Does anyone find "shame" in asking for a military discount everywhere they go?

2016-04-15T08:42:34-04:00

I don't! I know the rest of you on RP have seen our paychecks!
It's not that I am trying to be cheap, I'm just trying to save money and if someone is going to give to the option to save even a dollar I am going to take it! LOL!

Response by SGT Dave Tracy made Apr 15 at 2016 9:35 AM

2016-04-15T09:35:16-04:00

I am not entirely comfortable with it. I may occasionally broach the subject of a military discount if I already know the merchant offers it and is glad to offer it (publically pro military/1st Responder type companies), but I'm not asking every place I go.

Besides, being in Minnesota, where there isn't much of a military presence, the employees of businesses that may have a policy of offering military discounts, may not even know they have such a discount to offer; it never comes up. Now THAT is an awkward conversation to have with the counter jockey.

Military discounts are a nice bonus, and I will not fault ANY service member for asking--in a professional manner--about one since it's not an "entitlement", it's an earned offering of "thanks" voluntarily provided by companies to members of the military and/or veterans.

Response by SGT(P) Charlie Fisk made Apr 15 at 2016 9:38 AM

2016-04-15T09:38:25-04:00

Not at all...your paycheck is given to you at a discount.No shame at all in taking your military, AAA or AARP discount.

Response by Capt Tom Brown made Apr 15 at 2016 10:25 AM

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I have no shame in asking for a 'senior coffee' at McDonalds. If it is there go for it.

Response by Capt Mark Strobl made Apr 15 at 2016 10:55 AM

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SSG James Elmore - When I was on active duty, I would ask for it. However since getting my DD-214, I don't. Seems now I can afford to pay the little extra in order to offset the cost of discounts to our service members. But, there's no shame in frugality!

Response by PO1 Brian Austin made Apr 15 at 2016 11:03 AM

2016-04-15T11:03:51-04:00

Not at all if it's offered. One restaurant i frequent offers active duty, veteran, first responder and teacher discounts. Another i found out by accident at a drive thru when the cashier saw my base decal and gave me 10% off.

But i don't go looking for discounts.

Response by PO3 Sandra Gomke made Apr 15 at 2016 11:27 AM

2016-04-15T11:27:47-04:00

Not at all! Military discounts are a nice way of saying thank you. I'm never embarrassed to use coupons at the grocery store. Discounts are just coupons without paper.
PS: "Shame" and "Military" never belong in the same sentence. ;D

Response by SFC Pete Kain made Apr 15 at 2016 11:34 AM

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Saving a buck is nice, but I don't expect it nor get upset if not offered. What is this shame you speak of?

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 15 at 2016 11:34 AM

2016-04-15T11:34:28-04:00

I just ask whenever I have the chance. I saw a video (don't know if it was a real one or a setup) but there's a guy at McDonald's and asked about a discount. The female behind him was like "Ugh...why do you need to get things for free?" Long story short; she stormed out of there with her phone glued to her face after the lady behind her stood up and paid for his meal.

Response by SP5 Mark Kuzinski made Apr 15 at 2016 11:59 AM

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No problems asking from this guy.

Response by Sgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 15 at 2016 12:02 PM

2016-04-15T12:02:05-04:00

I ask for a military discount or senior citizen discount. If they do not give it, fine. There is no shame involved in asking if they have a discount. This is a smart way to make your money go farther. A penny saved, is a penny earned. Be proud that you are managing your money wisely.

Response by Maj Kim Patterson made Apr 15 at 2016 1:31 PM

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I ask most places. If they do, they do, if not, I still get what I went in for but this is a tangible support for the military, more than lip service. I usually leave the difference in the tip for my server. I am grateful for those who go the bit extra to show they care.

Response by CPT Joseph K Murdock made Apr 15 at 2016 2:08 PM

2016-04-15T14:08:11-04:00

Hell no.

Response by CSM Darieus ZaGara made Apr 15 at 2016 3:37 PM

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I will admit I did at first, but I came to realize most asked me based on my demeanor (I guess) so why not take what they were offering, it is not out of pity but the corporations way of saying thank you!

Response by SMSgt Thor Merich made Apr 15 at 2016 5:18 PM

2016-04-15T17:18:47-04:00

No shame at all. My only shame is that I always forget to ask. My wife constantly yells at me for failing to ask about the discount.

Response by TSgt William Meyer made Apr 15 at 2016 5:26 PM

2016-04-15T17:26:18-04:00

I don't have any problem, sometimes my wife makes me go shopping with her just because she knows the store we are going to gives a military discount.

Response by PO3 Michael James made Apr 15 at 2016 10:39 PM

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SGT Elmore, Sir; On leave, interacting with civilians, I (WE) were all called some nasty things, people would throw things at us.. Late 60's I heard of people spitting on Veterans, it became standard to travel in civilian clothing.. Today, I ask "any discounts for Vets ?" then I through in "any discounts for those over 65 ?".. Today I sometimes ware a hat that says "Vietnam Veteran" and Today I am Treated Very well, discount or not.. Which is ALL I ever wanted, fair and equal treatment ..

Response by SSG James Elmore made Apr 15 at 2016 10:43 PM

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Thank you all very much for your answers!

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 16 at 2016 4:37 AM

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I don't! I also graciously thank those that do and let them know I appreciate it. On another note, if you live in an apartment, ask your leasing agent if they offer discounts for service personnel i.e police, teachers, etc. You are considered as service personnel in most instances as well, they just don't think about it if there is not a large military presence in that particular area. I asked and ended up getting the discount....saved about $50 a month.

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 16 at 2016 6:43 AM

2016-04-16T06:43:58-04:00

Take a discount when one is offered. The offer is afforded to those who PROTECT and DEFEND by those who appreciate what you represent. This happens in a capitalistic society when someone realizes WHY they have attained the ability to prosper. I know I know, the first thought about prosperity is the 1% who are the super rich who have taken FAIR ADVANTAGE of their FREEDOM. Freedom to bust their butt to reach a goal. Ever wonder why people FLEE their own country? One answer might be; They have never been afforded the opportunity to OWN anything or their LIVES are more important than just riches. Do you truly believe that a terrorist gives damn about what the FORMER OCCUPANTS of Syria, Iraq, Afghanistan, or other WAR TORN societies.? HUMAN ability to FEND for self is derived from a society that values the worth of FREEDOM. That ability is TAUGHT or quite possibly FULLY REALIZED when humankind comes to grips with the true meaning of FIGHT or FLIGHT. Humankind has a much better opportunity to attain freedom when the TRUE SPIRIT and DESIRE of The RIGHTS of HUMANKIND are supported by a civil society.

Response by PO1 John Meyer, CPC made Apr 16 at 2016 10:17 AM

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My wife asks all the time... I usually don't unless I know they offer it and she gives me crap all the time because I normally don't ask.

Response by PO1 William "Chip" Nagel made Apr 16 at 2016 11:11 AM

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Nothing wrong with that, Does my German Scottish Heart Good to hear about a Thrift Man. No I don't actually go out of my way but I sure as hell don't say No. Always wear my Navy Ball Cap at Bass Pro and I enjoy my Discount there. Also I love the Free Breakfast at Hy Vee on Veterans Day and the Free Dinner at Applebees.

Response by CW2 Ernest Krutzsch made Apr 16 at 2016 11:30 AM

2016-04-16T11:30:07-04:00

They offer it, I take it, sorta like AARP Senior Discounts, if I can save a buck why wouldn't I?

Response by SPC(P) Doug Moxley made Apr 16 at 2016 11:51 AM

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I only ask, occasionally, on bigger ticket items. I don't like asking at restaurants or purchases under $50, such as Lowes or Home Depot. I think it's great that places offer discounts to veterans and I will shop there just because of it but I also realize it's money out of their pocket so I try to respect that as well. With that said, I was the one who volunteered, was reimbursed for my sacrifices and benefited in the long run with a VA home loan and other privileges. I don't expect privately owned companies to offer me anything for my service; but again, it's much appreciated when asked.

Response by SSG Arvel Perry made Apr 16 at 2016 12:11 PM

2016-04-16T12:11:47-04:00

The only shame is acting like they did something wrong for not having one.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 16 at 2016 12:58 PM

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I don't think it hurts to ask.

Response by CMSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 16 at 2016 4:02 PM

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Not at all. If I remember, I ask. If they don't offer it, I bust out my payment and press on with a smile. :)

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 16 at 2016 5:03 PM

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I have had too many embarrassing experiences with the whole military discount thing. Nothing I've done personally, but watching others insist on receiving a military discount even if it's not offered. I've seen it too many times and i feel ashamed to be in the same group of people. One time while traveling on an airline I had a camo backpack on and a flight attendant approached me and asked if she could speak with me for a bit. She sat down at a table with me and proceeded to vent to me for about 10 minutes about how a soldier had gotten really aggressive with her and almost physically forced her to let him board the plane first. She stood her ground and he was removed from the flight and added to the airlines no-fly list. She was tearing up as she explained the whole situation to me. That was the most serious situation I had seen with the "military discount" or "privilege" in this case. That same year I had to wait in line for food at a fast food place for 15 minutes because a guy at the front of the line was insisting on a military discount. The company didn't offer one but he was preventing other from ordering until the owner came to negotiate with him. Of course the owner just kicked him out. I've seen people abuse the military discount too many times in my life. It is very embarrassing. So I never ask. The only exception is if it's a big thing like bank service offering certain benefits or something where lots of money is being moved around and it's not in the public eye.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 16 at 2016 11:35 PM

2016-04-16T23:35:14-04:00

What is this "shame" thing that you speak of? I am not familiar with that word.

