I can’t sleep and my wife tells me I’m emotionless and need help. Will I be discharged for trying to find help?

Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 09 Nov 2019 12:51:42 -0500

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 9 at 2019 4:25 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 09 Nov 2019 16:25:22 -0500

No, you will not.

Response by CSM Charles Hayden made Nov 9 at 2019 4:33 PM

CSM Charles Hayden — Sat, 09 Nov 2019 16:33:30 -0500

Enlisting with known sleep problems? Is your difficulty disclosed on ALL of your paperwork?

Do you think your problem will be cured by getting away from your wife?

Why not divorce her rather than joining the military?

Response by MAJ Ken Landgren made Nov 9 at 2019 4:42 PM

MAJ Ken Landgren — Sat, 09 Nov 2019 16:42:39 -0500

Do you have depression, racing thoughts, many regrets, nightmares, stress, and anxiety?

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 9 at 2019 5:58 PM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 09 Nov 2019 17:58:47 -0500

Are we talking PTSD/depression here, or something else?

Response by PV2 Adar Fulton made Nov 9 at 2019 8:45 PM

PV2 Adar Fulton — Sat, 09 Nov 2019 20:45:14 -0500

You could be if your problems turn into something worse- it’s sad but you gotta be careful but worry about your health!

Response by LTC Jason Mackay made Nov 9 at 2019 11:15 PM

LTC Jason Mackay — Sat, 09 Nov 2019 23:15:54 -0500

Seek help. If you ignore it, what ever is causing these issues will get you chaptered and put your spouse in a very tough position. Go to behavioral health and get help. Improve the quality of your life for you and your family.

Response by SGT David Petree made Nov 10 at 2019 12:19 AM

SGT David Petree — Sun, 10 Nov 2019 00:19:10 -0500

get HELP soon not later. you will be better for it your wife will be better for it. Discharged I don`t know.. but if you blow up & your wife is at ground zero ya discharge will be in front of you . get help !!! you my have to get a sleep study done to cheek for your sleep problem.. get this documented . then you will know where you stand.

Response by MAJ Byron Oyler made Nov 10 at 2019 12:24 AM

MAJ Byron Oyler — Sun, 10 Nov 2019 00:24:11 -0500

What do you think about her comments? Do you agree or disagree?

Response by SPC(P) Chandler Lonergan made Nov 10 at 2019 1:42 PM

SPC(P) Chandler Lonergan — Sun, 10 Nov 2019 13:42:11 -0500

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Response by MGySgt Joseph Magyar made Nov 11 at 2019 12:25 AM

MGySgt Joseph Magyar — Mon, 11 Nov 2019 00:25:12 -0500

There may be physical and or mental problems that you are experiencing without realizing it. Please get to the doctor/medics.If you cut your hand off you would rush to the hospital. What you are experiencing can be just as fatal. Fatal to your marriage, your command or and your life. Get yourself checked out. We lose 22 military a day (Active and reserve) and many had the start with your problems. Don't let your pride or fear stop you from getting this done.