How often do you connect with your battle buddies?

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Response by SMSgt Lawrence McCarter made Sep 6 at 2023 1:24 PM

SMSgt Lawrence McCarter — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 13:24:53 -0400

Me with My buddy Frank Donahue Jr in 1968 at Da Nang, Vietnam in front of the hut We both lived in there. He was having a problem with the VA on disability despite problem directly related to Agent Orange. We talked about that a lot. I wrote a letter His Doctor used and He got His 100% finally due to that letter according to Him. , He is on the right Me on the left in the picture here. . The Agent Orange was not only sprayed on the perimeter We both worked but We both also worked a bunker post within 100 feet or where thousands of barrel of AO were stored and to this day nothing will grow there. One of His daughters was also born with physical birth defects. Other guys We served with already have died due to Agent Orange exposure. Just over one year after that on 06 March 2023 Frank Died due to that Agent Orange exposure. Up until them We did talk and were on many of the same Veteran's Facebook pages as well as each others.

Response by SSG Carlos Madden made Sep 6 at 2023 2:30 PM

SSG Carlos Madden — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 14:30:48 -0400

Not as much as I should. :(

Response by SFC Ralph E Kelley made Sep 6 at 2023 2:40 PM

SFC Ralph E Kelley — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 14:40:01 -0400

Pretty much daily but then I was in service 20+ years and then from 1993 to 2012 I worked in PMCs that directly worked with either US or US-Allied militaries and partners.

Response by SA Brian Rorrer made Sep 6 at 2023 5:50 PM

SA Brian Rorrer — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 17:50:43 -0400

About once every month or two. Thanks for the reminder that it's that time again!!

Response by Cpl Jean-Robert Silfort made Sep 6 at 2023 5:57 PM

Cpl Jean-Robert Silfort — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 17:57:35 -0400

Not since 2011-ish via facebook. I feel that chapter in my life is long and gone to be honest. I m a family man now and unfortunately that guys I ran with were not and not good role models. Or its a female and I dont want to cause problems or have problems caused if you know what I mean.

Response by SSG (Plamondon) Mackie made Sep 6 at 2023 6:01 PM

SSG (Plamondon) Mackie — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 18:01:57 -0400

Every once in a while. Some more often.

Response by SSgt Earle W. made Sep 6 at 2023 6:02 PM

SSgt Earle W. — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 18:02:46 -0400

We have been having regularly scheduled reunions since 1976 - at first it was every 5 years then 3 and now every 2 years. So - often.

Response by Sgt Milton Broce made Sep 6 at 2023 6:04 PM

Sgt Milton Broce — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 18:04:36 -0400

Every three months

Response by Sgt Linda Limon made Sep 6 at 2023 6:06 PM

Sgt Linda Limon — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 18:06:29 -0400

Not often

Response by Sgt Matthew Keller made Sep 6 at 2023 6:10 PM

Sgt Matthew Keller — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 18:10:15 -0400

Every once in awhile. We are trying to get a reunion together in the future.

Response by SrA LeSans Alexander made Sep 6 at 2023 6:10 PM

SrA LeSans Alexander — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 18:10:29 -0400

MSgt Joe Mosely-40+ years
MSgt Ron Forfia-40+ years

Response by SSG Archie Martinez made Sep 6 at 2023 6:12 PM

SSG Archie Martinez — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 18:12:55 -0400

My battle buddies have remained in contact with me when possible but in majority the occurrences of our contact occurs when our country is faced with adversity. At this time of year the political tensions are much higher since it's an election year though am proud of fact our relationships aren't based on political views as opposed to personal/family well-being. Hope all continue to grow and have fruitful relationships with their battle buddies!

Response by SA Regina Scarinci made Sep 6 at 2023 6:15 PM

SA Regina Scarinci — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 18:15:27 -0400

Not enough

Response by SN Aurora Macias made Sep 6 at 2023 6:18 PM

SN Aurora Macias — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 18:18:48 -0400

A few times a year.

Response by Cpl Magda Carmona made Sep 6 at 2023 6:22 PM

Cpl Magda Carmona — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 18:22:40 -0400

I connect with my buddies via FB, and messenger at least 3-4 times per month.

Response by SPC Vernon Trexler made Sep 6 at 2023 6:29 PM

SPC Vernon Trexler — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 18:29:37 -0400

have a strong relationship with trooper from same platoon.we were the only 2from jersey.newark&paterson.we are building house in phillipines.rons wife passed away after 51yrs of marriage.we have been in commo last 25yrs.

Response by MAJ Philip Cunningham made Sep 6 at 2023 6:29 PM

MAJ Philip Cunningham — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 18:29:48 -0400

zero

Response by Sgt Drew Doll made Sep 6 at 2023 6:30 PM

Sgt Drew Doll — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 18:30:13 -0400

I have a couple of guys who stay in touch.

Response by SSgt Sean Kopack made Sep 6 at 2023 6:37 PM

SSgt Sean Kopack — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 18:37:43 -0400

I connect on a day to day basis. My twin brother and I were both active duty members of military aviation. He was a Rescue swimmer for the navy. I was a flying crew chief on KC-10's. After many hours of flying in the sky and dreaming of one day getting out and opening a coffee shop together. We did it. Going 4 years strong and enjoying every minute of it.

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2023 6:44 PM

CPT Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 18:44:33 -0400

Enough to win a sweepstakes! Woot.

Response by CPL Allen Knepper made Sep 6 at 2023 6:47 PM

CPL Allen Knepper — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 18:47:26 -0400

I don't think I connect with any of them these days.

Response by AN James Cluck made Sep 6 at 2023 6:52 PM

AN James Cluck — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 18:52:54 -0400

I’m a military widow

Response by SPC Joe Edwards made Sep 6 at 2023 6:55 PM

SPC Joe Edwards — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 18:55:23 -0400

Once every couple months or so.

Response by SSG Ken Potts made Sep 6 at 2023 7:01 PM

SSG Ken Potts — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:01:23 -0400

Never, they won't contact me unless they want something.

Response by SSgt Joshua Collings made Sep 6 at 2023 7:02 PM

SSgt Joshua Collings — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:02:18 -0400

We have a Facebook group that we all use together to be there for each other. I know it’s helped others and has definitely helped me

Response by SPC Michael Rossignol made Sep 6 at 2023 7:06 PM

SPC Michael Rossignol — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:06:14 -0400

Every couple of weeks, I check in with a handful of my brothers. We say more in a few sentences to each other, than any other conversation I have. We make it a priority to do Buddy Checks routinely.

