How do you get the conversation started about Suicide?

2016-08-19T06:24:49-04:00

Response by SSgt Jim Gilmore made Aug 19 at 2016 6:32 AM

2016-08-19T06:32:41-04:00

You just did but I need to ask you in all seriousness if you are considering hurting yourself or someone else?

Response by SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth made Aug 19 at 2016 6:46 AM

2016-08-19T06:46:27-04:00

If asked if I knew of any one, I tell about the person, and why they did it. No names involved.

Response by SFC(P) Tobias M. made Aug 19 at 2016 9:42 AM

2016-08-19T09:42:44-04:00

You start it just the way you did. Ask the question that SSgt Jim Gilmore just asked. Don't be shy about it. Don't try and sugar coat it. Don't try and put cherries on top of it. Just ask are you thinking about hurting yourself or someone else? I have realized that when you do that people are more open to talk to you then if you try and beat around the bush.

Response by CMSgt Mark Schubert made Aug 19 at 2016 12:36 PM

2016-08-19T12:36:37-04:00

Ask them if they are suicidal. No need to be discreet. If you ask the question, you obviously care - if they answer anything but "Oh, heck no", take it further and offer more help. That's being a friend.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 19 at 2016 1:28 PM

2016-08-19T13:28:09-04:00

More people are willing to discuss suicide these days than 30, or even 10 years ago; that’s a good thing. Observe, be respectful, ask questions, ant then listen some more. Offer advice when within the limits of you expertise, if outside the limits of what you know try to get them to a professional. Advice from a layperson that’s seen a thing or two.

Response by SPC Kari Grove Wright made Aug 25 at 2016 2:26 PM

2016-08-25T14:26:37-04:00

Don't use the words hurt or hurting. You need to be direct, are you planning on killing yourself.