Response by PO2 Robert W. made Apr 17 at 2016 8:21 AM

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I don't know much about being active duty these days, but in Virginia we have a veteran ID card. It requires a DD214 to get and saves having to carry your copy around. If I suspect a business gives a veteran discount I simply hand them my card and ask if they offer any discounts. It's quiet and no fuss. Generally if it is a no they simply hand me back my card and say "no". No big deal.
Personally I'm a huge fan of the Home Depot discount.

Response by MSgt Devon Saunders made Apr 17 at 2016 5:43 PM

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I have no problem asking if a military discount is offered. If yes great! If no, I say ok and pay whatever the cost is. No shame in asking. You should never have that much pride that you don't want to save a buck or two...

Response by SGT Kenneth Starks made Apr 20 at 2016 6:07 AM

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Don't be a shamed, you earned the discount, I ask for mine.

Response by SGM James Warren Marlowe made Apr 20 at 2016 6:32 AM

2016-04-20T06:32:03-04:00

I have absolutely no problems with the military discount....it's great especially at lowes Home Improvement. It's business' saying thank you to us Vets that have sacrificed for our nation and for them (businesses). Thank you to all the businesses that participate in the discount program.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 6:40 AM

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There is no SHAME the companies that put it out there, cause they know the financial struggle we deal with every day.

Response by MSgt Frank Martin made Apr 20 at 2016 6:44 AM

2016-04-20T06:44:46-04:00

I find no shame in it.. But even when I was Active Duty.. I rarely asked for them.

I guess I am set in my ways.. I feel that serving is my choice. I do not feel that a business has to give me a discount for that choice.

But I have been "scolded" by certain establishments when they find out that I am retired that I was unaware of their discount policy..

Response by SGT Paula Patterson made Apr 20 at 2016 6:53 AM

2016-04-20T06:53:19-04:00

No shame. I use my military discount every chance I can.

Response by CAPT John J Ancellotti made Apr 20 at 2016 7:10 AM

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Yes, at times I do feel uncomfortable to ask for a military discount, but then again many store owners feel proud to make these offers because it’s their way to show their patriotism. While I am timid at times to ask, and I appreciate the discount, what makes me smile is when the cashier genuinely says, “Thank you for your service.” My reply is thank you for your patriotism.

Beware of some lumberyards that have multiple restrictions on providing military discount on various items. Case in point, the “Orange in color themed” lumberyard has numerous restrictions on what items the veteran can receive a 10% discount. Ask first is best, for recently I loaded 16 cinder blocks onto a cart, pushed it to the cashier only to be told, “No discount!”

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 7:28 AM

2016-04-20T07:28:03-04:00

I ask everywhere I go. My wife gets a little grumpy when I don't. It has just become habit to ask now. And why wouldn't a service member ask? Nothing wrong with trying to save a buck.

Response by SSG Robert Spina made Apr 20 at 2016 7:31 AM

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NOPE

Response by CPT Tom Monahan made Apr 20 at 2016 7:37 AM

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Nope. I ask for USAA and other association discounts. Discounts to members of large groups is called marketing.

Response by SSG Michael Keohane made Apr 20 at 2016 8:01 AM

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There were no military discounts in my time but I see no reason not to ask for and accept such discounts.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 8:07 AM

2016-04-20T08:07:03-04:00

I wouldn't say it's shame, per se. I just don't want to ask for anything exclusive. I'm not any more special than anyone else. Additionally, I have never been comfortable with being the subject of extra attention because of my job.

Response by MSG James McClure made Apr 20 at 2016 8:15 AM

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I use to feel greedy and taking advantage of the opportunity, now I don't. Remember its no different than asking if they take Triple AAA or any other discounts. They offer it because they respect you. Besides, YOU HAVE EARNED IT!!

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 8:16 AM

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I have two perspectives on this since I am a reservist and a civilian police officer. I certainly appreciate discounts, be it 10% off a meal or half price tickets to a movie or whatever (by the way, Sea World will give you and your family one free visit per year if you go to their website which I think is wavesofhonor.com). But, I also keep in mind the fact that it is not required that any business grant them to us.

In Texas, where I work as a LEO, there is a law against accepting an honorarium for your service as a LEO. Strictly speaking, we can't accept discounts simply for our positions, but we all do for things like food. I was taught in the academy that you should always be prepared to pay full price for everything and graciously and quietly accept discounts when they are given. NEVER gripe at someone at a restaurant who denies you a discount. That's a recipe for a little spit or worse added to the special sauce.

In short, be thankful and appreciative of the discounts we get, but never demand them.

Response by SPC James Vollrath made Apr 20 at 2016 8:18 AM

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Sometimes, I wish more places would just post it at the cash registers that they give us discounts just show your military ID, when we have to ask it makes me feel like I'm begging for money, and when they say no I just want to throat punch them LOL

Response by SPC Steven Depuy made Apr 20 at 2016 8:30 AM

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I don't think any of you who have served the past 15 years should. I don't do it, because I sat in West Germany drinking really good beer for 3 years, and don't consider myself worthy to shine the boots of the current soldiers, and the shit sandwich you have to eat every day. So get every freaking discount you can, get every benefit you can, I won't be using any of that stuff up, so its there for you guys.

Response by SCPO Don Baker made Apr 20 at 2016 8:40 AM

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I don't ask, I just make sure they see my retired military ID at check-out. Hell, then I mention my AARP card. I've heard "NO" often enough in my life and it still doesn't hurt.

Response by SSgt Chris Blackmore made Apr 20 at 2016 8:44 AM

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Nothing wrong with it at all. My wife will ask if I forget.

Response by GySgt Jeremy Swindle made Apr 20 at 2016 8:54 AM

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I don't take anything from anyone for my service. Serving was an honor for which I do not require gratitude, free stuff or discounts. If you do that is your choice, I don't concern myself with what other people do.

Response by CW2 Christopher Esparza made Apr 20 at 2016 8:59 AM

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I feel no shame in asking for a discount when I know they have one. Asking everywhere I go, now thats being a bit excessive. Look at it this way, over 65 you get a discount, AAA member you get a discount, willing to give your life for your country you get a discount. It's the companies that get it's way of saying thank you. In return I say thank you by being a repeat customer. This summer I'm taking the family to California. The hotel offers a government discount so why shouldn't I take it? This time it amounts to $250 per night.

Response by GySgt Jeremy Swindle made Apr 20 at 2016 9:01 AM

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I don't look for veteran discounts and I don't go out on Veterans Day looking for a free meal. It's my choice. I do not require gratitude or discounts or free stuff for my service. For me, serving was an honor and looking for appreciation in the form of discount or simply asking for acknowledgement takes away from that. If any other service member chooses too, that is in them. I don't concern myself with what other people do.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 9:17 AM

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nope! I always ask. 10% is 10%

Response by SSG Kenneth Wester made Apr 20 at 2016 9:17 AM

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If they proudly display it, I will accept it with pride. Sometimes I will ask on things like hotels, flights and other more expensive items, just as I do for senior or education or discounts that may be available to ease the cost of expensive items.

Response by LTC David Armstrong made Apr 20 at 2016 9:19 AM

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I ask for it if I know the company offers it and publicly supports veterans; otherwise I don't bother. All points of view here I think are good; discounts are a nice payback from private business as a (completely voluntary on their part) "thank you", which we should genuinely appreciate.

Response by GySgt Warren Kemble made Apr 20 at 2016 9:19 AM

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No. I ask all the time

Response by Lt Col James McKinney made Apr 20 at 2016 9:21 AM

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Military discounts are offered by organizations to show support for the military and to recognize the sacrifices everyone in the military has made. I use them often and I have been retired for 16 years. No shame in asking the question. Be proud of your service and accept what ever those benefits are with honor and pride.

Response by CW4 Robert Goldsmith made Apr 20 at 2016 9:21 AM

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No, I do not. I politely ask and am thankful if they offer a military discount. In restaurants, I pass my savings along to the waiter or waitress with a larger tip. I've saved thousands at Lowes. For those that don't, they thank me for my service and are apologetic that their company does not offer military discounts. Keep in mind, that we are a very small representation of the general population, so these companies aren't losing money. They're increasing their customer base with the discount offers; simple economics.

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 9:26 AM

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Response # 2. When we begin receiving the VA Medical and other things that would make the lives of the younger troops much better, Go for it. Wouldn't it be nice if you guys were compensated to the degree you deserve. The question would be moot. All The Way!!!!

Response by CPO Eugene Gillam made Apr 20 at 2016 9:27 AM

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I have no problem asking if there's a military discount and I patronize the companies/restaurants that offer it. I appreciate the fact that they appreciate my service.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 9:30 AM

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I don't mind asking at all. If it is legitimately over a certain dollar amount. I wish there was some way of recognizing military friendly businesses though. It sometimes can be difficult to recognize military friendly businesses that give discounts and I would not rather not hold up A-line, listening to an explanation on why they do not offer a military discount.
They could just make it easy across the country, giving every military personnel with an ID card or proof of service a discount, like they do seniors or AARP members?

