How do you feel when someone thanks you for your service?

2015-05-17T01:17:48-04:00

This is something that I struggle with personally. I appreciate the words but don't seek them out. I would honestly rather it not be said but shown by a populace that demands better medical care for veterans, increased pay and retirement benefits. When I was on active duty in the 80's & 90's nobody "thanked" you for your service but now it's PC which makes it more uncomfortable to me. Thoughts?

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 17 at 2015 1:24 AM

2015-05-17T01:24:43-04:00

Ma'am,

I think this is a very good question, and one with which many service members struggle. If it helps, here are some comments from other RP members with their thoughts about it:

https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-response-for-thank-you-for-your-service-i-like-to-say-this
https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/does-ever-feel-uncomfortable-for-you-when-people-thank-you-for-your-service
https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/feeling-guilty-when-somebody-thanks-you-for-your-service
https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-do-you-say-when-someone-tells-you-thank-you-for-your-service
https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-way-to-handle-it-when-a-civilian-thanks-you-for-your-service

What's the best response for "thank you for your service"? I like to say this... | RallyPoint

So for a long time I did not know what to say when someone said this to me. But finally I have the best thing to say that makes complete sense... With a smile I say, "Thank YOU for paying your taxes" Its comical and they always laugh, but also very true at the same time. I am a people person and this has opened so many door of opportunity for me. Feel free to use it and post your comments on what you normally say.