Response by SP5 Mamie B made Sep 6 at 2023 7:08 PM

SP5 Mamie B — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:08:32 -0400

First time here

Response by SSG Jay Alcombright made Sep 6 at 2023 7:26 PM

SSG Jay Alcombright — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:26:28 -0400

Never

Response by PO3 Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2023 7:31 PM

PO3 Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:31:22 -0400

No more contact, they have all put their Oars to rest.

Response by LTC Arthur LaPorte made Sep 6 at 2023 7:31 PM

LTC Arthur LaPorte — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:31:48 -0400

Not in many years

Response by SPC Sean Kovarovic made Sep 6 at 2023 7:34 PM

SPC Sean Kovarovic — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:34:32 -0400

I have a lot of my Battle Buddies on Facebook. I am trying to get something setup to see some in person, but life and finances make it almost impossible.

Response by PO2 Dan Thurman made Sep 6 at 2023 7:37 PM

PO2 Dan Thurman — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:37:02 -0400

Not as often as I should

Response by LCpl Jason Foss made Sep 6 at 2023 7:38 PM

LCpl Jason Foss — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:38:13 -0400

Due to the rise of suicide, I try and contact my brothers from my unit monthly or bi-monthly even though it’s hard to get a hold of everyone I think about. But we definitely need all the communication and support we can receive from each other and resources! Semper Fi warfighters!

Response by CPO Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2023 7:39 PM

CPO Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:39:14 -0400

I do a better job as a reservist than I did active. We still have our group chats going, and I try to keep up with both sides. Occasionally I have a gentle reminder of an old friend/shipmates and I'll reach out to them to catch up and tell them as well. When I find myself in another state, I'll dig through my friends on Facebook who were either from my previous deployments and see if they are still in the area. Though we are far apart, we are all still connected.

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2023 7:40 PM

MSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:40:23 -0400

Not as often as I should. But we know we are always there for each other, just a phone call away.

Response by SPC Timothy Mitchell made Sep 6 at 2023 7:40 PM

SPC Timothy Mitchell — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:40:24 -0400

Once to twice every week for sum... Once to twice a month for others

Response by PO3 Keith Danner made Sep 6 at 2023 7:47 PM

PO3 Keith Danner — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:47:09 -0400

Connecting with my battle buddies from the Navy has become a cherished tradition, even years after our service together. One memorable instance was during a crisp autumn weekend. We organized a reunion at a rustic cabin nestled in the mountains. As we gathered around a crackling fire, the camaraderie instantly rekindled. Stories from our Navy days flowed, punctuated by laughter and shared memories. It was a testament to the enduring bonds forged in service, and a reminder of the importance of staying connected, no matter how far our paths diverged. While our meet-ups aren't frequent, they're always meaningful, reinforcing the unbreakable ties that were forged during our time in the Navy.

Response by PFC Chris Schubert made Sep 6 at 2023 7:50 PM

PFC Chris Schubert — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:50:25 -0400

I havn’t been able to keep I touch with them. I did for the first couple years after getting out, but then everyone moved around and numbers changed.

Response by Sgt Hendrik Kroes made Sep 6 at 2023 7:53 PM

Sgt Hendrik Kroes — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:53:10 -0400

Social media or through sharing memes, simple and fun.

Response by Sgt Aaron Sanford made Sep 6 at 2023 7:56 PM

Sgt Aaron Sanford — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:56:04 -0400

Once a week

Response by SA Eldon LaDouceur made Sep 6 at 2023 7:56 PM

SA Eldon LaDouceur — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:56:35 -0400

I've connected with 3 of my budz that were on the ship ussPiedmont AD17

Response by Maj Brian Booth made Sep 6 at 2023 7:58 PM

Maj Brian Booth — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:58:29 -0400

About every 2 weeks

Response by Cpl Austin Evans made Sep 6 at 2023 8:00 PM

Cpl Austin Evans — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 20:00:29 -0400

I try to see my brothers as much as possible. One of my fellow team leaders currently lives with me and I’m helping him get into law enforcement. We travel to see our other bothers when we can. I definitely miss doc more than anyone though. He’s one of the best dudes Iv ever known.

Response by Cpl Melissa Huseman made Sep 6 at 2023 8:04 PM

Cpl Melissa Huseman — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 20:04:41 -0400

I actuall talk to between 1 to 3 per day. We all need each other sometimes and everyone needs support

Response by SSgt Christopher Gravley made Sep 6 at 2023 8:08 PM

SSgt Christopher Gravley — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 20:08:22 -0400

Every once in a while - but nowhere near as often as I used to, or as often as I should. I definitely need to make it a point to do that

Response by PO3 Michelle Tremblay made Sep 6 at 2023 8:13 PM

PO3 Michelle Tremblay — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 20:13:43 -0400

I Fly Fish with Veterans several times annually, and we have other events together as well. I travel with an Army bud that I met in service early on. We have gone fishing, gone to concerts, on trains, planes, and automobiles! Another Army bud started a business to help my business, and it thrives to this very day!

Response by SPC Timothy Mitchell made Sep 6 at 2023 8:18 PM

SPC Timothy Mitchell — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 20:18:42 -0400

Once to twice every week with one battle we both have little girls... Then once or twice a month with other battles..I don't at all with any of my former special operations soldiers I was in the 160th soar with though

Response by Sgt Bob Socks made Sep 6 at 2023 8:20 PM

Sgt Bob Socks — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 20:20:41 -0400

Seldom if ever...I just turned 80 and most have passed on.

Response by SPC Rhonda Godlewski-Reese made Sep 6 at 2023 8:25 PM

SPC Rhonda Godlewski-Reese — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 20:25:12 -0400

I haven’t seen one of them since 2007 so never. There are plenty I would like to see but likely never will again

Response by SGT Alshaune Edwards made Sep 6 at 2023 8:31 PM

SGT Alshaune Edwards — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 20:31:17 -0400

We try to stay in touch often. Like friends from school the longer we have been out. The less time we have spent together

Response by SPC Kier Logan made Sep 6 at 2023 8:46 PM

SPC Kier Logan — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 20:46:54 -0400

I hear from them about once a month

Response by SSgt Naomi Pulley made Sep 6 at 2023 8:55 PM

SSgt Naomi Pulley — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 20:55:01 -0400

A few of us keep in touch regularly with a yearly check in, if not more often. Unfortunately, life gets in the way unless you make it a priority.

Response by SGT Anthony Marc-Aurele made Sep 6 at 2023 8:59 PM

SGT Anthony Marc-Aurele — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 20:59:51 -0400

Response by Cpl Michael Mendoza made Sep 6 at 2023 9:03 PM

Cpl Michael Mendoza — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 21:03:14 -0400

Not as often as I should. I usually text him from time to time to see how he’s doing and he does the same.

Response by SGT Lisa Mayne made Sep 6 at 2023 9:07 PM

SGT Lisa Mayne — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 21:07:51 -0400

Still talk with my basic training buddy and have visited over the years. We still laugh until we cry.