Response by SSG Timothy McCoy made Apr 20 at 2016 9:30 AM

2016-04-20T09:30:23-04:00

HAIL No.
This is a benefites for being uniform, just like Space A flights.
When I am told that there is no Military discount I ask if there is a Sr. Citizen Discount. When there is, I ask for it if I don't get it then I ask for the Shift Supervisor or Asst. Manager.
Explain the difference and make the point that the register can't tell the difference. When they hold the line of no discount, I ask if they want the old and military business. A local boycott or a sign just off the business property will get A LOT of attention.
Businesses often change their policies when there is a drop in business and lack of police, and other LEOs. on the property.

Response by SFC Edward Sneed made Apr 20 at 2016 9:30 AM

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Heck NO! I am retired for as many years that I had served. I ask for a discount of ANY kind wherever I shop, for whatever it might be. There is absolutely no shame in my game. You'd be surprised how happy retailers are, to give you a military discount. I just asked my vacation consierge for one, yesterday. On some occasions you can get a bigger discount just for being a military member. So never fail to ask if a military discount is available for your purchase. Saving money these days are a must.

Response by SP5 John Pratt made Apr 20 at 2016 9:32 AM

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I totally agree. I am living on Social Security and am a Viet Nam Vet who unfortunately was not able to stay in the Army long enough to retire with a pension. A such, I need to take advantage of any and all discounts that I can and find no shame in it as it helps to stretch my meager monthly income. A person working at minimum wage 40 hours a week gets about $500 more a month than I do.

Response by SGT John West made Apr 20 at 2016 9:35 AM

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I'm a retired NCO. We've been blessed to have a great second career where our families income allows us to do things & help others in ways we never thought we could. I don't seek military discounts, but if someone sees my ID card and offers it, I'll take it. I did buy a new car recently and asked for it then, along with my other association membership discounts.

Response by Sgt Mike Philips made Apr 20 at 2016 9:40 AM

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No Shame here!

Response by SFC Stephen Steed made Apr 20 at 2016 9:41 AM

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Nope. It's just like getting a Senior Citizens discount. I served and Retired from the military and made it to 60. I'll use what ever best!! You earned it! You are the 1%!!

Response by LTC Richard McClure made Apr 20 at 2016 9:47 AM

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Heck no! I even ask where I know they don't offer it, just to put it into their heads that they ought to.

Response by SPC William Pettigrew Jr made Apr 20 at 2016 9:57 AM

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No, I do not find "shame" in asking for a military discount everywhere I go.

Response by PO2 Robert Cuminale made Apr 20 at 2016 9:58 AM

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There are stores that give discounts to veterans too. I'll take one in a heart beat.
I'm now 65 and if there is a senior discount I am not shy about reminding the clerk. Publix has the discount on Wednesday and Harris Teeter on Thursday for people 60 and above.

Response by TSgt Derek Smith made Apr 20 at 2016 10:01 AM

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No, that is why they, are offered, so that you can ask for one.

Response by SGT Terry Kincer made Apr 20 at 2016 10:01 AM

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No, I sure don't. My wife will ask as well if it is not posted.
If not, no big deal... If so, why not take advantage of a discount that is provided for your service. The owner of these establishments have gratitude for those whom served and more than likely has served or have loved ones that have. Therefore, a small gesture of appreciation is given for your service. I feel honored that someone has said thanks. Even if its relayed in a very quite way.

Response by PO3 Donald Murphy made Apr 20 at 2016 10:04 AM

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If you're embarrassed or find shame, then you must - by default - find shame and embarrassment in having been in the military. I'm sorry kids but don't take it personal. Its a discount.

Also take in to account the store. The store owner/manager may be a veteran or have family who were/are military and its an insult to them to not allow them to honor the sacrifice.

Its not about you "being able to afford the price." Its the stores' way of saying "thank you" for making it possible for them to exist.

Take the discount.

Response by SP5 Gene Nevill made Apr 20 at 2016 10:04 AM

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No, many states are now putting US Veteran on drivers licenses, plus I carry a reduced copy of my DD-214. Also any ID that shows military service will work in many places, but I carry the reduced DD-214 specifically for those who want that item

Response by TSgt Miguel Guerrero made Apr 20 at 2016 10:10 AM

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I do not generally ask, but see no reason to not ask either. I do ask when renting a car or getting a hotel. If people see no issue with asking for a student or senior discount why should tgere be an isdue with a military discount?

Response by PVT Adrian Harmer made Apr 20 at 2016 10:10 AM

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I tend to ask at places that cost more than the cost of dinner like Home Depot, Hotels, Car Rentals, ect. However restaurants not so much unless they have a sign up saying they do.

Response by CSM Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 10:17 AM

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There is no shame in this, in fact all Military Vets or Actively serving should ask. Why have shame in something that should be given to you, it is the least that they can do. But don't demand it it is not a right but a privilege.

Response by PFC John Villarreal made Apr 20 at 2016 10:18 AM

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No problem with that. Active duty and Vets deserve a discount if offered. What pissed me off is when a spouse thinks they are entitled to the discount.

Response by SPC David Hannaman made Apr 20 at 2016 10:18 AM

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Shame? No... not shame. I'm frequently disappointed by the "discounts" though... I was waiting in Appleby's one day and they had a huge sign saying how they "supported those who served with a 10% discount" we got seated, ate, I showed them my DD-214 and the "veteran" indicator on my drivers license, and it was explained that that was only on the 3rd Thursday during a full moon, and only applies to my meal, not the entire party.

That just flat out offends me. I don't see it as anything except an advertising campaign, a bait and switch to get civilians thinking "Awww, Appleby's supports the troops, I'll give them my business".

It probably comes down to $9 per ticket, insignificant really... but it says something to me about the integrity of the company.

Same with Home Depot and Lowes... one day they have a discount, the next they don't, but if you sign up for their free "contractor" program, they'll give you the same discount, and won't make you show them a receipt if you need to return something.

One benefit I am LOVING though is the Hazlewood act... 150 hours of tuition is waived for me or my kids for any Texas State college... if you're a Texas veteran. God Bless Texas.

Response by CPT Michael L.F. Slavin made Apr 20 at 2016 10:20 AM

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Shame-are you kidding, for what?
I ask for any discounts I can get, including military. If you don't ask, you don't get.
Michael L.F. Slavin
Author of 5 time award winning One Million in The Bank: How To Make $1,000,000 With Your Own Business, Even If You Have No Money Or Experience- Also Free Veterans' Guide To One Million in the Bank (a companion book at http://www.onemillioninthebank.com)

Response by PO2 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 10:20 AM

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I don't. It's not all about the money but...IT'S ALL ABOUT THE MONEY lol SO I mean Nothing wrong with asking to save money. I ask at drive through restaurants. No shame at all

Response by TSgt Pennie Snyder made Apr 20 at 2016 10:22 AM

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I don't feel ashamed, I always ask for the military discount. Besides saving money I find out who supports the military. Being retired they don't always give the discount to retirees but I still want to know who supports the military and who doesn't. For instance, Target doesn't support the military at all. I won't shop there because of that.

Response by SSG Gabriel Galindo made Apr 20 at 2016 10:24 AM

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I have no shame at all asking if someplace offers a military discount. That would be the same as finding shame in asking for a student discount, or a senior asking for their senior discount. What I have a problem with is when I come across a Veteran that feels that they are entitled to a discount. There is a big difference between feeling entitled and accepting a token of gratitude.

Response by CPL Mark Mitchell made Apr 20 at 2016 10:24 AM

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Never feel ashamed of asking for a military discount! I ask every where I go. If you served your deserved of that discount. restaurants, auto parts store, hardware stores, even some clothing stores.
Thank you for your service!

Response by CMSgt John Momaney made Apr 20 at 2016 10:26 AM

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I always ask if they have a military discount, senior's discount or AARP discount. You must ask because most will not tell you.

Response by SrA Kristin Stewart made Apr 20 at 2016 10:29 AM

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most times i forget and when i do remember they always say no. i do feel odd asking though because i know there are so many others that could use it more than i can.

Response by TSgt Derek Smith made Apr 20 at 2016 10:34 AM

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Not at all. That is why they offer it, so we can ask

Response by SSgt Terence Crooks made Apr 20 at 2016 10:36 AM

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Heck no everywhere I go I ask all they can say is no.

Response by CW4 Chad Balwanz made Apr 20 at 2016 10:38 AM

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The wording of this question is very misleading. Shame on you for assuming there is shame in getting the best value for your money.

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 10:40 AM

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No shame at all, though I don't often bring it up personally. What I do find shameful is the new trend around where I live at least where they try to say they only offer it to active duty. What is that supposed to mean? Last I checked nothing on my uniform or CAC said "US Army Reserve" on it. To me, it's some manager somewhere trying to make a good business move by seeming patriotic while also saving some money by adding a qualifier to it. It comes off as treating reservists as second class service members. That's the point where I ask to speak to a manager and the unpleasantness begins.

Response by Sgt Don Makin made Apr 20 at 2016 10:42 AM

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There is absolutely no shame in asking if a company has military discounts! It's only a shame if the company does not. I only get my hair cuts from Sport Clips who have veteran discounts and I know Lone Star Steak House has a great discount for at least active duty service personnel. I wish I had a complete list of companies that support the military becuase they would always get my business.

