What's the best advice you can give for strengthening military marriages?

Money, Money, Money,

I may not buy happiness but it will buy a HEMI which is close enough.

Agree to hold fast to an "in it to win it" state of mind. A few months ago during drill I heard a MSG tell a young soldier that before he got married to his then-serious girlfriend he needed to have arrangements in place to get out; separate bank accounts, pre-nup, the whole nine yards. If you go in with that attitude, you are doomed from the start, because when the first troubles appear you are popping smoke. Fight for your spouse. Burn the ships, leaving no one to cling to but one another, especially early in your marriage.

Get rid of her if she goes batshit crazy. Sorry wrong thread.