Response by SrA Sarah Queale made Sep 6 at 2023 9:09 PM

SrA Sarah Queale — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 21:09:37 -0400

I would love to set up a DLI reunion for all the service members who spent time at the Presidio in the 2010s. It was truly such a unique opportunity. My son plays with some of my battle buddies' kids from DLI. Unfortunately, staying in regular contact with my flight hasn't been a priority. It was easier to connect when I used Facebook and Instagram. But not inclined to use social media now. I miss being able to look up someone's email by typing in their name on outlook.

Response by SPC Justine Blankenbeckler made Sep 6 at 2023 9:14 PM

SPC Justine Blankenbeckler — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 21:14:24 -0400

I am still good Friends with my Basic Training Battle Buddy. Yes MY Battle Buddy. We watched after each other. We both were able to get a Driver's license as we were a little bit older. We would go on runs and pick up Soldier's at the hospital during the night. We both went to Ft. Sam Houston after Basic. We promised to stay in touch. That we did. Letters, then came, e mail, cell phones, marriages, divorces, and even a meet up. It was not a long one , my Battle Buddy was going to meet her daughter and I lived 50 miles away and there was no way we were not going to let this pass us for a lunch together. We still do Christmas Cards, and Text. I will always remember my Bunkmate and Battlebuddy Buddy, Barbara!!

Response by PO3 Robin Lockhart made Sep 6 at 2023 9:23 PM

PO3 Robin Lockhart — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 21:23:24 -0400

Never, unfortunately.

Response by Cpl Hilario Amezola made Sep 6 at 2023 9:33 PM

Cpl Hilario Amezola — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 21:33:39 -0400

I keep in touch with a few every so often.
Am going to my Goddaughter's dad's 2nd wedding in October as a groomsman. We served in the early 2010s and we are basically brothers. Hopefully others from out unit will be there

Response by SGT John Shatesky made Sep 6 at 2023 9:41 PM

SGT John Shatesky — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 21:41:51 -0400

I chat daily with one of my brothers from my unit in Nam

Response by SGT John Shatesky made Sep 6 at 2023 9:42 PM

SGT John Shatesky — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 21:42:33 -0400

I’ve sent him the info to join Rally too.

Response by SGT John Shatesky made Sep 6 at 2023 9:44 PM

SGT John Shatesky — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 21:44:35 -0400

I’ve also sebt info to other brothers I send info to.,

Response by Cpl Jeremy Cabrera made Sep 6 at 2023 9:47 PM

Cpl Jeremy Cabrera — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 21:47:19 -0400

I was able to convince one of them to move near me lol

Response by SrA Aaron Brunson made Sep 6 at 2023 9:54 PM

SrA Aaron Brunson — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 21:54:31 -0400

Pretty much daily through our LinkedIn network

Response by 1LT Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2023 10:04 PM

1LT Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 22:04:49 -0400

On a weekly basis for some and I always take the time to comment on their social media updates.

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2023 10:04 PM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 22:04:56 -0400

We communicate at least once a year, 11/13/67, a not so good day for Troop B 1st Squadron 9th Cavalry Regiment, 1st Cavalry Division. We email or call each other on 11/13. We usually get together once a year for reunion with the Vietnam Helicopter Pilots Association or the Combat Helicopter Pilots Association. We generally keep in touch through out the year.

Response by SP6 Winfried Renken made Sep 6 at 2023 10:07 PM

SP6 Winfried Renken — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 22:07:10 -0400

weekly

Response by PO1 Zachary Goldman made Sep 6 at 2023 10:11 PM

PO1 Zachary Goldman — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 22:11:12 -0400

Well, I married mine; my wife and I met in the Navy, so everyday. Otherwise, I talk with one of my Navy buddies about once every 2 weeks. We've called each other for about 3 years now since we got out. It's been really helpful in transitioning and keeping each other up to date on VA programs.

Response by CPL Joseph De Frank made Sep 6 at 2023 10:11 PM

CPL Joseph De Frank — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 22:11:54 -0400

Since 2004, approximately 60 battle buddies of B, 1/6, 198th LIB, Americal Division, RVN 1967-68, have been located. We have a contact list with home and email addresses. We have had multiple mini-reunions over the years as well as full-scale reunions in Branson, MO; Ft. Benning, GA; Arlington, TX; Shipshewana, IN; Port Clinton, OH. We have had monthly Zoom meetings for the past two years. Several brothers also connect on Facebook.

Response by SPC E Pax made Sep 6 at 2023 10:23 PM

SPC E Pax — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 22:23:07 -0400

Online, always, in person, not often.

Response by Sgt Sean Chu made Sep 6 at 2023 10:31 PM

Sgt Sean Chu — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 22:31:37 -0400

Every week. It’s a bond that can never be broken. I treasure mine as family.

Response by PO2 Jeremy Durivage made Sep 6 at 2023 10:31 PM

PO2 Jeremy Durivage — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 22:31:49 -0400

I try to keep in touch as much as possible but I make it a priority to keep in touch with my buddies who like me suffer from PTS. Because we know what we’ve been through

Response by A1C Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2023 10:33 PM

A1C Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 22:33:36 -0400

Connecting with my battle buddies in the Air Force is a bit like the unpredictable world of quantum mechanics. Our interactions vary, sometimes intense and close, like electrons in a tightly bound energy level, and other times scattered and distant, like electrons transitioning to higher states. Communication keeps us connected, much like particles sharing information through entanglement. The frequency of our connections is like the probabilities in a quantum wave function, but the bond remains unbroken, offering strength and inspiration for my career aspirations.

Response by SPC Ivery Singletary made Sep 6 at 2023 10:37 PM

SPC Ivery Singletary — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 22:37:52 -0400

I have a few that I speak to weekly. Others, I catch up with whenever we have time, so a few times a year.

Response by AN Nathan Sanbeck made Sep 6 at 2023 10:39 PM

AN Nathan Sanbeck — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 22:39:04 -0400

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Response by SGT Mario Soliz made Sep 6 at 2023 10:39 PM

SGT Mario Soliz — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 22:39:41 -0400

Pretty much daily for those I was close to. Otherwise, I do my best to check on those I served with from time to time.

