Posted on Nov 4, 2015
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Hello everyone! I'm currently in the Reserves and an active member in my community. I was selected to be part of a Charity fundraising campaign for the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation. I, along with, 11 civilian counterparts will be recognized in a Gala at the conclusion of the campaigns. This is a very formal event that local celebs and decision makers attend. Should I wear the Army Mess Uniform with medals? Or a civilian tuxedo?

Things to consider:
1) I won't be speaking for, or on behalf of, the Army. Only recognized for the money that I've been able to raise for this charity.
2) The Army Mess Uniform is the equivalent to a civilian tuxedo- seems like this alone makes it a logical decision.
3) Good PR for my local Reserve Unit
4) Looks badass- especially in comparison with my civilian counterparts...

In all honesty, I want to ensure that I reflect the values that represent the United States Army and to show folks in my community that we (soldiers) are more than just soldiers. We fight abroad, but contribute at home, equally.

I look forward to receiving advice from you all.
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SFC Michael Hasbun
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I think this falls into the "casts the military in a positive light" category. It's not political, and you're not a spokesman. I'd still talk to your command, but personally, I think it's a great way to show that the military is still human beings that care...
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Thanks for this advice SSG Hasbun! I agree that it's a positive PR for the Army. Especially being involved in the local community for Reserve units.
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SSgt Ticp Operator
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The thing is, he's only representing himself, not his unit or the reserves. If he participated ON BEHALF of the unit or the Army, then it would make sense to appear in uniform. Otherwise NOT.
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SFC Michael Hasbun
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SSgt (Join to see) - Which is why I'd definitely talk to higher first (sorry, really late response)...
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Sgt Aaron Kennedy, MS
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Unless the gala or your efforts were in support of a military theme, a Dinner Jacket is the more appropriate choice. Were it command sponsored, or you did it on behalf of.. yes, go in Dress Uniform.

Keep in mind the purpose of the Tuxedos and Uniforms is NOT to draw attention to yourself, but to your date or to the event itself. You want to blend in. It's counter-intuitive in this case.
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Thanks for the advice!!
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SSG Todd Halverson
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This is not a military function and therefore I do not think the uniform would be appropriate. What you are being recognized for is an honor for your civilian fundraising and not for your military service.
This is the same as wearing your uniform to a non military organization. You would be seen as representing the military and more or less endorsing that organization. Would you feel it was proper to go to a gala for the Westboro Baptist Church? I know 2 totally different organizations, but still give the appearance of the Military supporting that organization.
If you still feel you want to wear your mess uniform, I would check with your chain of command to see what they consider is appropriate. We can all give you our opinions, but it still is a matter for your chain of command.
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Exactly right, SSG Todd Halverson
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SSgt Gary Guinn
SSgt Gary Guinn
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Good point SSG Todd Halverson.
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