Do you write someone off after one bad mistake?

My ex wife wrote me off. But I digress. You state you wrote things you shouldn't have under intoxication.....but here you are with the intestinal fortitude to make amends for your errors. That takes character and courage. I'm good with you.

"Do you write someone off after one bad mistake?"
It would depend.....
If said intoxication allowed for the speaking of "mean things" no, that's recoverable... sticks and stones and all that.....
If the level of intoxication and inhibition it brings with it allowed for some inner feelings, memories, thoughts and desires to come forth and we learned the intoxicated person was coveting the neighbor's minor daughter, plotting the death of a former spouse, recalling the terror they felt after sobering up and realizing the damage on the family minivan was from hitting some guy walking home on the side of the freeway last year...then no, that's not recoverable

At least you have the intestinal fortitude to own your mistake! Aint a dang one of us perfect in here, especially me, continue contributing to the group and taking down targets SN Greg Wright. Glad to see you have the responsibility and accountability to own your behavior. Hooah!