Response by PO3 Christina Gonzales made Sep 6 at 2023 10:41 PM

PO3 Christina Gonzales — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 22:41:05 -0400

I connect with my battle buddies almost daily. Today is actually one of their birthdays and I was telling another buddy about times when we were on deployment and how much we have gotten older through the years. From gray hairs to gaining or losing weight. Even talked about how she learned to smoke a cigarette just to get a cigarette break but wasn't even a smoker. She til this day still works in the same exact field and positioned like she did when we were active. My other buddy we mostly talk about fishing and our families, some other ones we've talked about babies they've had recently or marriages. It's crazy how you can make lifelong friends from military that last a lifetime, and even watch their journey after service. I remember when they and myself were younger and things we could do easily then versus now. Or the many different things we would buy overseas or stuff we would do import or while on liberty. We all gained a lot from the military and not just suffered but it was all worth it. To think back how time flies so fast, and growing up as a military brat or having friends from different walks of life change and grow. Or not change at all which was a cool thing too. I'll never forget this chapter in my life and being in battle with them

Response by PV2 Rachely Gloss made Sep 6 at 2023 10:42 PM

PV2 Rachely Gloss — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 22:42:13 -0400

I sadly only connect with 1 person, we became family. Miss him dearly since he’s so far but beyond grateful to call him my friend/brother.

Response by AN Nathan Sanbeck made Sep 6 at 2023 10:42 PM

AN Nathan Sanbeck — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 22:42:38 -0400

I connect frequently with 2 close friends from the service and interact with others on social media

Response by LCDR Brian Moore made Sep 6 at 2023 10:44 PM

LCDR Brian Moore — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 22:44:20 -0400

Rarely so interested in this tool for connecting

Response by TSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2023 10:51 PM

TSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 22:51:00 -0400

Whether it be on the mats, TDY extracurricular activities, texts, direct messages, video calls, I am always in touch with all the people I've formed bonds with in the military. Sometimes it could be longer than I'd like, but checking in with them is a high priority of mine. Trying to reconnect on trips is a big one for me. I just recently had my friend who I met at Ramstein, and another I met at McGuire, venture out to Europe with me for a trip. Being in contact with my shop every day is a "norm" and I hope that never changes. Daily or weekly communication is vital, in keeping connections with your people and making sure they are always okay- if they are not, spend the time to hear them out and pray with them. I am so thankful the military has brought amazing people into my life.

Response by CW2 Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2023 10:51 PM

CW2 Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 22:51:02 -0400

Not nearly enough. I have a few that I speak to weekly, but most are every few months or even years. The good thing about all of my military friends is that it doesn't matter it its been five days, five months or five years. Once we start talking, it doesn't matter how ling its been!

Response by Sgt Chanson Sim made Sep 6 at 2023 10:58 PM

Sgt Chanson Sim — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 22:58:16 -0400

Pretty often, 9th Comm is all over my Facebook!

Response by CH (CPT) Tino Villalovas made Sep 6 at 2023 11:04 PM

CH (CPT) Tino Villalovas — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 23:04:32 -0400

Unfortunately, not much. I hardly know how to find most of them.

Response by PV2 Jessica Thompson made Sep 6 at 2023 11:05 PM

PV2 Jessica Thompson — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 23:05:57 -0400

Thanks to social media, I connect with the ones I have left almost daily, and I am very thankful for that.

Response by SFC Lisa Dumire made Sep 6 at 2023 11:06 PM

SFC Lisa Dumire — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 23:06:42 -0400

Via social media, I interact daily.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2023 11:10 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 23:10:20 -0400

I probably connect with my battle buddies aside from drill a few times out the month. Some of us link up and go out for food and whatnot. Two of my close battle buddies happen to be neighbors of mine.

Response by FN Steve Heglmeier made Sep 6 at 2023 11:16 PM

FN Steve Heglmeier — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 23:16:04 -0400

I was in during peace time. Late 70's. Back in the 70's we really didn't have a way to keep in touch, as each time you moved you got a new telephone number. It's not like today with phone numbers that follow you and social media.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2023 11:17 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 23:17:36 -0400

Annually, and sometimes more often depending on the year's events.

Response by Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2023 11:19 PM

Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 23:19:32 -0400

A few times a month. My battle buddy was Liz Pulliam & she and I met in Afghanistan. She was a civilian with the Defense Language Institute teaching the Afghans English. She would always notice someone singing in the restroom & realized it was me & from there, we worked out together, prayed together, went to Zumba together; she even taught me how to clean & disassemble/reassemble my weapon & I was the one in the service. We still pray together over the phone & encourage one another.

Response by PFC Fleshia Kleinpeter made Sep 6 at 2023 11:21 PM

PFC Fleshia Kleinpeter — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 23:21:59 -0400

Unfortunately not as much as I would like to but I know she is always there for me & vice versa were battles until the end. We will always have each others backs

Response by Cpl Mark Lizcano made Sep 6 at 2023 11:38 PM

Cpl Mark Lizcano — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 23:38:59 -0400

I haven't. I didn't know that I could search on Rallypoint for old friends until today.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2023 11:47 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 Sep 2023 23:47:17 -0400

About at least once a week via a phone call.

Response by SPC Robert Jatho made Sep 7 at 2023 12:02 AM

SPC Robert Jatho — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 00:02:39 -0400

Not enough but we talk in a group chat a couple times a year.

Response by SFC Adan Rosales-Vargas made Sep 7 at 2023 12:15 AM

SFC Adan Rosales-Vargas — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 00:15:32 -0400

I connect with my battle buddies pretty often. We have a group chat in which we keep in touch and check in from time to time. A few of us have gotten together a few times and we often plan future meeting dates and times. It’s great to get to see them and have a beer.

Response by PO3 Courtney Mills made Sep 7 at 2023 12:25 AM

PO3 Courtney Mills — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 00:25:46 -0400

Not nearly as much as I’d like to but always feels like no time has past when we do.

Response by PO2 Joseph Tinervia made Sep 7 at 2023 12:33 AM

PO2 Joseph Tinervia — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 00:33:19 -0400

As many of my old Vietnam USN Shipmate as I can find
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SH2 TINERVIA

Response by SGT Jeff Jenkins made Sep 7 at 2023 12:34 AM

SGT Jeff Jenkins — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 00:34:42 -0400

Not often enough, i think its been at least a year could be two. i could do better

Response by PO3 Johnathan Keyope made Sep 7 at 2023 12:44 AM

PO3 Johnathan Keyope — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 00:44:18 -0400

I try to at least once a week through Facebook or texting them to see how they are doing.

