I’m NG, my BF is active. We plan to get married. Is it possible for him to be stationed nearby while I’m in flight school? https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/i-m-ng-my-bf-is-active-we-plan-to-get-married-is-it-possible-for-him-to-be-stationed-nearby-while-i-m-in-flight-school <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I will be on active duty orders for 18 months. Is it at all possible for him to get a duty station near Ft. Rucker? Wed, 21 Nov 2018 20:14:50 -0500 I’m NG, my BF is active. We plan to get married. Is it possible for him to be stationed nearby while I’m in flight school? https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/i-m-ng-my-bf-is-active-we-plan-to-get-married-is-it-possible-for-him-to-be-stationed-nearby-while-i-m-in-flight-school <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I will be on active duty orders for 18 months. Is it at all possible for him to get a duty station near Ft. Rucker? 2LT Private RallyPoint Member Wed, 21 Nov 2018 20:14:50 -0500 2018-11-21T20:14:50-05:00 Response by SrA John Monette made Nov 21 at 2018 8:23 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/i-m-ng-my-bf-is-active-we-plan-to-get-married-is-it-possible-for-him-to-be-stationed-nearby-while-i-m-in-flight-school?n=4147430&urlhash=4147430 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>congrats!!!! yes, it is possible. you would have to ask someone who is in HRC. <a class="dark-link bold-link" role="profile-hover" data-qtip-container="body" data-id="527810" data-source-page-controller="question_response_contents" href="/profiles/527810-maj-ken-landgren">MAJ Ken Landgren</a> <a class="dark-link bold-link" role="profile-hover" data-qtip-container="body" data-id="563704" data-source-page-controller="question_response_contents" href="/profiles/563704-11a-infantry-officer">LTC Stephen F.</a> <a class="dark-link bold-link" role="profile-hover" data-qtip-container="body" data-id="136036" data-source-page-controller="question_response_contents" href="/profiles/136036-ltc-jason-mackay">LTC Jason Mackay</a> SrA John Monette Wed, 21 Nov 2018 20:23:42 -0500 2018-11-21T20:23:42-05:00 Response by 2LT Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 21 at 2018 8:28 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/i-m-ng-my-bf-is-active-we-plan-to-get-married-is-it-possible-for-him-to-be-stationed-nearby-while-i-m-in-flight-school?n=4147445&urlhash=4147445 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Maybe I should mention he is an Infantry Officer in Ranger School now. His current duty station is Ft. Wainwright. 2LT Private RallyPoint Member Wed, 21 Nov 2018 20:28:11 -0500 2018-11-21T20:28:11-05:00 Response by CSM Darieus ZaGara made Nov 21 at 2018 9:08 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/i-m-ng-my-bf-is-active-we-plan-to-get-married-is-it-possible-for-him-to-be-stationed-nearby-while-i-m-in-flight-school?n=4147525&urlhash=4147525 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Not to be contradictory, it is not at all likely. There is nothing for an Infantry Officer at Rucker. It is also unlikely that a recent Ranger grad would be allowed away from troops for an extended period. All things are possible, he will have to speak to his command and then Branch manager. Not trying to dampen your hopes, just being realistic. Thank you for your service. CSM Darieus ZaGara Wed, 21 Nov 2018 21:08:58 -0500 2018-11-21T21:08:58-05:00 Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 22 at 2018 12:59 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/i-m-ng-my-bf-is-active-we-plan-to-get-married-is-it-possible-for-him-to-be-stationed-nearby-while-i-m-in-flight-school?n=4147805&urlhash=4147805 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>He could get stationed in Benning. He probably won&#39;t, but he could. But then you would PCS after flight school and he would still be at Benning for several years. SFC Private RallyPoint Member Thu, 22 Nov 2018 00:59:50 -0500 2018-11-22T00:59:50-05:00 Response by CPT Nicholas D. made Nov 22 at 2018 6:31 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/i-m-ng-my-bf-is-active-we-plan-to-get-married-is-it-possible-for-him-to-be-stationed-nearby-while-i-m-in-flight-school?n=4148243&urlhash=4148243 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Hey, here’s a crazy option. He could apply for AVN through your State. Each State is a little different, but I know our State has two active duty O3s that are going through the Conditional Release process. They were selected by our Aviator Selection Board and they are heading our way. It is not an overnight process (takes a few months) but once released from the Active Component, they will be appointed into the ARNG (As WOs, we insist on reversion). We are then sending them to flight school. Shot in the dark, and the process takes a few months, but if you’re getting married and he is going to leave The RA anyway, I can promise you he’d enjoy being an Aviator in the ARNG more than an Infantry officer. Food for thought. It’s radical, and one should have a much better cause to pursuing Aviation than chasing their girlfriend around... BUT... if it something he’s considered doing, it is not impossible. My wife and I had a blast in Flight School. Some of our best friends were dual military couples going through at the same time. It’s not outside the realm of possibility. Good luck! CPT Nicholas D. Thu, 22 Nov 2018 06:31:32 -0500 2018-11-22T06:31:32-05:00 Response by SGM Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 22 at 2018 11:01 AM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/i-m-ng-my-bf-is-active-we-plan-to-get-married-is-it-possible-for-him-to-be-stationed-nearby-while-i-m-in-flight-school?n=4148855&urlhash=4148855 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Once married, if he remains active duty there is no dual-status treatment for a married couple where only one is active duty, so there would be no priority for his assignment request. The assignment request would still be possible, just not as likely.<br />If he stays active duty, your only option would be to IST every time he gets PCS&#39;ed. SGM Private RallyPoint Member Thu, 22 Nov 2018 11:01:59 -0500 2018-11-22T11:01:59-05:00 2018-11-21T20:14:50-05:00