How do you deal with Officers who shouldn't be one?

So there I am, walking through the parking lot in the pouring rain. Lakes they call puddles everywhere. Most cars are driving nice and slow to prevent spraying on us pedestrians. Not one guy. He blows through a puddle and nails me. I yell something like "have a nice day" (or worse) at him. He actually stopped, rolled down his window, and says "Do not talk to an officer that way!" I told him I would have said the same to the 4 star if he drove through a puddle that fast. Told him "real officers know how to have some respect for people around them". He gave me a salute of the one finger variety and moved on.

I believe the military needs to train their officers better nowdays on being "gentlemen/ladies" instead of jerks. Maybe this would stop them from getting relieved of command later on in their careers.

What you all think? Any good examples of officers or even senior enlisted being jerks towards the civilian population.