Response by PO2 Nikki Gold made Sep 7 at 2023 12:53 AM

PO2 Nikki Gold — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 00:53:37 -0400

I have a friend, my family, former FCA2 and we talk every day. I’ve only been out for a year, my friend just got out a few weeks ago. I am very blessed to be able to support my friend through those first moments of “oh my god , I’m not in the military anymore” we spend hours on FaceTime , sometimes just doing each of our own tasks but just so we aren’t alone in this new unfamiliar territory of the civilian world. My navy family means everything to me, I always send birthday and Christmas cards, we support each others small businesses, and social media is great for connecting. My other really wonderful friend ET2 , we talk on the phone and have coffee every single Sunday, we will be living together soon when he gets out of the military. I recently reconnecting with and A school buddy while going to the vet center at my college. I start in three weeks and man am I glad that I have my navy family to help me. We connect in many ways but the best thing is, no matter what we are family and it’s like no time has ever passed. I also find new battle buddies at the gym , all different generations, branches and experiences coming together in a place to continue to improve each other and have each others backs. Facebook is a great tool as well, for example my mom recently reconnected with her bunk mate from boot camp after 43 years and it’s like no time has passed. Thankful for my navy family always

Response by CN Alika Prado made Sep 7 at 2023 12:58 AM

CN Alika Prado — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 00:58:05 -0400

I have the most important and closest Battles on Facebook so we talk daily....after 20+ years

Response by SSgt Preston Willavize made Sep 7 at 2023 1:10 AM

SSgt Preston Willavize — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 01:10:30 -0400

I connect with my battle buddies about once a month. Now that it's football season I'm pretty sure it will be about every day!

Response by PFC Janet K made Sep 7 at 2023 1:38 AM

PFC Janet K — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 01:38:43 -0400

once a week or month for the one bb.

Response by SSgt Samuel Johnson made Sep 7 at 2023 1:53 AM

SSgt Samuel Johnson — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 01:53:59 -0400

I connect about weekly with my military buddies, but unfortunately, the number is dwindling daily it seems.

Response by PO2 Khuzema Savai made Sep 7 at 2023 1:59 AM

PO2 Khuzema Savai — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 01:59:27 -0400

At least once a month, I keep in touch with my Military padres

Response by PO2 Khuzema Savai made Sep 7 at 2023 2:00 AM

PO2 Khuzema Savai — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 02:00:28 -0400

At least once a month, I keep in touch with my military friends

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 7 at 2023 2:31 AM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 02:31:10 -0400

Never enough! I need to do stuff like this more.

Response by Cpl Allen Copeland made Sep 7 at 2023 4:21 AM

Cpl Allen Copeland — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 04:21:23 -0400

Never, I didn't serve overseas in War and don't know anyone from that time.

Response by SGT Jimmy Sylakowski made Sep 7 at 2023 4:27 AM

SGT Jimmy Sylakowski — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 04:27:33 -0400

Once a month.

Response by CN Michael Downs made Sep 7 at 2023 4:58 AM

CN Michael Downs — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 04:58:37 -0400

None at all

Response by SA Ted E Poore made Sep 7 at 2023 5:09 AM

SA Ted E Poore — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 05:09:44 -0400

I was basically a private Pyle on boot camp & everyone hated on me. Except one guy. That was back in Aug 89 RTC San Diego We stay in touch to this day

Response by PO2 William Owen made Sep 7 at 2023 5:10 AM

PO2 William Owen — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 05:10:18 -0400

Once per month

Response by Sgt Nate Jennings made Sep 7 at 2023 6:28 AM

Sgt Nate Jennings — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 06:28:23 -0400

I do not communicate with anyone that was in mi squadron or tat I went through training with but have found myself gravitating towards other veterans of another time and o of other branches, pretty exclusively. I even started a charity to raise money for disabled veterans, war dogs and victims of cancer in 2018 and rode my motorcycle around the country and up to Prudhoe Bay AK in 2019 to raise awareness and seek those in need in person. 17,461 miles in 41 days. I found and helped many that actually helped me more than I helped them I feel, and still stay in contact with them as much as possible.
Thank you to all those who donated and especially those who guided my way.
Cheers,
MotoVagabondNate

Response by SGT Cindy Castle made Sep 7 at 2023 6:39 AM

SGT Cindy Castle — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 06:39:45 -0400

I have only one buddy that I am still connected to.

Response by LCpl Benjamin Goodlad made Sep 7 at 2023 6:54 AM

LCpl Benjamin Goodlad — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 06:54:20 -0400

Never, I have zero contact with anyone I served with.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 7 at 2023 6:57 AM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 06:57:39 -0400

Almost never

Response by SSgt Thomas Lackey made Sep 7 at 2023 7:13 AM

SSgt Thomas Lackey — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 07:13:29 -0400

Personally, no strong bonds and only one connection attempt after ETS. I think there is a difference between serving in a war zone and serving stateside regarding forming lasting friendships. One connection I tried was phoning my roommate when I was at the airport in his hometown of Minneapolis. His wife answered the phone, I identified myself, and asked to speak to Karl. He wasn't interested in coming to the phone. That was Karl. He hated being in the service and I guess wanted to even put any contact behind himself.

Response by Sgt Charles Mattes made Sep 7 at 2023 7:13 AM

Sgt Charles Mattes — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 07:13:35 -0400

Have not.

Response by CPL Adam Lareau made Sep 7 at 2023 7:18 AM

CPL Adam Lareau — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 07:18:40 -0400

Not at all anymore. Ever since we all moved back to our states we haven't kept in contact. It really sucks when a couple of then you think of as brothers and all that you have been through together with training and deployment. Sucks to leave to friends and memories behind.

Response by PFC Ethan Sales made Sep 7 at 2023 7:20 AM

PFC Ethan Sales — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 07:20:26 -0400

Every now and again I will get a message from one of them. It's this nice bitter-sweet feeling when we connect again for just a few moments.

Response by PO1 John Schmidt made Sep 7 at 2023 7:23 AM

PO1 John Schmidt — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 07:23:07 -0400

Not as much as I should.

Response by PO2 Colleen Fraser made Sep 7 at 2023 7:55 AM

PO2 Colleen Fraser — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 07:55:29 -0400

Never, when I got out my husband was still active duty. I didn't fit in with the normal wives and I didn't fit in with his active duty friends. The friends that I had made fell to the wayside through time and distance.

Response by A1C Alyssa Gamble made Sep 7 at 2023 7:59 AM

A1C Alyssa Gamble — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 07:59:38 -0400

I try to reach out whenever my mental health is in a good place. On the 22nd I share a status update asking how everyone is. One of my buddies is my best friend/roommate

Response by SCPO Jack Carlsen made Sep 7 at 2023 8:02 AM

SCPO Jack Carlsen — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 08:02:07 -0400

Social Media has made keeping in contact with old friends so much easier. Sometimes connecting with friends that you haven't talked to in years and years. Picking up right where you left off just a little greyer.

Response by SGT James Wilson made Sep 7 at 2023 8:32 AM

SGT James Wilson — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 08:32:48 -0400

My platoon had just 16 guys most of the time, and a few have now passed. About 20 years ago I searched online and found many of them and we met up in Las Vegas for its big Veterans Day Parade. I have arranged several more of these informal reunions. I am in regular email contact with 2 men(Dave and Ken) and less often with others. A few of us plan to meet again this year to attend the Las Vegas Parade which I think is the largest one in the country . Our last visit there was in 2019 before COVID. We stay at the Plaza hotel at Main & Fremont St. The "Fremont Street Experience" has good nightly video shows on the overhead ceiling. I am a life member of the 82nd Airborne Assoc. "Golden Brigade Chapter" and have attended a few annual reunions.