Response by Maj Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 10:43 AM

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As an early teenager, after I was already getting paid for lawn care and some other duties around the house, my grand mom gave me $10 just because I went to visit. I did not really need it, and I knew that she did not have a lot of money, so I wanted to say "no thank you". My dad told me that I should take it because the act of giving probably helps her more than the value of the gift actually meant to either of us. I view most of the military discounts the same way. Companies want to feel like they are doing what they can to help military members.

I typically do not ask at each place that I go if it is not advertised. Ultimately I think vets needs access to employment and services after active duty/while in the Reserve component more than we need discounts on retail goods and services. While separate, I see these as related issues. I think there is a balance between a accepting a sign of appreciation and ultimately being seen as a group of people that get hand outs and people that have it "too good". It took a long time but teachers organizations and unions have a very different status now than they once did. Ideally we use this generations ebb of public support to educate the public of who we are, how our service can help organizations and cut down on post-military unemployment in addition to an occasional free meal and discount on ceiling fans.

Response by SSG Byron Hewett made Apr 20 at 2016 10:46 AM

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Nope, no shame at all business's are more than happy to give a military, veteran, military retiree, disabled veterans a discount because its a way for them to give back and thank a Soldier, Sailor, Marine, Airman, veteran, disabled veteran, and retirees. it also lets everyone who served know that there are people out there that do genuinely care and want to give back to those who served. they thank us a lot we should also thank them back for supporting us too. ☺

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 10:51 AM

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SGT Please!! LOL.. I was stationed in Lovely Hawaii for many years and it was encouraged to ask for military discount. You were frowned upon if you didn't. " No Shame " as they say at FT Lee. I am pretty well off financially, but my military ID is HOT! I present it all the time. And if they say "Sorry we don't have Mil Discount". No Shame! I was just asking. I have received double discount on dinners, breakfast, and etc. Some places are so good, you don't have to show your ID card. they recognize who you bank with by the type of credit card you carry and I have received discounts like that and didn't even know it. No Shame SGT Elmore. You must not be married yet. lol.. My wife would have a fit if I didn't ask. lol.. lol..

Response by SFC Ernie Lowery made Apr 20 at 2016 10:52 AM

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I recently upgraded my Verizon account and was asked about my veteran status. The clerk took my ID card and promptly gave me a 15% discount on my monthly phone bill.

Response by SSG Curtis Dietrich made Apr 20 at 2016 10:54 AM

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No shame at all!

Response by TSgt Eric Lewis made Apr 20 at 2016 11:02 AM

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I don't care if you are active, reserve, retired, or a vet, there is no shame in asking for a discount. It's a businesses "thank you" for serving. Just be ready to prove your status, there is a place to get a veterans ID card. Not every place gives to veterans everyday. For example, Lowes gives 10% to all active, reserve, and retired, but not vets except Memorial and Veterans Day.

Response by MSG Mark Million made Apr 20 at 2016 11:04 AM

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One of the best things about asking regarding military discounts is to gauge perspective towards the military. I don't expect a fiscount everywhere I go, many places simply cannot afford it. I do get to gauge to some degree how organizations feel about military, and can adjust my shopping and recommendations/referrals accordingly. I'm not adverse to supporting businesses that try to support our military first when it is practical to do so.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 11:07 AM

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I only take military discounts when offered. For me it's not a matter of "shame" as it is pride. Growing up in the military, and being in the Army, I've really grown to appreciate the honor of wearing the uniform. Part of it stems from the downsizing of troops and being allowed to continue service, and part comes from all the Vets and Civilians that take the time to thank us for our service. For me that is enough. However, there is no shame in taking a discount. Most businesses offer them to show us they are proud and im sure they are still making a profit. Save some money and get that discount.

Response by PO3 Terry Miller made Apr 20 at 2016 11:08 AM

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I will take it if offered but I won't ask for it. I don't want anyone to feel like I am entitled to a discount because I am a veteran or that they owe it to me. If they want to honor vets with discounts I will gladly accept and thank them but I won't ask.

Response by A1C David Landry made Apr 20 at 2016 11:09 AM

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I don't but the only ones I use are at lowes or home depot. It actually just covers the taxes. In todays economy anything saved is a bonus. I used to go eat out with a veteran friend of mine on Veteran's Day, but he's no longer around so I don't do that anymore.

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 11:15 AM

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I never asked when I was active if a place didn't overtly post it but if a place advertised a discount, I'd ask.

Response by SSG Wayne Wood made Apr 20 at 2016 11:17 AM

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I grew up in the Vietnam Era Army, with a dad and brother serving. Growing up, I remember seeing signs in city parks that said, "No dogs or GIs allowed."
There were several times in junior and senior high I got in fights at the civilian schools I found myself in when Dad was in Nam over my family being called "baby killers" and "green machines trained to kill." When I was old enough I enlisted, even though we had brought ground troops home and the war was supposedly over (I watched Saigon fall in my battery Dayroom at Ft Sill), I was still called a "baby killer" at JFK Airport as late as 1977 upon returning home on leave in uniform after two years in Germany.

So, if I know a business offers a discount I take it. I did business at Lowe's for years and spent tens of thousands of dollars (literally) as we did renovations on our house. I wish I had known then, but now I make sure I whip out my ID card. I don't think I'm entitled to anything, but if a business appreciates our service enough to give us a break I'll take it. I remember a time when military and vets were treated A LOT different.

Response by PO2 David Franklin made Apr 20 at 2016 11:18 AM

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I don't know if it is shame, but most of the time I am shy about asking. Usually I don't even talk about my military service with others because I still have a hard time talking about some of it.

Response by Amn Kim Bloodgood made Apr 20 at 2016 11:31 AM

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Sometimes I feel embarrassed but that's because when I ask they tend to think my husband served. There are some places though that I ask all the time, Like Lowe's and The Limited. Other places it depends how I feel and how much money we are spending - just recently I asked at a local HVAC company and got 5% off a new HVAC system - which rules!

Response by Sgt Joe Trumbo made Apr 20 at 2016 11:32 AM

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I ask if they give a veterans discount all the time. We need to save as much as we can where ever we can. You would be surprised how many businesses do give a veterans discount.

Response by Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 11:36 AM

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I don't go searching for discounts but in stores like Lowe's and HD where I know it is the policy I will show my CAC for the discount. I don't think any business or person "owes" me anything. I put my right hand up voluntarily and I am proud to serve.

Response by CPO Paul Acedera made Apr 20 at 2016 11:36 AM

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Allow those who appreciate your service, show their appreciation.
It does not cheapen your service; it allows another segment of the population you served, "serve".
Practically, the discount likely is more marketing that a true "hit" on their profits (ie, the discount is built-in within the pricing scheme). Just my $0.02's worth, pre-tax.

Response by Maj Mike Sciales made Apr 20 at 2016 11:41 AM

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I always ask about a discount. Why not? So many people say "Thanks for your service" like "pass the salt." Corporations however, offer some tangible way of saying "Thanks for your service, now enjoy 10% off your pizza/ steak/ medical procedure/whatever. In the case of restaurants, I always take the amount that was given to me as a "thanks" and I add it to my 20% tip for the server so everybody has a good day.

Response by MSG Ed Dammer made Apr 20 at 2016 11:44 AM

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You have earned the right to that discount! There is NO shame in taking that to which you're entitled. The merchants who are offering the discount are obviously showing their gratitude for our service and we shouldn't be shy about taking it!

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 12:02 PM

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Shame? No. If you served for any length of time (over a year) you deserve to have discounts for certain products.

Response by PO3 Michael Cienfuegos made Apr 20 at 2016 12:04 PM

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I am now and have always been proud of my service. I almost always wear my Vietnam Vet ballcap. If I am offered a discount I will gladly take it. If someone thanks me for my service, I graciously say "Thank You". I say Thank You and God bless those who want to recognize us for our service.

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 12:05 PM

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If offered, I will accept, of course.

Response by SPC Louis Gillespie made Apr 20 at 2016 12:15 PM

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There is Absolutely NO Shame in asking for a Military Discount. We served our country with Pride and Honor. This is a small token of Appreciation for your service, Stand Tall and Say Thank You !

Response by PFC David Johnston made Apr 20 at 2016 12:26 PM

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I always asked at the movie theater, haha.
I did feel a little weird asking at times and I typically didn't unless I knew they had one.

Response by CDR William Kempner made Apr 20 at 2016 12:38 PM

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No shame at all. I don't generally ask for it, but if I KNOW the store/establishment offers one, I'll take it. I am proud to have served(USN Ret.) , but at this point in my life, I look at my HS contemporaries-and NONE SERVED, and ALL are better off financially than I am! Yeah, they tell me they're proud of me and all that stuff ("Thanks for your service." Vet's variation on "Have a nice day.") but that's just a throw-away line. Looking back, I could have done so much better for my family if I hadn't served, or didn't stay in. But that was my choice. However, if someone wants to be kind and offer a discount, buy me a drink, or a meal, why not? And I leave a better tip, or go back to their place of business again., as others have said. It all evens out.

Response by SPC James Harsh made Apr 20 at 2016 1:07 PM

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I ask if its over $150 I guess where a potential savings of say 10% could be a tank. That's just smart shopping

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 1:12 PM

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It typically is the difference in tax.

Response by SMSgt David Lutzow made Apr 20 at 2016 1:27 PM

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I have no problem asking. But I have found more businesses have discounts for active duty and not retirees.

