Posted on May 24, 2020
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My brother has been placed in foster care for one reason or another and I am going through the process to secure guardianship of his as a ward of court. I've been in touch with child protective services from my home state (Wisconsin) and trying to organize things here in Colorado. The issue I am running into is this: the forms that I need to fill out, the DD form 1172 and DD form 137-7, are all asking for my current address and my brothers current address. I currently live in the barracks as I am a single soldier and he is currently in foster care with no permanent address. Has anyone encountered something like this before and could offer any advice? Thank you.
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1SG Charles Hunter
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Wow. Your brother will not be able to live with you in the barracks. (Yeah, I know you already know that.) Before your commander authorizes you to live in off-post rental housing (or you are assigned on-post family quarters), you will need to have approved custody of your brother. Not knowing your brother's age or whether he has behavior issues, I can't speculate on your command's support of your custodial application. One reason the child protective services want to know your current address is to evaluate the appropriateness of his living arrangements.
Presuming you get custody and have adequate quarters for the two of you, you will still need a family care plan approved by your commander. Think field exercises and possible deployment. Consult with your chain of command and with the legal office.
Good luck.
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Appreciate the input 1SG, my brother is 16 and has had a few behavioral issues in the past, but is unrelated to his placement in foster care. My leadership is tracking the situation, but was also a bit foggy on the process as a whole. Guardianship and custody is being established this coming Tuesday so I will keep them up to date and pursue further advice from legal. Just wanted to ensure that it was indeed a possibility before I pull the kid around anymore than he has already been.
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LTC Jason Mackay
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It looks like you are on your way so far.
https://home.army.mil/monterey/application/files/5515/4955/2846/How_to_Make_a_Relative_a_Military_Dependant.pdf

I would work with the chain of command for an Exception to Policy to leave the barracks and either draw BAH or apply for on post housing. Since this is all coming fast, perhaps rent a furnished apartment. DA Form 5960 starts, stops, and verifies BAH. See if your installation has a deposit waiver program.

Once you have your brother as a dependent you will need to have a family care plan for him.

You'll need to have a will that includes his disposition.

Enroll him in TRICARE once he is in DEERS.
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Thank you sir, I will ensure to discuss an ETP with my chain of command and organize the FCP. I have collected and gotten a start on the forms regarding the care plan and will as that is a whole other hurdle in itself. I appreciate your time and advice.
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LTC Jason Mackay
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SPC (Join to see) - good luck. Your brother needs you.
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