Response by LTC John Zornick made Sep 7 at 2023 8:38 AM

LTC John Zornick — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 08:38:00 -0400

WEEKLY

Response by SGT James Wilson made Sep 7 at 2023 8:40 AM

SGT James Wilson — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 08:40:17 -0400

Response by LTC Anthony Monroe made Sep 7 at 2023 8:45 AM

LTC Anthony Monroe — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 08:45:46 -0400

I had a fire that burned my log cabin in 2012 and I lost every thing I had including 22 years of military as well as lots of item from my high school and colleges! So I have lost a lot of my old buddies, I have found one who was a medevoc piolot

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 7 at 2023 8:51 AM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 08:51:41 -0400

Approximately every two weeks but we definitely need to stay in touch more.

Response by SMSgt Craig Shepard made Sep 7 at 2023 9:18 AM

SMSgt Craig Shepard — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 09:18:25 -0400

Aim High Fly Fight and Win! Air Power!

Response by SMSgt Craig Shepard made Sep 7 at 2023 9:21 AM

SMSgt Craig Shepard — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 09:21:25 -0400

Working for the DoD after retiring from the military. I see my former military colleagues on the regular. I am fortunate that way.

Response by Sgt Greg Rightnour made Sep 7 at 2023 9:38 AM

Sgt Greg Rightnour — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 09:38:04 -0400

At least once a week either by phone or fakebook

Response by SrA Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 7 at 2023 9:59 AM

SrA Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 09:59:59 -0400

As an electrician in the USAF Civil Engineering I saw no direct combat so had no battle buddies. Discharged in 1970 I haven't had contact with any Airforce buddies in several decades.

Response by SSG Daniel Cote made Sep 7 at 2023 10:01 AM

SSG Daniel Cote — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 10:01:30 -0400

Probably not as often as I should. I talk to a few of of my old buddies over Facebook a few times a year. I've only talked to 2 of them over the phone over the past year.

Response by SSG Daniel Cote made Sep 7 at 2023 10:04 AM

SSG Daniel Cote — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 10:04:48 -0400

Probably not as often as I should. I talk to a couple of buddies on Facebook throughout the year. I've only talked with 2 of them over the phone. I'll make a better effort. Life just becomes all-consuming at times, and it's, regrettably, hard to stay in touch.

Response by SSG Jeffrey Struik made Sep 7 at 2023 10:21 AM

SSG Jeffrey Struik — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 10:21:52 -0400

About monthly

Response by SMSgt James Connolly made Sep 7 at 2023 10:36 AM

SMSgt James Connolly — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 10:36:24 -0400

Some on a weekly basis, more rarely.

Response by SPC G Jevon Covington made Sep 7 at 2023 11:05 AM

SPC G Jevon Covington — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 11:05:54 -0400

We usually chat every year, but our lives are so different now and spread out so far. Since COVID happened, it seems as though many are struggling to find an everyday life again, and because of inflation, people are working more and communicating less. The military gave me family, but the economy gave me despair.

Response by SSgt Larmont Capers made Sep 7 at 2023 11:42 AM

SSgt Larmont Capers — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 11:42:00 -0400

i connect with my battle buddies mostly on social media. i tend to see what's going on with them and support and encourage them in whatever they are doing.

Response by Sgt Denis Calderon made Sep 7 at 2023 12:25 PM

Sgt Denis Calderon — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 12:25:07 -0400

I’m in a group message with two of my close friends that we were in together with we all live in different area of the country but still connected my brothers forsure

Response by SP5 Walter Anderson made Sep 7 at 2023 12:27 PM

SP5 Walter Anderson — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 12:27:09 -0400

There are only a few of my buddies who made it back. I stay in touch with two of them multiple times each week. One doesn't like to communicate online so I only talk with him four or five times a year. We are all dealing with Agent Orange problems and/or PTSD issues. We are starting to look in to heart issues that our kids have. We are wondering if they are associated with Agent Orange? How do we get them compensation?

Response by PO3 Wendy Allen made Sep 7 at 2023 1:05 PM

PO3 Wendy Allen — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 13:05:00 -0400

It's been awhile but I connected last with my best friend in the Navy, a couple years ago.

Response by CMDCM Lawrence Dajnowski made Sep 7 at 2023 1:20 PM

CMDCM Lawrence Dajnowski — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 13:20:48 -0400

Monthly mostly.

Response by PO2 Michael Martin made Sep 7 at 2023 1:54 PM

PO2 Michael Martin — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 13:54:45 -0400

Unfortunately, not for years. They all live cross country so I call to check on them. I wish I had more to say about it but I don't.

Response by SSgt W J Alex RzDz made Sep 7 at 2023 2:07 PM

SSgt W J Alex RzDz — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 14:07:10 -0400

I met my battle buddy at Luke AFB, AZ. Filipino baller! We played basketball and Halo a lot. We were stationed together again at Ramstein AB, Germany. He's like a brother. Shout out to you Balili! He's still serving in the USAF; I finished my service recently. We chat it up every couple of months. He's still a solid dude.

Response by PFC Tilo Watts made Sep 7 at 2023 2:45 PM

PFC Tilo Watts — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 14:45:50 -0400

I haven't spoken to any since I exited service.

Response by SPC Ali Atkins made Sep 7 at 2023 2:54 PM

SPC Ali Atkins — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 14:54:30 -0400

Some every week or so and some every few months or years.

Response by SFC Michael Mathers made Sep 7 at 2023 2:55 PM

SFC Michael Mathers — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 14:55:24 -0400

I pretty much connect on a daily basis with at least one of my friends from the military through facebook or email. Many of us have stayed in close contact.

Response by HN Dan Bernard made Sep 7 at 2023 2:58 PM

HN Dan Bernard — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 14:58:12 -0400

Not very often, if at all.

Response by MSgt Leilani Mariotti made Sep 7 at 2023 3:26 PM

MSgt Leilani Mariotti — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 15:26:48 -0400

I had texted and visited one of my bosses when I worked in Stan Eval. I am glad to have found one of my co-workers when working in ground scheduling. And keep in touch with my first commander at my first base I was stationed at. Plus a co-worker from my last assignment in a joint command. Would love to get in touch with more of the people I knew from my Air Force days.

Response by PO2 David Scott made Sep 7 at 2023 3:55 PM

PO2 David Scott — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 15:55:07 -0400

Probably a couple of times per week through Facebook. I think the last time in-person was 2019.