Response by SGT Joseph W. made Apr 20 at 2016 1:28 PM

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I did until a friend said that I can get one at Lowe's. I unwillingly took my DD-214 along with me. After saying 100s on an "emergency" home renovation, I didn't feel one bit of shame!

Response by CW4 John Karl T. made Apr 20 at 2016 1:30 PM

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Merchants offer military discounts as a way of respecting those who serve. I earned that respect, therefore I have earned that discount. But if I am not in uniform, how is that merchant to know that I serve. Speak up. Ask for the discount. Pride in honorable service should not be a boast or cause for shame. Go for it brother/sister! You earned it! The only shame would be if we had to speak German, Japanese, Arabic, Russian or "The Queens English" to ask for the discount.

Response by Sgt Jerry Genesio made Apr 20 at 2016 1:35 PM

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Absolutely not! If there is any "shame" to be assigned, it should go to those who did not serve, most of whom were and perhaps still are and will always be totally unaware of the sacrifices that were made by others on their behalf.

I'm an HHonors member at Hampton Inns. My wife and I stay there whenever we travel. We stayed overnight at Hampton Inn in Elmsford, New York, this past Sunday night and got the Disabled Veteran discount: about 30% or $50 off on a $150/night room. It's there for active duty, retired and disabled vets and their families. All you have to do is ask for it when you reserve the room and verify your status when you check in. All I ever use is my Disabled Vet VA picture ID card.

Response by PO1 Roger Stroklund made Apr 20 at 2016 1:37 PM

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I do, it's something my wife and I always wrestle with. I know that I have earned it, and I know that it's not something meant to be a perk of service, rather a small token of appreciation, but it's still difficult for me to ask. I feel like I signed up to make a sacrifice that others were not willing to make, and to use that sacrifice for my own personal gain completely invalidates my actions of their sacrifice. I know that's not what it is, but I still feel like trash for asking.

Response by SGT Johnny Owens made Apr 20 at 2016 1:49 PM

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I am proud of my service, and it was my honor. I feel guilty when people thank me for my service, because it was all my pleasure. But if people want to show their gratitude by offering me a discount, I am humbled.

Response by SSgt Liam Babington made Apr 20 at 2016 1:52 PM

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It is subjective and depends on what I am purchasing! It is not a right, it is a courtesy of service!the business does it have to give it! They do it out of appreciation for what we did or do! Be discreet

Response by Maj Jack Seebacher made Apr 20 at 2016 2:06 PM

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The ""shame" you feel is generated by the liberals who did not serve & who are now jealous of your opportunities. Take your discounts proudly while flipping the bird to those who oppose them

Response by 1SG Joseph Martinez made Apr 20 at 2016 2:12 PM

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I do not see it as a problem when asking if an establishment has military discount. What spoils everything is those who violate the Stolen Valor Act of 2013.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 2:12 PM

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Why should you as a veteran or even an active duty service member be ashamed? We have been in it not for the accolades or even the fame. However, to be shown thanks and appreciation for our sacrifice, this is why businesses have a discount. You earned it so get it!

Response by SFC Olivero Rodriguez made Apr 20 at 2016 2:26 PM

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no, you should ask every where you go, it is up to them to say no. So next time you go some where else. I went to Mexico, Honduras, Nicaragua, Korea, Puerto Rico, and there is some one that will give the discount. always.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 2:29 PM

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I don't really ask but there are some places I go often enough they just do it automatically. I frequent Home Depot and have been there enough apparently that they know my face. I will only ask for it if I am making a good sized purchase though most times while I am doing self check out someone will walk up and just scan their card without saying anything. The other place is Sonics. 1/2 price for personnel in uniform, I only mention now because one of the workers there was the daughter of a sarge I used to work with and she got on my case one day (jokingly).

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 2:53 PM

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Nope....I always ask if they offer military discounts!!!

Response by SSG Karl Fowler made Apr 20 at 2016 3:18 PM

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there is no shame to receive a discount, I know lowes and advance auto give good discounts for vets

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 3:28 PM

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I take full advantage of military discounts, anywhere available. We've earned it. No shame.

Response by SMSgt Steve Neal made Apr 20 at 2016 3:41 PM

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NOPE! Home Depot and Lowe's advertise and honor us, but anywhere I'm going to spend over $100, I always ask if they offer a military discount. After 27 years active duty military service, and now serving our nation with the FAA, my family has earned these benefits, while the federal gov't is trying to steal all the other ones back...

Response by CSM Harold Burleson made Apr 20 at 2016 3:49 PM

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I am very grateful for those businesses that support the military. There was a time when that positive attitude just was not there and warriors coming back from conflict were not highly respected. So, NO, I find no shame in asking for the discount just to discipline myself in remembering to ask and leaving a respectful Thanks either way. Of course, table servers benefit greatly as as large part of the discount will be given for them as I learned years ago from my oldest daughter as to what a healthy tip means to the "hands that take care of you at the table." Another strong reason for asking is that this request is a strong recruiting tool since, we never know when someone may be contemplating joining the ranks or "straddling the fence" and may actually sign up when they witness a positive example of respect toward them!

Response by CSM Mark Beckford made Apr 20 at 2016 4:02 PM

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oh no, I need to save all I can, and if they say so I'm sorry no big deal, it is what it is, but I will ask for a discount

Response by PO2 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 4:02 PM

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I don't find shame in it. I am an E5 single Sailor. Every little bit helps. If they don't have a discount then they don't have one. No big deal. I have had people ask why I think I deserve one and my response was always that it I don't think I deserve one but many times it helps. I then ask them that if they knew there was a discount for them would they ask if the place they were at offered it. Their response is usually yes. lol

Response by SSgt Stephen Lindsey made Apr 20 at 2016 4:25 PM

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Nope! Do you or anyone else you know take advantage of discount coupons, insurance discounts for good driver, student, etc.? There's all kinds of discounts offered and I have never seen someone complain at the register when a grocery coupon is tendered. I absolutely have no problem with asking about a veterans discount, and if a non-vet disagrees, my response is simply, "if it upsets you that much then ENLIST", or "think of this, if our military continues to keep us safe and maintain our many freedoms, you just might live long enough to get senior discounts"! As an older guy I take advantage of both. Booya!!!

Response by CWO3 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 4:53 PM

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I don't. In fact my kids don't either. As military children the earned that discount as well

Response by CPL Timothy Coffey made Apr 20 at 2016 4:55 PM

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After all I have experienced from being in service, I have no problem asking, I enjoy it most when it extends to family as they paid price and never was in service. If I had a business I would extend the offer and feel it is least I could do. So I fully support the minority of military veterans.

Response by PO1 David Warner made Apr 20 at 2016 5:09 PM

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There is NO doubt in my mind to ask. I have gone all over the U.S. and I have asked if they have military discounts and if they don't that's fine, but when I've asked they said they didn't most of the time they figure something out and give me 10-20% off. I want to save a dollar just like anybody else. I'll use my military when I can not because I believe I deserve it, but because they offer it. So, if you don't ask, you won't get it.

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 5:35 PM

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A little. My wife usually asks so I don't have to be embarrassed, just wish they would post it at register.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 5:49 PM

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I think that's one of the reasons they have policies like that, to bank on your pride.

Response by SPC William DeBlase made Apr 20 at 2016 6:13 PM

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Nope don't mind at all, after all we are a very small part of the population the have done anything in serving the country. So I say I'm not ashamed at all for getting a discount for serving the country

Response by LTC Stephen F. made Apr 20 at 2016 6:17 PM

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To be honest I didn't ask about military discounts much when I was in uniform SSG James Elmore until probably after the year 2000. It never bothered me to ask if a store or restaurant had a military discount. Some store chains made it obvious that they offered military discounts like Home Depot and Lowes.
I have no problem asking if a restaurant or store has discounts for military or veterans.
Now that I am a veteran I ask restaurants if they offer military or veterans discounts. I try to go to restaurants that offer discounts all other things being equal. I am particularly impressed that Wendy's has been offering 15% off to military, veterans, and EMS personnel.
Some of the restaurant chains I try to support don't have equally great food at every location but I have found great restaurants near where I live include: Denny's, Friendlies Ice Cream, Fuddruckers; Bob Evans, and Ryan's.

Response by MAJ Joseph Parker made Apr 20 at 2016 6:48 PM

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The vendor offers the military discount to get our business, so take it!. For those of you that feel a bit guilty about it; try this: turn to the next person in line and ask them, "Are you a veteran?" If the response is an affirmative one (and believable - just ask a few questions), then turn to the cashier and say, "I'm getting his/her check/coffee/burger/whatever" and pay for it. I do this a lot in the barbershop or fast food place, especially if that vet is accompanied by a grandchild or spouse. Then I'll introduce myself by name, rank, and branch; shake their hand, and tell them that all they did to protect our country is best understood God and their brothers and sisters in arms, and will never be forgotten. Then I leave quickly. Usually the cashier and civilian patrons are open-mouthed and a bit in awe, and the vet's grandchild or spouse are beaming. So maybe that technique will help assuage anybody's guilt for taking the military discount.

Response by MSgt Jeff Greene made Apr 20 at 2016 6:53 PM

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I always ask if they offer a military discount. Not being cheep, just frugal. Something I feel we earned after serving for so long.

