

2022-01-06T12:08:03-05:00