Response by PV2 Carlos Arestegui made Sep 7 at 2023 5:14 PM

PV2 Carlos Arestegui — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 17:14:25 -0400

Weekly we communicate desert storm buddy's

Response by Cpl Aaron Sanders made Sep 7 at 2023 5:38 PM

Cpl Aaron Sanders — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 17:38:57 -0400

How can I search for old friends here? I was in the Golf war until 1996

Response by Sgt Alvin Dalisay made Sep 7 at 2023 5:53 PM

Sgt Alvin Dalisay — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 17:53:45 -0400

Lost contact of all my buddies from the Air Force, I do miss those times, that I wish I kept more memorabilia and pictures of those times.

Response by LCpl Cris Draper made Sep 7 at 2023 7:06 PM

LCpl Cris Draper — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 19:06:01 -0400

I haven't run into any of my old Marine friends in over 40 years

Response by TSgt Edmund Calvert made Sep 8 at 2023 5:03 AM

TSgt Edmund Calvert — Fri, 08 Sep 2023 05:03:47 -0400

Haven't located any as of yet

Response by CPL Andrew Cruz made Sep 8 at 2023 6:12 AM

CPL Andrew Cruz — Fri, 08 Sep 2023 06:12:09 -0400

Ever since getting out the service back in 2011, my battle buddies slowly started pleading as the years went on. I wish I would’ve kept some type of connection with them.

Response by Cpl Shawn Quillen made Sep 8 at 2023 8:41 AM

Cpl Shawn Quillen — Fri, 08 Sep 2023 08:41:30 -0400

Chat every couple months but only get to see each other once a year if that....need to fix that Hector.

Response by CPO Greg H made Sep 8 at 2023 12:24 PM

CPO Greg H — Fri, 08 Sep 2023 12:24:00 -0400

I usually only connect with past veterans when a postshows up on Facebook.
If I am town I will try to hookup otherwise there is not much interaction.
It is of course my fault because I am not a social person.

Response by SGT Peter Corretjer made Sep 8 at 2023 2:08 PM

SGT Peter Corretjer — Fri, 08 Sep 2023 14:08:44 -0400

Never.

Response by Linda Greer made Sep 8 at 2023 3:05 PM

Linda Greer — Fri, 08 Sep 2023 15:05:04 -0400

I am a widow of active duty S#Sgt.GaylonGreer who died 10/24/1988. I don't remember anyone's name that he served with or knew. If you see this, please get in touch, OK?

Response by SP5 Denise Collins made Sep 8 at 2023 4:36 PM

SP5 Denise Collins — Fri, 08 Sep 2023 16:36:44 -0400

Not for many years.

Response by Sgt Ken Thomasma made Sep 8 at 2023 7:48 PM

Sgt Ken Thomasma — Fri, 08 Sep 2023 19:48:46 -0400

I usually throw out a random meme with mine a few times a week.

Response by SPC Crystal Jennings made Sep 9 at 2023 6:49 AM

SPC Crystal Jennings — Sat, 09 Sep 2023 06:49:41 -0400

Rarely, last time I did I was reminded why I stopped chatting with them in the first place.

Response by SP5 Norman Baer made Sep 9 at 2023 8:56 AM

SP5 Norman Baer — Sat, 09 Sep 2023 08:56:36 -0400

Once a week. I am a veteran and several of my friends are veterans also

Response by CW3 Willie Mapp made Sep 9 at 2023 10:30 AM

CW3 Willie Mapp — Sat, 09 Sep 2023 10:30:20 -0400

I try tp reach out to at least one of my battle buddies on a weekly basis.

Response by PFC Cecilio Garcia made Sep 9 at 2023 2:44 PM

PFC Cecilio Garcia — Sat, 09 Sep 2023 14:44:08 -0400

I have never connected with my battle buddies.

Response by SSgt Sheryl Roberts made Sep 10 at 2023 3:05 AM

SSgt Sheryl Roberts — Sun, 10 Sep 2023 03:05:34 -0400

I sometimes connect to fellow Vets on Facebook or via email.

Response by SSgt Sheryl Roberts made Sep 10 at 2023 3:07 AM

SSgt Sheryl Roberts — Sun, 10 Sep 2023 03:07:48 -0400

I sometimes connect to fellow Vets on Facebook or via email.

Response by SFC Kevin Childers made Sep 10 at 2023 1:30 PM

SFC Kevin Childers — Sun, 10 Sep 2023 13:30:14 -0400

After retirement I lived near base and had almost daily interactions with my buddies, not retired and still in. A lot of Sunday brunches at the NCO Club. Since I moved back to St. Louis, not so much. There just isn't much of a military community here any more.

Response by Sgt Stanwick Walker made Sep 10 at 2023 9:28 PM

Sgt Stanwick Walker — Sun, 10 Sep 2023 21:28:12 -0400

There's 13 of us Devil Dogs who text at least three times a week on the regular. We meet up on Memorial day and the Marine Corps birthday.
Now, not everyone is always available when we meet but we will initiate a group call and send pictures. We go way back to the late 80s and there's nothing we won't do for each other.

Response by LCpl Steve Meyers made Sep 11 at 2023 12:34 PM

LCpl Steve Meyers — Mon, 11 Sep 2023 12:34:55 -0400

everyday

Response by MSG Levy Cordero made Sep 11 at 2023 9:56 PM

MSG Levy Cordero — Mon, 11 Sep 2023 21:56:57 -0400

At least monthly, weekly for buddies that lives nearby.

Response by SPC Jeff Stassin made Sep 11 at 2023 10:09 PM

SPC Jeff Stassin — Mon, 11 Sep 2023 22:09:09 -0400

Not as much as I would like to.

Response by SPC Brian Kinser made Sep 12 at 2023 12:15 AM

SPC Brian Kinser — Tue, 12 Sep 2023 00:15:15 -0400

I don't anymore.

Response by SPC Terrence Herrington made Sep 12 at 2023 3:57 PM

SPC Terrence Herrington — Tue, 12 Sep 2023 15:57:41 -0400

monthly

Response by Cpl Franky Gao made Sep 12 at 2023 11:33 PM

Cpl Franky Gao — Tue, 12 Sep 2023 23:33:11 -0400

Rarely, but if something comes up that reminds me of them. I send them a message on Facebook

Response by SGT Colleen MacDonald made Sep 13 at 2023 10:49 AM

SGT Colleen MacDonald — Wed, 13 Sep 2023 10:49:46 -0400

Good morning, and thanks for asking. Unfortunately, most of my buddies have transitioned service after passing through the heavenly gates (hopefully) ha ha. Never the less there are some whom I have hoped to reach, but have not found. Others are still here and I see them once and awhile at the commissary or PX and that is uplifting.