Response by SFC Arthur Tucker made Apr 20 at 2016 7:00 PM

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Why should I?

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 7:09 PM

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In a society where we have decided to deobligate the population from compulsory military service, I have no problem reobligating some of them to support their great nation by providing me a .52 cent reprieve on a 6 inch tuna on wheat.

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 8:04 PM

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I usually couch the request in the phrase "do you support the military and our veterans?" while showing my ID. There are several places near my work that post "we proudly support First Responders" aimed at the civilian Uniformed services. I will inquire if they consider the Military to be a First Responder, with "of course" as the typical response

Response by Capt Hansel Bumgarner made Apr 20 at 2016 8:06 PM

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My shot right knee, twice broken and twice sprained right ankle, ruptured L4-L5 disk, totally wasted hearing and hair loss, too many Christmases away from home all remind me I earned that discount.

Response by SSG Mark Franzen made Apr 20 at 2016 8:07 PM

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No you earn it by serving your country and

Response by 1stSgt Donald Smith made Apr 20 at 2016 8:21 PM

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Yeah, while most of us who served think it's nice to get a discount for serving our country , I for one think it's like a handout if you have to ask for it. Then again I've been retired from the service for 36 years so maybe that's why I feellike that.

Response by SFC Carlos Gamino made Apr 20 at 2016 9:04 PM

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When posted, or it is clearly known that an establishment gives SM and veterans discounts I will take the discount.

Response by Capt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 9:44 PM

2016-04-20T21:44:51-04:00

YES! It's humiliating. I liken it to a 7 year old child, jumping up and down, pulling on their parent's pants saying, "look what I can do!"

Response by CPO Chris Zwolinski made Apr 20 at 2016 10:09 PM

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I have no problem asking if there is a discount. I've even come across a few places in uniform that don't advertise a discount but give me one anyway. I have also heard several times that the store/chain doesn't offer a discount, but the employee processing my sale will tack on their employee discount. Can't beat that with a stick.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 20 at 2016 10:18 PM

2016-04-20T22:18:16-04:00

It depends when I ask. If I'm only going to save 17 cents on three dollar purchase, I won't bother, but there have been other times I ask on a whim and end up getting free admission to a museum. Usually, the person behind the counter is all "Don't feel bad for asking. You earned it."

Response by MSgt Daniel Harrison made Apr 20 at 2016 10:27 PM

2016-04-20T22:27:59-04:00

I never ask for a discount. But if I see a sign stating Military discount, I will show my ID and take it. Every penny counts in today's economy.

Response by SGT Stanley Bass made Apr 20 at 2016 11:37 PM

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There is no problem with asking if somebody offers a Military Discount at all. i ask frequently if businesses offer a discount. I have even had one hotel say "We do not offer a military discount. But we will give you our "local resident discount."

Response by GySgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 21 at 2016 12:13 AM

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Let me redirect this question. Why should someone who has sacrificed or is still sacrificing for other people's rights be ashamed to ask for a 10% discount on some goods, but there'should no problem for people to ask for discounts for goods or services by clipping pieces of paper (coupons), being part of a certain social group (age, ethnicity, church, student, etc.), customer experience (longevity, paired programs, mutually supporting companies, etc) or even free money (grants, scholarships, welfare, etc)? Do I feel entitled because of my service? Entitled to ask, but only as much as the person I ask is entitled to deny my request.

Response by CPO Rolando D made Apr 21 at 2016 12:21 AM

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It is true that some businesses give discounts in appreciation for one's military service. However, it is also a way to attract your business. So there is actually a mutual benefit from giving and taking military discounts.

Response by SFC David Pope, MBA made Apr 21 at 2016 12:58 AM

2016-04-21T00:58:56-04:00

I had a manager where I worked that got offended because someone asked about a military discount. I won't get into details, but she was shown the light, and then our boss had the same question asked her, and she replied "I wish we did." Needless to say I'm all for it. Lowes, Home Depot and our local Tractor Factory offer 10% discounts.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 21 at 2016 1:08 AM

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I have no shame in asking! Iam proud to wear the uniform and they should be proud to give me a discount!!

Response by SSG(P) Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 21 at 2016 2:16 AM

2016-04-21T02:16:22-04:00

Nope. I ask for it at Lowe's (where I know they offer it) and everywhere else that I am not sure of. Why not? If they are offering, why not accept?

Response by Capt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 21 at 2016 5:52 AM

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Absolutely! I liken it to a child jumping up and down whilst tugging on their dad's pant leg screaming, "look what I can do!" It's embarrassing and send a very negative public message. Now, if you're on the phone making reservations and you ask if they have a military rate, I feel like that's OK. It's the situations when someone is standing in line, in civies, at a busy restaurant, and asks for a military discount; it's almost like they're asking to be thanked. It just sends the wrong message to the people around them.

Response by GySgt Steven Robeson made Apr 21 at 2016 7:03 AM

2016-04-21T07:03:14-04:00

More often than not, the "USMC" hat I'm usually wearing and the obvious military-style haircut do the talking for me! =)

Response by Sgt Gary Steuer made Apr 21 at 2016 7:26 AM

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Every chance I get ! Why not ?

Response by CW2 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 21 at 2016 8:06 AM

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Large corporations... no shame at all! Never at a mom and pop joint, though. That's just my take.

Response by SFC Jimmy Hernandez-Benitez made Apr 21 at 2016 8:17 AM

2016-04-21T08:17:38-04:00

Do what is best for you and your family. Believe me my wife always ask, she tell them I am a military wife and my husband put his life on the line is time for you business to show appreciation. She even ask when we go to the movies. Don't ever feel shame for anything, walk with your head up, you are the best this country have to offer. Thank you for your service and always watch your 6.

Response by LCpl Ronnie Padgett made Apr 21 at 2016 8:46 AM

2016-04-21T08:46:25-04:00

I sure don't. those are perks set up for them to get more business

Response by Cpl Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 21 at 2016 9:51 AM

2016-04-21T09:51:09-04:00

AS you should, I use my veterans discount just about ever where I shop. Lowe's has a 10% discount, most car dealers do also. Even the pet shop has one, and usually when the place does not have one stated in policy, they often do it on the fly, I think because they are the ones who 'find shame' in not offering us the price break. Always ask for the discount, think about it, over a year it can add up. I often hear comments such as "wow, I wish I got that deal" from civilians.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 21 at 2016 10:12 AM

2016-04-21T10:12:29-04:00

Nope, I see no shame in it at all; there's no reason to feel shame for asking a question that is no different to asking "Do you have a AAA discount?" or "Do you accept coupons?". On the other hand, there could be those that say "Oh so you think you deserve a discount because you are/were in the military?" and to that I say "you damn right, you didn't volunteer did you?", yes I'm being facetious, the bottom line is that's entirely up to the business and it's always worth asking.

True story - A couple months back I went to a National Tire and Battery to get new shocks and some front end work done on my truck, when it came time to pay the bill, it was a whopping $1,800.00 I didn't bother to ask about military discounts at the time (it didn't come to mind). For some reason or another the subject came up and when he found out I'm in the military, he told me they have a 10% discount but he couldn't redo the transaction, so he gave me a free wheel alignment for an extra 30 min of my time. I was humbled by the gesture but I gladly accepted it.

PS. I drive a lifted F-250, not a cheap or easy alignment.

Moral of the story, it doesn't hurt to ask.

Response by Sgt Keith Ried made Apr 21 at 2016 10:19 AM

2016-04-21T10:19:14-04:00

I was in Kentucky recently and was really surprised by the number of places that offer a military/veteran discount. Virtually everyplace we went offered one which was nice. Some restaurants were as high as 15%. Completely opposite of my home state of Michigan where I have found no such offerings.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 21 at 2016 11:19 AM

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Sometimes I feel that Fayetteville will do all that they can not to shudder an eyelash at looking at the idea card or even answering the infamous question "do you guys accept military discounts?". Me personally try not to ask but if it's something expensive, hell count me in!

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 21 at 2016 11:43 AM

2016-04-21T11:43:54-04:00

Hell no. I ask for it everywhere every time. At McDonalds I ask for military discount on top of other discounts, even senior coffee. We earned the discounts.

Response by LCpl William Perry made Apr 21 at 2016 12:26 PM

2016-04-21T12:26:07-04:00

With all the cuts in benefits you should not feel bad about asking for what is offered. You see older people asking for discounts as it is there and they have earned it. Besides the majority of the people here in the US feel good about giving something to the personal in the military as their way of thanking all who don the uniform and risk all to protect them, Using this instills pride in them as much as it does all who serve. Semper Fi!

Response by SSgt Gary Meyer made Apr 21 at 2016 12:40 PM

2016-04-21T12:40:56-04:00

I have never asked for a military discount. I have asked for a senior citizen discount if I remember to ask.

Response by TSgt Charles Carroll made Apr 21 at 2016 12:47 PM

2016-04-21T12:47:27-04:00

Heck no, after serving for 23 yrs I have no problem asking. I feel we have earned it and like I tell any business that doesn't offer it "it never hurts to ask."

Response by SGT Brenden Lee made Apr 21 at 2016 12:49 PM

2016-04-21T12:49:13-04:00

Hey, on limited income I take any discounts I can get and I ask about Veteran's discount everywhere I go. I also like to know that those who serve in recent wars are well taken care of as they have served in a much higher capacity than I ever have. But, yes, I ask for discounts.

Response by Maj Mike Sciales made Apr 21 at 2016 12:56 PM

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Just a bit of history. In the old days -- Vietnam time, airlines weren't as efficient at filling planes. Lots of routes, lots of carriers. The airlines used to offer a 50% discount on active duty military fares (least they could do, having secured all those very lucrative contracts to haul GIs globally) which made it very affordable to fly home on leave. No other real discounts, because nobody liked the war. After Vietnam these and other discounts faded. Desert Storm, AKA the "Good War" in 1991 saw the emergence of a very committed and supportive corporate America. Candy companies sent tons of candy, golf club manufacturers (I got an AMF Sand wedge) and so very many others flooded the theaters with kind gifts and support. I learned the a certain Mall brand sausage can survive six months in Saudi summer without refrigeration and the vet's will approve it for human consumption. In that enthusiasm there were some discounts, but then, after 9-11 and the GWOT got underway, corporations began to get serious about providing small, but considerable discounts. Social media simply amplified it. The corporations all support this, good PR, tax applications and things like that. So now, it's a matter of routine. Just have to ask.

Response by SSgt Michael Cox made Apr 21 at 2016 1:23 PM

2016-04-21T13:23:27-04:00

Hell no and most of the businesses in my city offer them.

Response by GySgt Ascencion Gomez, D.S.L. made Apr 21 at 2016 2:12 PM

2016-04-21T14:12:10-04:00

Nope, I remember at one time military got charge more! In the 1970's we were HATED, cheated and despised! I like the handshakes and I really like Lowe's 10% military discount! Not only that enjoy it while it last...

Response by SCPO Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 21 at 2016 2:32 PM

2016-04-21T14:32:17-04:00

I only do it in concert with lodging, car rental, air travel. Never retail stores or restaurants.

Response by SR Terrilynne Porst made Apr 21 at 2016 2:50 PM

2016-04-21T14:50:11-04:00

I am not ashamed one bit. Alot of places don't advertise it and you won't know unless you ask.
I was probably most surprised by Auntie Anne's, I got a 50% discount. Cycle Gear has 20% off. Perkin's Restaurant gives military (active and veterans) and first responders free meals, some locations is everyday and some are certain days of the week (like Tuesdays).

Response by MSgt Rena Schmidt made Apr 21 at 2016 2:50 PM

2016-04-21T14:50:23-04:00

Nope I gave them freedom so I fell no shame, plus I live right by a base

Response by SSgt Randall Farr made Apr 21 at 2016 3:14 PM

2016-04-21T15:14:22-04:00

If I knew I would find shame in asking anything; I wouldn't ask it. My experience has ALWAYS been that those who offer a military discount do so expecting they will help every veteran they serve - out of respect. I do don't find shame in that quality of love, in fact; it is GOOD business! If their answer is no; have I lost anything? If they say yes, most times, their hearts shine through their eyes!

Response by CW2 Max Dolan made Apr 21 at 2016 3:48 PM

2016-04-21T15:48:51-04:00

Not at all! No, sir! I'm proud to be a veteran (and an "old guy" as well). I earned whatever "bennies" I can get with blood, sweat and tears. "Do you have a Veteran's Discount?" is always on the tip of my tongue when I go shopping.

Response by SP5 John Morgan made Apr 21 at 2016 3:50 PM

2016-04-21T15:50:29-04:00

No! Delaware just starting offering a veterans ID card. I've used it everywhere but not every place takes it and stores like Lowe's and Home Depot want you to be a retired (20-30 yr.) vet. Sears honors it.

Response by SGT Marco Kingsbury made Apr 21 at 2016 4:23 PM

2016-04-21T16:23:18-04:00

I have never asked for a military discount and never will, I ETS'd in 1990. There is no need to ask for a military discount, you can get more value for goods and services by just shopping smart. I did not serve my country expecting special treatment, that is like being entitled to something and I have a problem with entitlement mentality.

Response by PO1 Jack Howell made Apr 21 at 2016 6:11 PM

2016-04-21T18:11:47-04:00

No. Why should we? There's nothing wrong with trying to save money.

Response by SGT John Efelis made Apr 21 at 2016 8:40 PM

2016-04-21T20:40:35-04:00

I NEVER ask FOR a military discount but I occasionally, read remember to, ask if one is offered.

Response by SPC Brian Mason made Apr 21 at 2016 9:56 PM

2016-04-21T21:56:23-04:00

No. I ask almost anywhere I go. Almost every person I ask, ends up asking me about what I did while I was in - Medic. Sometimes they give me more than a discount or more importantly, they stop by a few times to continue talking. I've met some very nice, sweet, genuine people. I've gotten many handshakes and hugs that went on for far longer than they should have.

Response by SMSgt Lloyd Knopp made Apr 21 at 2016 11:36 PM

2016-04-21T23:36:11-04:00

There was a time, not very long ago, I don't remember if it was Lowe's or Home Depot, "if they don't ask for it don't give it." I don't know if that is SOP. A 'counter jockey' whispered in my ear one day, so every since I just pull my ID card out, without asking, along with my 'rewards card.' When they've entered the appropriate information I'll pull out my debit card.

Response by PO3 David Fries made Apr 22 at 2016 6:32 AM

2016-04-22T06:32:05-04:00

Shame, no. I just have never done it. It's odd, but discounts are not something I actively seek out.

Response by SFC Terry Murphy made Apr 22 at 2016 9:38 AM

2016-04-22T09:38:09-04:00

I always use my retired ID card when paying with my credit card. Many times I will get oh, let me add on our military discount, or even a "sorry, we don't have a discount, but thank you for your service". Even if I don't get any recognition, I am proud to be a vet and didn't serve for 21 years to get a free cup of coffee or anything else.

Response by TSgt James Carson made Apr 22 at 2016 5:52 PM

2016-04-22T17:52:09-04:00

They can keep their favors to me. It's a bone to me. I'm not a dog. It's their way of telling you here fool. We promised you what we civilians and polticians would do if you would defend our country, but we never ment it though we demand you keep your promise. It's our, the government's and the civilians way of telling us we are still stupit. I remember our treatment all during Viet Nam to the Reagon adminstration. I still remember getting off the bus from Travis AFB to Oakland CA. to be accosted, uniform destroyed by my fellow man and women, and having to replace my uniform before I be allowed to travel, going into dept for that greeting and what the Air Force did to me. Keep those favors. They certainly didn't keep their promises. Maybe one day this country will be held accountable when young men and women refuse to sreve their country because the promises only went one way.

Response by COL Steve Rowe made Apr 23 at 2016 9:42 PM

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There is no shame in asking for a Military or Veteran discount. In fact, there is, or should be, a sense of pride that you are serving or served, and a sense of gratitude that the merchant is honoring your service in a material way. By your service you are part of the institution that preserves that merchant or service provider's freedom to flourish in an open capitalistic society. In the larger scheme of things, I'd say the merchant is getting a pretty good deal, wouldn't you?!

Response by AN Ron Wright made Apr 24 at 2016 10:55 PM

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not all all

Response by SGT John Keehner made Apr 24 at 2016 11:05 PM

2016-04-24T23:05:39-04:00

I shop stores that do give Military Discounts. Not for the discount it self. But because they appreciate service members.

Response by SSG Alleria Stanley made Apr 26 at 2016 7:24 AM

2016-04-26T07:24:39-04:00

I receive E-6 pay, am a single-income family, and a family size of six. I have no shame in asking.
I'm also not ashamed to clip coupons.
The military discount or military rate is a marketing tool used by businesses to attract customers. Same as a senior discount or a teacher's discount, or a ______ discount (I've seen many types).

Here's the key, I believe. When a special rate or discount isn't offered, it's important to not rant or rave, question their patriotism, or other shameful behavior. If it's truly bothersome that Store X doesn't offer a discount and Store Y does, shop at Store Y. Reward their marketing tool - and that's exactly what you're doing... giving your patronage to them over the other.

Response by TSgt Robert Carter made Apr 26 at 2016 1:05 PM

2016-04-26T13:05:57-04:00

I always ask and always support the places that give us a discount. If you don't support the troops, then you'll get none of my hard earned dollars!

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 26 at 2016 6:13 PM

2016-04-26T18:13:27-04:00

Absolutely not. I ask at most places because it is a way the businesses like to give back to our service members. If it makes my dollar stretch a bit further then I'm gonna go for it.

For all the months I have spent deployed, I think it is a fair trade off. I find no shame in it.

Response by SGT Christine Mathew made Apr 27 at 2016 9:19 AM

2016-04-27T09:19:07-04:00

I don't. I just have gotten so used to pulling out my id card and showing all the time. If I get a discount then I get a discount and sometimes they don't give one but I see no harm in trying to save a buck or two.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2016 11:29 AM

2016-04-27T11:29:14-04:00

Heck no! I'm gettin my discount!

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2016 2:01 PM

2016-04-27T14:01:05-04:00

No shame at all. I usually ask when I know they offer it.
Sometimes the employee seems embarrassed when they don't.

Response by CSM Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2016 1:19 AM

2016-04-29T01:19:41-04:00

I do not feel shame asking for a military discount. I sometime am disappointed when I am told no. I just come back with, " I thought this establishment supported our troops."