Response by SFC Eric Shaw Jr made Sep 13 at 2023 11:33 AM

SFC Eric Shaw Jr — Wed, 13 Sep 2023 11:33:28 -0400

I want to thank the senators in CT for building a parking garage

Response by PFC Paula Logan made Sep 13 at 2023 12:45 PM

PFC Paula Logan — Wed, 13 Sep 2023 12:45:59 -0400

We have monthly FaceTime calls

Response by PO3 Matt Tarutis made Sep 14 at 2023 3:34 PM

PO3 Matt Tarutis — Thu, 14 Sep 2023 15:34:12 -0400

In 2010, I embarked on a life-changing journey when I joined the United States Navy. Little did I know that this experience would introduce me to some of the most incredible individuals I've ever met. Today, nearly a decade after leaving the service, I remain profoundly connected to the friends I made during those unforgettable years. The bonds we forged amidst the challenges of military life have grown stronger with time, transcending distance and circumstance.
While I may not have the opportunity to see all my Navy buddies regularly, the moments we share, whether through occasional reunions or virtual catch-ups, are nothing short of heartwarming. There's a unique camaraderie that comes from serving together, and it's heartening to know that no matter how much time passes, we can pick up right where we left off. These connections have woven a tapestry of support, laughter, and shared memories that continue to uplift my spirits.
Among the treasured friendships I've maintained, there are three core friends who will forever hold a special place in my heart. Through thick and thin, these individuals have remained constants in my life, proving that the Navy didn't just shape our past, but it continues to enrich our present. As we navigate the challenges of civilian life, the Navy has gifted us with something timeless—a bond that will always remind us of the incredible journey we embarked upon together.

Response by SSgt Lilly Steinbacher/Orellana made Sep 15 at 2023 5:04 AM

SSgt Lilly Steinbacher/Orellana — Fri, 15 Sep 2023 05:04:38 -0400

Virtually never. I am a fresh vet, so it means less, but I am afraid to.
I let bad memories overpower the good ones. Even posting here feels dangerously exposed. I don't want to open myself to being found.
It does hurt to feel so alone.
(i assume if you're reading this far down the list you can relate?)

Response by SPC Rick Price made Sep 16 at 2023 7:18 PM

SPC Rick Price — Sat, 16 Sep 2023 19:18:19 -0400

I have lost contact w many but I have also found many through social media. I also have a few that I text and keep in touch with--and have made new friends w Vets at my federal agency.

Response by SGT Eric Hamilton made Sep 17 at 2023 12:16 AM

SGT Eric Hamilton — Sun, 17 Sep 2023 00:16:19 -0400

Don't think I ever have, don't know if there's anyone interested.

Response by SPC Curtis Taylor made Sep 19 at 2023 12:44 PM

SPC Curtis Taylor — Tue, 19 Sep 2023 12:44:20 -0400

Really just one guy - not that we are actual battle buddies (fortunate to be in during the Carter years). But we connect from time to time through facebook. Sad to say, I wasn't as tight with my teams as I should have been.

Response by SFC Casey O'Mally made Sep 20 at 2023 9:12 AM

SFC Casey O'Mally — Wed, 20 Sep 2023 09:12:14 -0400

I am the odd duck who never forged a strong bond with my work colleagues. Just wasn't worth it when I was going to move in a year anyway. 20 years, 9 PCS moves and 4 TCSs.

Response by PO2 Robert Sanders made Sep 20 at 2023 1:50 PM

PO2 Robert Sanders — Wed, 20 Sep 2023 13:50:53 -0400

I have never connected with a former service person I served with, but would very much like to. I was a corpsman in the Marine Corps and also served on a coastal minesweeper that was later transferred to the Fijian Navy and then grounded and sunk in a reef,

Response by Sgt David Branham made Sep 20 at 2023 5:28 PM

Sgt David Branham — Wed, 20 Sep 2023 17:28:04 -0400

Hasn’t happened since I was discharged

Response by SGT Michael Brand made Sep 21 at 2023 1:57 AM

SGT Michael Brand — Thu, 21 Sep 2023 01:57:18 -0400

Once every few months, but I've lost track of a lot of them.

Response by SGT Ruben Lozada made Sep 21 at 2023 5:54 PM

SGT Ruben Lozada — Thu, 21 Sep 2023 17:54:54 -0400

Good afternoon. Excellent post. Thank You for sharing this on RP. I try to connect every week when possible.

Response by Sgt Daniel Harms made Sep 21 at 2023 8:45 PM

Sgt Daniel Harms — Thu, 21 Sep 2023 20:45:12 -0400

Every couple of days, I communicate with my Marine Corps. Brothers!

Response by SPC David Parrish made Sep 22 at 2023 12:20 PM

SPC David Parrish — Fri, 22 Sep 2023 12:20:35 -0400

I knew it would be a great gesture for my family to receive.

Response by PO3 John Fahrer made Sep 26 at 2023 12:26 PM

PO3 John Fahrer — Tue, 26 Sep 2023 12:26:25 -0400

I have searched for anyone who served at CROWS LANDING AUSLERY LANDING FIELS in Crow have never found anyone.
I was a PO3 firefighter, I went by Mike Fahrer. I would be amazed If someone saw this ans responded.

Response by AN Ron Wright made Sep 29 at 2023 12:36 AM

AN Ron Wright — Fri, 29 Sep 2023 00:36:51 -0400

we talk every couple of months planning on spending time at his place next year
long overdue for an in person visit

Response by SPC David S. made Sep 29 at 2023 4:54 PM

SPC David S. — Fri, 29 Sep 2023 16:54:30 -0400

Probably not as often as we do - when we get together using someone, more than likely all of us, get into trouble. Starts out harmless - "Hey Dave where going to Côn Lôn. You in?" but end ups "Your Honor I'd like to take fifty lashes"

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Response by CMSgt Paul Palko made Nov 1 at 2023 8:30 PM

CMSgt Paul Palko — Wed, 01 Nov 2023 20:30:04 -0400

Almost daily. Two are my best friends...a retired LtCol and a retired SMSgt. We hang out, sip suds, and laugh about old times. All of us retired around 15 years ago together.

Response by SSG Harry Herres made Nov 14 at 2023 4:41 AM

SSG Harry Herres — Tue, 14 Nov 2023 04:41:57 -0500

Sadly no contact for 52 years. Posted an old picture on facebook veterans day. I was contacted by an old 273rd Radar Detachment 1CAV Div. crew member. What a Veterans Day!

Response by SSG Harry Herres made Nov 16 at 2023 9:22 PM

SSG Harry Herres — Thu, 16 Nov 2023 21:22:50 -0500

Are you kidding? I finally met a guy after 52 years on Facebook on Veterans Day! Made my day!