Response by CPO Rolando D made Apr 29 at 2016 5:53 PM

2016-04-29T17:53:40-04:00

We need to change how we view ourselves with regard to this question. Let's face it. Business exist to make profit and they have to find a way to bring customers in. Military discount is one of them, and is nothing more than a marketing strategy that targets a specific demographic, in this case, veterans. The way I see it, businesses, whether they offer military discount or not, should be saying "Thank you Mr./Ms Veteran for patronizing our business. In appreciation, we'll give you a 10 percent discount". Why? Because I could have taken my business somewhere else. In all actuality, the business benefits more than the veteran. Does this make sense?

Response by SGT Eliyahu Rooff made May 12 at 2016 1:47 PM

2016-05-12T13:47:48-04:00

I even asked about it at the Department of Motor Vehicles. The clerk laughed and told me that I could have license plates that showed I was an Army veteran, but it would cost me an extra $35. Interestingly, the plates say below the military insignia, "Utah Honors Veterans." It looks to me like Utah makes money by letting veterans honor ourselves. If the state wanted to honor us, they'd give us a discount on the plates or make them free.

Response by Sgt John Buettner made May 13 at 2016 12:30 PM

2016-05-13T12:30:18-04:00

I have no shame, just pride. I throw it out there like, "do you offer a discount for AAA, ARPA or veterans"? When ordering parts online from Dell you have to do a chat session with a sales rep. I asked and the rep asked her manager and they gave me 15% off a battery I needed.

Response by SrA Tom Skinner made May 21 at 2016 4:17 PM

2016-05-21T16:17:33-04:00

I make a very good income thanks to the Air Force training I received. I have no problem requesting a discount and I've found that if the store doesn't have one in place they'll usually give a discount - typically 10-20%. There is no shame in asking for this, when you enlisted (or were drafted during the time frame that was in place) risking your life was always a possibility. You deserve it! When I joined it was just after Nam and people were ignorant and abusive. I'm glad that's turned around. That was probably the most demoralizing treatment anyone should endure. Now all I hear is "Thank you for your service". Be proud that you served and don't feel the slightest bit of shame! I joined Veterans Advantage which offers fantastic discount on just about everything. If you aren't aware of this you'll find it at http://www.veteransadvantage.com/. For those who feel "shame" - please, don't. You've earned it!

VetRewards Card Discounts

Veterans Advantage’s VetRewards Card for military discounts.

Response by SSG Earl Jackson made Jun 19 at 2016 12:06 AM

2016-06-19T00:06:23-04:00

No. I'm proud to have served, and this is one way of letting everyone know it.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 24 at 2016 12:00 AM

2016-06-24T00:00:12-04:00

I guess there isn't really no shame in it, I mean it comes with the job basically. What only gets me angry is when your with like friends or family at a restraunt for example, and THEY ask for it without your consent of using it. Basically like people using your hard earned title as a discount for them.

Response by SSG Timothy McCoy made Jul 1 at 2016 9:36 AM

2016-07-01T09:36:56-04:00

There is no shame in asking.
When I ask and I am told that there isn't any Mil. Discount , I ask if there is a Senor Discount, when there is a Senior Discount I ask the cashier, on the bottom line of the Balance sheet, what is the different between the 2 Discounts.
If I don't get anywhere that way and I want to take it further, I will ask the same questions to the Management, I still don't get anywhere, I ask the Management if they have the number of the local media outlet.
I have call the local paper to do a story on the Shaming of the Old and the Vets. When the Old Vets read these stories they will boycott and rewrite rebuttals and other article. I have found that W/I a few months of declining revenues / profits and other restaurants increasing business by giving discounts, the original stores quickly learn that the snubbing of the Old and Vets can cost dollars.

HtH
Tim

Response by SPC Brian Mason made Aug 25 at 2016 6:03 PM

2016-08-25T18:03:05-04:00

No. It's good to save money and find out which businesses are actively supporting the military. I won't speak for all. I'm not asking for free meals every time I come in. I know I didn't get paid much while in and I make even less now. In restaurants, if given good service the server gets a decent tip as well.

Response by 1SG Al Brown made Sep 1 at 2016 1:50 PM

2016-09-01T13:50:45-04:00

Initially, but I got over it after I attended a counseling session provided by my wife.

Response by SPC Douglas Bolton made Sep 23 at 2016 12:44 PM

2016-09-23T12:44:28-04:00

Not at all. We should be proud of our service and not be ashamed to let others know we have served. It is very rewarding when they thank me for my service, and still give me the discount. A double dip of love.

Response by SPC David Willis made Apr 11 at 2018 9:00 AM

2018-04-11T09:00:01-04:00

I typically don't ask, exceptions being when buying a car or a home or something where the amount I'm saving is more than a few bucks or a couple cents. To me the awkward thank you for your service moment/how do I respond to someone thanking me for my service moment is worth skipping for a few dollars.

Response by SGT Stephen Crawford made Oct 28 at 2018 7:03 AM

2018-10-28T07:03:24-04:00

Yes I joined because I wanted to I don't believe I have taken a free meal on veterans day. I dont fault anyone who takes advantage of these discounts, I do take a discount on merchandise. Maybe I'm just a little quirky

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 15 at 2018 2:24 PM

2018-12-15T14:24:41-05:00

No. Its only an issue if you think your entitled. If a discount is offered I take it and if not it is never a problem.

Response by SGT Beth Day made Mar 2 at 2019 1:13 PM

2019-03-02T13:13:33-05:00

The one place to ALWAYS ask ... A museum. Especially in the summer. Many of them, even in small towns, do the "Blue Star" network. I went into the Kansas Museum of History with a couple exchange students and my husband last summer. I go a lot and know they have a veterans discount, so asked for it, knowing I'd save a couple bucks in my ticket. They looked at my little group and asked if they were all with me. I said yes, they smiled, said we are all free and thank you for your service. When I asked, they explained "Blue Star", free admission for active and vets, and their families!

https://www.arts.gov/national-initiatives/blue-star-museums

Blue Star Museums

Blue Star Museums is a collaboration among the National Endo

Response by SPC Paul Davis made Mar 24 at 2019 10:16 PM

2019-03-24T22:16:02-04:00

I ask if they offer a discount to VETERANS, if they do, ok. if not, ok I
Say that's ok no problem and pay.if you don't ask you'll never get it.

Response by CPL Steve Freeman made Aug 19 at 2019 3:35 PM

2019-08-19T15:35:57-04:00

I dont bother.

Response by SPC Robert Bobo made Oct 10 at 2019 1:47 PM

2019-10-10T13:47:09-04:00

Yes, I typically ask about 70% of the time however, I never have to ask if I'm wearing veteran headgear

Response by CPT Daniel Cox made Jan 2 at 2020 11:58 PM

2020-01-02T23:58:02-05:00

I only ask for the Veteran's Discount if I already know they offer it (Lowes and Denny's are two).

Response by SGT Robert Pieper made Apr 20 at 2020 5:52 PM

2020-04-20T17:52:57-04:00

I don't ask unless I know they offer it.

Response by SSgt Roberto Leandro made Apr 25 at 2020 11:18 PM

2020-04-25T23:18:47-04:00

There is no shame in asking, only in getting upset if it's not offered!

Response by SCPO Charles Webster made Apr 27 at 2020 8:45 AM

2020-04-27T08:45:21-04:00

Nothing wrong with asking for military or senior discount. I am 67. If not, politely say “ok, thank you!”

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made May 1 at 2020 9:05 AM

2020-05-01T09:05:16-04:00

I always forget to ask

Response by CPT Jose A “Tony” Fernandez made Jun 26 at 2020 1:52 AM

2020-06-26T01:52:12-04:00

No! Abraham Lincoln famously proclaimed, “...to care for him who Shall borne the battle, to his widow, and to his children...” We can add our sisters at arms there, too! He knew then of the sacrifices service members and their families make day-in and day-out.
A military discount is a sign of respect and honor for those who served. Our sacrifices allowed them the “freedom” to thrive and prosper in a way of life we service members swore to protect defend with our very life. “All gave some, Some gave All” for those ideals. If you served, you have the distinction of being amongst the 1% of our entire population to do so. That in itself is a selfless act, a sacrifice...to serve. I was honored to serve as a Private, NCO, and as an Officer. Thus, when I’m offered a discount, I humbly and thankfully accept. Sometimes I ask in certain establishments if they offer military discount. While it is certainly not an entitlement, I do frequent places that do, as oppose to those who do not.

Response by SPC Raymond Lee made Dec 16 at 2020 1:20 PM

2020-12-16T13:20:48-05:00

Sometimes the savings are very significant like some Wendy’s like Morris il

Response by SPC Stiv ChenRobbins made Feb 16 at 2021 6:12 PM

2021-02-16T18:12:35-05:00

I am half Chinese my marriage and I think it's more of an American thing to be embarrassed. The Chinese side of the family checks every seam when we buy clothes and the packaging of food and toys and all without flinching about asking for discounts... or sometimes just *will you sell it for a little less* figuring the worst thing to happen is they say no.

Response by MSgt Carl Daubenspeck made Feb 19 at 2021 9:59 AM

2021-02-19T09:59:32-05:00

I recently had $4300.00 worth of tree removal done and did ask. They didn't have any discount but their work is really professional so I didn't mind, plus they did some extra work for me when i did ask. Questions never hurt and the old adage of "you never know unless you ask" is true here.